Iker80
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Well, doxypep is harder to get in some european countries I know of, so that's a not so great difference here. As for the vaccine, I just said I wanted it for meningitis, that seemed to work. Will be interesting to see how it works out for gonorrhea in the UK. I figure how that goes will change how other health organisations see it.
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Well, that would sometimes be me then! It's cool, can't be hot for every guy. But it's interesting because I think you've found a big thing I was asking about, because there are now a lot of men online locally who are fem and guys who are saying they are looking for them. I don't have the look or personality to work for them and I wonder what they're thinking and feeling. I'm the opposite of what you said as top too, I like guys who stay more traditional masculine and find the opposite a turn off. Same for the guys I meet, most of them want to go back to familiar acting after we've done whatever we've been up to. One guy I meet with likes to fist bump after we've blown each other and tell me it's been fun. I feel confused if a guy switches around to be more fem. I know I just grew up in a very gender focused world. Lots of brothers, lots of sports, 100% expectations to be that type of guy. So I don't really leave that headspace ever, not really sure how I could or would.
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Well, the difference between status unknown between testing and knowing you have an STD is like the difference recommending an investment you expect will be fine but has some risk vs recommending one you're very sure will fail. The first one feels fair enough, the second feels not fair.
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How would you describe the real male taste of semen?
Iker80 replied to a topic in General Discussion
It's salty, musky and usually has a very small hint of cooked onion. Guys with a more potent musky smell - I don't mean unwashed, just how they smell even when fresh, they usually have muskier cum. -
have you ever continued fucking someone even after they said no?
Iker80 replied to coomer's topic in General Discussion
It seems a lot of guys have enjoyed being forced or think they would enjoy it. I've heard many say this. It's not a surprise, sexual aggression is intense. I've felt it and been that way, and I've had guys be that way with me. But unless you agreed otherwise, no and stop are everyone's safe words and need to be the point where things stop. -
I looked him up and he's a very sexy guy! So I think we do like similar men :)
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It's like that, they ask to hug without asking for other things. It's a recent thing for me. I haven't taken a guy up on the idea, I'm not sure what to think about it. But I do think wanting to be hugged can make bigger guys seem better because they fit easier around you. Some I see are gay or bi, others unknown. My only hugging with a known straight guy is my stepbrother. It happened first when we were at the cabin and it was very cold and he was ill. We had clothes on because it was cold, even with the blankets, and we wouldn't hug naked anyway. Sometimes when we're out there and it's cold we still do. He likes it, it just is something that sometimes happens. I know it's nice to feel safe and that's all for him, and that's all I want it to be. I don't think that feeling would happen with a random guy though, but also I think maybe to feel safe is what the guys online want? However, the difference is we know each other properly and I always look after him. So it's different when I hug him vs. a guy you don't know from online. But of course people will have to accept what they can get when they have needs. Cis is the opposite of trans, it means you're born the gender you are. It actually has no connection with sexuality. I'm a cis man and bi.
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Interesting. Maybe I just need to take it for a while every day and see if I get used to it. It's not something I've tried yet anyway. The side effects aren't extreme for me, but enough to be uncomfortable sometimes so I'd be happy to not have them.
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I also am finding guys online now who ask me to hug with them. That's everything they want they say. Being tall and big I think they like me for that. I'm curious what they're about. Are they gay or bi? I mean they're on an app for men so probably somewhere in that place, but just hugging isn't a type of sex. And I know guys can hug as friends, I have some experience of that. It was sleeping/hugging fully clothed and didn't cross any weird boundaries. I'm sure he's fully straight.
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It is extra steps and work, there's planning ahead sometimes, and extra risks. For a long time when I was a younger guy in my 20s I liked to have sex with guys by rubbing my dick between their thighs, or them between mine. It felt good doing or receiving like that, no pain or difficulty to fit, and it's safe without a condom. I was young too, so going for STD screening was still embarrassing and I don't think I knew where to go anyway, I didn't know what kind of condoms to buy and felt awkward shopping for them, I didn't have vaccines, and sex education in school didn't say same gender people have sex at all. Prep didn't exist either. I didn't even know guys usually douche. Anal sex felt intimidating and maybe more for gay men, not a bi man like me. A more relaxed way to have sex without being risky was good. Plus I like 100% full body contact with my guy, there's something extra intimate with nothing between us and it gives you that too. So I've had many good times spooning and kissing with a guy as I stroke between his thighs. I still sometimes check out guys and think fuck, those strong thick thighs would feel so good. Thinking about it again, maybe I should look for a nice side guy :) Anyway, I think for younger guys who are not consistent with condoms or prep, maybe less going to sex health clinics and aren't comfortable with catching anything, sex without anal is a good choice. I've noticed a lot of sides online are under 30 years guys. Same for guys who live in countries where access to healthcare for men who have sex with men is limited too, so they've not got prep, not had vaccines, etc. Or a bi guy with a gf or wife and he finds it is difficult to access these things discreetly too. It's very fair to weigh the choice differently.
