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If you're really in to a guy and want him in you it's easier. I've been surprised by that a couple of times. I'm generally a bit tight at first and need to work up to anything big. These guys I really wanted were a lot easier though.

I've been getting with an FTM bear (Dan) in his mid-20s for a while now. It's been great, but no fucking or even teasing his entrance with the tip because he's worried about getting some sperm in him. We've got a rare chance of a three way with a mostly straight guy I know coming up this weekend, but this guy really wants to fuck. It would be hot to finally do it. Dan's on the fence but interested in the idea. He's been on T for a long time now and is very hairy, got a beard. Has anyone had or know about any accidents with FTM guys on T, is it a thing that actually happens sometimes or just one of those super-rare things?

Sure, sometimes I want sex, sex and more sex. Then I have a while when I don't really care. Well, if a hot guy gets my attention I might change my mind, but mostly I'll be busy doing whatever else I'm in to at that moment and enjoying my personal space. I can really need that space at times and don't want to kiss, have sex. whatever, then the next day I want to get tangled up with a hot guy and kiss for ages. I just follow the phases. They are what they are and I don't mind them.

Total access to fuck any guy any time I want to. I'll be walking down the street and see a fit guy with a fuckable arse and I just want to walk over, pull down his pants and fuck him. No questions, just fuck him. Kiss, make out as we do it, but in the end a good solid pump session in his eager hole and blow a big load in him, then he pulls his pants back up, I say thanks man, and off we go.

Depends on the guy. No way I'm bringing it up with the average closeted or bi-curious guy, he's just going to freak out when condoms and stuff start coming up. He just wants to fuck, that's it. Keep it simple and we'll have fun. Very rarely other guys have asked me, but it's rare.

Hairy arse is great. Doesn't matter if it's a little, or lots, but I love it when a guys pants come off and he's got dense crack hair. Looks hot and feels excellent running my dick through it. Hairy can help too. I've hooked up with a lot of bi curious guys, the kind of guys who aren't starting out planning on getting fucked. They've never seen their hole as a thing that feels good. Or even if it's something they've wanted they feel it isn't something a guy should want or do. You can't ask a guy like this if he wants to be fucked or make any kind of direct approach on his butt, he's just going to shut it down soon as your dick touches his hole. But if a guy's hairy it's a lot easier to get in him. I tell him how hairy and masculine he is. Got to keep reinforcing he's a guy. Talk about how good it feels rubbing my dick in his hair while rubbing it against his leg or rolling it in his treasure trail. Then the butt, I tell him how his butt is like a sexy, hairy rugby player I used to play with and how hot it was stroking my dick in his hair. Guys seem to like this and most let me stroke my dick in their crack now. Missionary or spooning is good. Bump and tease his hole, but don't rush him. He'll relax and open up a bit because it feels good having your hole teased. I love a guys legs too so I'll be telling him how great his strong, sexy legs are as I pull his legs around me. If he lets me start dipping a bit, chances are high he'll let me fuck him now. It's never been a balls deep or long fuck with one of these guys, but some precum lubed heavy dipping and blow a load inside him is great for a first time or low experience guy. So yeah, hairy can be great

I heard 5-6" is average size, so 7" is a big dick.

Never been in prison, but you can always wank the guy off and use his cum as lube, or get a mate to wank in a cup and use that. I've done both before.

I had sex with this greek taxi driver in my early 20s. He was a bi, super down low, early 40s, married dad with a whole lot of kids. He was a curious lurker on the site, but I wanted him and we talked a bit. I promised he could top as much and as long as long he liked and eventually he said yes. He was scruffy-handsome and crazy hairy, like his chest had proper fur. I've got a kink for dad dick and I love hair, so it felt great getting tangled up with such a hairy guy and feel his hard dad dick. I can see how he ended up with so many kids. This guy had stamina. Said I was the second guy he'd been with and his first time fucking a guy, which I believe. He was horny for it and wanted to get a hotel room, and after some kissing and blowing we got down to him fucking me with a condom on. He felt great, I had my first anal orgasm with him. Then I felt him cum. I immediately was sure the condom had broken. I could feel his dick pulsing and I felt this slippery, hot liquid sensation inside my butt. I was 100% a condom user at this point, but this felt amazing. I was tiny bit freaked at being cum in, but I figured he was telling the truth about me being his first guy fuck. When he pulled out the condom was actually fine and full of cum. He just shoots huge loads. I was a relieved and kind of disappointed. We fucked for several hours, always with a condom, and he felt as good every time he cum. But the idea was planted. I kept daydreaming about him fucking me rawdog with our hairy chests tangling up and feeling him bucking and shooting hot cum inside me. I was sure it would feel even more intense. I asked him later to meet up again and do it like that. I believed what he said about being his first time so I was down for it. But he felt guilty about cheating on his wife and we never met again. I didn't find another guy I felt ok doing it with until PrEP came along, then I just went for it like I wanted to with a totally random hookup. I wanted to feel liberated, and I did when I let him cum in me without a condom.

