profwhtforhung Posted June 11 Report Posted June 11 my guess is plenty of us have spent time feeling guilty, ashamed, or just spent, maybe even after sex. on the other hand, would anyone be willing to share things they've been able to do to INCREASE their horniness, ability to fulfill fantasies, and more? i would love to learn... thanks. Quote
Westlonlad Posted June 11 Report Posted June 11 Great question. One of the things I've done that springs immediately to mind is inhaling poppers and watching satanic hypno/pmv videos. I'm pretty certain they've had an effect on me after all these years! Quote
RubberAustria Posted June 11 Report Posted June 11 Not jerk off. Use enhancement that lowers your limits (alcohol, poppers,..) Dress with outfit you like (harness, boots, rubber…) Watch SHORT clips of porn or pics walk around in the street and stare at guys that make you horny (twinks, bears, Daddy…). have a 100% fixed/ planned sex-date, visit of a sex-club or sauna where you can get rid of your horniness. 1 Quote
NordicBtm Posted June 11 Report Posted June 11 29 minutes ago, RubberAustria said: Not jerk off. Use enhancement that lowers your limits (alcohol, poppers,..) Dress with outfit you like (harness, boots, rubber…) Watch SHORT clips of porn or pics walk around in the street and stare at guys that make you horny (twinks, bears, Daddy…). have a 100% fixed/ planned sex-date, visit of a sex-club or sauna where you can get rid of your horniness. Increase your testosterone level by working out, getting natural sun. Walk a lot. Don’t jerk off (or reduce at least). I’m always the horniest when I’m in good shape, getting sun, and not watching much porn. Make your own porn or replay your own fantasies to get off. Enjoy the connection with meeting guys and getting physical. You’ll be a much better fuck (applies to both tops and bottoms). 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted 4 hours ago Report Posted 4 hours ago Get out there and cruise in person, actually act on your fantasies. I find that once I've done something and enjoyed it, I won't have any inhibitions the next time an opportunity comes up. While I'm no longer finding many new fantasies to fulfill, nor do I have many old fantasies left on my bucket list, I'm always happy to refulfill the relatively long list that I've already achieved. 1 1 Quote
hntnhole Posted 2 hours ago Report Posted 2 hours ago 1 hour ago, NWUSHorny said: Get out there and cruise in person, actually act on your fantasies Perfectly said. The thing about using electronic contrivances is, we sit around typing or texting or whatever, and don't go out and fuck. Yes, phones, computers have their place, but nothing takes the place of getting out there and giving/taking loads. Interacting with our peers. Fantasies are for beginners - acting on those fantasies is the only thing that actually counts. 2 Quote
Nclchub Posted 2 hours ago Report Posted 2 hours ago (edited) 28 minutes ago, hntnhole said: Perfectly said. The thing about using electronic contrivances is, we sit around typing or texting or whatever, and don't go out and fuck. Yes, phones, computers have their place, but nothing takes the place of getting out there and giving/taking loads. Interacting with our peers. Fantasies are for beginners - acting on those fantasies is the only thing that actually counts. Completely agree. Unless I'm looking for something incredibly specific (e.g. fisting) I genuinely have more success off the apps than on them. Lots of people use them to chat or jerk off. Fine but not what I'm after. What I find apps are useful for is occasionally keeping in touch with guys you meet via cruising. Not sure if this is common but I've had plenty of guys fuck me not want to give a phone number but be all to happy to offer their app handle(s). If you've never tried cruising a bar or sauna, best advice is to just go there. For your first visit, don't even go with the idea sex is on the table. Just focus on having a fun night, observing and maybe chatting with someone. Really takes the edge off and makes future visits a lot less daunting. Edited 2 hours ago by Nclchub Correcting spelling/grammar 2 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago 21 minutes ago, Nclchub said: If you've never tried cruising a bar or sauna, best advice is to just go there. For your first visit, don't even go with the idea sex is on the table. Just focus on having a fun night, observing and maybe chatting with someone. Really takes the edge off and makes future visits a lot less daunting. I'm not sure I agree with, "don't even go with the idea sex is on the table." Once I got past the 1st hookup, the only times I haven't had sex when trying out a new situation were when there was no one there willing. I both fucked and got fucked within 10 minutes of entering a bathhouse, and while other situations may have taken longer I've mostly succeeded the 1st time of actually going. 1 Quote
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