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Although I pride myself in taking any age/looks as a rule, and a no cock refused bottom, I much prefer older guys. My own age upwards ideally. Unless I am super horny, or in a bent-over-taking-what comes mode (and usually then a top is making the arrangements) I find it a bit uncomfortable being hit on by guys half my age. And I find it a bit uncomfortable how many guys my age on the likes of Grindr explicitly target young twinks. If that was men and young girls, it'd be frowned on at the very least. Now having said all of that I don't give two fucks what consenting adults get up and if someone has claimed to be 18, is on a site or app that requires you to be 18 and could pass for 18 or over (and we're clearly not talking about young "kids" here) then surely there should be a case for some kind of entrapment charge on the kid. Honestly - just look at teenage girls. My closest friend has a daughter who has literally just turned 14. Out of her school uniform and with just a little makeup if you didn't know better she looks closer to 20/21. It's terrifying, really. Consent is important but maybe on top of that, guys who have any doubts whatsoever should ask for ID (and perhaps take a photo/copy of it in case it's fake...but then who wants to risk having their ID out there with a stranger? All difficult options/questions/solutions) or maybe just walk away. I've had guys hit me up who didn't look 16, let alone 18. I always block and move on. Not worth it. I was sucking cock in public toilets from just before I was 16. I looked 16. This at a time in the UK when the age of consent for gay sex was, if I recall, 18 (maybe even 21? No one asked, no one cared. Most of them were old enough to be my grandfather. I suspect if we'd been caught they'd have been in a world of legal trouble, but I just needed their spunk and I was grateful to them for their donations and what I learned.

OH yeah! Fucking love this!

visiting DC this weekend

Now that's a good fucking.. and connection too to stick around after cumming and go again and again. Lucky man. 😉

OMG! Love the twist in this chapter! HOT!

Fuck yeah! Love how this is going!

"Dress codes" so to speak have been going on for years. I've been with friends in New York at a leather bar who were asked to leave because they were far too formal. I don't think it's indicative of any particular city, it is up to management as to who they want to let in. In my situation, the guys were in their 20s and 30s, they were in shape, but their attire was not appropriate. I told them so in the ride over to the bar and they laughed and thought because they were attractive they could somehow convince the bouncer they should be allowed inside. Well it didn't work. I do know of certain bars where you can come into the general area, and as long as you are of legal drinking age there are no issues. But if you want to go into the "back room" or "dark room" there was another bouncer, and in this case the rules were different. I usually wear 501 jeans, a tank top, and either boots or sneakers. But that is what I wear in almost any gay establishment I visit. One thing that was not on the door - no cologne! I have seen this in both the US and abroad, so you have to keep that in mind. I've never been told by a bouncer I was too old, or too out of shape, or too ugly. But the cologne rule, that was enforced. I suppose clubs have 'fetish" nights, and like other posters have mentioned, talk to locals and make sure you wearing the appropriate attire. It's a sobering experience to be told NO at the door.

Kind of a shame the story didn't continue. But indeed there was a time I was asking the same question. There is truly only one way to know what it's like to be poz...

that is infact the way I wanna get pozzed-having no chance to regret it & get loaded up continuosly until it takes. I'm scared, worried how ill cope & how it will affect my family life but this is just perfect in the way I want to go that next step. I can't wait to read the next part-will hubby come home & give in & poz the lad up as wejl-will they get friends around & tag team him or will he go thru the club picking up older guys and passing on the bug?

I've heard comments like that for years - and I am not bragging, many of my friends tell me that guys they hook up with make similar comparisons to their girlfriends. Another thing I hear is that straight women seem to be less inclined to suck dick than a gay man would be. Therefore their boyfriends start looking elsewhere to get head. I'm not saying that straight women don't like sucking dick, but I have heard that a lot of guys seems to have to "encourage" their girlfriends to do so.

What strikes me is that both Phil and Angelo are new to you. Getting too far into projecting a future with someone we just met is, just too soon. Enjoy each date as it comes.

I love black cock...always have. Most black guys love and know how to fuck!

You are right - depends on the person of being raised - surrounded and friends he is used too - maybe movies - depends on factors - I am not a expert !

