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So things moved fast when I found a pharmacy to do it and I got a first injection today. I have a sore arm but so far going alright. I don't expect any big side effects anyway, just less chance to get gonorrhoea.

First porn was lame. I found my step dad's single porno VHS tape and even as a teenager with nothing to compared it I thought "this porn sucks!" the actors were faking it. No dick in pussy shots, all just him pumping away and pretending he was inside her from behind. Not even sure they showed his dick hard. And they were making stupid noises and playing loud elevator music. Really crap porn. First gay porn was Cazzo stuff. 1000000% better. Lots of proper dick shots and dick in ass and cum shots. Popular American porn like Sean Cody seemed a lot about twinks then, which are alright but I don't crave twinks. I liked, and still like, rougher guys, guy next door guys with beards, hairy chests, that's what makes me horny.

As much as I love a good fucking, it's totally fair for a gay/bi guy to not enjoy it, and a word to say not wanting it is useful. I find a range of guys online, from just wanting to wank together to porn - so no touching at all, to guys in the middle who want to kiss and wank each other, to guys who want to fist, spit in each others mouths and get cum in them. We're all somewhere on the scale, and it's nothing wrong with anyone. Just be upfront what you want I think and find your match. But I have to admit I so far pass by side guys. For me the stuff they want to do is the start, not the whole thing. I'd like to get more open minded to this, perhaps it can be a whole thing with the right guy. But yeah, there's no substitute for getting your prostate worked over or fucking a guy, no plans to quit that ever!

It's hot in porn, it makes you think wow that must be intense! But it's not important in reality, lots if things affect how much you like a guy and how well things are going. I don't rate dick size as a meaningful way to tell how much fun you'll have with a guy.

About 9" I think. Was only a couple of weeks ago. He wanted to lie down with a blindfold on and I come visit, door open, I ride him. I said he looked big in the pic he sent, but he was saying no it's just the photo. Well I was there in person and he's big, hard and ready to go, so I figured I'd give it a try. I'm tight and more used to 5-7" guys, so this was going to be intense. Lucky for me he has a big bottle of decent lube ready, so I lube him and get on to ride. Hurt a bit going in, but I relaxed and slowly slide down him. When I was at 7" I stopped and told him this was the deepest I've ever had a guy and everything next is virgin hole before taking him all in me. He had a massive smile then and kept it for the rest of the fuck. Mostly he wanted to grind in me nuts deep, holding my legs with his hands and pulling his hips up to me as I squeezed and worked him with my hole. Wasn't my most orgasmic fuck, I think shorter guys often bump my prostate better when they're nuts deep, and that there's better positions for long guys. Still had a lot of fun with him and would do it again. It's just long dick easily goes past the prostate, so it's better for positions where you can use the length, not just deep grinding. I'm fairly long and I think it's better used for spooning or missionary and finding the most intense angle and depth to hit your guy's prostate. Can really get a guy moaning when you find it.

Looks like the UK has now giving a vaccine that make it less easy to get gonorrhoea. It's a meningitis vaccine that they discovered also prevents 30-40% of gonorrhoea because they're similar bacteria. I'm going to try getting it in my own country as it's an available vaccine called Bexsero. It's an interesting change to have something for gonorrhoea, and maybe something more effective will be made in the future. [think before following links] https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/meningococcal-b-menb-vaccination-against-gonorrhoea-guide/a-guide-to-the-meningococcal-b-vaccine-for-protection-against-gonorrhoea

Never tried them, I think maybe they'll make me sick and I don't want to stop having fun? It seems all solvent things make me ill, like using strong glue or paint for a project. The smell of paint in a house can make me feel a headache for days. I don't know why because I'm fit and healthy, just get sick easily from that stuff. But some of the stories here are hot and make me wonder.

