At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?

[phillygwm]

5 hours ago, TownTravellerMan said:

The slut shaming is the big thing. Sometimes I wonder if it's people actually judging you or projecting their own insecurities on you. But at bars or clubs or bath houses people talk. They can even fuck you and breed you or not and tell their buddy "Man that guy is such a cum dump they are such a whore". Whether they mean this in a compliment or insult is up to how they say it or the person they are saying it too. Or it could even potentially be someone wanting to take you down a notch. I don't really know how it works. 

I learned about those people early on and have tried to avoid them.  I don't need that kind of toxicity in my life.

But it's a reason why guys choose to go to the next town over, or play in bookstores/darkrooms where there's some anonymity.  Back to the OP, that requires a lot of planning if the next bar is 100 miles away but might be worth considering a mini-vacation where you go to a big city for a couple days and let your inner filthy whore out 🙂

[RobertBottomSlut]

Like night and day with me. Before my divorce I was a bottom. Now I’m a cumdump. 

[Guy4GuyCOS]

After I took the first load.  I became a cock and cum wore pretty quick!

[speedo21]

On 7/23/2025 at 6:41 AM, NSABB said:

Curious to know at what point a bottom becomes a cumdump or a pig.. I was dating this guy and he kept calling me ‘pig’ n I was like he’s just being cute because he likes to breed me but then he started whoring my jockpussy out of randoms off sniffies n grindr n he’s like telling me he likes it and that’s why he’s dating me. Guess it dumb to ask but he wants me to be a cumdump right?

When you first refuse a condom covered cock. You would rather have no dick than get no cum.

And by the way, it sounds like you are in the perfect relationship.

[Malesack]

For me as a cumdump, it’s the blindfold.  I don’t want to get to know them, see them or know what they look like even from pictures.  I just want them inside me and fertilizing my pussy with their seed.

[hungry_hole]

Before the AIDS Crisis I never heard about a condom, neither about the top and bottom identities. It was assumed that a more feminine guy would be interested in getting fucked, more that a masculine looking man. But nobody called themselves top or bottom, at least not the same extent as it is today. 

I used to go to the YMCA in New York and stay for a few days. The place was bad but the action was incredible. I had a good friend, a few years older than me, who was very open about liking to get fucked and enjoy cum. 

At the Y, there was sex 24 hours a day, and with guys from all over the US and the world. I would use all the skills that my friend had told me about getting fucked, cleaning hole, and about taking loads. 

I felt like a cumdump before I took the first load.