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GuelphGuy72

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  1. I usually feel some pain when I get penetrated the first time. How much depends on the tops girth. It usually subsides after a minute. After that I am good for the rest of the play session whether it is multiple fucks with the same top or multiple tops. I have learnt to enjoy the brief pain.
  2. Depends on the situation. If I am at a bathhouse or sex club, I am either face down ass up in a room or blindfolded in a sling or on a fuck bench so I can’t see who is mounting me. I take any and all dick no questions. If I am on a hookup site I am a little more discerning. You need to be at least average. I prefer thicker cocks as I like having my hole stretched.
  3. I really have no idea. I frequent bathhouses so I don’t know how many of the guys that have unloaded in me are repeats from previous visits as there tend to be a lot of regulars there. Most of the time I am either face down ass up in my room lights out or I am in the sling or on the fuck bench wearing a blindfold so I really can’t see who is fucking me.
  4. I am lucky where I live I guess. In the area around Toronto, there are lots of profiles on BBRT, majority of the tops/vers tops on squirt list bareback in their interests and most guys on sniffies seem to be up for bareback. As far as the bathhouses go, I hardly ever see anyone using condoms when I go.
  5. Same experience for me. Prior to COVID shutdowns. One of the bathhouses I frequent had condom stations throughout the facility in addition to condoms in a bowel at the front desk. They did some remodeling while shutdown and when they reopened they only had condoms at the front desk. Over the last few years I’ve hardly seen anyone use a condom. Since I have been barebacking only two guys have used condoms and in both situations I was blindfolded and on play equipment so I didn’t realize until they were in me.
  6. Well put. You are only responsible for yourself and you need to take responsibility. When I first started going to bathhouses, I was condoms only. I made sure the top wore one. I always worried about being stealthed or the condom breaking. I never had this happen thankfully. I also avoided getting myself in a situation where I was not in control. Once I got on PrEP and started barebacking then I was able to comfortably let loose and attend blackout nights and other parties and get into situations where I had no control. I’m no longer on PrEP but still go to bathhouses and sex clubs only. I hit the dark rooms and offer up my hole no questions asked. I love the anonymity of it all. I know the risks and fully accept responsibility.
  7. As a kid I loved the challenge of finding places to hide. I am also a submissive bottom.
  8. Years ago I had a tumor removed from my spine. Between the tumor and the surgery there was severe nerve damage done to my pelvic floor. I could still get erections but had no sensation. I can only orgasm from prostate massage. I would get hard when bottoming as well as when sucking guys off. While my dick didn’t work I still enjoyed getting hard. I started taking Adderall to help with my ADD on April 25. My doctor told me to start with one 18mg pill per day and after a week go to two. I went to two on May 2nd. I was using a dildo the day before that and did eventually get hard before I orgasmed. At the time I didn’t think much about the delay in getting hard. On the 2nd, I was going back and forth with someone through text messaging about sexual stuff and was semi hard. Last Saturday I was bottoming at Spa Excess and noticed I was struggling to getting hard. This afternoon I was using my dildo again and was unable to get any reaction. My dick stayed completely flaccid. I know that ED can be a side affect. I have a follow up on 21st with my doctor to discuss how I am doing and will bring this up to him. Has anyone else experienced this and if so what did you do? I am really unsure how I feel about the situation. As I mentioned even though my dick no longer works, I still enjoyed getting erections while fucking. At the same time since I am a total submissive bottom there is a part of me that says to embrace possibly never getting hard again.
  9. Once I started PrEP I started going bareback only. I have never asked status unless the other Top brings it up first. I am not on PrEP anymore but still take all loads no questions.
  10. I had met him there in March. We were in the steam room and started talking. He told me he was poz no meds and I told him I was neg no PrEP. Asked if he wanted to fuck me and we went to my room. After we exchanged numbers. He messaged me last week to let me know he was going to be there again and we made arrangements to meet up. So I have taken four loads from him now but knew beforehand they where ☣️.
  11. Sorry to hear that. Doesn’t sound like they were really friends with that behavior.
  12. Great story. Would love to find a party like that.
  13. It’s amazing how many “straight” guys there are just looking for someone to suck them off since the wife doesn’t.
  14. Hot. Love straight guys who just need a warm hole to nut in.
  15. I use one that is 8” insertable length and 6” girth.
  16. Hope you’re able to repeat with him. I have had a couple guys who were really thick fuck me at bathhouses. Once I got over the initial pain it was so amazing. Definitely worth the initial pain.
  17. Took a few loads last night a Spa Excess including two from a no meds poz top.
  18. When my now ex-wife first got into being a hotwife, I would join her and the guy who was her primary fwb at the time. She went raw with him so I loved watching his raw cock sliding in and out of her. I would go down on her after he had left and eat her pussy till she orgasmed. Eventually I realized that I was watching them to see his cock and imagine I was the one being fucked especially when they did anal. I also was only eating her out to eat his cum. Over time my ex realized this as well. Especially after I confessed to wanting to have sexual with men. After that we switched to a fully open relationship where we each did our thing independently. My ex had no desire to watch me with another man or hear any stories about it. I love being watched when I am blowing guys or being fucked.
  19. I have an ass or a fuck hole. I don’t mind it being called a man cunt. I don’t like it being called a pussy as that is something a woman has.
  20. Late to the game was in my forties when I started having sex with guys. Went on PrEP at 50 and was breed for the first time not long after.
  21. I have found that wearing a jock and positioning myself so I am presenting my ass works if it is the right crowd. That can mean bending over a fuck bench or pushing my ass back while I am sucking cock at the slurp ramp. If I see a guy I am interested in, I will touch his cock. If he doesn’t push my hand away, I will start to stock it then get on my knees and blow him until he is hard. Then I will as if we wants to fuck. If he says he just wants oral I keep going until he cums. If he says yes, I get up and go to a fuck bench and bend over. The baths that I frequent, very few guys use condoms now.
  22. Similar experience for me. Not that I didn’t enjoy having sex with a woman. I just always found it to be a lot of work having to always take the lead. What I enjoyed most was when I could get her to do cowgirl. I always felt I was in the wrong roll. I would have loved if my ex-wife would have been more dominant but she was a sub like me. Until she tried hotwifing she didn’t truly realize how much of a sub she was and how unable I was to be a Dom. She is now in a monogamous D/s relationship with her boyfriend soon to be fiancee. Going all the way back to my early teens I would fantasize about taking cock in my ass. And through my adult life and two marriages it was the elephant in the room. Becoming impotent due to nerve damage to my pelvic floor from a tumour, finally led to me exploring this. I can get erections still but I have no feeling or sensation so I do not orgasm from penile stimulation. I can only orgasm from prostate massage. My ex-wife was too much of a sub to be willing to peg me. She also got frustrated with just using toys and oral on her and wanted a real cock again. I got frustrated from servicing her but getting nothing out of it for me. I know that sounds selfish but I still had needs. We started hotwifing in 2021 and moved on to an open marriage where she had her fwbs and I was able to explore sex with men. As this progressed we had less and less sexual interactions. I eventually stopped getting erections when I would play with her and she started to notice this. I have no problem getting erections when I am having sex with men either giving oral or being fucked. I usually wear a jock since I do not want any attention on my cock, so if it is on right it limits how erect I get. Even just thinking about sex with men makes me hard. I can look at naked pictures of women or watch straight porn and get no reaction now.
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