Choose or no loads refused

[hntnhole]

13 hours ago, marriedsub said:

Don't understand the question... If I'm going to be a cumdump, then I really shouldn't refuse any loads, right?

I agree.  The question wasn't clear.  You're entirely correct.

I define a cumdump as a bottom that doesn't care who the Top is, positioned in place (usually on hands & knees, head down, ass up) offering up his Hole to any Cock that's hard enough to at least rut in it, and better, Breed it.  The bottom doesn't need to see or hear anything, he only needs to feel a hard raw Cock rutting in his Hole.  If spoken to by the Top, of course the bottom should answer, but that's ancillary to the "definition" of a cumdump.  

[ObedientChaser]

Refusing to receive a load would be disrespectful to the Top and I never disrespect a Top.... Especially if the cock has some sharp pierce on it!  

[willslc]

When I go to the bathhouse I never refuse a load. Hell I don't know who is fucking me I  am bent over on the fuck bench not looking back. 

[KTF]

No loads refused with the top deciding if he wants to blow down my throat or seed my hole

[Sharpshooter13]

I'm not picky, but I reserve the right to choose.  I have turned guys away at the glory hole for hygiene reasons many times; I am not sucking your dick that hasn't been properly washed since Obama was in office.  I had to kick this top off of me last weekend while taking loads as he had a short dick and couldn't get it inside me - I'm not a size queen, but you have to be big enough to keep it inside.  He was about to hurt my hole and ruin my night with all the poking and prodding he was unsuccessfully doing.  I had three big dicks right after him and took them w/o issue, because the guys that they were attached to knew how to use them - I didn't know how they looked in the face, but the dicks were nice and so were they. Also some guys just give off bad or creeper vibes - I don't want some weirdo stealing my phone.  I'm not turning people away for not looking like Henry Cavill, but you have to be hygienic, and not a weirdo, and know how to lay pipe without injuring me.

[LDunn72]

I take all loads, no refusal.

[happynleather]

So I have never turned anyone away due to age, looks, weight, ETC..  when I am at any kind of group event.  Fact is im blindfolded through most of those. However, if i am on line and a guy hits me up and wants me to drive an hour to meet him, i will turn away someone is is extremely old or out of shape.  I dont want to drive that far and find out they cant perform..  It may be shallow on my end but i think ill stick with that way of thinking.  So i dont know if im technically no loads refused, but i do advertise that for any partys or events.

[norefusal]

On 10/2/2023 at 11:43 AM, LDunn72 said:

I take all loads, no refusal.

i've actually had guys throw my screen name back in my face while raging because they'd been turned down. 

ex: a recent full grown 50yo "adult" who couldn't host but refuses to drive, was insisting i drive 20 min each way to pick him up and bring him to mine and then back. 80min in the car for what, like 10-15 min of dick up the ass? i don't think so. im a slut, not a chauffeur to losers. 

on a somewhat picky note: when im ass up face down at the baths i don't like when a guys comes in and shuts and locks the doors to my room. first off, it's like ok jeffrey dahmer, what kinda shit is about to go down? but on a selfish note, leaving the door open so other guys can come watch, join in etc or at the very least see me getting plowed as they walk by is part of the turn on of being a cumdump. stop killing my slut buzz for your "privacy". it's a fucking whorehouse 😜

[partying.hard]

I’m a pig.  I love to get fucked.  And I love loads of loads in my ass.  But I never said I won’t refuse a load.  I always maintain the right to choose who fucks me.

[blackrobe]

3 hours ago, norefusal said:

ex: a recent full grown 50yo "adult" who couldn't host but refuses to drive, was insisting i drive 20 min each way to pick him up and bring him to mine and then back. 80min in the car for what, like 10-15 min of dick up the ass? i don't think so. im a slut, not a chauffeur to losers. 

I have a time/distance travel rule. Ideally, the play is twice as long as the round drip travel time, but never less than the round trip travel time. 30 minute each way needs to be between 1 (minimum) and 2 hours of play. If I get pushback I tell them if I'm making a commitment of my time and resources, they need to make a corresponding commitment of their time and effort. 

I had a character on Sniffies tell me he had a proposal for me. He asked me to pick up a traveling guy he wanted to play with from his place and drive him to the hosts place. That was a 45 minute one-way trip. He didn't say what was in it for me, so I asked him what the inducement would be. It hadn't occurred to him he'd need one! He muddled about and said that I could watch. It astounds me what some guys have the gall, the effrontery, to expect from strangers. I passed.

[phillygwm]

A question for the cumdumps:  Have you ever been recognized outside of the bathhouse/club?  That is, somewhere that isn't an inherently sexual environment.  What happened?

The only dump I knew personally told me he never saw anyone because he'd keep his door open and be laying face down, a pillow elevating his ass a bit, and legs open.  He wouldn't be able to see anyone if he wanted to and it was unlikely one of his breeders would identify him from the back of his head 🙂   But I assume some of you prefer seeing the guy fucking you.  What then?  

 

[Eastvillagefun]

Having just done this, I did have a scene setup in mind and I would be a cumdump in that context. No loads refused doesn't mean I'll do anything outside of that scope. Routes are still set.

I did prescreen out a few who seemed sketchy, like they wouldn't follow the setup (like bottom for another guy there), or just fuck up the whole vibe for everyone involved.

I did turn two away who seemed like a danger to me and the other tops coming.

I did take loads from everyone else.

Edited February 6 by Eastvillagefun

[DNG999]

Never been a cumdump. Maybe one for the future, but I do meet a lot of guys from dating sites. Used to be looking for neg, then neg on prep, to undetectable Not I don’t ask just let it happen, so I guess no loads refused.

[jd13]

These days I am a no loads refused cumwhore. I used to be choosy about who fucked me, say in a sauna, party or cruise bar, but then a few years ago in Vault 139 in London, I turned up at about 5pm, decided to get naked while everyone else was clothed, found myself in a dark corner, and guys were just fucking me. Didn't know, didn't see, didnt care who. Guys were turning up on their way home from work to unload and go, and I was the hole they used. Took load after load after load for about two hours. 

It was completely liberating, and totally changed my view. So now, when i go to a sauna or cruise bar, cruising area, wherever, I think of my ass as public property: if you let me know you want to fuck and breed me, then you have the right to fuck and breed me. Just use me to cum: you know I'll love it.

(I mean in practice, it doesn't always pan out that way - that evening was pretty exceptional - but it's the attitude that matters the most)

Edited February 7 by jd13

[KindaBasic]

On 4/26/2023 at 4:33 AM, bbrookie said:

In your experience deciding being a cumdump for the night, what do you prefer?

Choosing who fucks you or no loads refused?

Kind of depends on my mood. Usually I am kind of picky who I let up inside of me. But every now and then I like to go to the baths, turn off the light and open the door with my lubed ass in position and my head covered.