Nice! Spontaneous sex with guys is great, it keeps things exciting

It intense how it makes you become like one, but it needs the right kind of guy. Always happy find one who is up for that kind of experience. But like you said a bit rare. Hookup app bottoms have been rubbish around here lately. Most want a load but not letting me fuck them much. But I want a full experience. I've got excited about topping him, so I want to feel like I've properly had the guy I want to fuck, even if it's just a few minutes so that his warm hole makes me cum. It's when I can feel him relax inside and that familiar squeezing and his body response that tells me he's enjoying it, that's when I get really turned on and feel ready to cum in him. You can tell when it's feeling good for him, even if he's one of those quiet guys or a guy who doesn't want to admit how good it feels. And that's when I want to pump a load in him, when he's fully given his butt to me. We've got a lot of down low workmen and army types around here, many of them low mileage bottoms or virgin, and they're often a lot better than the out gay guys. They'll let me fuck them sometimes and it's great, but I'm not going to be a dick and ride an inexperienced guy for half an hour. Sometimes the best way is finding a guy, doesn't matter if he's 20 or 45, just as long as he's low experience bottoming or a virgin and teaching him how to enjoy bottoming over a period of time, not just to get in the habit of taking awkward pokes for loads. Bi guys like me who've been in long term relationships with a woman usually understand the skill a top can have in giving someone pleasure with their dick and let me do my thing in them, so they're good to look out for.

It depends. I've got a wide range. Fortunately, I can stay hard for as long as I like (provided I don't drink any beer!) so there's no need to rush. At the low end sometimes all we've got is a few minutes because the guy is sneaking in a fuck the gf won't know about on his way home from work, or we've cruised each other and need to do it fast while we're alone. I can get the job done in less than five if needed. The best fast fucks are intense and animal like with no chat or messing around. Often I don't say a word, or nothing after 'hey'. If we're going to do it like dogs and go from seeing each other to immediately fucking there's no point getting all chit chat. It's physical. It's easier to show a guy what I want and it happens quickly. It's always a huge orgasm when it's been a quick fuck. At the high end I've had experiences with guys where they sit in my lap, my dick inside them, and we just hang out enjoying the feeling. Relax, kiss. No pumping, no trying to cum. Just me inside him. Nothing happens right away, but it gets more and more intense as all the little feelings get stronger. This can be 30 minutes, 45, nobody's counting, that's not what it's about. But it's a long time and you bond and get a kind of intimacy that doesn't happen any other way I know about. When I move, even a tiny bit, he responds. If my dick throbs he tightens, which makes me throb more, and it keeps growing. At first you get really relaxed, but at the feelings grow it gets intense until you cum.

Very little over the years. I hook up mainly with DL bi guys. There's a lot of workmen and truck driver type guys around here passing through and they want to try stuff discretely when they're well away from home. There's a few cruising places, but mostly I check out the empty grindr profiles for them. There's ways to spot their profiles. Since I've had a lot of these guys cum in me, or me in them without anything happening, these guys don't seem to be a high risk group. A lot of them are just jacking off together or blowing each other. It takes some warming up to get them to fuck or be fucked and a lot have been first time.

Guys don't need to be gripped hard to feel good and orgasm. Sometimes I wank by just running a finger up and down the underside of my dick, from my balls to the tip and back again. It feels intense, I'm the one doing it and I'm bucking around. When I finally cum it's a huge one. I'm not gripping my dick when I wank like that, so grip doesn't matter at all. Guys might need a tight grip to cum if that's just what they're used to doing, or if they're nervous, not horny enough, stuff like that, but they could enjoy all kinds of holes if they were in the right headspace and let the orgasm come to them, not chase after it.

