Bluepsyclone Posted June 1, 2011 Report Posted June 1, 2011 For me it's flakiness. On BBRT I never had the chance to hook up with 1 single guy. A guy would message me, and tell me he's interested, but when I respond, I dont hear anything back. Whats up with that? Anyway, What is your biggest pet peeve when it comes to online hookups? Maybe everyone (including myself) can learn a thing or two 1
ChubBreeder Posted June 1, 2011 Report Posted June 1, 2011 #1 Being stood up, After spending time chatting and exchanging pics with a guy, setting a time, even txting me that they are on their way and then "poof" they disappear off the face of the earth. After a while it pisses me off and I just stop trying to hookup. This has happend to me atleast a dozen or more times. #2 Flakiness
kiltbear Posted June 1, 2011 Report Posted June 1, 2011 Definitely flakiness. So many guys fix dates and then cancel if something they think is better comes around. Sometimes I think I am always the "if all else fails" date. for BBRT I simply live on the wrong side of the Atlantic. @Bluepsyclone: you would efinitely hear back from me handsome man
Hotload84 Posted June 1, 2011 Report Posted June 1, 2011 [sigh] A reluctance to run the risk of picking-up STDs.
slowfuck Posted June 1, 2011 Report Posted June 1, 2011 A number of things, where do I start... But primary I guess is performance anxiety meeting the perceived expectation to "deliver loads". 1
pozpowerbtm Posted June 2, 2011 Report Posted June 2, 2011 I have a long list haha: Flakiness, obviously. Guys who just unlock pics without saying anything, Guys who don't bother reading what you're into and ask stupid questions Most annoying, when guys look nothing like their pics
hungry_hole Posted June 5, 2011 Report Posted June 5, 2011 A number of things, where do I start... But primary I guess is performance anxiety meeting the perceived expectation to "deliver loads". I never thought of this but it makes sense. As a bottom who also enjoys sucking I find that offering a good blow-job helps with performance anxiety. I've hooked up a lot in different sites and have lots of experience. Most of what we call "flakiness" is simply the fact that one minute a guy may be horny and the next he may not. Some guys agree on a time but they later meet someone else and get off so they are no longer horny. They forget about you. I never make long term sex-date with a guy I don't know. Once two guys enjoy getting together for sex there are less chances of flakiness behaviour. I like outdoor sex or sex-clubs and bathhouses. Guys are horny then and you don't have to explain how old you are or what kind of body you have. At a sex club you either hook-up right away or you don't. Plus there's always action in the darkrooms.
Achilles765 Posted June 6, 2011 Report Posted June 6, 2011 flakiness, people who get pushy and mad when you don't feel like hooking up, being stood up, people who unlock but have nothing to say, people who look vastly different from their pics
muscmtl Posted June 8, 2011 Report Posted June 8, 2011 The Dick question... pisses me off! Guys who have agreed to everything, after half an hour or chat or messages, exchanged the pics, said ok... then at the last minute, they want to know the dick size. I've often cruised with muscle beef A+ porn material guys (2 of us looking for a third) and at the last minute, the guys we've cruised wants to know about dick size or dick pics... I just don't get that anyone can be idiotic enough to HESITATE, even though they're getting a fuckin stud hunk, to make sure the dick size is adequate. Something between the 80's and today went wrong, where any idiot feels he's entitled to a huge dick, as if it was his given right. Steve
barebottomphx Posted June 8, 2011 Report Posted June 8, 2011 People that have no sense of adventure or fantasy. Don't get me wrong, getting right into fucking is hot, but no one seems to want to take the time to play out fantasies anymore. If I just want to meet, fuck, leave, I have my pick of bookstores, bathhouses, and fuckbuds. If I am taking time to search through thousands of profiles, it's because I am looking for a memorable and stellar experience. What happened to the days when sex was sex and the people on hook up sites ACTUALLY wanted to fuck? These days it seems it's more of a political agenda backed by people who just want to point fingers and stand on their soap boxes. How do I find the people who are serious about having a fun fuck?
akcrazystuey Posted June 9, 2011 Report Posted June 9, 2011 (edited) Couldn't agree more, Barebottomphx. You are spot on! Edited December 5, 2011 by Hotload84
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