On demand is flexible and pretty easy when you know the rules. And when you do it right you're protected for the times you have sex without taking tablets all the time. For example when I have a meet with a guy and use prep on demand I only need to take four tablets total. And it doesn't matter if you go a long time between meets because for the weeks or months you don't need it the tablets just go in the cupboard and you don't need to think about or take any. I take them either for a specific meet, which means just four tablets total. Or I take them in advance for a weekend or holiday away when I'll probably meet one or more guys and just want to be ready to have fun whenever that happens during the trip. The rules for covering a weekend or holiday depend which days you have sex, and you'd need to learn the rules from a health professional, but following what I've been taught a 7 day holiday would be at maximum 10 tablets total for me, which isn't a lot really for being covered for a whole week long holiday or business trip. The tablets I get have pretty long dates on them so it's ok to put them away for a while. I think the injection is not a thing where I live, but maybe in the future. It would have the downside of having to go in for injections, but it could be good to avoid affecting my stomach as I won't be eating it. Handy for some guys. Also forgetful guys, I know some are bad at remembering pills. A friend I meet for fun has a memory problem and I always message him before and the two days after to take them if we meet or he meets another guy. Maybe there should be a prep app for guys who need reminding to take it and help to remember if they already did.

All guys, even totally straight ones use their prostate. It's why guys repeatedly clench their ass when they're wanking or fucking, they're squeezing their prostate because they just know it feels good doing that. So all male orgasms have a bit of prostate play in them. You can also rub your guy's prostate from outside by massaging the right area under his nuts. It's really good and ok for guys who don't like anything in their ass. But if you want to make it feel outright amazing you've got to go to the source. Prostate orgasms are intense, by far the most pleasurable thing I've ever felt. Now I've had a few good prostate orgasms I'm very aware of mine, like how it feels and where it is. When I get turned on I can feel it becoming sensitive just like my dick does when I'm hard. Feels like this constant warm pleasure glow inside me when it's excited. I don't like toys or fingers inside me but I can wank my prostate by repeatedly squeezing my butt. Love to do that when I'm full of cum and want to have a prostate orgasm, either because the guy topping me didn't make it happen, or just because I feel like having another one. The sensation of my prostate being squeezed over and over again and my wet cum filled hole tightening and relaxing usually turns in to a prostate orgasm. I only have these orgasms when another guy is fucking me or I'm full of cum, so I need other guys to help me with this.

If you want freedom to hookup short notice maybe daily prep is better? I know there's reasons why guys might not want to take it daily though. For example I haven't switched to daily because it makes my stomach more sensitive with food and I don't want to be dealing with that all the time. But for many guys it seems to be all ok and no problems, so it's an option for them.

I like my guy focused on me and me focused on him. I want to feel sexy and him to feel sexy. If I'm blowing a guy I want his hands in my hair, tell me what he likes, properly connect. Looking on his phone wouldn't work for me. As for playing in the background, I have ADHD and my brain doesn't ignore stuff well, so porn in the background or even just music, it pulls my attention away. I don't know what to do with multiple attention grabbing things and get overloaded. Sometimes watching porn together is the meet plan, some bi and curious guys just want to watch porn and wank together. That's cool. If I'm choosing I always choose something with at least one guy like the guy I'm with. Similar age and style. It's confusing as a 30-something hairy guy with dark hair to meet with a guy who only wants to watch blond smooth twink porn. Good to know if a guy is into you or not, no need to be unclear.

I always think this stuff is for condom sex, but recently I had bare sex with a guy who used it. He didn't say and I didn't find out until later. Maybe surprising, but it wasn't bad. He still felt tight and warm, it just took more strokes to go through all the feelings I normally get. I'd consider using it with a guy who cums fast, might help him last longer and still have the same fun. No idea what it would do to the feelings I get when I bottom, that would be interesting but don't know if I want to risk not enjoying a fuck trying it out. I'm wondering when did you find out it was numbing lube? I only knew after. I might have found it hard if I knew before, it would have distracted me thinking I'd go numb. But I can get distracted in my head like that by things.

