How long should sex last?

[Euroverse]

I take a long time - too long - to cum so 30 minutes would be a minimum - usually take a lot longer unfortunately

Yeah I'm like that. Its not that I can't cum, its that I can make it last for about as long as I want....or a quick as i like. Its a mental thing for me and controlling it is good.

What sucks is when the bottom, (especially if you're in relationship) makes you feel bad for taking a long time, when you were simply thinking you're giving him pleasure. It can fuck with your head when they make out like you're abnormal or there's something wrong with the way you fuck....when reality is, they're just garbage at bottoming, hence needing it over and done quicker.

The other thing that gets in the way is when a guy feels the whole point to fucking is cumming. If you;re jacking off...sure just blow. But if you're having a great time fucking, the cumming is going to be great, but it's often the end of the session. in situations other than when you really just want a quickie, why would you want it over quicker??? Some guys don't have a clue, or like I said...they are not that great at bottoming...and in that case, yes...you do need to consider how it's feeling for them and move things along a little.

As far as the overall time goes...including the foreplay, arse-eating, sucking, kissing etc way more than 30mins.

Half the time I think time limits come from young guys watching too much porn and thinking the standard 20min scene is par for the course. Unless we are purposefully going for a quickie, if I feel the guy is rushing through it ...I'd rather just stop and not fucking bother. Who the hell wants a "fuck by numbers" session that is basically just an assimilation of every 20min porn scene he's watched?

Edited August 23, 2011 by Euroverse

[hungtopinky]

It does depend on the situation, some spontaneous fucks can last for a shorter time, but as I work alot, and live in a more rural aread, I like to enjoy a hot hole for all it is worth when I get lucky. I like to go for as long as I can, and make the bottom feel as good as I do. It tends to last longer if I have a regular bud who is bottoming for me and knows how to please me

[Bear4Breeding]

It does depend on the situation, some spontaneous fucks can last for a shorter time, but as I work alot, and live in a more rural aread, I like to enjoy a hot hole for all it is worth when I get lucky. I like to go for as long as I can, and make the bottom feel as good as I do. It tends to last longer if I have a regular bud who is bottoming for me and knows how to please me

I'm with you hungtoppinky. I prefer a longer session as I don't get fucked nearly enough. I live in a weird area and not many guys around here into bb and into me as well. So when I do get lucky I like it to last a bit longer then 10 or 15 minutes. It takes that long to warm up for me and for them to get through the 2nd spincter, once they get there Im good to go and get pounded. The one thing that is a MUST for me is kissing, my dick is hardwired. A great kisser will get me rock hard in seconds. If the guy wont kiss or is bad at its more along the lines of cum and get out.

[Totop]

As long as you want? I love the whole-nighters.... That's when you have sex, sleep a bit, have sex, sleep a bit...

That's the way I like it too with plenty of kissing and cuddling thrown in. But I rarely get it that way.

Edited August 27, 2011 by Totop

[HotAssinPA]

It depends on the guy. I have been with guys that shot their load just as their cocks touched my ass. Other guys have fucked me for more than ten minutes before shooting their loads in me. A few guys I've been with lasted even longer.

[nipplepigny1]

plain and simple: until the top cums

[Planopitchcatch69]

I prefer a quick pump and dump over the mushy love shit. Fuck my ass full of cum and get out!

[GermanFucker]

Sex should last as long as it's hot for both. That can be a quick fuck'n'fill in a public restroom or a relaxed session at home. I have cum after 3 minutes as well as after 90 (of uninterrupted anal penetration that is). There are no rules. I'd go as far as to say, if there's one thing I don't like from bottoms it's demands like:

"I just want you to cum in my ass as quick as possible and then be done with it."

"Sex under 3 hours is just not worth my while, so pop a viagra."

[bottomGuy]

Longer is better, but any is great

[Tucsonmale]

The fucking time depends on your mission. I like to fuck longer if shooting my poz seeds in a hot bottom, It helps to make that ass receptive to my toxic seeds. The bottom loves the hot cock thrusting deep into them anyway. Making them feel good is why we fuck.

[Tailgunner]

For me it needs to last long enough for me to get my rocks off. Had I not been circumcised I would be able to cum in a decent amount of time instead of having to fuck longer and harder to bust my nut.

[pulszer]

it really does depend. Some times you want that quick blow job in the restaurant toilet, other times you want to spend the whole afternoon doing it.

[thick]

30 minutes to 45 minutes.....of good fucking. 1.5-2 hours with foreplay. I can eat ass for a long time. I love to rim so that takes up a lot of my time.

[lpoolcumdump]

As long as the top is satisfied and gives me a load I don't care, it's about his pleasure. I get off on being filled. Although can take a long fucking if the top wants to give it to me

[nastybottom]

1 minute brothers are fine by me. I take it as a compliment that they couldn't hold it longer. I also get off on the idea that I'm just a hole for them to use and leave, so quickies are hot. It's on to the next one.