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  1. This is 100% precisely how I feel about it too. All I would add is to accept the risks, mitigate them, and take care of yourself. Despite all the fantasy and fetishization about STIs - they are a sad but real side effect of bare back breeding to pro-actively manage. I realize this statement will not be popular here - but NO load is worth the harm of spreading any disease(s).
  2. Thanks for the sincere reply. It was not necessarily designed to be an "easy" question to answer. For additional context, I identify as a bottom. My general comments on BZ illustrate my fundamental desire is to fuck or specifically to get fucked for the purpose of helping my horny brother achieve an incredible and satisfying release - I thought that was just natural. No effort required. I have learned about myself that if a horny man wants to ejaculate inside me, I cannot refuse. It's my nature to provide my desirable holes. Is it incorrect for me to assume that breeders are the MAJORITY of the overall percentage of men? What percent of the general male population would breed me if they could get away with it "consequence-free"? As if we all had the innate desire to breed based on human species evolutionary instinct). It's not procreational when adapted for the MEN need MEN scenario. Having said that, if I see a desirable hole - then I want to fuck and breed it. When I see images of an erotic nature, it usually prompts some type of daydream or fantasy that gets me into his pants and gets his erection ejaculating inside me. I do think that is an "animal" instinct or a carnal desire if animal = natural, evolutionary instincts. I am asking my articulate brothers to help me become more informed. Thanks and hugs. Love this community.
  3. I am confused by the fact that sex and sexual desire is or can be very complicated for some. I thought it was easy. You either wanna fuck or not. The complicated part is accepting the risks that come with fucking raw - not whether I wanna fuck or not. So what am I missing? The poll questions are designed to help me explore what horny means to you.
  4. I have given this quite a bit of thought. It's not exactly "the load" I am addicted to, but I am "addicted." wink What I am "addicted" to is the "connection" that happens when one human [animal] is able to satisfy an (animal) instinct, a (basic) urge, carnal desire, of a horny male in our species aka my brothers. As a gay man, I do sincerely believe my purpose is to provide and offer horny male members of our species with a sexy, talented, warm and wet welcoming set of holes for them to achieve the satisfaction that comes with completing the "mission" which is to bury their seed, breed, and pass on their genetic. It's the connection of feeling a horny man ejaculate inside me that I am addicted to... I do love the "fringe benefits" of keeping his seed inside me for as long as possible, etc. but what I crave is the process of edging his erection - getting it as big and hard as possible - build up the biggest and juiciest load of his semen possible - and then feel him reach that climax and ejaculate, spasm, pulse, and complete the mission*. I don't care what you look like, how old you are, how "hung" you are, or what "position" you identify as... If you want to bury your erection inside my ass and complete the animal connection we share by ejaculating inside me then it's basically receiving the load the I am addicted to. So, please feel free to message me if you have any desire to ejaculate inside me. *PS - I should also start a thread on how "completing the mission" - love you guys.
  5. Great advice guys thanks!! Are there any hotel or motel recommendations for this area that aren't too sketchy or suss with easy room access to entice some horny men to stop by and anonymously introduce me to their horny erection? I am curious if there is anything convenient or well located to Syracuse University, horny college boys are awesome!!
  6. It would probably work better if one of the two "bottoms" were a side LOL. You need one to suck the guy hard (and who will be happy and content doing just and only that), and the other guy who will just be happy to receive a well prepared hardon. It's never ideal guys. Everyone is trying to scratch a unique itch.