I've got to be in the mood to blow a guy, but when I am in that mood I'll be sucking a friend usually, and I'm going to do the job properly. I've got a dick, I know a proper blowjob from a crap half arsed one and I'm not going to be that guy who doesn't do it properly and complains or gives up after a bit. You've got to suck his nuts, lick the shaft, don't rush him. Blow him like it's your dick being sucked, then you know you're doing it properly. I don't rush at it. I like feeling him in my mouth and how he responds. Every guy is different. Some stay still, others buck around. Some grunt, others stay pretty quiet. Love a guy who gets his hands in my hair and pulls me onto his dick. And completing a proper blowjob means he cums in my mouth. I know that nothing feels as good as finishing in a guys mouth, so when I'm blowing that's how we're going to finish it.

Loads of them, and it depends on the mood too. But here's a few Logan Stevens. This guy was a hot twink, then he turned in to this sexy daddy. He's just got whatever it is that makes a guy hot, and he seems genuine and cool so he's the kind of guy you could relax and hang out with. Plus he seems to be totally vers which always makes things fun for me. Kieran. This Aussie guy who was in porn way back. I think he was the first BB porn I watched (him or the also very sexy Peto Coast). He's like the sweetest and filthiest guy all at the same time, great energy. This onlyfans guy called mad-dick who does wank videos. He's hairy, handsome, great beard, totally my type, but it's how much he gets in to cumming that gets me horny. He's moaning, grunting and always shoots a huge messy load. Any guy that gets that excited to blow a load is hot, it just helps that he's my type. Would be fucking hot to feel him grunting and blasting it in me. Tim Kruger. He's like the porn equivalent of a sleeper car. No disrespect, he's handsome, but his whole look is super guy next door. But when he fucks a guy you can tell he's great at it. Hot that he does it bb now. Cliff Jensen. I've always liked a hot skater dude. Got a bit of a chaotic edge too. Teddy (Sean Cody model). He's handsome, but he's also just so fucking big, like the entire guy. And he got a fat dick that gets rock hard and cums lots. I almost never get to be the smaller guy, so watching him gets me horny thinking about how good he'd feel fucking me. Ok, I can think of loads more hot porn guys, so I guess I'll have to get back this some other time.

Thanks for this. He was out of order, but it's good to hear that from someone else. I agree, talking about stuff before doing it is how to avoid it going badly. I get freaked out by anything involving suffocating, choking, whatever. Like I don't even like it on TV and I'll have flashbacks for weeks afterwards. So this was never going to end well. I'm on his crazy hookup list for sure. I don't know if it was a nosebleed or something busted, but his nose got messed up. I'm not too worried about it, I mean what's he going to do, call the cops and say he met a random guy for sex, tried to choke him and got headbutted. No way that's going to happen. But I'm thinking things could have gotten worse and it's not good meeting up with guys if I can get like this again. And I've got a bunch of stuff that might make me angry if it happened, and I'm feeling kind of stressed. But I know who I'd like, so I'll wait for next time he's in the area. He's chill and won't try anything weird. That's the best example of situation matters that I've seen in a long time. Getting spat in the face outside of a kink situation isn't cool. Sounds scary and like he didn't read the situation at all right. What a jerk. Sounds like he didn't even remember who was who at that point. I had a situation a bit like that one time. I was with a guy I didn't know too well and he invited a 3rd we'd never met. Fair enough. Anyway 3rd guy shows up and he's chilled out and I like him, but when he goes to the bathroom the first guy is not happy because he's a bit chunky and saying he wants me to make him to go. I decided best way to do it was to tell 3rd guy I think he's hot, but this guy doesn't, so let's get out of here. I was up for some fun and we made the most of the 30 seconds in the lift, but neither of us had a place to hang out so we ended up having Chinese and eating it sat on the pavement. One of those weird nights you only have in a big city. Weird situation. I sometimes meet with 'straight' guys who don't want to kiss and things, but they're not kissing me all over and eating my ass either. I'd have thought kissing was ok with a guy like that too

I've seen topics about has a guy ever been angry or aggressive with you during a hookup, but none asking if we've ever been that guy? I had a meet with a guy who did something dumb. He decided to try choking me. We didn't talk about this and I didn't expect it. I've got some PTSD issues that I normally keep well enough in control of, but I'm kinda twitchy about my neck and I got very angry. I don't want to be hooking up with anyone new at the moment now because I'm thinking what if they trigger something again. I'm going to think about it for a bit. I still feel ok with the guys I already know, I know they don't cause issues. I'm wondering has anyone else had something like this experience?

