jacking off or not...

[tupolino]

Thinking also if I should put myself ass up in the steam room tonight there. Would be the first time doing that and so far I didn't get myself to the point, but I'm really craving to get fucked in public. Let' see how brave I'll be in the end. 

[Willing]

On 7/19/2023 at 11:13 AM, tupolino said:

maybe a weird question. I'm quite horny the last 2 days and plan to go to the sauna on Friday night where there is some event, so lots of guys will be there.
So I wanna make sure to be as horny af to be a good bottom then and get a lot of breeding.
Should I stop wanking until then or not? 

Never stop wanking 😵

[Willing]

On 7/21/2023 at 9:30 AM, NWUSHorny said:

I'm versatile and am sure I average at least twice a day. I typically start the day off jacking off unless I'm reasonably sure I am fucking someone that day, and if I am planning on going to an orgy I will often hold off the day before. With the right inspiration, I can still cum 4 times a day at 54 and even if I can't get it up to cum again, I am always good to keep getting fucked. One of my favorite things in the world is to breed a man and immediately flip over and have him breed me, knowing I just dropped fresh load in his ass.

I cum 3 times the other day,  I'm 53😵

[Willing]

1 minute ago, Willing said:

I cum 3 times the other day,  I'm 53😵

Going back for seconds here shortly 🫦

[Willing]

Just now, Willing said:

Going back for seconds here shortly 🫦

Cum earlier at 10:54🫦

[bottomboib]

4 minutes ago, Willing said:

I cum 3 times the other day,  I'm 53😵

Daddy 🤤🤤🤤

[tallslenderguy]

Yep, totally an individual need/desire question and the answer cannot be generic me thinks.

i'm on the far end extreme of this one. i only like to masturbate to edge, to make and keep myself hornier for a Top Who needs/wants to penetrate me with His cock and release His seed into me.  i do masturbate, and i do cum that way, but it's always a disappointment for me even though i do it to release the tension and for prostate health. my ideal orgasm would be hands free from being penetrated/fucked... just my particular psychosexual wiring, so i'd be one of the ones who would definitely not cum prior to going to a sex venue.  

When i am getting enough connection with a Top/Man, and getting bred regularly, i do not need or want to cum, even solo or behind closed doors. i find i derive a lot of satisfaction from having His orgasm inside of me, plus i love that ongoing lust i have for Him.  But really, that ongoing lust only works if it's mutual, then it becomes a connection, a bond. 

But that's me.  i know we all share similarities, but we're all unique as well, so would not presume to think what works for me would work for any other bottom.

[Bokkierob]

If I know I'm fucking a guy for the first time and especially if he pushes all my buttons - young hairy cub - then I won't cum for days before I breed him. Yeah I'll masturbate and keep myself close or I'll fuck my live-in boy, Drew or make him suck my cock. Either way I won't cum. I wanna ride the new boy's ass when I'm super horny and have full balls. I want give him an ass full of my cum on his first time on my cock.

[aj99]

On 7/19/2023 at 7:48 PM, Heir2012 said:

Every man is different. I know one guy who has to stop jerking off for a few days before having sex so he could perform/feel in the mood.

For myself, it varies on the situation, how I feel physically/mentally, even the time of year. There are days when I could jerk off 3-4 times a day for several days and not feel myself losing any sexual motivation/desire.

If you want to cum a ton, then wait. If you want to hype yourself up, starving yourself of any sexual pleasure could help or it could hurt. Does it boost you up when you don't cum or does it weaken your desire? 

Right there with you.

 

[Speecar]

Depends...if I want to top, I hold off. Being a bit older, I get better bone when I wait a couple of days. If I bottom or just sucking cock, doesn't make a difference...always just go down on any hard dick. 😉

[Tractor0773]

Like most people said, it depends, and for me, on how long I have. If it’s a quick fuck and I’m topping, then I’ll aim to last a decent amount of time so will cum the day before and be ready with my one load. If I’ve got a hotel or a few hours, then I’ll save my load up over a few days. So that I can breed my bottoms cunt with a big juicy load initially, give it a few minutes then return for round two and so on, lasting longer and longer. In the end, his arse will be sloppy and gaping, with my balls completely empty. I’ve also been getting into edging recently, so perpetually have my cock on a hair trigger. 
 

If I’m going to bottom, I won’t try to save my load up. 

[Handsfree4me]

On 7/20/2023 at 3:50 AM, tupolino said:

I also need to be careful then not to cum too quickly from just getting fucked. So for that sake, I sometimes think it's probably better to get off the day before, so I can get railed for a long time then the day after. I just wanna stay in the horny mind set without full balls.

Complicated bottom problems... 😆

Literally why I bottom…. I cum over and over from the feeling of the ridge of a hard, thick cock head massaging my prostate. Usually my hole spasming makes the top cum quick, but if not I keep having full body orgasms, usually shoot each time too. I’d say save it up, I already shoot bigger loads when I bottom but it feels so much better when I cum buckets!

 

 

[jXsluT]

On 7/20/2023 at 1:25 PM, DeviantLust said:

"Normal" is whatever is normal for you. As a pervy porn addict and chronic bator, I can bate 10 times a day or more. That's not a boast - it's just normal for me.

Yaa me too 

[jagmanaz]

I say j.o. day before, so still have need but not desperate to cum

[Konrad]

On 7/20/2023 at 10:46 AM, norefusal said:

no body knows u better than you. 

i had a bf once he held off jackin off for as long as possible because the orgasm was better. i'm the opposite. if it's been too long i cum too fast and it's like eh. but if i just came and there's barely any new batter in the balls, somehow the orgasm is explosive even if the load is small. 

when i was younger i was not only more vers but i tended to be a more selfish bottom in the sense it was primarily an orgasm enhancement so i got fucked in order to cum better. 

now i'm more of a true bottom in the sense i just love the feel of dick up the ass so it more about being of service and getting the top off so i can have that load. 

before i used to get confused when bottom in porn lost their hard on. now i've become that guy lol 

Agree with you, as you mature the dynamics change as a bottom.