Condoms

[Leather-lee]

I know most people on here loathe rubbers, but is it always a deal breaker?

I prefer raw of course, but if a guy I really want to fuck wants to use condoms, I honestly don't mind. For me, I want sex - sucking, rimming, fucking etc, and if I get bred or breed a guy, that's a bonus! I get the impression for most guys breeding is their sole intent.

Likewise with porn, most porn I watch is raw, but there's some seriously hot, intense scenes with guys using rubbers that always get me off.

So, am I alone with this thinking? What do you lot think?

[Bokkierob]

You’re definitely not alone but for me, personally, rubbers are a dealbreaker. I have to breed. I fuck men for the intense pleasure of feeling their bare ass milking my cock and to pump my seed deep up their ass.

[verslut]

I generally fuck bareback. But I use condoms for the right guy, but only with good fitting condoms with water based lube.

[jagmanaz]

Kind of a deal breaker, though not many use these days.  Latex burns my hole and stays red for a couple days.  So really need to avoid.

[BBDreamer]

5 hours ago, Bokkierob said:

You’re definitely not alone but for me, personally, rubbers are a dealbreaker. I have to breed. I fuck men for the intense pleasure of feeling their bare ass milking my cock and to pump my seed deep up their ass.

I'm with you on this one. I want to feel the warm skin of a Top's hard cock inside me. And when he orgasms, I want to know (if not feel) his sperm going into my body. I love a verbal Top telling me how good my ass feels wrapped around his raw cock. I love to hear him say he's about to cum and to get ready for his load. A rubber does not provide any of this excitement. 

I can't even watch porn with rubbers. I see a rubber and I move on.

[Bokkierob]

9 hours ago, BBDreamer said:

I'm with you on this one. I want to feel the warm skin of a Top's hard cock inside me. And when he orgasms, I want to know (if not feel) his sperm going into my body. I love a verbal Top telling me how good my ass feels wrapped around his raw cock. I love to hear him say he's about to cum and to get ready for his load. A rubber does not provide any of this excitement. 

I can't even watch porn with rubbers. I see a rubber and I move on.

Yeah buddy, you’re right. I gotta feel my bottoms raw hole milking my cock and I love to feel my sperm in his hole and on my shaft when I’m seeding him. Most men go bare so I almost always get what I need.

[slaveboi]

I am kinda weird about this.  I have a condom fetish and I don't know why. 90% of my fucking is raw but I don't mind if he covers up. When I was a teen I overheard my aunt talking about getting pregnant because she let her weed dealer fuck her with a condom from a gas station.  All they had was rough rider studded condoms and it broke mid fuck. She said it was rough and she was raw for days. I guess thats where I got it. I always keep some old studded and ribbed condoms in case.

[Searchingforit]

16 hours ago, jagmanaz said:

Kind of a deal breaker, though not many use these days.  Latex burns my hole and stays red for a couple days.  So really need to avoid.

I am with you condoms just hurt. Raw is the only way i get pleasure from being fucked

[MuscledHorse]

Absolutely a deal breaker for me. I don't jump through all the hoops to be able to take PrEP for the fun of it. Further, I have to get super size condoms for my penis if I have to top and they still aren't that comfortable on my thick godrod. So no condom. Spill the semen the way Nature intended.

[ccmmss]

I would prefer bare all the time as a bottom of a top.... but to be on the safe side at times... I do use them

[FallenLad]

If I'm really horny or it's a ridiculously hot top then I'll consider using condoms, but otherwise it's always raw. 

I just find getting fucked by a condomed cock uncomfortable. Thankfully most guys are happy to fuck bare these days.

[ktopper]

I would use them if a bottom I want to fuck insists. But I don't like using them. I started having gay sex back in the 1970s and no one used them back in those days. Then in the 80s the AIDS epidemic hit. So I started using them. By the late 90s I only used them if the bottom insisted. By the early 2000s I rarely used them, and now I can't even remember the last time I used one. I think part of the reason I hate them so much is because it reminds me of the dark days of the 80s. And it just feels so fucking good to cum in a sexy dude's ass man to man and know he has my sperm in his ass when I finish.

I have also screwed tons of women and I don't think I ever used a condom with any of them. I have paid for a few abortions when I was fairly sure I had knocked them up but in general I feel that contraception is the lady's responsibility. Never had that problem with a guy, and they are better pieces of ass anyway.

[Newportbottom]

Deal breaker. I do not even have condoms in my house. Accepted a long time ago, even being a young man growing up with AIDS ravaging the community. That I only wanted to have BB sex. I knew the consequences and accepted it. I did at some point become POZ, I knew it would happen with especially PNP in Southern California. It did become AIDS for me, Dealt with it, over came it. But has not changed my choice to only BB. Frankly do not really think much about being POZ.

 

[BB4fking]

Not a deal breaker for me, and coincidentally was fucked by a guy at a bathhouse this afternoon, the first time I’d seen one for 4 months. I have ’condoms only’ on all my profiles so it’s not an issue for app hookups. In bathhouses and cruise clubs it happens occasionally. Last month in a darkroom a guy tried to roll a condom on my cock which I ripped off, I wasn’t having that and didn’t fuck with him. However, although very rare, I accept tops using condoms if I’m horny to get fucked (as I was this afternoon).

[mdol1980]

I'd prefer not, but I'm not bent over in the dark room because I'm picky, I'm there to be used and part of the appeal is not putting up any barriers as to by who and how. So not ending up with a load in me as proof of my good work isn't the best outcome, but I'm getting some thrill regardless.