I'm with you on that Grunt. I like hot man sex and I really enjoy taking a cock from a hot masculine guy.
As much as it can be fun getting fucked hard by a top who is interested only in his needs, it's been my experience that 1 in 5 tops are really good and probably 1 in 5 are lousy lays. Maybe it's a self-esteem thing but if my top (or bottom) isn't any good I'll either try and help, end it quick, or leave. Life's too short to have lousy sex, that's what my 20's were for. Now I want quality. If the top is dominate and good, GREAT! If he's hot, cuddly and good, GREAT! It just matters that he's good. Alternately, if I'm topping then I expect that I'll perform well. It really depends on what gets you off, being in sync is what makes it a great time.