Does it matter if the bottom cums?

[jd13]

Personally I don't like to cum during sex. I get the deepest sexual thrill from pleasuring the top and making sure he cums in me. If he wants me to cum after he has cum in me... well, that's when the submissive side of me breaks down as I often say no. I guess I like to keep my cumshots for myself.

They say watching porn affects what you do sexually, and of course that's true, but some things remain immovable. In gay porn scenes, very often, there is almost a ritual script to follow, which is that the bottom gets fucked, and cums a few minutes before the top cums, as if the fucking is so pleasureable he can't help but cum. I don't really connect with that at all.

Being fucked is a pleasure in itself, and an immense one. It doesn't affect my cock, but is a P-spot orgasm that quickly moves all over my body. Like others have said here, my cock often goes a bit soft, as the ecstasy takes hold with shivers all over me. Next to the immensity of a good all-over-body-orgasmic fuck, what use is my cumshot? Only the top's cumshot is going to matter here, to mark the crescendo, and then subsiding, of the ecstasy...

[yoursinmine]

I just like being pent up and cock hungry. When my ex introduced me to the idea, I was not into it. He told me to grow up, shut up and open up. It took a while, but I love it now. I'm single now and a masturbating son of a bitch, but I'm always fantasizing about being owned by a a big bodied Dom who knows how to swing a dick. 

[DNG999]

As a bottom I prefer not to cum. If I come first my enthusiasm wains,  so keep my balls full of cum and I’ll be yours all night.

[phillygwm]

Because of a medical issue, I shoot little or no cum myself (though I do have the sensation.)   So others' cum turns me on and  I generally prefer my bottom to shoot before I cum myself. 

That being said, it depends on the situation.  I really like to fuck a guy after he cums, especially if he's lost his mood and is just submitting for my pleasure.  But if someone can't cum -- or I can't get him off for whatever reason -- that's OK too.  I've been with a number of guys who will tell me in advance that it isn't going to happen.  Maybe they have ED, maybe they can't get off while bottoming, whatever.  It happens. 

[hntnhole]

Sure it matters.  If the bottom wants to, then the Top can make that happen.  If the bottom doesn't want to, the Top can make that happen also.  

Tops want the bottoms to get pleasure from the scene, (which, incidentally, can be almost anything), as long as it's dealt with and agreed upon in the required pre-scene negotiation when serious play is anticipated.  

 

[tighthole64]

I rarely cum while getting fuckt but will stroke one off after while cleaning tops cock!

[austin_submale]

If I am getting fucked good I usually am dripping pre-cum.  Occasionally I cum barely even touching my little cock, and often when I do I'm not even fully hard.  It's a different feeling, almost like a ruined orgasm but not ruined due to the prostate pleasure.

That said, I usually just wait until I get home (I get fucked mostly at bookstore booths or theater and sometimes at the top's place if they can host) and stroke a load or three out.

 

[Newbottom2112]

On 6/23/2024 at 4:39 PM, BreedingTop71 said:

I have never really cared, I always felt the pleasure of the bottom comes from making the top breed him… never had a bottom complain, always kept coming back for more. Lately, i got into a conversation with another top and he always makes sure his bottoms cum. I thought it was dumb, but now i am curious…what do you guys think?

As a bottom,  it's never really been an issue. I'm there to provide pleasure to my top. That's what makes me happy. After he cums, it's up to him whether he wants to cuddle for awhile or wants me to clean him up and attend to any other needs he has.

If I did a good job in bed, my ex would send me to take a shower and have me take care of myself in the bathroom. Other times he just enjoyed seeing me on edge (so to speak) until I would cum during sex later that night.

[jXsluT]

Of course not. i prefer extended edge sessions

[Labtmguy]

I very rarely cum, or do I expect to. Ofcourse I do drip and precum while being fucked but that's about it. 

A few times I have came and I have noticed that afterwards my drive slowed down a little. Kinda like "ok you came, take a nap!" Ofcourse I bounce back, but just prefer to get off on feeling the top shot their load.

[Donny4]

I vividly remember the first time I got fucked. He was very nice and slowly pushed his 7” inside me. He then paused and pushed poppers under my nostrils, I deeply inhaled then he Gradually he picked up the pace, and I loved it. After a few minutes of active thrusts he stiffened shook and unloaded inside me. We both laid on our sides and I reached between my legs to feel the true joy of feeling his cock while still deep inside me. He knew what was happening and reached down and took gentle hold of my rock hard cock and stroked me until I exploded. The biggest thrill was doing that with a cock still stuck deep inside me. May have been the best pleasure I had ever had. Only one first time.