I'm horny and impulsive, and there's a lot of hot guys in the world, and some of them think the same about me. Sooner or later we find each other. The more I try to be good and monogamous the more horny I get and the more I'm checking out guys. And you know where it's mutual. It's not that I have any turn on for cheating, it just happens, and the release after being so horny for something with another guy is intense. I rationalise it to myself later, because it was just 100% a fun release with another guy who needed it too, that it's ok because we're both guys and nobody is going to get pregnant or expect it to turn in to some kind of romance, but it's still cheating. But temptation happens. Imagine you've been monogamous for 6 months and then a really hot guy is cruising you, he's exactly your type. I don't feel like I'm choosing, it just happens. We kiss, we stroke each others dicks, things happen. It's best to have a partner who understands, but society isn't accepting about guys who like doing it with other men. Loads of us out there, but nobody really talks about it. There's a lot of great guys who would be an awesome bf or husband to someone, but they aren't good with monogamy. One of the guys I know is an amazing bf to his partner, he loves her and takes great care of her (she's very ill), but he has hookups with guys sometimes. Currently I'm single and that's a good thing at the moment, but I'd like to be in a relationship one day that accepts monogamy isn't suitable for me. I'm not sure that will happen though.

I totally get that. Sex is massively about what's going on in our heads. I top a lot more than I bottom, so I've got to be convinced to give up my butt. It's mostly about him being the right guy with the right kind of connection. If I get horny thinking about him thrusting inside me, my legs around him, having him taking pleasure from me and in my space like that, then he's good to go. Some men I just want to get inside me right now, others take some getting to know first. But whatever happens I want a guy who feels masculine, whose going to get lost in the feeling and just do his thing. Big plus points if he's noisy. Now I think about it, dick size isn't part of that at all. Some dicks do feel better than others, size/shape can do different stuff inside me, but main thing is the guy getting me horny for it more than anything else. And I was horny for it with Brian. He's a big handsome guy and after blasting a lot of satisfying loads inside him I wanted to share my butt with him. Even if I hadn't felt much physically I wanted this with him and I would have been happy to feel him enjoying it. I think it can be easier to feel the guy cumming when he's not too deep inside? Sounds like a hot meet too. Yeah, I think same for me, other things matter a lot more. Good to hear you've been having fun with different size guys. It can be a thing like you say though, expecting the bigger guy is always top. But it's a free world, we don't need to anything any way except how we want. Brian (you guessed right, it's not his real name) is a pretty cool guy, I like the way he's masculine without being fake about it. He's late 20s so about ten years younger than me. He's kind of shy though and doesn't talk a lot. Probably why he's a van driver. I'm curious to learn more about him. But he got totally naked for the first time with me now, so hopefully he feels more relaxed. Dildos and toys don't work with my butt, they don't turn me on so I'm tight and it hurts. So if I'm going to try different shapes and sizes they're going to have to be real dicks. But like you I'm way more in to the mental and connection side of sex. Being attracted to each other, then the intensity of doing it and the release is a massive thing. It's often the biggest thing I remember about sex. That sounds painful! Totally agree. I wanted to do it and we had a great time. It was frustrating to hear he usually gets his dick ignored and felt like it wasn't big enough. Like a lot of guys here I'm about the experience and connection, not size.

