Time to find hookups

[NWUSHorny]

How many of you find your circumstances make it difficult to find time to hookup for a casual fuck?

I mostly hookup when I travel usually for work, and while I seem to have a natural instinct for sniffing out cruising spots and fuck venues, the demands of the job and the travel itself often finds me too tired to act at 56, a lot more frequently than I did when I was in my 30's and 40's. I do have some fuckbuds scattered around the country, but still prefer to go out and look for new experiences and a definite preference for group sex.

Where I live, even casual hookups take a long courtship, only to find out we don't even have a common definition of what it means to have sex. Fuckbuds are also a problem, most of them have told me I'm too intense or that they are scared of how slutty I am.

[barefucker44]

3 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

How many of you find your circumstances make it difficult to find time to hookup for a casual fuck?

I mostly hookup when I travel usually for work, and while I seem to have a natural instinct for sniffing out cruising spots and fuck venues, the demands of the job and the travel itself often finds me too tired to act at 56, a lot more frequently than I did when I was in my 30's and 40's. I do have some fuckbuds scattered around the country, but still prefer to go out and look for new experiences and a definite preference for group sex.

Where I live, even casual hookups take a long courtship, only to find out we don't even have a common definition of what it means to have sex. Fuckbuds are also a problem, most of them have told me I'm too intense or that they are scared of how slutty I am.

I agree, sometimes it is easier to find guys on the road.

[Pumpinmyhole]

Most of my hookups happen when I travel also. When I'm bidding for my next month's schedule, I'll look for specific cities that I know guys who I can get together with.  If not, then I look for trips with long layovers.  

When I get my schedule, I'll then plan which trips I'm going try being slutty.  But even if it's a long layover but arrives later in the evening, I already know that most guys online after 10pm are partying, so it's going to be difficult.  And downtown hotels in any city are a problem with parking.  And even with factoring in all of this, the length of my duty day and what time I had to report that morning are going to play into it.  

My last long layover I had I woke up at 3am, on the road at 4am, report time was 5:30am.  I was in my hotel room by 3:30pm which was a perfect time for the "I'm married and want to dump a load before going home" guys.  But I was just too beat.  I opted for an early dinner and a couple of martinis instead.  

I'm actually in PDX this Saturday, but landing at 9pm.  By the time I get checked in and ready to play it'd be 11:30 at the earliest.  Not going to try Steam or Hawks at that hour on a Saturday...I expect too many "party" guys.  I'll try online and I'll offer to host or Uber a few miles and see what happens.  But I don't have high hopes at that time of night.  Fingers crossed.