Apps are still working for me, but always mixed results. Flaky guys, possibly fake ones, they've always been there. The real guys who want to meet though, it's no trouble, very easily 30-60 minutes from hi to being in person with that kind of guy. One guy was nearby and was about 20 minutes from hi to being nuts deep inside him. I really liked his energy :) Most times, if it's going to happen, it happens quickly with a guy. Long term chat mostly doesn't lead to much - but sometimes it leads to the best meets. I'll do it sometimes if the guy is unavailable for believable reason and I have a good feeling about him. Bi married guys can take longer to meet. I'll also talk a while if a guy is fun to talk with, it's alright sometimes, pics and talking are fun. The thing with an app is you can get to talk longer and I've had some long conversations with guys and really got to know what they like, and discovered we're a great match, and eventually met. I only invest the time in each guy I feel good about, don't go over that or it's not fun any more. And a good meet with a new guy, they happen when they happen, some things can't be made to happen right away.

I got the HPV vaccine years ago through a pharmacy, back when it was kind of new. I had to pay quite a high price. It was a super annoying experience, they first of all saying "but you're not a woman" even though the vaccine manufacturer set out it's perfectly fine for men and there's reasons to use it. Finally they accept it is ok. But the pharmacy staff were being awkward and rude, I think because it's a vaccine for an STI. And I had to go in three times for the injections. Bunch of wankers really. I told them on the last visit if they thought delivering healthcare products to the public was going to be all cough mixture for nuns then that's their problem to deal with. But I don't regret going through all the problems. We shouldn't have to worry about things like HPV. Lucky guys now, it's free in many places in Europe and you can get it from the sex health clinics where the staff are usually not weird about stuff.

I like long lasting guys, just fuck me not too rough if it's going to be a long time. Nice smooth steady strokes are the easiest and make me feel amazing inside, and I can enjoy them for a long time. I can also last a long time as top usually, which some guys enjoy and others find hard to do. So when I top after a while I might ask my guy if he wants to keep going.

Giving and getting the swimmers in me or my guy is hot, but it's one of those things I both enjoy and don't care about that much, if that makes sense? Like I love a thick soft treasure trail on a guy, but I don't rate guys I like without one less hot. They'll be hot for other reasons. It's just one of a big list of stuff that can be good to have, not a make or break or defining thing. Most the load is prostate juice anyway, so you'll still get that hot feeling when your guy orgasms and that satisfying being full of cum feeling for however long it lasts. Anyway, I've been with a few guys I know were snipped and their sperm-free loads weren't any less exciting.

Probably he wanted it but got freaked out when he knew it was close to happening. Might have been his first load. It makes sense with a younger guy. Younger guys and older first time too, like down low bi guys, they need more warming up, more to keep them comfortable while you're having fun, and sometimes more time to work through stuff. I get it, I remember being like that with some things when it was new.

Lots of interesting ideas! Sounds like intention is big, like it should be something purposeful you want to do and that makes sense to me, I think because you have to feel different afterwards for it to matter. How can you say you changed if you feel the same as before?

First time I felt my guy throbbing was with a sexy, scruffy greek taxi driver I'd found online. We were using condoms but I felt him throbbing and I felt his hot pulses of cum inside me. Not expected with a condom, but since then I've often felt my guy's cum shots with a condom. It's like pulses of warmth. Maybe they help with that one thing because they focused the load in the tip of the condom in one place inside me? I've also felt them without a condom, but it's not actually been as often.

I was born in the late 80s so I don't remember those times, but I have seen changes. There's a lot more talk about sub and dom, even guys are asking me which one am I like you have to be one of them. But it's not really my thing. I can be rough or let another guy be rough with me, but I don't turn it on and off as part of my everyday way of being. Usually with guys I meet things are more mutual and whatever energy we find happens naturally. But that can be rough, I recently met a guy about my size who handled me rougher than I expected. I was growling and really wanted to give him a kick, but he was hot and doing a good job so I was also growling and swearing because I was annoyed I was enjoying it. Interesting energy between us. I don't think I've become a sub now though, it was just something that happened. It's the trying to create situations that seems to be more popular now. The thing is it doesn't feel so natural for me when you're trying to make it happen.