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Super frustrating to hear you didn't get healthcare you want to get and could be helped by. I'm wondering how accurate what they said was. The CDC website say about a Bexsero schedule so I think some people are getting it in the US. I think I understand one medical are a insurance company? I didn't try with insurance, I didn't expect they'd do it for me for this reason, or another reason I could say to them, so I did have to just pay for it. That of course comes with it's own barrier when you have to do that, so not itself a perfect option either, but it did work. Can you just go to a pharmacy and get vaccines you pay for in the US or are they more restricted than European countries? With a pharmacist approval you get so far in my experience whatever you want. I have had a lot of vaccines this way for many things and they ask few questions normally. Where the CDC mention it: [think before following links] https://www.cdc.gov/meningococcal/hcp/vaccine-recommendations/index.html
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Yeah, I thought I was good with it at first. My first few times it made my stomach bad, then I seemed to get used to it for a bit, then after a while my stomach didn't like it again. So I have to be careful when I take prep, not too much coffee, maybe no coffee if it's being very difficult :( avoid spicy food, just eat more carefully than normal. And not go hungry too long. I take it and half hour later I have a weird feeling in my stomach, but have a bagel or something and it's ok. I'm learning how to manage it when taking prep and it's helping. Maybe my stomach will get ok with it in time.
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So things moved fast when I found a pharmacy to do it and I got a first injection today. I have a sore arm but so far going alright. I don't expect any big side effects anyway, just less chance to get gonorrhoea.
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First porn was lame. I found my step dad's single porno VHS tape and even as a teenager with nothing to compared it I thought "this porn sucks!" the actors were faking it. No dick in pussy shots, all just him pumping away and pretending he was inside her from behind. Not even sure they showed his dick hard. And they were making stupid noises and playing loud elevator music. Really crap porn. First gay porn was Cazzo stuff. 1000000% better. Lots of proper dick shots and dick in ass and cum shots. Popular American porn like Sean Cody seemed a lot about twinks then, which are alright but I don't crave twinks. I liked, and still like, rougher guys, guy next door guys with beards, hairy chests, that's what makes me horny.
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As much as I love a good fucking, it's totally fair for a gay/bi guy to not enjoy it, and a word to say not wanting it is useful. I find a range of guys online, from just wanting to wank together to porn - so no touching at all, to guys in the middle who want to kiss and wank each other, to guys who want to fist, spit in each others mouths and get cum in them. We're all somewhere on the scale, and it's nothing wrong with anyone. Just be upfront what you want I think and find your match. But I have to admit I so far pass by side guys. For me the stuff they want to do is the start, not the whole thing. I'd like to get more open minded to this, perhaps it can be a whole thing with the right guy. But yeah, there's no substitute for getting your prostate worked over or fucking a guy, no plans to quit that ever!
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It's hot in porn, it makes you think wow that must be intense! But it's not important in reality, lots if things affect how much you like a guy and how well things are going. I don't rate dick size as a meaningful way to tell how much fun you'll have with a guy.
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About 9" I think. Was only a couple of weeks ago. He wanted to lie down with a blindfold on and I come visit, door open, I ride him. I said he looked big in the pic he sent, but he was saying no it's just the photo. Well I was there in person and he's big, hard and ready to go, so I figured I'd give it a try. I'm tight and more used to 5-7" guys, so this was going to be intense. Lucky for me he has a big bottle of decent lube ready, so I lube him and get on to ride. Hurt a bit going in, but I relaxed and slowly slide down him. When I was at 7" I stopped and told him this was the deepest I've ever had a guy and everything next is virgin hole before taking him all in me. He had a massive smile then and kept it for the rest of the fuck. Mostly he wanted to grind in me nuts deep, holding my legs with his hands and pulling his hips up to me as I squeezed and worked him with my hole. Wasn't my most orgasmic fuck, I think shorter guys often bump my prostate better when they're nuts deep, and that there's better positions for long guys. Still had a lot of fun with him and would do it again. It's just long dick easily goes past the prostate, so it's better for positions where you can use the length, not just deep grinding. I'm fairly long and I think it's better used for spooning or missionary and finding the most intense angle and depth to hit your guy's prostate. Can really get a guy moaning when you find it.
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Looks like the UK has now giving a vaccine that make it less easy to get gonorrhoea. It's a meningitis vaccine that they discovered also prevents 30-40% of gonorrhoea because they're similar bacteria. I'm going to try getting it in my own country as it's an available vaccine called Bexsero. It's an interesting change to have something for gonorrhoea, and maybe something more effective will be made in the future. [think before following links] https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/meningococcal-b-menb-vaccination-against-gonorrhoea-guide/a-guide-to-the-meningococcal-b-vaccine-for-protection-against-gonorrhoea
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Never tried them, I think maybe they'll make me sick and I don't want to stop having fun? It seems all solvent things make me ill, like using strong glue or paint for a project. The smell of paint in a house can make me feel a headache for days. I don't know why because I'm fit and healthy, just get sick easily from that stuff. But some of the stories here are hot and make me wonder.
