I really think he is doing that because you show him that you are not really okay with him pnp. You say one thing but your actions show another, why would I want to go all out and be a slut in front of you when I know your just going to talk down on the situation which will make me think your referring to me. You see I think the problem is that you’re trying to micromanage the whole thing , you want to be the run running the show but you gotta remember, that’s his world not yours . You may not know what he is looking for when he calls guys over, or maybe you just become too overbearing . Either way I think if he respects you enough to not do it around you , then let it be. Your not any fun if your trying to control everything