Fucking/Playing with a married guy

[Sharp-edge]

I had quite an interesting incidence. There is a colleague that we know each other for 6 years or so. He married last year and his wife is pregnant. I'm 29 he's 32. I have no reason not to believe he is str8. He liked some particular women that he commented and I pretty much felt he was very into women. I am not sure what he thinks about gay people. All of his friends are typical str8 guys who think of football and women. He's a cute guy. My point is I don't think he's gay and I dont think he ever came to know anyone. He doesn't (didn't?) know I am gay. We were not friends but we were close. He would make coffee for me and vice versa. We would discuss some problems. I would even rub his neck or his back. That used to go on and on from all almost when we met. I never had a crush with him. The last time I rubbed him again, it seemed like he liked it more than his usual. I even played with his hair. He then told me he hadnt had sex for several weeks bcz his wife couldn't. I got excited rubbed him in the chest for the first time. I couldn't figure if he got hornier or if that made him sleep. But i rubbed his legs and dick which was hard. We had to stop bcz we were at work and we weren't alone from a point onwards. I asked him to come at my place he kindly refused. But the following day he asked me if i wanted and I said yes. To make a long story short, I gave him a drink, got him comfortable. We didnt kiss, but i sucked his nipples and his body and his dick. I made him cum. He watched porn simultaneously. He was very relaxed almost like drugged. I liked it and I suppose he did.

 

I'm confused though. Could he be a "desperate' str8 that he just wanted to cum? Does this happen? Or maybe bi?

[PendragonSpirit]

Honestly, it's hard to tell from a single encounter. Could be bi, could just have needed to cum, could be a curious-but-mostly-straight guy. Or a combination of all three/none of the above. Now, if it KEEPS happening, then you've probably got someone who's at least on the cusp of bisexual or at least is comfortable enough with you to explore that part of themselves.

[Warmnsalty]

I wouldn't worry about it, unless you want a relationship. If however you just want some nice cock now and then he would be a perfect candidate. I love sucking str8/married guys. Nothing better than some nice hard cock and a good load without any strings. :)

[Sharp-edge]

I sucked him again today. I don't want him to be my bf, sucking and playing with him is nice. I somehow "control" him during our intercourse. But I'm greedy I wanna at least lick his asshole.

[mblad99]

From a married guy's perspective, he just needed to get off. If you are looking for a LTR, keep going. But if you don't mind taking care of him when he is horny, you got a bud. I would continue exploring his limits. He might end up bottoming.

 

Edited December 14, 2021 by drscorpio
Literally 100s of Hard Returns removed

[Sharp-edge]

1 hour ago, mblad99 said:

From a married guy's perspective, he just needed to get off. If you are looking for a LTR, keep going. But if you dont mind taking care of him when he is horny, you got a bud. I would continue exploring his limits. He might end up bottoming.

I think he likes being lazy and having his body played which I love. What's an LTR? I'd like having him as a fuck buddy. I'm really intrigued to introduce him to manly games. Help him explore his annus. Have him sit on a dildo while i suck him. I developped a small eding technique. When he's sooo close I just "kiss" the head of his dick. My lips around the head (pass the head) and that's what I call a kiss there. I do it repeately. I ask him to hold until he exploses. He cums a lot. I thought he wouldnt be into it but he is.

 

 

[travelingbi]

I've been having sex (or at least providing sex for) a lot of "str8" married men for many years. Some are completely str8 guys that just need a hand or mouth to get them off. Some are bi curious. Some are truly bisexual. To me, it just doesn't matter. I just enjoy making masculine men hard and get them off. Over time, as he gets more comfortable with you, he may go further and further with sexual experimenting. But, take it slow. Just try to be intuitive about what he's comfortable with. Just keep in mind, that it's just a physical release for him. Don't expect a relationship beyond just being fuck/suck buddies. Enjoy

[DarkroomTaker]

I go by the Motto, " dont shit on your own doorstep"

Sounds harsh, seriously, I got involved with a co worker who then had a massive guilt issue and changed. It became very uncomfortable, I ended up leaving a job I loved. But I guess every situation is different. Just tread carefully.

[mblad99]

On 12/13/2021 at 10:22 AM, Sharp-edge said:

 

I have a feeling you will be fucking him soon.  Sounds hot.

[Guest]

I have posted a lot about married guys (seemingly str8) on here.  I do consider myself an expert on them at this point. 🙂  The guys on this post are reading the situation correctly, in my opinion.  Men are horny, especially desperate str8 married men. I often find that they are curious, but they are not relationship material. They just want to cum and a tight hole to cum inside. They are often quick, just taking a few minutes. They also often come back for more, although some feel guilty and become kind of avoidant. I, too, got with many married men at work, but we all worked outside at job sites. Easy to find private and safe places to fuck. 

