topblkmale

On 6/16/2024 at 2:18 PM, BreedMeNYC said:

This is a great resource put together by some selfless person with more time on their hands than I have. Gotta hand it to them for this community service. 😅

The thing I'd warn people about with this is that many of the parties on that calendar (maybe even the majority) are parties run by the same people, just with different names at different times. They sort of came out of nowhere recently with TONS of parties each week, and -- in my opinion -- oversaturated the sex party scene. So now each party is more sparsely attended because there are too many options. And a newbie will go to one party, see how sparsely attended it is, and decide never to go back. (The organizers probably know more than I do, considering I know nothing, but it seems like a self-defeating business plan.)

The parties that are tried and true, outside of that group of oversaturated events, are: GBU, MaleBox, and Pighaus. CumUnion is usually pretty good, and it should be great on Pride weekend. The fetish-focused parties run by that big conglomerate are exceptions and I think they're safe bets (like Manhole, the fisting party). 

Very true. This one conglomerate, LodgeNY, has quite a few party franchises in NYC.

They're hosted in one of two venues. I've only attended Blow Buddies NYC a handful of times. I was not impressed. It felt cold, rushed and not very diverse at all by NYC standards.

• The Bear Party - Bears, cubs, chubs, chasers and friends
• Bigg Tent - A Saturday night party for men of all stripes
• Blow Buddies NYC - Blow-jobs only
• The Chub Chaser Party - Chubs and chasers only
• The F*ck Stop - For guys who are down to f*ck
• Kink Brotherhood - For guys with kinks and fetishes
• Manhole - Fisting and serious ass play
• Nocturnal NY - For the late crowd Sun thru Thurs
• NY Uncut - For uncut guys and admirers
• Over 50 / Under 50 - Parties for guys 50 and over and 50 and under
• Stoner Boner - A sex party for guys that smoke weed. 21+
• Squeeze - A Sunday evening party with no theme
• Workman's Lunch - A nooner for the working crowd Tues & Thurs

Here's another local resource that details other parties in New York.

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://gaysexnyc.wordpress.com/

14 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

@topblkmale- I will be honest , i love to look at your page as you always seem to add a new dick pic. I try not to hit on you, but I have to admit I sign in and look at the pics of yourself you posted.  Not an alpha bottom, not an effeminate bottom either. Just a bottom …

Thank you very much. @ellentonboy However the profile photo of the dick viewed through the glory hole is not mine. Its just a photo from the internet, Twitter, that I like. The cover photo is not me either. Its an AI generated image from a content creator I support.

My dick is the first post in the Let's See Your Dicks! thread.

The average cocksucker cannot handle anything more than 6 inches. 
 

From personal experience, most cocksuckers can accommodate the first 5 inches of my dick in their mouth. 
 

The remaining 4 inches at the base of my dick usually remain dry and untouched. 
 

On 5/31/2024 at 3:34 PM, topblkmale said:

 

I'm extremely turned-off by masculine, manly dominant bottoms sexually speaking.

On the street, I seek masculine straight-acting alpha men.

But once in bed I need it a little softer, submissive, docile, feminine and willing to be demasculinized while being repeatedly penetrated.

 

This needs to be reiterated as most replies to this thread are from the bottom’s perspective. 
 

I’d like to know how other tops feel about masculine bottoms (in bed). 
 

June - NYC Sex Party Calendar

[think before following links] https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=nycgaysexparty@gmail.com&ctz=America/Chicago

What's the progression of anal chlamydia if left undiagnosed and untreated?

I have a fuck buddy (bisexual, closeted, cum-dump bottom) who I've placed into time-out until he can show me he's being tested regularly.

3 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

That's definitely the sort of use case I was thinking about. Can you actually generate explicit stuff or is it just tame scenarios? 

I'm not knowledgeable on AI porn creation. I wish I were as I know EXACTLY what I'd generate.

I mainly consume content and support the artists I like. I'm particularly interested in AI porn containing themes from various world religions depicting men in non-western attire.

4 hours ago, BritishCumdump said:

I know it's a contentious issue and I don't agree with the way its being handled ethically but what are people's thoughts about AI image generators for pornography? With a lot of us having very specific fantasies or having gone very extreme in our actual sex lives, is the new ability to be able to generate porn a good thing or a bad thing? 

I honestly worry that we might get trapped in our unrealistic fantasies too much. 

I absolutely LOVE AI porn. I have very specific interests in certain types of non-western ethnic men and AI porn delivers 100%.

On 6/2/2024 at 1:46 PM, Normaldude said:

 

- how do you deal with rejection in sex clubs / parties?

