Staying horny

[norefusal]

On 3/16/2024 at 2:33 PM, coloroftherainbow said:

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

you have 2 choices imo:

1. live in the moment and enjoy it for what it is. i spent most of my youth primarily enjoying the enhanced orgasm that came w being fucked. i have no idea what stupid label the gay community has for this, but tops were used by me to get off better. 

2. if you are serious about flipping the script and becoming a total cunt - practice discipline and restraint. i wear a jock or thong to remind everyone upfront that my dick will not be an active participant in this.  sometimes i hold my hands behind my head or back in mock restraint to thwart any urge to touch myself. blindfolds or masks help put me in the mood to just be holes for use. 

should you go the cumdump route, be aware that it's like all other addictions: the more you get the more you need/crave. you'll leave a hookup's house, his wet load fresh inside you, and immediately start hittin up his neighbors online for your next load. you'll leave the bathhouse dejected that you've only got 2-3 loads up your ass. again, try to live in the moment. you've just screwed around w 6 or 7 different guys in one nite, who cares if only half of them ended up breeding you. otherwise the disappointment that you weren't fucked "enough" will only snowball. 

[hntnhole]

4 hours ago, norefusal said:

practice discipline and restraint

Great advice:  

The way I handle that is, I only head out to the fuckjoints on Fri and Sat nights (welllll, ocaaaaaasionally there's an exception), and by Wed or Thursday I'm what you might call sweaty-&-ready. But, there are too many other interests/activities in my life that I want to take part in, so I just tell him (my Cock) that he's just gonna have to wait until Friday night, and then he can have all he can handle. 

I like order in my life, in which no single thing begins to overtake everything else.  Some might say I have a broomstick up my ass, and that's alright - talk is cheap - and I'm rather satisfied with the structure I impose on myself.  

A schedule works for me.  

 

[jagmanaz]

I purposely just use the fuck to edge me.  At some point I go over the hill of needing to cum and can't so then just lay back and enjoy the drill.

[JamesL100]

46 minutes ago, jagmanaz said:

I purposely just use the fuck to edge me.  At some point I go over the hill of needing to cum and can't so then just lay back and enjoy the drill.

Similar I can fuck from the start but my orgasm usually ends my sex as top. I noticed that if I had been fucked a few times then I was rampant to fuck and breed a sexclub slut!

[CumdumpAmsterdam]

On 3/16/2024 at 7:33 PM, coloroftherainbow said:

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

In my opinion there is only one answer to your question: don't cum. Periode. As long as you keep cumming you will never reach the level of a real massive cumdump. You must be deeply frustrated all the time to become the best cumdump you can be.

It's not that hard. Just dont touch your penis 😉 Being a cumdump is about determination. It is about priorities.

There is one exit though: Make a daily habit out of it.

I go to a rest area every day and service all cock available. Going to that rest area every day became a steady habit. Once the habit is strong enough, you can start cumming again. Or you can choose to lock your penis. For me that was the best decision ever. Since I'm locked, my daily cum intake increased exponentially. 

Good luck!

[PleasureU7480]

I’m the same. That’s the main reason I don’t cum with guys, unless a dom insists. I’m a cumslut bottom and I want to stay horny so I can serve longer or serve more horny men.

I can cum later, reliving the experience. 

Most of my oral experiences have been at ABS glory holes. Sometimes, when a dom insists that I cum, I submit to his will, but I force myself to stay and suck off at least 2-3 more when I’m not horny. Submission turns me on in a different way and I love it.

When I get bred, I don’t cum until I am alone at home. The exception was the first time I was bred by 2 roommates. I masturbated and shot a load before I went home  it was too hot to resist. 

 

[Negasswhore]

On 3/16/2024 at 7:33 PM, coloroftherainbow said:

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

Practise your mind and always tell yourself that once you are with a top, you are not allowed to touch your cock or nipples(if they are hotwired, mine are). For most aggressive tops you are just a fuck-object for them to get release and dump their cum into and they want full control, they will touch you if they want to tease you, so basically act more submissive. Try to submit to just being used.

[atlfukbud]

Great topic -- over the years I have trained myself to be able to take dick after orgasm by basically anticipating that every fuck will be with more than one man and involve me receiving more than one load -- therefore regardless of when I bust my nut, there are probably top studs to worship and service. 

[Warmnsalty]

I've never had the issue of loosing interest after I cum. The only issue I ever had was loosing the interest to swallow my own load after I jerked off when I was a teenager. I'd really want it but after I came lost the interest. That all changed when I jerked into my mouth, not my hand. Game changer, feeling my load splatter on my face and open mouth only made me want another load. Up until my late 40s I could cum 3 or more times a session, never gave a thought to when I came, it happened and I kept on fucking, sucking or getting fucked, never loose the desire. My sex with men has evolved over the years. I've been in a phase for the last 5 years or so where I just want to be used. Most days now, I cum hands free when sucking a guy, at first it embarrassed me, now I just let it happen and go with it. Most guys find it a turn on. I'm on my knees enjoying a hard cock and anticipating his delicious load and my own cock just starts unloading. I keep sucking, zero affect on my need for cock and cum. I'll stay on my knees sucking or even better get mounted. I'll take as many loads as the guy can give me, can't get enough. 

[BadBob214]

I don't really feel any lack of interest after I cum. I do like to rest for a short time maybe with some idle chat or gentle caressing. However, for me if I feel relaxed with who I'm with and there's no pressure I get horny again quite quickly with a little kissing, cuddling, fondling and more foreplay especially if the guy is poz. I can generally cum a couple of times if I'm in the mood. 

Edited September 14 by BadBob214

[rednyellow]

Lock your cock or at least wear a jock and don't touch yourself and ask the top not to touch your cock

[VersGuyAnon]

On 3/16/2024 at 6:33 PM, coloroftherainbow said:

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

I'm the same. You just need to make sure you don't cum. Touch your cock as little as possible. Obviously it's a different story if you cum while you're being fucked, but I never cum until the very end of a sauna session (if at all).   

[FallenLad]

I found chastity to be the most enjoyable solution to this "problem", especially as a bottom. It removes the temptation to cum, and makes it clear to the top(s) that you don't want to.

With the right fitting cage, that's comfortable, I'll happily spend an entire evening getting fucked or playing with toys.

[BruxoCub]

Eating ass and sucking cock gets me back in the mood pretty quick after I blow a load.

I guess I better enjoy the last year of my 30's before I re-learn how to keep my hornies active 😅

[BlueSaphir]

34 minutes ago, BruxoCub said:

Eating ass and sucking cock gets me back in the mood pretty quick after I blow a load.

I guess I better enjoy the last year of my 30's before I re-learn how to keep my hornies active 😅

I wish you could eat my ass 😜