bareback-flipflop Posted yesterday at 05:55 PM Report Posted yesterday at 05:55 PM Both comments above mine are very accurate. I have experiences with “straight “ guys who were rather bottom. E met a young guy with a very wealthy appearance and a brand new huge e-vehicle cruiser in my city’s famous cruising park. He was the only person in my life who was able to suck my dick off within less than 5 minutes. Even if it was cold as fuck below zero. He sucked my dick with an enthusiasm like no tomorrow. Straight (married) guys take dicks like nobody. Quote
SubBoy916 Posted yesterday at 07:41 PM Report Posted yesterday at 07:41 PM Married bottom boy here. Wife actually got me into all of this haha Quote
hntnhole Posted yesterday at 08:39 PM Report Posted yesterday at 08:39 PM Well, this thread has been around for a while ... I've read posts occasionally - but only just now figured I'd comment. There is an underlying thesis to this thread, which is that the preponderance of men (possibly some women too), have an inborn need to spread their dna. Since the institution of marriage is legally-sanctioned, that is the easiest "outlet" for men who need (as in, must have) plenty of sex. And, since the preponderance of men are hets, marriage works out well for the majority. So, why would married guys cheat? Because all men - whether straight or gay - horndog or meek & mild - are determined to keep their balls drained, or merely accepting whatever chance they may have to fuck. The reason men cheat is simple: the urge, necessity, requirement to spread their sperm to as many holes (either male or female), is far stronger than almost all other innate urges. Add to that, the absolute delight bottoms take in servicing cocks makes the "gay" choice all the more acceptable. As the old saying goes; "Any port in a storm". Religious/cultural pressures are a far larger (but not concrete) problem for most men; remove said pressures, and I think most men would gladly become far less "focused" on fucking women, in favor of just fucking whoever happened to be taking loads at the moment. Thus, it's a rather fine line for the preponderance of men. What males care most about, is spreading their seed - not who's hole they pump it into. 1 Quote
norefusal Posted yesterday at 08:52 PM Report Posted yesterday at 08:52 PM On 3/21/2023 at 4:58 PM, HoneyBuns1980 said: I’m seeing a lot of these supposedly married guys are “curious” and “want to try bottoming.” HUGE put-off for me. i'm the exact opposite. 😜 a young twink who wants desperately to be bred is a huge turn off for me. but a str8 guy, esp a masc str8 guys, taking dick up the ass for the first time? huge turn on. 2 1 Quote
blackrobe Posted 6 hours ago Report Posted 6 hours ago (edited) 20 hours ago, hntnhole said: Thus, it's a rather fine line for the preponderance of men. What males care most about, is spreading their seed - not who's hole they pump it into. I get what you're driving at. Allow me a small quibble? I think the preponderance of men do have *very general* preferences about the holes they breed. Some men are only going to breed specific genders and specific holes that align with their desires. Outside that, the intensity of a man's need to breed (rut, deprivation, intoxication, etc.) rules what individual's holes they will settle for breeding. This is what makes your statement so true in spirit. Straight men talk about women's role as sexual gatekeepers and that is from where so much grievance, privation, and pathology springs. They also talk about the ease and low cost of getting relief from other men. In a world where what you propose is true in every way, men would be infinitely happier. Breeders would rut in as many holes (many male because - gatekeeping) as pleases them, depositing their seed. So many men would line up to help fulfill that unmet need. That's a world I want to live in. Edited 6 hours ago by blackrobe Quote
hntnhole Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago 3 hours ago, blackrobe said: I get what you're driving at. Allow me a small quibble? Of course. That's what I love about these "discussion" threads. I don't see any "quibble" in your reply at all. If you mean "I think the preponderance of men do have *very general* preferences about the holes they breed", I'm with you 100%. Certainly men have differing notions of what "type", what gender, what body-size/type, even extending to "racial" preferences (which I don't discount, but I'd rather not hear about it either). I think girls-cum-women are "taught" to be "gatekeepers" from childhood - I witnessed it to some extent as my younger sister was growing up. While it may also be 'carrying river water to the oceans' as well, it boils down to cultural roots, which we either honor, ignore, or create new roots which better reflect the men we've become. "That's a world I want to live in" We are nothing short of intellectual / spiritual brothers in that regard. Fortunately, when I first 'figured it out", I lived in a large enough city to find some of my own kind. Found even more when I went away to school. After graduation, moved to Chicago, where there was so much wanton action no one guy could ever experience it all - even if he never took time to eat, only had sex. Finally, moved to Ft. L., where there's even more concentrated into a smaller area, and there's no winter! So I can say I made the choice, as soon as I was able to choose, to live in "a world I want to live in". I think I was more fortunate than some guys, in that I was able to make choices that reflected the man I was beginning to be, and also reflected the man I became. In that regard, I have zero regrets. I hope with all my heart that you too have made decisions that have allowed you to become the best man you can possibly be. It's never too late. Quote
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