To the part of ourselves that lingers. A day after James and I stopped seeing each other, I went back on the Hinge app and started going through the backlog of guys who had liked me during the three weeks I’d been off the app—because I was dating James. One guy in particular stood out. His name was Phil (short for Phillip with two Ls), and out of everyone I replied to, I secretly hoped he would be the one to text me back. Fortune had it—he was the only one who actually did. We connected deeply, on so many levels. Mutual interests like gaming, movies, writing, and reading. Deep thoughts. Long messages. Quick wit. All of it. We scheduled a date for the upcoming Saturday, and in the days leading up to it, we exchanged texts and even had a phone call that lasted three hours. When the day arrived, we met at a restaurant called Universal on Bygone Street in the city—halfway between us. We live about an hour and twenty minutes apart, seventy-five kilometers to be exact. I felt comfortable within the first five minutes of meeting him. We talked about our lives, our careers, relationships—everything in between. To both of us, the date went extremely well. There was just one problem. Philip had recently come out of a seven-year relationship. It’s been just three months. He told me this upfront, even before the date, and gave me the choice to continue or not. I said yes—I was happy to go along for the ride. But I had my doubts. Can someone truly move on after just three months from something that deep? Is the heart really healed enough to let someone else in? I didn’t have to wonder for long. The next night, he sent me a message saying that while he had a really great time, he needed to be honest with himself. He realized he’s not looking for anything serious right now—he’s still in a healing space. And I understood. He said he’d still like to hang out, if I wanted to. When I asked about boundaries, he said he was happy with hugging, cuddling, and sex—what he confirmed as friends with benefits. I told him I was okay with that. What happened with Paul a few months ago taught me something important: to accept people for the version they are now, not the version I hope they’ll become. That means I’m not holding out hope that Phil will heal and, at the end of that process, suddenly open the door for something more. That’s a nice fantasy, but it’s not healthy. It creates pressure. It sets expectations. And it prevents me from loving or showing up for who someone is, in the present moment. So I told myself: I’ll keep living my life with him in it, as a friend, maybe something physical, but I won’t invest my heart too deeply. I’ll protect that part of myself. I’ll save it for someone special. A few days later, I met someone new on Hinge. His name is Angelo. He’s from the Philippines, eight years younger than me. I’ve dated someone with that age gap before—it was wonderful. Angelo is 27. He’s building his career, his home, his life. We vibed. We had our first date just a few days ago—home-cooked dinner, movies, a lot of cuddling. He’s already excited for our second date, which we’ve planned for next week. But here’s the truth. A part of me is still with Phil. The situation is messy as hell. I still have feelings for him. I’m being honest about that. And because of that, I can’t fully give myself to Angelo—not right now. I can feel the imbalance. The way Angelo likes me, versus how much of myself I can actually give back. It’s uneven. And I find myself caught between two worlds, two men—splitting my heart without fully cutting the tether to Phil. So now I lay here in bed, staring up at the ceiling, wondering what to do. What would closure look like with Phil? What would surrendering myself fully to Angelo look like—for him, and for me? I take a deep breath. And I trust myself. I have faith in myself. That I’ll walk out of these woods in one piece.

I sorry that it happened to you. I have spent a lot of time in chastity as well. I usually make sure that I empty my bladder prior to getting bred. Not sure if that helps but I do feel better.

Great idea fella!

Tonbridge / paddock wood area here. But regularly travel down to hastings and St Leonards

I typically walk around with my towel slung over my shoulders so my hard cock and my bubble butt are exposed and ready for action. I always get a room and am happy to do 1-1 sex there, but I also like fucking in public sections (in the steamroom). My hometown bathhouse isn't nearly as active as it was pre-Covid, so I haven't been going very much lately.

I'm still in touch with my "daddy", although I feel a bit odd referring to him like that now, and he is up for a bed meet this weekend. It's been a long time since we last me. I will definitely go, but part of me craves something new. Any advice?

dublin / kildare based here, id love to meet like minded guys in ireland, let me know what transpires...

I also check to see who is coming in at the same time. Then it gives you a time line on when they are probably wanting to dump their loads. Most guys hold off until the end to cum. Those are the guys I want to play with.

You question why Dems got so many fewer votes but seem to be completely uncurious about how Biden could get an unprecedented jump in the number of votes in 2020 compared to Obama or Clinton. You then “think” that Musk rigged vote tallies. Any supporting evidence for that “thought”?

I typically get a locker, not a room. Start by making sure I see who's checking in at the same time. Make eye contact with anyone who looks like they could be fun. I start in the sauna and steam room because I like the benefits of both of those rooms, and sometimes you can find some hot fun (pun intended). Then I walk through the areas to see if there's any groups playing or men looking - gloryhole area, sling area, video rooms, or at Flex Cleveland, the asylum. I like playing in the public areas. It's a turn on to suck someone or get fucked with guys watching.

Depends on what it is and the intensity and duration of it all. Sodomy under normal conditions isn't going to push the prostate and lead to inflammation. However, if you start getting into the level of use and size I get--multiple days of heavy fisting at events and multiple events close together it's possible to get prostatitis in my experience. I just did 3 multi-day events in 6 weeks time (CLAW, spring Fist Fest and Furry Weekend Atlanta) and ended up with it from so much heavy and extreme size use. It's an easy fix, though: Bactrim DS and Prednisone.

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