Ten lessons from my first pump and dump

[FelchingPisser]

1 hour ago, Warmnsalty said:

 Have thought I'd want another guy there to monitor things, being nervous about just an open door and me alone. You post encourages me to go for it, thanks for the info. 

Having played the role of doorman/monitor--and fucked the cumdump during the slow times to keep his loads churned--I really recommend that you have someone you know be there.  For everybody's safety.

[Warmnsalty]

2 hours ago, FelchingPisser said:

Having played the role of doorman/monitor--and fucked the cumdump during the slow times to keep his loads churned--I really recommend that you have someone you know be there.  For everybody's safety.

Thanks man, that's my thought as well. Safety being #1 concern but having a cock to suck and use me during slow times is definitely a plus. If you're reading this and in the cities DM me 🙂

[Ready2DoThis]

Lots of great advice and ideas. Thanks for posting this. I'm new at all of this so I've never done a group thing or attended a cum dump session but I want to experience them. I'd like to start with a group event but I'm not sure how I can get invited to group events since no one i know does anything like that. 

[Bear4Breeding]

I liked the advice. Something I always wanted to do but never had any luck with it.  Always was BBRT at the time.  Now I don't bother.  I too am in my early 50's and a fat bear.  Not a popular model in my area.

Good Luck on your November party.

[NordicBtm]

Thanks for this post and the advice, that’s a cumdump bottoms gold mine; or maybe load mine 💦🐽

I am planning one in the winter and my idea is similar. I’ll probably check in the evening before have a couple fucks then deep clean the next morning and start around lunchtime going until somewhat late.

Im mostly worried about thieves tbh.

[phukhole]

I've done both, but prefer to have someone man the door/refill lube/refresh water/open new poppers/fuck my hole in between loads...  It's a lot safer.

[Labtmguy]

I have done a few myself, hooded and not hooded, I liked the hooded better, and the tops that joined seamed mire turned on by it. 

The only changes I would make would be a door monitor, it always seams that when you put dump and go there are always a few tops that think it is a marathon fuck session. During my last one I literally had to tell the top to stop, I moved my ass off the bed so other tops can use it. I think a door monitor would change that. 

[NJRawDaddy]

12 hours ago, Ready2DoThis said:

Lots of great advice and ideas. Thanks for posting this. I'm new at all of this so I've never done a group thing or attended a cum dump session but I want to experience them. I'd like to start with a group event but I'm not sure how I can get invited to group events since no one i know does anything like that. 

Try Sniffies.  It’s a location-based hookup site.  It has revolutionized how groups work.   I can’t say enough good things about it.  I get so much cock in my ass because of it.   If there are non-revenue-producing (read: no entry fee) groups in your area you’ll rapidly find out about them. 

[phillygwm]

15 hours ago, FelchingPisser said:

Having played the role of doorman/monitor--and fucked the cumdump during the slow times to keep his loads churned--I really recommend that you have someone you know be there.  For everybody's safety.

I think this is ALWAYS a good idea but especially so if you want to be impaired.  Fucking someone who is unconscious or so out of it they're barely aware where they are is a bucket list thing for me.  But having someone there who can make sure the bottom is safe and handle any situations would be a must.

[hntnhole]

On 10/24/2025 at 1:25 PM, NordicBtm said:

Im mostly worried about thieves tbh

Arrange to have a friend there, to keep watch (and maybe fuck if the crowd thins a bit before the ravening hordes arrive).  Be sure to put small, easily-pocketed items away prior to the event - no sense in tempting the susceptible.  

[Annapaulamass]

I always wanted to be in a pump& dump to take a lot load. So far, hard to organize.