How and when did you start lowering your standards ?

[Tanbbottom]

59 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

That's definitely not true if you move to a city full of sides, finding anyone that wants to fuck, bottom or top can be a challenge in some cities.

Certainly my experience. 

[NWUSHorny]

4 hours ago, Tanbbottom said:

Certainly my experience. 

Which really, really sucks if you moved from a city where it was easy to find guys to fuck. I found myself spending twice as much time looking and only getting maybe a quarter of the fucks I was used to. I had never had a problem finding bottoms prior to moving to Portland.

[Erik62]

On 1/2/2026 at 2:59 AM, Cumfilledbottomboi said:

I’ve been like this my whole sexlife. I’m just a cumdump for men to nut in. 

NOT selective who fucks me but, I do like angry rough trade guys who just want a hole to rape & leave his load deep inside. Anything else he wants is a real bonus. 

[CumNMeDC]

When I was in college I would go to the local adult bookstore and breed anyone who let me.  The mercy fucks actually made me feel really good.  I later became a total bbtm and would go to the bath house, open the door to my room, put on a blindfold and whoever wanted to breed me could.  The lowest of my standards...a few years ago I found myself crawling into a homeless guy's tent and he bred me.  That was by far my lowest standards, which I guess I can't really go any lower than that.  When you horned up and maybe high too, I'll do anything for cock.

[NutBucketDC]

Along the way I realized everyone’s got to cum, and once the cock is inside, it almost always feels good. So why not just enjoy any hard cock that needs to nut? 
usually ass up blindfolded, but sometimes on my back with a full view. 

[norefusal]

hmmm

when i was young and closeted my options were very limited and therefore i often felt i'd slummed it a bit. ABS don't always carry the porn star hunks you dream about being gay w lol 

after i came out the world seemed my oyster so i could afford to curate my sex life. but ive always valued performance over looks and would often hook up w "butterfaces" because id rather enjoy sex than impress my friend w the handsomeness of my conquests. 

by 35 i'd low key developed a sex addiction so it did seem i was being less choosy but it was more about needing a fix than enjoying sex. 

once i got divorced after a very long monogamous relationship i was much older and therefore had to lower my standards per see but i adjusted by leaning in and exploring my sub bottom cumdump side. if you havnt been bred blindfolded by an unseen unknown stranger yet, i highly recommend it. 😈

[BruxoCub]

2 hours ago, norefusal said:

if you havnt been bred blindfolded by an unseen unknown stranger yet, i highly recommend it. 😈

I want to breed you just like this!

[RandyCubby]

I started lowering my standards almost from the beginning. I was a teenager (so, uber horny!) cruising park restrooms and woods. 

[norefusal]

1 hour ago, BruxoCub said:

I want to breed you just like this!

for all i know, you may already have 😜

[versasslover]

I probably started with lowering my standards when I got into cruising in parks around 27/30. I was there with a goal, to get fucked or fuck, and that quickly became whomever was available would do. That lead to hitting up older men on dating sites, I previously would not even consider them. And nowadays I happily fuck with anyone. 

[IntoBBvisitor]

20 hours ago, NutBucketDC said:

Along the way I realized everyone’s got to cum, and once the cock is inside, it almost always feels good. So why not just enjoy any hard cock that needs to nut? 
usually ass up blindfolded, but sometimes on my back with a full view. 

Not everybody "needs" to cum... As a total sub denied/locked bottom, I very rarely cum and most of the time I ruin it... Being constantly horny definitely led me to lower my standards.

[Pozguyinchi]

I was just thinking about this yesterday. I think the process was slow for me. I started young with my first long term relationship being my Step dad. I only had sex with him and it was pretty traditional. I then went to college and my first relationship that ultimately ended up being with my gifter was my second long term. During that relationship he shared me with friends and some that were not friends (a story for another time). When that relationship ended I “dated a lot of older men trying to find my next daddy. I clearly have a type. I would meet younger hot guys and play with them but always thought my next long term would be with a daddy type. When that didn’t happen right away I kept finding myself meeting men and always thinking…. This is for their pleasure. I sort of thought it was them that were driving the interaction. This brings me up to today. Actually yesterday. lol. I was bred by a 70 year old daddy with a big cock. He has had some prostate issues so it took about 40 minutes to get him to cum. When we were finished he said…” I hope I was good for you”? I said joking back that it was great and I am sure you have had lots of experience. He said back… yes but not as much as you.  I’m about 20 years younger than him. It made me realize that I get fucked by almost any man that wants me.  I have stopped looking for a “daddy” type and just take any load offered. This is why I will never be in a relationship again. I have slowly lost my drive to find someone. 

[Willing]

Dont guess that I ever had any standards,  💋

Edited 4 hours ago by Willing

[rawbro0]

Eventually I started to care more about taking men’s seed and being used rather than how good they look. My area doesn’t have that many male model studs - the few there are don’t seem to be into me. So, I take what I can get. If I have to beg for a stocky, 70 something year old man’s load in order to add another man’s seed to my record, I’ll do it. Taking all your loads anon helps not caring about their appearance too.

[Seedthissub]

in 2020 I went to an an abs with glory holes. they werent supposed to be open. Prior to that O always was concerned about cleanliness but never really concerned about how a guy looked, as long as he had a dick. Anyway i started taking raw loads in my ass prior to that but was always very careful and it was limited, mostly O sucked cock. When I entered tge abs the guy behind tge counter said, you have fo wear this walking in and walking out of here. I took the mask and went to the back were there were several gloryholes, entered one of the booths and took my mask off hoping to suck some dick. I was on my knees for a few seconds when I stuck my finger through the hole and waited a few minutes later I could hear somebody enter the other room on the other side of the glory hole. A big black dick stuck through the whole and I got down to sucking. After a few minutes he backed out if my mouth for some reason. I was on my knees looking at a pile of cum feom whoever was in there last, and realized there was cumdripping down the plywood wall of the glory hole my face was just sucking through. Being that it was the beginning of Covid, I thought to myself right away. I’m definitely gonna get Covid but for some reason, I was also completely turned on by the filth around me. I heard a faint knock on the door. and opened it up slightly to see why someone was knocking. The guy I was sucking entered my door locked it and told me to pull my pants down. I told him I was here to suck cock a glory hole and I’m not here for recip. He said I’m all top, thats when I realized he wanted to fuck me. Another cock came through the glory hole and he said go ahead and start sucking my friend off and bend over. I did but still didn’t remove my shorts as I was sucking him. He was grinding up against my ass and put his hand down my shorts and started playing with my hole. He yanked my shorts down to my ankles and started eating my ass, and I started going into complete lust. After getting me nice and wet, he penetrated me as I finished off the guy in the next booth with my mouth. I don’t know what came over me, but I just let him push me up against the wall and pump a big fat load into my ass. Since then my standards are low, i have been fucked by homless men and dirty guys.