Whoring while in a relationship

[Olderkinkybiguy]

I have enjoyed sexual encounters without my partner on many occasions. Something a M/F couple, sometimes a desperately horny twink (my fav.), sometimes a neighbors husband or son. 
 

my last time I participated in a small gathering, without my wife’s knowledge, was during a very stressful period in my life. I was back where I grew up in St. Petersburg, Florida. I met a handsome Latin guy about ten years younger. I would go to his place, he had a husband but he traveled for work. I would usually arrive first and we’d share some pot.
 

The last time I visited him, he invited two other guys to join. On was a Marie’s black man in his late twenties or so; huge cock. The other was an average middle aged man. My Latin friend was the primary bottom. I love sloppy seconds, thirds, etc. I wasn’t aware that he invented a hot black guy, or I would have prepped to be a bottom. The guy wanted to fuck me, but my hole was not cleaned. 
 

all said and done, I do prefer being a breeding whore, especially with others who are cheating as well. 

[blackrobe]

4 hours ago, GCBubbleButt said:

The reason I got with him was his cock was big. Don’t get me wrong, I love him. But I love being plowed and bred. 

Fuck sluts have needs. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[robbyrims]

homeless guys are hot

 

[Tiboer]

At the local bathhouse two really cute guys would come and play with others together and separately.  They were partners who had met at a bathhouse so they knew and accepted each other’s needs.  They were also both mainly bottoms so would come to the bathhouse to get their needs met.  Interestingly, they didn’t have the same taste in tops.  One tended to like older white guys.  The other lusted after younger minorities.  Either way, they never turned down cock.  It was always a turn on to see them side by side, on a bed or in slings getting plowed by guy after guy.   
 

I once saw them sitting at a restaurant eating and talking.  It was so obvious they were totally in love.  Nice that they didn’t seem jealous or possessive when it came to sex—very healthy emotionally.

[Pozguyinchi]

The great thing about being male is that we can easily take the emotion out of sex. I think (in my experience), it has been easy to just get bred and look at it as a transaction between two people. Sometimes even less than that. I know in sex clubs I have been bred and never turned around to see who it was. 

[hungry_hole]

2 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

The great thing about being male is that we can easily take the emotion out of sex.

It's great to be male because of that disconnection, but this mostly works with sex with men. 

2 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

...take the emotion out of sex.

This is a misnomer because experiences of anonymous sex are filled with emotions, while cruising at a park, or while waiting for anon loads in the darkroom.

Maybe because it's sex without the emotion of "love". But I've sometimes felt love when I've taken an anon load at the sauna. 

[PervBugChaser]

I am into open relationship only. When I was with my first BF, we had sex with other guys together. And when I was not with him, I encouraged him to play with others and tell me the details after. I don't mind my partner playing with others, as long as he doesn't lie to me. Sex is sex. We may fuck with others and come home to share the stories.

[GuelphGuy72]

I started regularly going to bathhouses over a decade ago while married to my second wife.  Four years ago we decided to open our marriage due to my impotency.  I can only orgasm from prostate massage and my wife was not into pegging me.  Once she got comfortable seeing other guys I brought up seeing guys and she was fine with that.  I got on PrEP and started attending a few times a month.  I love going late at night on weekends to the baths in Toronto.  I have been in several orgies very late a night.  I loved coming home in the early hours of the morning and getting into bed with my wife with several loads inside me.

[Harder2Resist]

The last two or three relationships I’ve been in, I’ve told myself I’d be good but I somehow always end up at the baths or at least making out with a hot guy when I’m out. I guess I’m not really the monogamous type. There’s too many hot guys out there to tie yourself down to just one.

I recently found myself at a bathhouse and didn’t realize it was 330am until I got my phone back from the locker. Had a few missed calls from my boyfriend but I just said I lost track of time. I’m already fantasizing about going back but feel like shit about it. 

[Ozpig]

On 7/30/2025 at 1:54 AM, sindiktas said:

Do you have experience of participating in orgies while you are in a relationship at the same time? Have you went to places like Folsom or bathhouses? If you did, did you go alone or together with your partner?

I did it with my partner for 13.5 years. Subsequently I just slutted myself out on my own. 

[barebackbro]

1 hour ago, Harder2Resist said:

I’m already fantasizing about going back but feel like shit about it. 

I know this will be contentious, but I don’t think you should feel bad about doing what you want with your own body!