Ten lessons from my first pump and dump

[FelchingPisser]

1 hour ago, Warmnsalty said:

 Have thought I'd want another guy there to monitor things, being nervous about just an open door and me alone. You post encourages me to go for it, thanks for the info. 

Having played the role of doorman/monitor--and fucked the cumdump during the slow times to keep his loads churned--I really recommend that you have someone you know be there.  For everybody's safety.

[Warmnsalty]

2 hours ago, FelchingPisser said:

Having played the role of doorman/monitor--and fucked the cumdump during the slow times to keep his loads churned--I really recommend that you have someone you know be there.  For everybody's safety.

Thanks man, that's my thought as well. Safety being #1 concern but having a cock to suck and use me during slow times is definitely a plus. If you're reading this and in the cities DM me 🙂

[Ready2DoThis]

Lots of great advice and ideas. Thanks for posting this. I'm new at all of this so I've never done a group thing or attended a cum dump session but I want to experience them. I'd like to start with a group event but I'm not sure how I can get invited to group events since no one i know does anything like that. 

[Bear4Breeding]

I liked the advice. Something I always wanted to do but never had any luck with it.  Always was BBRT at the time.  Now I don't bother.  I too am in my early 50's and a fat bear.  Not a popular model in my area.

Good Luck on your November party.

[NordicBtm]

Thanks for this post and the advice, that’s a cumdump bottoms gold mine; or maybe load mine 💦🐽

I am planning one in the winter and my idea is similar. I’ll probably check in the evening before have a couple fucks then deep clean the next morning and start around lunchtime going until somewhat late.

Im mostly worried about thieves tbh.

[phukhole]

I've done both, but prefer to have someone man the door/refill lube/refresh water/open new poppers/fuck my hole in between loads...  It's a lot safer.

[Labtmguy]

I have done a few myself, hooded and not hooded, I liked the hooded better, and the tops that joined seamed mire turned on by it. 

The only changes I would make would be a door monitor, it always seams that when you put dump and go there are always a few tops that think it is a marathon fuck session. During my last one I literally had to tell the top to stop, I moved my ass off the bed so other tops can use it. I think a door monitor would change that. 

[NJRawDaddy]

12 hours ago, Ready2DoThis said:

Lots of great advice and ideas. Thanks for posting this. I'm new at all of this so I've never done a group thing or attended a cum dump session but I want to experience them. I'd like to start with a group event but I'm not sure how I can get invited to group events since no one i know does anything like that. 

Try Sniffies.  It’s a location-based hookup site.  It has revolutionized how groups work.   I can’t say enough good things about it.  I get so much cock in my ass because of it.   If there are non-revenue-producing (read: no entry fee) groups in your area you’ll rapidly find out about them. 

[phillygwm]

15 hours ago, FelchingPisser said:

Having played the role of doorman/monitor--and fucked the cumdump during the slow times to keep his loads churned--I really recommend that you have someone you know be there.  For everybody's safety.

I think this is ALWAYS a good idea but especially so if you want to be impaired.  Fucking someone who is unconscious or so out of it they're barely aware where they are is a bucket list thing for me.  But having someone there who can make sure the bottom is safe and handle any situations would be a must.

[hntnhole]

On 10/24/2025 at 1:25 PM, NordicBtm said:

Im mostly worried about thieves tbh

Arrange to have a friend there, to keep watch (and maybe fuck if the crowd thins a bit before the ravening hordes arrive).  Be sure to put small, easily-pocketed items away prior to the event - no sense in tempting the susceptible.  

[Annapaulamass]

I always wanted to be in a pump& dump to take a lot load. So far, hard to organize.

[Hungryforbbc]

So I recently had a new group experience with another bottom and four tops and even though Ive done smaller scenes a few times before I followed your guidance and for the most part it was excellent.
 

The timing is really important! It got messed up by some miscommunication and it threw off the timeline and made it more complicated and not as successful although it did end up being a hot one. But you need time to setup some video, chill any drinks, get clean and stretch out and set the place up right to make it comfortable for everyone and to create the scene you’re looking for without any drama, spotting or other mess etc !  So get there early enough for all that. if anyone is traveling on public transport or is otherwise time challenged you have to calculate that into the overall timeline otherwise it’s gonna be a lot of coming and going and you will end up disappointed.

 If there’s something specific that will make it the best possible experience you have to communicate it to the other participants.

If there’s any financial element you should sort it all out in advance so there’s no drama about it later.

 

[Pozguyinchi]

I think your advise is spot on. I am not a fan of pump and dumps but I do love group play. I was at a group event on Wednesday. They operate very similar to a pump and dumps. Usually it’s the same “type” that come and just sit by themselves and don’t participate. Just taking up space. I was one of only two bottoms and there were at least 10 tops. I am like you in that I put myself in whatever position the top wants. I like to get fucked but it’s not a marathon. Tops should cum and move on. It’s rude to use me too long. Others want to get off too. I will be at another one on Monday. It’s not my party but I will definitely use some of your pointers. Thanks

[tbone69rimmer]

Thank you so much for the great advice! I know it will help me be a more successful cumdump and I'm sure it will also help others. You've made the world a better place for us.