First load...

[VersSlut23]

Gunna start off by saying this is my first post 🙏 hopefully the first of many!

So I’ve always been into cum and breeding and just generally being a bit filthy. Though I rarely meet up with people, as much as I find it hot I just never do it, nerves maybe? I’d love nothing more than to take multiple loads and just be a bit of a whore (I usually top, it’s only the last few weeks I’ve wanted to bottom).

Anyways, the other night I just thought fuck it, and invited a guy over to breed me from grindr. It was kinda half anon (didn’t send me a face pic but I didn’t cover my eyes when he got here), which I found really hot! Though I found myself not enjoying the sex so much, it was pretty quick but I was tense and probably just a bit nervous? When he came though, I got so horny and wanted more… but I wasn’t sure if I enjoyed the process of getting the load, if that makes sense.

Probably not the most interesting read on here, but if anyone has any tips for a new bottom… I know I definitely want more loads now, but I want to enjoy the sex and not have it be uncomfortable, and not feel so nervous meeting people? 

Cheers!

(ps. hope I’ve posted correctly and in a suitable place!)

Edited July 22, 2021 by VersSlut23

[RoundBooty4loads]

Only suggestions I can give u are, and I truly mean this:

1. Don’t jerk ur self while getting penetrated.  It kills the feeling of ur hole being massaged

2. literally relax your entire body and breathe out.  Just breathe and relax

😊 

[Sfmike64]

I’d also say that it might help if you saw the person and were attracted to him…..but relaxing is paramount. Maybe smoke a little weed or have one drink first.  Not to get sloppy just to help you relax.

[theplayerking]

It very difficult to learn to bottom with only quick, casual hookups. Your hole needs to be trained to relax. You can do this yourself with buttplugs or find a fuckbud to help you practice. 

[VersSlut23]

14 minutes ago, theplayerking said:

It very difficult to learn to bottom with only quick, casual hookups. Your hole needs to be trained to relax. You can do this yourself with buttplugs or find a fuckbud to help you practice. 

Ive been using toys the past few weeks, as I always thought I'd be too tight to bottom, surprisingly I've very quickly managed to get used to my 9inch toy haha, can handle that no problem. It's just when that guy came over for my first breeding, I was tense the whole time... but wanting that load! Guessing it'll just take getting used to till I get more comfortable taking dick and meeting strangers. Just wish I didn't get so anxious, the only thing that got me through it was knowing id be getting bred!

[theplayerking]

Getting fucked is 90 percent psychological. You have to be turned on either by the person or the scenario to make it pleasurable. I’ve found that being verbal can help me relax. Articulating my desires to a partner out loud makes it easier to take a dick and heightens my pleasure. 

[yudan]

6 hours ago, VersSlut23 said:

Ive been using toys the past few weeks, as I always thought I'd be too tight to bottom, surprisingly I've very quickly managed to get used to my 9inch toy haha, can handle that no problem. It's just when that guy came over for my first breeding, I was tense the whole time... but wanting that load! Guessing it'll just take getting used to till I get more comfortable taking dick and meeting strangers. Just wish I didn't get so anxious, the only thing that got me through it was knowing id be getting bred!

The first time I ever bred a guy it was really hot as we were very into each other. I was very nervous but he kept begging me to cum inside him. I came so hard that he could feel the throbbing. I guess it took a while since I'm a bit thick, but after the first few thrusts he was loving it. Too bad I'm in London now, or I'd breed him every day.

Edited July 22, 2021 by yudan

[Nik101]

On 7/22/2021 at 7:12 AM, VersSlut23 said:

Gunna start off by saying this is my first post 🙏 hopefully the first of many!

So I’ve always been into cum and breeding and just generally being a bit filthy. Though I rarely meet up with people, as much as I find it hot I just never do it, nerves maybe? I’d love nothing more than to take multiple loads and just be a bit of a whore (I usually top, it’s only the last few weeks I’ve wanted to bottom).

Anyways, the other night I just thought fuck it, and invited a guy over to breed me from grindr. It was kinda half anon (didn’t send me a face pic but I didn’t cover my eyes when he got here), which I found really hot! Though I found myself not enjoying the sex so much, it was pretty quick but I was tense and probably just a bit nervous? When he came though, I got so horny and wanted more… but I wasn’t sure if I enjoyed the process of getting the load, if that makes sense.

Probably not the most interesting read on here, but if anyone has any tips for a new bottom… I know I definitely want more loads now, but I want to enjoy the sex and not have it be uncomfortable, and not feel so nervous meeting people? 

Cheers!

(ps. hope I’ve posted correctly and in a suitable place!)

Once you’re in London I’m happy to come work on your hole and get you used to your new role in life as a twink cumdump fucktoy who’s only purpose is getting bred

[nico75020]

On 8/15/2021 at 11:02 AM, Nik101 said:

Once you’re in London I’m happy to come work on your hole and get you used to your new role in life as a twink cumdump fucktoy who’s only purpose is getting bred

let me work on him as well and lube his hole for u with my seed

[poztwinksrhot]

On 7/22/2021 at 4:02 PM, theplayerking said:

Getting fucked is 90 percent psychological. You have to be turned on either by the person or the scenario to make it pleasurable.

Agreed.  Being turned on by either the guy or the situation is a huge part of it.  Also really important is lube and stretching.your hole.  Some guys talk about loving to get fucked dry, but they're either love pain or are willing to bear the pain as a way to tear up their hole more and increase the chance of converting. 

If you want to find your inner bottom and actually enjoy the fucks, my suggestions are to (1) continue stretching your hole with toys or plugs to get used to it, (2) learn to relax your hole on command, (3) use lots of lube, (4) focus on relaxing your hole when you're getting fucked, and (5) find a local fuckbud top that gets you boned and who you can get fucked on a regular basis by.

Let us know how it goes!

[Cravetoxic22]

I've definitely had similar thoughts and experiences. Like when I'm with a guy and I'm super into him, I want him to fuck me. When we start doing it, however, I find it sometimes less than pleasurable. I bet if I tried to do it more I could figure out why I didn't like it and what I could fix. Either way, I definitely relate to your post. 

[Roughme101]

Practice makes perfect. Not a fucks are great but being a bttm isn't all about your pleasure it's about getting the top off and if we're lucky that feeling when they breed and you know you've done your job.

 

[chargedodger]

practice makes perfect,tell procpective tops you are just learning how to bottom and they will help you get past all this newness to the point where you crave getting bred,:)

[BlindRawFucker1]

You didn’t say if he just started fucking you or, if there was any foreplay.

 

For me, having my hole eaten drives me crazy and relaxes my hole.  I’m eventually begging to be fucked.

 

If you haven’t tried that, it will help a lot, in my experience.

 

Good luck.