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11 minutes ago, BlackDude said:

Interesting. I don’t have alot if issues with guys from Central America and Mexico. We get along just fine for the most part. 
 

But most of the Latino guys I meet for the Caribbean or South America are just as racist as the white guys. In fact, they go further.  Almost like they have something to prove. And they have no problem with American culture, as long as it’s packaged in whiteness. 

For context, in what part of the US are you located? I'm guessing South Florida.

I agree but I believe its the fact that ABS tend to be mostly oral. Its always a cocksuckers first choice.

Most bathhouses, sex parties and sex clubs I frequent guys are into anal primarily. I find myself seeking out the good cocksuckers as I LOVE good oral. I never have a problem finding asses to fuck.

Case in point - Slammers Fort Lauderdale.

The suck ramps are always half-empty and barely used. However the group fuck room (round bench) and the dark fuck room (regular bench) are always jam packed.

16 hours ago, Asnlooking said:

Interesting thread. Although I still have years before retiring, I know I want to move and retire somewhere else. I think of where often and this thread has good information. The more places I visit and think about, the more I want to retire abroad. 

How should one factor in the healthcare cost/insurance to move abroad?

Depends on the country and whether or not your are a permanent resident or naturalized citizen of said country.

For me accessibility to affordable health care as well as climate, availability of sexually active men and how the society treats its seniors are my main factors when considering places abroad.

8 hours ago, Muscledadbod said:

Where are you all headed to?

Somewhere outside of the USA where there is less political nonsense, where men are still manly as well as masculine and the cost of living is cheaper. 👍🌎

Get one of those fold out gay 'fun maps' of various large cities.

Better yet, go to gaycities.com

How old is BBC dude for context?

Sounds as if he's a gig worker using doublelist for clients.

Best bet would be a Motel 6 kind of place off of a major interstate in an OK suburb with direct access to restaurants/shopping center so you get more foot traffic if using a hook-up app.

24 minutes ago, Stevestone said:

Young white  masc muscular bottom heading to NYC Thursday-Sunday.  Will be looking for raw sex one a couple nights.  I want random men to put their sperm in me.  BBC is preferred but then again I prefer to not even see their faces.

would I have better luck at East Side? Or the Fair Theater? 

Faire would be your best bet. WAY more action and more black guys go there - many who are looking for CDs and trans.

Also check out Rainbow Playground Club in Queens. Its more accessible from Manhattan with a diverse younger crowd.

5. Get a divorce. (Pursue choices 2, 3 and 4)

I find it ironic that the SF Bay area is the only metro in the US that has two bathhouses still open. With the exception being South Florida which has three.

On 8/31/2021 at 9:39 PM, CommunityCunt said:

I’m looking travel to the best sex club in the USA and need recommendations! I’m a smooth twink and would love a night of taking bathhouse cum. Where should I go for the best action? I love taking anon gloryhole loads too so big plus if there’s options for that 

321 Slammer - Ft. Lauderdale, FL

The bathhouse scene in the US is over.

I don't think NYC offers this kind of entertainment anymore.

If so, I would imagine it would take place in the latin gay bars and clubs of Jackson Heights, Queens on Roosevelt Avenue. Those spots might still be seedy.

55 minutes ago, RawAriesBottom said:

I wasn't able to make it to CumUnionNYC last night. Total sadness. But plan on making up for it tonight. Apparently The Rainbow Playground has a sports theme night on Fridays. Which for me is a win. Sports dress up and locker room loads.  Yummmm!

I went to CumUnion last night at Rainbow Playground. It was very busy with 84 guys total. The crowd was noticeably VERY different than a normal night. Almost all new faces for sure with many younger Asians, scruffy bearded white guys and what seemed like Euro tourists from Manhattan.

I hear naked Tuesday nights get around 150 guys. I just wish they had different promoters on different nights like pre-Covid. You get a better mix that way.

21 minutes ago, takemeuseme said:

Without a doubt the most disgusting place that I've had sex is at somebody's apartment.  It's beyond comprehension how some people live.  Actually at the worst place of all I turned around and left quickly and was actually fearing my safety.  Whew!

Very true. Many hookups on Grindr live in filthy apartments. I can't deal with roaches, bedbugs and rodents.

I've already had two guys bring bugs into my home.

I have come to find out that many gays like living in squalor and its part of some kind of pig fetish thing. But I don't judge.

I'll pass. Sounds painful plus it won't be easy to get my dick and balls out easily if the cocksucker can't manage it.