Also, if they are hesitant, and you really want their breeder load, just remind them that they can't get you pregnant.  They can cum inside you as much as they want.  That has sent MANY of them over the edge.  

[Sharp-edge]

On 12/16/2021 at 9:24 PM, DannyBoyCMH said:

I have posted a lot about married guys (seemingly str8) on here.  I do consider myself an expert on them at this point. 🙂  The guys on this post are reading the situation correctly, in my opinion.  Men are horny, especially desperate str8 married men. I often find that they are curious, but they are not relationship material. They just want to cum and a tight hole to cum inside. They are often quick, just taking a few minutes. They also often come back for more, although some feel guilty and become kind of avoidant. I, too, got with many married men at work, but we all worked outside at job sites. Easy to find private and safe places to fuck. 

Also, if they are hesitant, and you really want their breeder load, just remind them that they can't get you pregnant.  They can cum inside you as much as they want.  That has sent MANY of them over the edge.  

I'm glad u shared ur experience. I don't want to be with him so i don't see him as a relationship material. I like him and I think he's a nice guy, we have fun since several years (at work I mean). So we were something between friends and colleagues and now we share a sexual thing. He is rather quick, he can last some minutes while sucked. I like giving him affection and play with his body, see the pleasure in his eyes. We don't kiss. I am happy that gradually I got to rim him which he liked it. I suck and rim him actually and bite his nipples. He hasn't fucked me yet but I really want to. Ialso edge him so to last longer. We have done that 5,6 times. He is into it I can tell. He did feel guilty. The last two times he came he brought me a bottle of wine and the other time some chrstmas candies, which i thought was a way to express that he likes being at my place. I live on my own which is close to him and to work.

[Sharp-edge]

Currently we're texting a lot when  not at  work. I believe we're  considered to be dating? That's a first for me (with a  marriedguy I mean). It's  intriguing.

[gwmxyz]

Contradictory as it sounds I agree with both the earlier comments (1) that he will probably want u to fuck him before too long and (2) that he could easily be straight - he doesn't have to be gay.
I met up again with a guy I'd been at (all boys, boarding) school with.  He said he had sex more than 400 times when he was at the school (the keeping count impressed me almost as much as the act - my score for the same period was zero).  In the 20 years since, he's had plenty of sex, always with women, never with a guy.  I'd say he was straight but would choose sex with guys if it was that or no sex at all. So to your guy, the attraction of gay sex to your guy be its availability - and that he can just have sex (or even sex with friendship, but either way without pressure for more).
I suspect, though that he's not - speaking as someone who (a) is married (b) who used (really, genuinely) to think I was straight  (explaining the 0 fucks when my friend had 400); and (c) then even when I realised I was gay thought at first I was top (i'm not).
The thing to remember is that your guy might be straight or he might not know what he is himself.  Friends worked out I was gay long before I did.  Ok, so I may be slow on the uptake (5 years in an all male school - talk about wasted opportunities), but I'm probably not uniquely stupid. If you find it intriguing, my bet is he finds it doubly so.

ps, final thought, if he's up for it, does it really need categorisation? 

[Sharp-edge]

Actually I'm pretty excited these days. His wife went to stay with her parents because she's having some issues. So we pretty much have endless time these days (save the work part). What intrigues me is that I get to explore him. He's not the weird kind of person that  is30+ with no experience in sex. He's an  experienced guy in str8 sex and a bit shy in the gay thing between us. I know he can't be mine in the longterm, but what we live these days is worth it. There's a devil and an angel inside me. The devil wants to corrupt him, take his anal virginity, introduc him to lust and bareback  sex. The angel wants to caress him, love and protect him. I feel his vulnerability (metaphorically) and I want to make him feel nice. But I dont know how thiswill end up.

[subbottomguy]

I have played with married guys, usually tends to be them wanting to get off and they know I’m up for it. I have found trying to make it more than just them getting off tends to end in him growing angry defensive and just spoils it.

In my mind the things I find is that it’s rare that they are interested in anything more, I am always careful about pushing things and letting them lead. Yeah some of the guys I have played with turn out to be bi but you can spot them cause they are more willing to try things, whereas the bulk of married guys I have got off just wanted to cum and go (or me to leave).

just make sure your cool with just being his cum dump and if you are wanting more than be honest with yourself if you will find that with him.