I've been doing it with this guy Brian for a while and had a hot experience with him at the weekend. He's a pretty big guy, about 6', slim, kinda hairy and has one of the best beards I've seen. Thick, dark, soft and a bit wavy. I've had a lot of fun kissing him and running my fingers through his beard. We mostly meet when his truck route takes him through my area. He's a bit of a odd guy, he's not much good for talking and he's always been shy about getting his clothes off for some reason. He doesn't mind being touched, grab his butt, even pull his t-shirt up a bit and play with his treasure trail, no problem, but until the weekend I'd never seem him fully naked and he'd always been pretty clear his dick was a hands off place. He'd move my hand if I got near it. I've always wanted him naked though, he's a sexy lean otter and totally my type. Usually we hang out a while kissing then he'll blow me until he's got a big load in his beard and then we're done. Sometimes he wants to be fucked though. It's always kind of down to business when we do that, he just pulls his jeans and boxers down a bit to expose his hairy butt and lie face down, or on his back with his legs up for me to enter him. I like getting intimate usually, kissing and stuff when fucking, but he just wants to lie there and take it. He's got a super fuckable butt though, and he moans and grunts a lot. Never asked for a condom, takes it as hard and as long as I want, and is cool with me shooting in him. So I can't complain. Sometimes he shoots a load in his boxers too, I can feel that familiar clenching in his hole and he's making the noises. I wonder how many other guys he's letting fuck him. On Friday, I told him he's a sexy guy and if he ever wants it's cool to top me, and I tell him how I'd like to make him cum too. After a while he says guys never want him on top because he's small. Eventually he gets it out and he's about 2.5" hard. Big nuts though. He says that other guys just ignore it mostly and never want to bottom for him, he's never topped. Took some convincing but it was about time he got in a guy's butt. I expected to have fun, he's a hot guy and I've got a pretty sensitive hole. Having the entrance teased with a dick feels great. But I had way more fun than I expected when Brian did it. He was rock hard and when he was pumping at my hole he was bumping and teasing it great, just dipping the tip of his dick in and out and leaking precum. A few times when I was really getting in to it and forgetting I pushed my hips up and expected to feel him enter me fully. Thing is, I loved being that dick hungry with him teasing my hole and never getting completely filled. He teased the hell out of my hole. He eventually cum with his tip pushed just inside me. I was relaxed and open so his shots went deep. I really felt the hot pulses of cum entering me and filling me. No prostate orgasms, but I definitely felt something happening with it when his hot cum filled me up. So, I'm wondering, do other guys ever bottom with small tops, and what does it feel like for them?

It's not something I'm seeking. I dream about a future without any STDs where sex is more free and simple. But I understand kink and I think it's a kink for some guys. I think some kinks are better as an idea and not a reality. All changes to our bodies, like catching something, or taking medicines, come with a chance they'll go badly. PrEP is a medicine though and I'm willing to take it so I can bb sometimes. So do I have a bb kink? I don't know. Can we call sex like our ancestors always had it a kink? Maybe it is with modern context of STDs? But I figure PrEP was a minor risk for the benefits, I mean it's not like I have to keep taking it if there's ever a problem. I guess how willing we are to go for our kinks and wants is a very personal thing. I think it's good to remember though sex is just one part of our lives, and there's a massive range of things to enjoy and not every kink has to happen for us to have a great time. It's also good to have a good understanding what something is before doing it.

Hopefully he'll like the idea too! Being horny has always been the the thing that leads to it happening for me. But yeah, it's not so great if there's any regrets later so like others I don't want to encourage it too much.

What gets guys shagging each other bare is always one very simple thing, being horny. Earlier this year I got fucked bare for the first time by a guy Id been hooking up with for a while. A stocky ginger guy in his 30s. He's got big thighs and can fuck hard. He's got a gf and is super careful normally so always with a condom. In the morning we'd had sex before work like usual with a condom. I messaged him later that evening with a picture of my butt (in my work pants, not naked) and told him I'd been working hard all day but kept thinking about him inside me. How much he turns me on and how it was great to start my day with his dick giving me a prostate orgasm. Then I told him I'd been thinking what if he'd filled me with his cum. I'd have been horny hanging out with the crew with that sexy hot wet feeling inside my manhole, knowing I'm full of his cum and these straight guys would never guess I'd let a big hairy guy fuck me that morning. And that I'm sure with one of his big loads I'd have felt juicy all day and would be lying in bed now still feeling him inside me, wanking in my work gear as I imagine how deep his sperm must be by now. He somehow managed to leave work early and was nuts deep in me without a condom about an hour later. Can't promise it will work on everyone, but getting a guy really horny can work great sometimes. He might have regrets or be stressed out after though. Some guys might even vanish after that. My guy took it pretty alright, so that was cool. These days we only do it bare right after I've been tested, but that's alright and it's good we get the occasional raw fuck in. They're a lot more intense. How horny a guy's got to get though is going to vary. Worst case situation is he's got a lot of sex-negative ideas and thinks bare sex is a bad thing only for irresponsible guys, so that's going to take a lot of being horny to overcome. Or maybe he's got to be really careful because he's got a wife/gf who can't find out. All kinds of reasons. The thing is, what are your reasons for wanting it bare with him? If you just want an arse full of cum, well there's plenty of guys who can give you that without any problems. If there's something specific about that guy then tell him why you want to do it bare with him. I mean like what about him is different and makes you want it. With guys I find keep it simple and horny, we're good with that.

Personally, I'd totally recommend it. PrEP is a good idea though if you're not certain about the guy's situation.