It might work on a guy with a small dick.

Better yet, if you can deep-throat and lick balls at the same time. Try perfecting that first.

I started out in my mid-teens getting sucked under stall at the local mall department stores. Then in the university library men's room.

Somehow I discovered the book 'Tearoom Trade' and I use to read it in the stall while I waited for someone to suck me off between my classes. Weird that the university library even had that book in catalogue. If I remember correctly, it was in the psychology/sociology section.

Well at least I was learning and making good use of those college loans.

For me its cultural as almost all black American men, especially those who grew up in urban areas say dick. The word 'cock' sounds funny to us and I would NEVER use that term with other black men.

Cocksucker is usually replaced with 'gives head' or 'sucks good dick'.

However I do see more black men embracing the term BBC in their online profiles.

I intentionally code switch depending on my audience.

Remember after the top shoots his load down your throat and its over...ITS OVER. Let your man enjoy the orgasm then turn your focus on getting him cleaned up.

(Please don't use toilet paper)

Thank him and follow his cues as to how he likes to wind down after a good blow job.

Side use to mean cuddling but now it means just oral sex. People like to reinvent names for the same sexual behaviors to go with the current times.

I remember when it was called french and greek (active or passive)

On 1/1/2023 at 7:22 AM, Btmfag said:

I'm flirting with a 57 year old man very fit sexy but wanted to hear everyone's thoughts on the subject before it goes too far? Currently  I've only dated guys my age and don't know what I should expect?

Ok, you're over 30 years old so I'm assuming you've been around sexually. That's old in gay years. 

If you were school/college age it would be a thing.

On 12/15/2022 at 7:54 PM, AlwaysOpen said:

I was about to search for foot fetish and spotted this thread. Like RogerRay65, I just don't get into feet.  Maybe at some early point in my perversions, someone had rank feet, or maybe it is related to  how smells do or do not arouse me. A dirty hole or a leather cockring the guy wore while hosing (that has caught bits and pieces of shit and water and now smells)  will kill my sex urges , just as a guy who has profound BO ( you know the type, you can smell it from the other side of the room and onions comes to mind ) 

So here is my question- ( and I mean no judgement, so if my question comes out sideways, understand my intention) 

What exactly is it as a top you find arousing about having  feet in  the play scene?  I had a top who would come by now and then and suck my toes, fuck the space between my two feet while he held them together, and wrap things up by jacking his cock while I covered his face with my size 14's. And just as he got close he would slam his cock in my hole and cum- which really was about the only "thing" I got from the 30 minute process. 

And not to leave the bottoms out-- what about feet is such a turn on in your sex brain?  I assume ,perhaps wrongly, most of the bottoms are doing the servicing of feet, unlike my case where I pretty much just was asked to put my feet up and let the top have at them. 

 

 

I'm just attracted to bottoms with nice masculine feet. Strong arches, trimmed toenails, straight toes with no fungus or discoloration.

Nice feet are part genetics + part hygiene + cultural norms.

I've also noticed foot fetish is not big in the US. I search Grindr in other parts of the world and see so many hot guys showcasing their feet.

Has anyone been to Blowbuddies Thursday night party in midtown?

I'm not sure I want to pay 30 bucks for a three hour weeknight event...which equals around an hour and a half of rushed action.

14 hours ago, luisrojas said:

Hi. I need advice on how I can mentally detach the cock from the person. So let's say someone sends you a pic of their cock and it's beautiful and perfect and they send you a picture of their face but the person it's not your type and you don't feel attracted to them, but you still attracted to their cock, but you experience a turn-off when you meet them.

I know some people here are used to that and just enjoys the cock, but this is coming from someone who is kind of new, I can be picky, but I would like to be sluttier, but I don't know how I can just focus on the cock and ignore the rest, how can I cheat my brain? Maybe someone was in my same position before and have tips? Gloryhole isn't an option for me.

Thanks.

Won't work.

Sounds like you have a type or type(s)...which is perfectly normal.

Most gays just focus on body type, age, skin color and dick size. I find most don't care about face which is why getting a face pic online is a chore.

I have three steady fuck buddies who are not attractive (ugly) but the rest checks out. We only fuck in the dark so I just focus away from their face with no kissing. 

If yo poppa bred yo momma 'on the hole' you would not be here to read this.

🙈

NYC is slowly becoming very gay sex-less.

The best place in the US right now is by far South Florida. You have three bathhouses, one gay sex club and those gay resorts.