I've seen the topic asking with who and when we lost our virginity and I start thinking what is virginity? Many people say it's the first time you have sex, but I don't agree. What if it was a not very fun fumble when you were a teenager and nobody even cum, does that count? You can drive through a city and say "I've been there" but that's not what people mean when they ask if you've been there, they mean have you seen the sights, have you explored the place. And I'm a bi man so I have my straight virginity and my gay virginity, and there's first time top and bottom when you're a guy. Even for straight guys there's top and bottom virginity because women can use toys in you. My anal virginity was the biggest and last one for me, it's a big thing for me to share that. The first guy to put his dick inside me felt good, but he only did it for a few strokes. He was all about him being a bottom. I think my first proper time was when I was with a guy I really wanted inside me and he did it for a long time. He recharged fast and fucked me multiple times. Feeling him throbbing inside me I had my first prostate orgasm. That experience felt like the real thing. Still, he wore a condom the whole time. Even then I'd never fully felt a dick inside me. That happened later when I finally tried it with a guy bare. I wanted him a lot and I felt empty of him before he even went inside. I didn't even feel tight, and I'm often nervous to bottom. He just went in smoothly like his space was reserved. I had a couple of prostate orgasms as he fucked me missionary, we kissed and I wrapped my legs around him and played with his hairy nuts as he stroked in me. Finally he filled me with his cum. Feeling his dick throbbing a hot load inside me was when I was certain I'd totally lost my anal virginity. It was like the last bit. I guess that was when I'd properly 'been there' and had the full and real experience. I think these two guys are the guys I lost my anal virginity with because I had my first orgasm with one and my first bare fuck/load with the other. But I want to know what you think, what for you counts and what doesn't? Is it just the first guy you did something with, or is it something else?

Often I'm naked, but often also just pants down and go for it with a guy when we have only a little time. I like workmen and uniform so it's sexy for me not just a thing to do. Love how a hot guy's ass looks in some nice pants and feeling them through his pants, the feeling of getting my hands in his waistband and sliding them down his ass and legs. Even nicer when my hands find some nice thick hair to get my fingers in. Get him on his back with his pants round his ankles, or fuck him from behind with my hands holding his waist. Push up his top and hopefully find some more nice thick hair on his chest to play with as I'm fucking him. I met with a hot farmer a while back and he had the sexiest thickest treasure trail when I pushed up his top. I loved how it felt between my fingers and playing with it as I stroked inside him. The whole experience of feeling a hot guy through his work gear, the way the fabric feels, how he feels through it, and discovering him as I pull it off or stick my hands in is a lot of fun.

That's a great looking hairy dad hole

One of my favorite places was a field of long grass on a warm day. I had my jeans pulled down and the polish builder I was meeting inside me as we spooned. It was spontaneous and very sexy, and he lasted a long time. I also had a very sexy time topping a Spanish hairy guy in the back of my open truck parked somewhere private and looking up at the night sky. We started out kissing in the seats, but we wanted more and ended up in the back of the truck on some old dog blankets. I was only planning to drive him home, but sometimes things happen. For total fantasy I think somewhere in space with no gravity would be great. Floating around only feeling each other, no weight to bother us so we just relax in any positions we like. Would be a lot of fun to shoot a load out there too. But I want to go in to space anyway so maybe I'm cheating and making two wishes in to one. Well, if anyone wants to start a space mission to shoot some sexy men in to space, sign me up.

Not really at all. Guess I missed out on that. If anything I prefer guys don't mess with them too much. But I have plenty of other places that feel great, like lick my thighs, or play with and gently twist my treasure trail or beard with your fingers and I'll be very happy. Or if we're making love and I trust a guy, gently bite my ears or kiss/lick my neck, that can make me forget everything that isn't you.