WTAF is up with some guys!

[BootmanLA]

On 12/19/2022 at 12:39 PM, ReluctantSlut said:

This couple sent me a wink on fab earlier, I thought great, both in my age range, both vers, maybe I'll get a cheeky spit roast out of this.

I sent them a message and they'be been online several times since and no reply.

I don't get it, why wink me then?!

I repeat my comment from earlier in the thread: sometimes a wink/oink/nod/growl/woof is just a general compliment, nothing more, and expecting/demanding it to mean more is a fool's errand.

[downtownswallow]

My online expectations are kept very low.  There's way too many gamers and fakes.

[PozBearWI]

I don't think we should be too quick to assume that @ReluctantSlut's winkers were no doubt just paying a compliment.  He did well to message them and perhaps they'll be back.  There are a number of guys here to only check into BreedingZone periodically.  I don't characterize them as playing games.  They saw something they liked in your profile, or for something you wrote.  

[BootmanLA]

3 hours ago, JimInWisc said:

I don't think we should be too quick to assume that @ReluctantSlut's winkers were no doubt just paying a compliment.  He did well to message them and perhaps they'll be back.  There are a number of guys here to only check into BreedingZone periodically.  I don't characterize them as playing games.  They saw something they liked in your profile, or for something you wrote.  

To clarify: I don't think there's anything wrong with messaging people who send a wink/oink/nod/woof/growl. 

The problem comes when one expects a response to the message and when one gets outraged when no reply is received.