[keithalcox]

By nature I am versatile but back at uni, I met up with a couple of guys called Chris and Andy who were both tops and living together. Eventually I got into a relationship with them but since they were both tops, inevitably they wanted me to be bottom. This I thoroughly enjoyed. As things developed, they wanted me to be pierced. Chris, had a thick ampalling piercing and Andy had a PA. I was fascinated by them and enjoyed the effect. For my birthday present they gave me a PA and tit piercings. These were stretched up and eventually I had to two thick barbells in my tits and a thick gauge, small diameter smooth segment ring in my cock. Before they last had it fitted, they put a small solid stainless steel rim through it and then coated the small segment with two-part epoxy “liquid steel“ this has made my PA with its dangling smaller ring effectively permanent. Chris Andy and I also had matching stainless steel cook rings which we wear permanently. They look really sexy especially since we are all hairless from the head down. Some years ago, they announced they wanted to lock me in chastity and I would benefit from it. Trusting them, I agreed to this. I have a stainless steel ring that I wear around the top of my cock behind the head.They presented it to me and on my birthday . (I am cut ) . Chris, took a stainless steel padlock; fed it through the small ring that dangles from the pa ring, then through the ring around my cock head; Pulling my cock down so that he can feed the padlock through the cock ring in between my balls. This was then clipped closed. Because my cock pulls my two balls apart it is impossible to remove any of this. It is impossible to get an erection as my cock is locked down to my cock ring almost pointing back slightly. I have to sit down to piss; there is no other option. Without the key it is impossible for me to get loose to become erect. Chris and Andy have one of the keys and the other is in a key safe which I have but I do not have the combination. The key safe is for safety reasons. In the event of an emergency Chris and Andy would give me the code however I have never ever asked for it. Even, when I was going to meet them in Portugal for a holiday. I was prepared to risk the security at the airport!! In that key safe is the key to the padlock for the chain around my neck as well. Initially they said they were going to lock me in for a week and I agreed. The first morning, was agony I woke up very early in pain as my cock was trying to escape. I had to get up and try to concentrate on other things. Day two, was easier and by the third day my brain had realised it was futile trying. I realised that when I am locked The desire to top anyone disappears and I become an insatiable bottom. After about a week of initially being locked, while Chris and Andy were spit roasting me and twisting my tits; I had the most amazing orgasm despite my cock being soft and no cum came out. It went on for about 12 minutes and was the most satisfying experience that I had ever had up until then. It’s left me completely weak but spiritually physically mentally emotionally and sexually more fulfilled than I had ever been. This would never have happened if I had not been locked. Chris and Andy only have me locked , about 40% of the time but it is no hardship. I am 100% honest with Chris and Andy as they are with me. I tell them about my other experiences with men. They are very happy for me to meet up with other guys for fun and sometimes I arrange times for them to join foursomes and moresomes! I would really recommend the piercing route as it is guaranteed 100% secure. It also adds a new dimension to the fun that can be had. I shall look forward to hearing from you again soon. Take care. Keith

[Ozpig]

On 6/24/2024 at 2:19 PM, yunghungtop said:

I don’t allow my fags to touch their cocks while we are fucking. They really shouldn’t touch it at all when in my presence. It’s a 2 player game. My cock and their hole. If the fuck causes a handsfree orgasm that is ok. That’s great, as long as the bottom realizes that we are not finished until the top(s) cum, and cum as many times as they want. 
 

If a bottom cannot continue taking cock after an orgasm he should absolutely not cum. If he can, then I’m agnostic on the topic. His orgasm is irrelevant. He is there to serve the top(s), give pleasure, and receive sperm. 

Exactly 100% right. I was taught by my top to take cock after cumming, as that trained me to concentrate intensely on pleasing his and the other tops he would arrange to breed me.

[partying.hard]

If he doesn’t want to cum, then I respect that.
 

But my God, if I have put all my energy into fucking him and working him over, and he has fulfilled all of my needs, I’d like to reward him with an orgasm of his own. However he wants it. I’m never selfish enough to leave him hanging if he wants to get off.  Of course there are times where I can tell it’s just a pump and dump, and he’s got others lined up to fuck him after me. But if it’s been a one on one session and it’s gone on for hours, he’s been on the edge for a long time anyway. If he lets me, it’s part of my own reward to get him off and watch him and feel him while that orgasm builds and he then spews his load all over. 

[Ozpig]

On 8/8/2024 at 5:35 AM, bareholefl said:

My chastity cage indicates I’m available as a cum dump for the top. My ex never let me touch myself in his presence. He said I was there to take his cum. I prefer it that way

My ex was the same. The only time I was allowed to cum in his presence is when he made me beat off into his leather glover so he or other tops could use my lube for the first fuck and to open me up. I was there to totally take his cock and seed and the cocks and seed of the numerous tops he would invite over to fuck me or when he took me top backroom or sex parties.