SomewhereonNeptune
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Answered in another thread, but one was clergy (guess which religion) and the other was a somewhat distant friend, both at 15. I won't say my first experience with either gender but it was really, really, really young and posting that here would probably get me banned. Let's just say kids can get curious and we both were, and she took "Doctor" play very seriously. 😉 -
15, he was 46 and 'one of those priests'. I instigated it...that time. 😈 I'd heard rumors about him, and one day while out biking, I passed by the local haunt where guys would cruise for other guys. There was his blue panel van with all the rugs and pillows on the floor. I caught him by surprise and was the aggressor this time (he'd tried to engage me before). I decided that was the right time, so I parked my bike against the passenger side of the van and made it clear I was interested. I was horny, I wanted to experiment and I knew what he was there for. So I hopped in and we went at it in the back of the van. Not too much later in the same year, a slightly older friend (17) came out to me and we fooled around. He wanted to fuck me but he was small, constantly came in his shorts before he could even get it up, and he couldn't get hard enough to top me. Obviously that didn't go down so well. He did the same thing with a mutual friend, we've since talked about how clumsy it all was and had some laughs. 😂🤣 No regrets on either, other than wishing I'd started earlier on and had more fun when the opportunities arose, but I was really dense in reading signals. I feel like I missed a lot by being timid and not taking chances. As someone else said, I knew from an earlier age that I was either bi/gay/pansexual or...just a freak. If I could wind the clock back, I wouldn't be as scared to experience things.
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I'm just shy of 60 now and I don't necessarily look it (no wrinkles, no crow's feet, no clear indications found in most men of a certain age). Recently hit on by someone 34 who couldn't believe my age. Same with a 29 year old who thought I was hot (I'm modest). It was weird at first for me, but I'm not complaining because -- again, bisexual perspective -- most women my age look that much plus a few, and guys haven't figured out you can't do constant sun without using facial products. I've stopped saying my age unless directly asked, then I'll let them guess. 😉
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Too late, almost did. Many years ago I was being recruited by a bank in Perth for a role there. Things ultimately didn't pan out, but I was actually looking forward to the adventure. Ok, maybe not the heat and remoteness though.
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I once worked with someone in Tucson who lamented his choice of locale. Heat is heat...sorta. Spent 2022 in the UK during their record heat (40C or 105F where I was) where no one had air conditioning, including the friends with whom I stayed. I consider us fortunate here because we deal with it better. OTOH, they have rail tracks that melt and warp and tarmac that becomes like the La Brea Tar Pits when it exceeds around 95F. Runways melted. I'm not kidding. I wouldn't consider Palm Springs. The lifestyle might be really fucking awesome, but it's a desert and as you said, they're racing headlong into water issues. Makes St. Pete look pretty good. 😊
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That was the problem with the Philippines as well. 9 degrees north of the equator and living in 90 degree temps with equal humidity percentage and not much breeze. Makes hydration an issue and their public water isn't potable. I can confirm that it's like Hell in summer. And I stayed with friends who had screens and fans, no air con, so if you like heat, imagine that same temperature air being blown around in a hot little house. Baguio isn't bad because of the elevation and cooler climate. I'd wondered if Thailand had the same issues. The government stability worries me as to what next week's coup would be, but I'm not sure it changes very much for the average person. I've heard it compared to the notion of turning "Titanic" into a weekly series: at the end of each episode...the ship sinks. That or Groundhog's Day. 🤣 I don't think I'd settle in a city like Bangkok or Pattaya or Phuket, but don't know.
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Thanks for the perspectives. Two countries are popping up on my list if I liquidate here and pick up for there. Philippines is one, though not Metro Manila, because I know people there. So I'd have a support structure. Thailand is the other, and I've heard great things about it but I need to hear more. Can you share your perspectives on having visited and whether a semi-adventurous traveler could have or make a life there? Would love to hear them if you want to DM.
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"But it's a dry heat." 🤣 (So's an oven)
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I hate to sound like everyone else, but you somewhat adjust to summer weather in Florida. It's still hot, sure. But you realize in some ways it's better than the frigid cold I endured in both NY and Philly. And we don't get the storms with 3 feet of snow. A couple other things make it more tolerable: Air Conditioning. Everyone tends to live in it during the worst of summer. Timing your tasks. We do things earlier and later in the day to avoid mid-day sweltering. I'll never be the guy on the links in the middle of the day. Did it once and that was once too many. Everyone (almost) has a pool. And ceiling fans. And ceiling fans at the pool. Beaching it. It's a good 10 degrees cooler by the water than it is further inland, plus you get the breeze off the water. Those help here, but a good 10 minutes outdoors in August and you've lost some water weight. It's better than the Philippines in the same months, which I've done without air conditioning when staying with friends. That's more brutal. And keep in mind that Philly in summer isn't that much different.
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40's? 40's!? Ha! We would have loved that where it got down to a record on the Gulf Coast a couple nights: Officially below freezing. Which in Florida only means one thing: Watch for frozen Iguanas and Geckos falling from trees. And my pussy spending the day burrowing into anything warm. 🤣 (For clarity, he's a male Tabby cat that thinks his name is "No!")
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MANY Red States Now BLOCKED!
SomewhereonNeptune replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
I'm inclined to agree with you because if you look at Bang Bros and the U.S.C 2257 disclosures, it continues to list their address as Miami. If it was illegal, I'm inclined to think that there would be a huge stink in the media and by politicians and a certain governor to make sure that was shut down. Probably true. But those of us familiar with NYC and Times Square pre-and-post Giuliani recognize that one of the things he cracked down on were "quality of life crimes" and ensuring that 42nd Street was transformed from the inherent sleaziness we all knew and loved (I still remember the theaters with live sex on stage and hookers working the crowd) into an urban Disneyfied experience that now just seems comical. Perhaps safer...but comical. I can't imagine eradicating all of that from Miami and letting more people go to Lauderdale. 🤣 -
MANY Red States Now BLOCKED!
SomewhereonNeptune replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Oh what will Bang Bros (BangBus, etc.) ever do if they can't produce around Miami? 🤣 -
What's it like being hiv wish I was
SomewhereonNeptune replied to Eddie1281's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I recall that as well being a student in NY's Greenwich Village not far from Christopher Street. Hearing about this sickness that was attributed to M/M sex and IV drug use, and being barely 18 at the time, was sobering. Do I live submit to desires or do I stifle that urge? I may be alive now because I chose the latter. And the only people who used condoms at the time were guys trying to prevent their girl from getting pregnant. How times change. -
What would you call the man who swallowed your sperm?
SomewhereonNeptune replied to sashaer's topic in General Discussion
As often as possible. 😉 -
I don't want to sound like a Fauci conspiracy theory though there's potentially some valid linkage between NIH/Fauci and Gain of Function work. Simply, I don't support the curtailment of freedoms and think that we've gone a few steps too far with Big Pharma due to lobbying and massive campaign contributions. No big surprise to that. But locking down and jailing people is rather dystopian and represents the China approach where the CCP dictates everything you can do. If the US and other countries took such a heavy-handed approach, where could we then say we have a moral superiority over that?
