Meaning of wearing just a jock or assless underwear at fuck club/bathhouse/orgy

[hntnhole]

45 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

put a pair on do a circuit around the bathhouse, change and do it all over again for 3 or 4 hours.

This must be my "dense" day .... I don't get it ....  why would guys drag a bag of various jocks/underwear to a tubs, and just parade around in them?  The tubs are there for guys to fuck/get fucked ... not some parade of butch (or maybe not so much) panties.  WTF ....... 

Sounds more like a men's-only drag show than a fuckjoint where guys go to take/give loads.  

[AirmaxUK]

Personally, I have worn a rubber jock to the baths - works well in the wetter areas.  I hope it is an enticement to guys who might be looking for a place to dump a load, but it hasn't worked very well so far. Seems to scare off people - or maybe it's just the bottoms realising they won't get a load from me.  Wearing a butt plug seems to get better results. 

Where I frequent, the GenZ boys seem mostly oblivious to the message wearing a jock in a sauna conveys. The whole look-but-don't-touch-ask-permission-and-swap-instagrams-first  thing seems to be de-rigueur for them. Bit of a buzzkill in the darkroom, tbh. 

[NWUSHorny]

1 hour ago, hntnhole said:

This must be my "dense" day .... I don't get it ....  why would guys drag a bag of various jocks/underwear to a tubs, and just parade around in them?  The tubs are there for guys to fuck/get fucked ... not some parade of butch (or maybe not so much) panties.  WTF ....... 

Sounds more like a men's-only drag show than a fuckjoint where guys go to take/give loads.  

We see lots of fetish gear doing the blue ball no mating dance parade at the fuckjoints here. I've been here for many years and still don't get it. I do know I've pissed off more than a few guys by suggesting bathhouses are intended for a different purpose.

[NWUSHorny]

50 minutes ago, AirmaxUK said:

Where I frequent, the GenZ boys seem mostly oblivious to the message wearing a jock in a sauna conveys. The whole look-but-don't-touch-ask-permission-and-swap-instagrams-first  thing seems to be de-rigueur for them. Bit of a buzzkill in the darkroom, tbh. 

It's not limited to any particular generation here, it was common long before GenZ reached puberty.

We haven't had a darkroom here since COVID, but they used to loudly announce "I don't fuck" when entering the darkroom, which is a big enough buzzkill to put a stop to all activity for an hour or more. My generation, GenX and older were the worst culprits for making the announcement. I'm convinced that a lot of them get off on being a cock blocker.