- what should I do to improve my chances of getting laid? should I start going to the gym? is it too late for that?

- I try to always wear a t-shirt at those clubs ( I don't wanna show my body naked ), is that also a turn off for guys?

 

thank you 

 

 

Stay until 15 minutes before closing. You'll become alot more attractive and desirable.

9 hours ago, Bottom Jim said:

Why would anyone want a blow job with a condom ? There is no risk

Because there are still risks of STIs.

16 hours ago, pigoma said:

What does politics have to do with sex? Just enjoy breeding or getting bred, we're all pigs

A. LGBTQ alphabet community is a political Democratic group/movement/agenda/block/identity, etc.

1 hour ago, verslut said:

But so many MAGA Republicans would work Trump's dick and balls if they had the opportunity.

Yeah, no. We really didn't need that visualization.

Putin perhaps.

8 hours ago, Rillion said:

Yep, they are classic immigrants that come over and have anchor babies which is something that Republicans complain about, or used to before it was pointed out that two-thirds of Trump's wife fit that description, but the anti immigration people don't seem to care if white women come over and have anchor babies...

But yes not just white people are willing to worship at the false idol of the cult of Trump. I have several black relatives that hate Democrats so much they pretend that they aren't supporting a two-bit wannabe monster just because he is giving their rich asses some tax cuts. Selfish assholes come in all races. 

You're conflating legal immigration with illegal immigration.

5 minutes ago, Rillion said:

I don't get Trump's appeal and how he has been able to turn the Republican party into a cult of personality. Sure they supported Reagan wholeheartedly but it never got this bad. My entire family used to be Republicans but have have all now voted for Democrats in every election since 2016. Trump has fundamentally changed who the base of the Republican party is. They will excuse any behavior by Trump, knowingly repeat his lies, and deny reality all because why? He beat Hillary in an election? He lets them publicly express their hate towards immigrants and minorities? He pisses liberals and smart people off? He gave them the judges that overturned Rowe and potentially Obergefell? 

Two of his wives are immigrants. Not all Trump supporters are non-immigrant white.

I'm extremely turned-off by masculine, manly dominant bottoms sexually speaking.

On the street, I seek masculine straight-acting alpha men.

But once in bed I need it a little softer, submissive, docile, feminine and willing to be demasculinized while being repeatedly penetrated.

3 hours ago, sub4oralcum said:

"...R side building a platform on false information and more base human instincts."

That's funny. No, that's hilarious! Democrats are the masters of projection. Every underhanded thing they do, they accuse others of doing. This isn't sexual freedom that's at stake. It's foreign policy, national security, the economy. You can't think with your cocks on this. 

It seems some do enjoy the liberty to think only with their dicks and potentially dick filled assholes.

I had a Sweet'N Low Daddy when I was in my 20s. He was bitter sweet and low on funds.

I tried to read through it. Got terribly lost. Copy/paste nigger got old quick. No I'm not offended.

On 5/15/2024 at 11:53 PM, BrownRiceSF said:

For many years I was a frequent visitor at a seedy, gay porno theater in downtown San Francisco.  The feeling of a warm mouth sucking and deep throating my cock in a dark theater while I watched bareback porn and was high on poppers was awesome.  I really enjoyed and miss the old men who were expert cocksuckers. I also miss the guys I regularly sucked in there too.

Too bad it closed down in 2016. 

I wonder if there are cities that still have gay porn theaters...

Mexico City

Grindr in NYC is currently a time waste and most often used for other illicit activity: theft, substance abuse, and prostitution.

I'm currently experiencing the best sex of my life with five fuck buddies I have in rotation. This current rotation is all post-pandemic. The fuck buddies before and during lockdown have all but ghosted me once all venues returned to normal operation.

• South Asian 1       - early 50s - power bottom
• South Asian 2       - late 50s - romantic bottom
• Caribbean black   - late 50s - romantic vers
• black American 1 - late 50s - on-call oral service provider
• black American 2 - late 60s - oral
• Latin American      - late 40s   power bottom has been removed from rotation due to continued Grindr double booking issues during meet-ups

I currently have an opening for a Latin power bottom that needs to be filled urgently. Both🤣

I would also highly recommend throttling time spent between buddies to sustain that new dick/ass feeling.

Trump 2024

The gay hook-up apps (Grindr) contribute to the 'constant 24/7 cruising' sex addition.

I’m not sure I can co-sign with fetishizing homeless men since where I live I see many everyday - added to the fact that I’m just one paycheck away from being homeless myself. 
 

I love capitalism! 👍🏾