Is “fear” an aphrodisiac for you

[408curious]

On 7/29/2025 at 10:19 AM, onlyraw said:

So I was just on the phone sex line (I prefer it most times to watching porn … I get off on the interactive aspect)

anyway

i was exchanging messages with this guy who said he was older (mid 50s) married to a woman… his best friend of many years is gay (gbf) 

Awhile ago gbf made a move .. and ….long story short (details of the seduction are hot but not the point of this question)

He is still married… but now a definite item with gbf  and a total bottom… sucking off and getting fucked (raw) by gbf

my messages back to him were egging him on to get more cock … anonymous cock … the thrill of pubic sex (or at least an audience in a back room) etc. to fully experience what it is to be gay

And he replied that was too scary 

which got me thinking about “fear” as an aphrodisiac 

is it/ was it ever …. a turn on for you?

being on your back looking a total stranger in the eyes while he fucks you raw and cums in you?

being fucked in a dark room - or while hooded or blind folded - and having no idea who is fucking you?

Sucking cock of getting fucked in a public cruise spot knowing you might get caught?

or just doing it in public at the baths and having guys watch you (maybe someone you know or work with) will be there and see you being a shared cum slut?

or just the first time (for us older guys - after 1983 when condoms became the rule) for you younger guys anytime …. you took your first raw cock ???

curious what you guys think… I know “fear” is frequently a thing in porn fiction….i just wonder if it is in real life for any of you..

Glad to hear there are still some guys around that like to uh *encourage* overtly straight guy to submit their bodies to cock.  Too rare these days.