bottoms/vers bottoms: ever get offended when when your hole is called a cunt?

[smallcocksissyboi]

Love it, makes me feel degraded k owing they’re saying it with a derogatory meaning, especially if they like to destroy or wreck cunt I know I’m in for some rough anal abuse

[piglooking4pigs]

As a bottom, I'm not offended about any term for my hole.  I would want the top to use the term that turns him on most, so that it heightens his experience and desire to dump inside me.

[MuscleAss]

Cunt, pussy, hole - the top can call it whatever he wants. And he can call me whatever he wants, too. What he does to me and my hole are up to him, whatever gives him pleasure. There are some guys who don’t like it when I’ve used words like pussy or cunt, so I stick to hole and ass if that’s their preference. But I do love nasty verbal talk when I’m playing. 

[cockfun69]

It's not a natural name for my ass. I wonder if it's used more by bi/married men? But I have learned to accept it if used and not be shocked or turned off ..

[PGHBttmBear]

14 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

When I first played with trans guys, though, I made SURE to ask what to call their front hole. CUNT was the choice, both of them said pussy was verboten and I respected that. Other times I've run into both cis and trans guys who said "hey don't use word X." And I respect that and stop. There are SO many hot euphemisms for your ass that it's easy to pick and choose.

 

It’s funny to me how my mind works in regard to how tops and I refer to my body. 

Before coming out as trans nonbinary I only wanted ass or hole used. Pussy to me is too feminine. Cunt to me is gender neutral, but I didn’t like that being used. I mean after all damn it I’m a man don’t use  non masculine ways to refer to my body. There’s another reason I don’t like pussy they I’ll mention later.

 Yes, I am self aware and realize that last statement was LOADED with toxic masculinity.

 Just a quick aside. I see cunt as gender neutral because I watch too much imported stuff from the UK. Everyone regardless of gender is a cunt at some point. As a result even when referring to an ass or vagina, my brain hears cunt as doesn’t assign a gender. Now back to the topic on hand. 

Now that I’m nonbinary, what do I prefer?

Since I use gender neutral pronouns, I prefer the gender neutral cunt. I know not everyone views cunt as gender neutral. I will always respect another persons views on gender labels they use.

 My next option would be hole. My brain assigns a male gender to that word, but it is close to being neutral. 

Then we have ass. After 40 years of telling tops to fuck my ass longer feels right. Yes it is a unisex word that all genders can use, but I’ve used for so long with a male identity I no longer want to be reminded of that. It’s like deadnaming that part of my anatomy. 

Finally we have pussy. Sure it’s feminine. That’s not why I don’t want to use that word. If it wasn’t for this other thing, cunt and pussy could be used interchangeably. 

You can thank the BBC for my aversion to calling my cunt pussy. Every damn time I hear pussy I have visions of Mrs. Slocombe saying something like needing to run home and pet her pussy. Yes she’s talking about her cat, but the writers, being more clever than I, always managed to make it sound like she was talking about HER pussy. LOL 

[PozTalkAuthor]

Not offended, but I prefer to call it my ass / his ass! Or hole, at the most.

[RawSlutAms]

Personally I am quite fond of 'cumbucket' 😄

[phukhole]

Call it whatever you want as long as you're flooding it with cum!  Seriously, if I'm ass-up or on all fours or in a sling or whatever, call it anything you want, but fuck it good!

[leakyhole]

I don't mind it, but I feel the sluttiest when my hole is called pussy/manpussy.

[BritFFPig]

It’s a greedy cunt. Hate it being called a pussy

[norefusal]

when i first came out i would hated hated either cunt or pussy. but neither were in vogue as i hung w a very masc4masc crowd. 

its only in recent couple of years that im interested in explored my sub bottom cumdump side. now i love the dirty talk. and if the vibe is right ill join in calling my own ass a cunt 

[bbpoznow]

as long as you are willing to fuck, you  call it what you like 

[yoursinmine]

Yeah, I love the talk, whatever he wants. Once he's got his hands on me, my opinions and decision making power are worthless

[BBbruderfag]

Good Lord no I don't mind.  It can be called what ever the guy fucking me wishes to call it - it's his hole to fuck.

[ktopper]

14 hours ago, cockfun69 said:

It's not a natural name for my ass. I wonder if it's used more by bi/married men? But I have learned to accept it if used and not be shocked or turned off ..

I can see some bi guys who aren't entirely comfortable with their gay desires calling it a pussy or ass. I am myself bisexual. I am more than comfortable with that, I embrace my gay side with gusto. I like to fuck the ladies  in their pussies or cunts. I like to fuck guys in their ass. When I'm breeding some guy I relish the male to male part and calling his ass a pussy feminizes that so I prefer to call it an ass.

Of course if he seems to like being called a bitch and wants his pussy bred then that's what the bitch gets. I have topped xdressers and fem acting guys and it just seems natural to use feminine terms with them. Talking with other bi tops a lot of them do tend to refer to all bottoms using fem terminology, so I think you are on to something, cockfun69. It probably goes with the reason some bottoms don't think Bi tops are really gay.