bottoms Psychological effect of being fucked

[TT2025]

Hi guys.. this is probably more 'for bottoms' topic, but hey, tops surely can relate as well.

I've been thinking about psychological effect of intercourse I feel: When I am with a guy, we kiss, cuddle, I suck his dick, he sucks mine etc. But when he slides his dick up my ass the intensity (for me) jumps up in order of magnitude (sometimes out of this world, really). And when he is done, (even when I don't cum) I usually feel the urge to kiss (not suck) his dick, underbelly and his mouth (preferably), like some primal kind of worship and I feel intense gratitude towards him.

It is completely inside a head since we share same physiology and some guys actually don't like to be fucked at all (or so they say). 

Another fun part is that this experience partly correlates with the affection I feel towards the guy. If there is low attraction towards him for some reason (usually some great turndown for me, like complete selfishness), the sex is pretty much mechanical. Enjoyable, fun, but not this completely different level.

When I very occasionally top, I never feel that - It is fun and really pleasant for sure, but not like that.

Do you have this kind of experience as well? 

[NWUSHorny]

1 hour ago, TT2025 said:

But when he slides his dick up my ass the intensity (for me) jumps up in order of magnitude (sometimes out of this world, really). And when he is done, (even when I don't cum) I usually feel the urge to kiss (not suck) his dick, underbelly and his mouth (preferably), like some primal kind of worship and I feel intense gratitude towards him.

I am this way either top or bottom, and it increases in magnitude if we flip, the ultimate is if we breed each other. The thrill I get knowing I'm getting bred by a man that I just bred or am breeding a man that has just bred me, it pretty close to pure nirvana for me, nothing else I've done sexually even comes close.

[brnbk]

As gay men the sheer bliss of butt fucking brings to our consciousness that we are doing what we are meant to do in life and affirms our sexuality. Just as straight men will say ( or write) that they looked at their wife in the eye and knew she was the one, as a gay man during butt fucking I feel like I am finally a complete person.

Being gay often sets us apart - especially those of us who grew up in homophobic situations; and we often, I know I do, have doubts about what is right when it comes to sex. The bliss I feel during gay sex affirms to me, that this is the only way I was meant to have sex.  

I am a vers bottom and tend to cling to my top. I do feel like he is my man, though I don't feel like a woman necessarily.  I feel like my top is an evolved man and I am in some kind kind of evolved female space/energy in my body when I get fucked. 

 

Edited August 10 by brnbk

[BlindRawFucker1]

I never feel so manly as I do when I’m being fucked.

 

The whole sexual experience is such an intense psychological trip.

 

The idea of tasting, smelling and feeling him in so many different ways.

 

It is all intensified knowing he barebacks.

 

The dick I’m sucking has rubbed directly against the walls of another man’s ass.  The idea that he has probably fucked sloppy holes, and been coated with cum from several men at once.  Eating his hole, knowing that other tongues, dicks and cum has been there before me.

 

Sex, for me, is just as equally about the psychological factor, as it is about the physical.

[MuscledHorse]

While I do top on occasion when I feel like it and there's a guy who can take my thickness, for me nothing beats the high of feeling another man's erection or hand/forearm sliding into me and stimulating the Pleasure centers on my buttCunt as well as my prostate. No greater male bonding experience exists than sodomy. Feeling my top(s) thrust in and out of me until they spill their warm male essence in my guts is masculine intimacy at its peak--two or more males in deep, primal, rough sex sor sport and pleasure, the way Nature intended.  Added bonus of knowing I have sexually bonded with so many guys and here are more adding to that only makes it hotter. An event like CumUnion isn't just a clever play on Communion; it's a description and experience of tribal male bonding as it should be.

[hungry_hole]

On 8/9/2025 at 5:39 PM, TT2025 said:

And when he is done, (even when I don't cum) I usually feel the urge to kiss (not suck) his dick, underbelly and his mouth (preferably), like some primal kind of worship and I feel intense gratitude towards him.

At the sauna I've felt love for guys after they breed me, and when they leave my room it's nice to feel a part of them left inside my hole. It's a huge turn-on