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On demand is flexible and pretty easy when you know the rules. And when you do it right you're protected for the times you have sex without taking tablets all the time. For example when I have a meet with a guy and use prep on demand I only need to take four tablets total. And it doesn't matter if you go a long time between meets because for the weeks or months you don't need it the tablets just go in the cupboard and you don't need to think about or take any. I take them either for a specific meet, which means just four tablets total. Or I take them in advance for a weekend or holiday away when I'll probably meet one or more guys and just want to be ready to have fun whenever that happens during the trip. The rules for covering a weekend or holiday depend which days you have sex, and you'd need to learn the rules from a health professional, but following what I've been taught a 7 day holiday would be at maximum 10 tablets total for me, which isn't a lot really for being covered for a whole week long holiday or business trip. The tablets I get have pretty long dates on them so it's ok to put them away for a while. I think the injection is not a thing where I live, but maybe in the future. It would have the downside of having to go in for injections, but it could be good to avoid affecting my stomach as I won't be eating it. Handy for some guys. Also forgetful guys, I know some are bad at remembering pills. A friend I meet for fun has a memory problem and I always message him before and the two days after to take them if we meet or he meets another guy. Maybe there should be a prep app for guys who need reminding to take it and help to remember if they already did.
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Anyone else experiencing anal orgasms?
Iker80 replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in General Discussion
All guys, even totally straight ones use their prostate. It's why guys repeatedly clench their ass when they're wanking or fucking, they're squeezing their prostate because they just know it feels good doing that. So all male orgasms have a bit of prostate play in them. You can also rub your guy's prostate from outside by massaging the right area under his nuts. It's really good and ok for guys who don't like anything in their ass. But if you want to make it feel outright amazing you've got to go to the source. Prostate orgasms are intense, by far the most pleasurable thing I've ever felt. Now I've had a few good prostate orgasms I'm very aware of mine, like how it feels and where it is. When I get turned on I can feel it becoming sensitive just like my dick does when I'm hard. Feels like this constant warm pleasure glow inside me when it's excited. I don't like toys or fingers inside me but I can wank my prostate by repeatedly squeezing my butt. Love to do that when I'm full of cum and want to have a prostate orgasm, either because the guy topping me didn't make it happen, or just because I feel like having another one. The sensation of my prostate being squeezed over and over again and my wet cum filled hole tightening and relaxing usually turns in to a prostate orgasm. I only have these orgasms when another guy is fucking me or I'm full of cum, so I need other guys to help me with this. -
If you want freedom to hookup short notice maybe daily prep is better? I know there's reasons why guys might not want to take it daily though. For example I haven't switched to daily because it makes my stomach more sensitive with food and I don't want to be dealing with that all the time. But for many guys it seems to be all ok and no problems, so it's an option for them.
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Watching porn while feeding or breeding
Iker80 replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
I like my guy focused on me and me focused on him. I want to feel sexy and him to feel sexy. If I'm blowing a guy I want his hands in my hair, tell me what he likes, properly connect. Looking on his phone wouldn't work for me. As for playing in the background, I have ADHD and my brain doesn't ignore stuff well, so porn in the background or even just music, it pulls my attention away. I don't know what to do with multiple attention grabbing things and get overloaded. Sometimes watching porn together is the meet plan, some bi and curious guys just want to watch porn and wank together. That's cool. If I'm choosing I always choose something with at least one guy like the guy I'm with. Similar age and style. It's confusing as a 30-something hairy guy with dark hair to meet with a guy who only wants to watch blond smooth twink porn. Good to know if a guy is into you or not, no need to be unclear. -
I always think this stuff is for condom sex, but recently I had bare sex with a guy who used it. He didn't say and I didn't find out until later. Maybe surprising, but it wasn't bad. He still felt tight and warm, it just took more strokes to go through all the feelings I normally get. I'd consider using it with a guy who cums fast, might help him last longer and still have the same fun. No idea what it would do to the feelings I get when I bottom, that would be interesting but don't know if I want to risk not enjoying a fuck trying it out. I'm wondering when did you find out it was numbing lube? I only knew after. I might have found it hard if I knew before, it would have distracted me thinking I'd go numb. But I can get distracted in my head like that by things.
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Apps are still working for me, but always mixed results. Flaky guys, possibly fake ones, they've always been there. The real guys who want to meet though, it's no trouble, very easily 30-60 minutes from hi to being in person with that kind of guy. One guy was nearby and was about 20 minutes from hi to being nuts deep inside him. I really liked his energy :) Most times, if it's going to happen, it happens quickly with a guy. Long term chat mostly doesn't lead to much - but sometimes it leads to the best meets. I'll do it sometimes if the guy is unavailable for believable reason and I have a good feeling about him. Bi married guys can take longer to meet. I'll also talk a while if a guy is fun to talk with, it's alright sometimes, pics and talking are fun. The thing with an app is you can get to talk longer and I've had some long conversations with guys and really got to know what they like, and discovered we're a great match, and eventually met. I only invest the time in each guy I feel good about, don't go over that or it's not fun any more. And a good meet with a new guy, they happen when they happen, some things can't be made to happen right away.