  7. I am whatever the horny hard erect cock needs me to be... I am not a fan of labels...but if calling me a faggot turns you on and makes you horny and gets your cock rock hard and you need to ejaculate inside me then, yes, I am a faggot. Call me whatever turns you on. Unless there is some type of expected behaviour to qualify as a faggot. I mean, I just want to be with a horny man and his hard cock. My basic desire is to connect with this horny man by providing him with my warm wet talented holes to enjoy for his complete satisfaction. And that's subjective - but for me the connection is completed when that horny hard erection ejaculates inside me. Love this community. xoxo
  8. I am working through something personal and it has brought me to the topic of asexuality. I am working on posting a new thread about this. If the OP is still an active member - I would like to know how or why they are so quickly and easily (and perhaps confidently) able to rule out being ASEXUAL? I have a very strong suspicion that being "asexual" is one of those [banned word] topics and people refuse to self-diagnose as an asexual as it implies that one cannot "conform" to societal pressure if they don't wanna have sex (or something along those lines - depending on your place within or among the asexual spectrum). I guess what I am trying to say is that it only further marginalizes the individual and sets them apart and makes them feel isolated. So, OP - knowing what we know now as a society and global culture. Do you still reject that you are asexual? OR might you exist on the asexual spectrum?
  9. I agree, this is also a HUGE compliment. I am looking forward to getting some of those messages!!
  10. I forget if or how many times I comment the same thing on the same or similar thread... lol. Having made my disclaimer, I cannot agree with those of you [having already posted] enough who indicate something along the lines of... The BIGGEST compliment you could ever receive from a HORNY man is his desire to connect with you in a carnal, physical way (by inserting his erection in you) and that culminating in his pleasure of building up a satisfying orgasm in order to ejaculate as much of his seed deep inside me as possible. This is what I am seeking. I am incredibly flattered when a horny man ejaculates his carnal desire deep inside me.
  11. I just uploaded a gallery of pics from one of my favourite men. Enjoy!!
  12. My current fantasy is to take some random xmas goodies over to my neighbours. I have two bachelor men (perhaps one widowed, the other divorced) living on either side of me. It saddens me to think that they are just jacking off and not taking advantage of having a very eager and willing person who would enjoy providing them with a convenient, talented, horny, wet hole to ejaculate into like nature intends to have a satisfying orgasm. So, I want to give them goodies and a little coupon that has my phone number so that they can text me whenever they want me to pop over so that i can pleasure them and provide them a reliable opportunity to use me. The spin off scenarios of buddies, friends, other neighbours has me going wild. LOL
  13. My preference is to meet up with anyone that would like to ejaculate inside me. A repeat visitor is a big compliment!
  14. The real world is what it is. The real world has its pros and cons. The real can be pleasure and sincere pain. I do not want to discourage anyone reading these posts from getting tested regularly if they engage in regular / frequent bareback sex. My personal preference is to get tested regularly so that I have peace of mind that if (because as you point out its UNavoidable) I do get an STI that once I find out, I can make informed choices and help notify previous partners, get treatment quickly, and choose to abstain from sex for the prescribed period and "take one for the team" because yeah it sucks but I don't want anyone else to have to go through this AND I don't want to get it back. The last thing I want is for readers, in general, to walk away thinking that going through the embarrassment and agony of subjecting yourself to the STI testing is just not worth it, cause i "have no symptoms" and just generally brushing off getting tested because "why bother" it sounds unavoidable. Please be good to yourself!! I love you guys.
  15. Is it complicated? Maybe for some yes. We all tend to get in our own way at some point about something... I also love and appreciate all the previous comments and posts, very thoughtful stuff men, and I love this community for illustrating that IF we fall into the trap of subscribing to labels it becomes super easy to have or find reasons to dismiss our fellow man. My personal struggle is that my "filter" tends to be pretty basic like my brothers who previously commented; If you want to breed me, I want you to!! If you don't want to empty your seed inside me, then I pass. The way I reconcile this, is by choosing to remain focused on compassion. I have read about other members own personal experiences and have had my own experiences where I was genuinely surprised by many of the truly great fucks I have had with men who were "not my type" etc. The disadvantage to these apps is being taken advantage of by people who will exploit your compassion. Sadly, this is part of the world we live in and I try to have empathy for those who have to be assholes or shit bags to their fellow man to get what they need or want.
  16. Noted. I don't disagree with you. In hindsight, when I posted that I was still emotional from just learning the news and disappointed at the results. I would however say that having "no symptoms" is no reason not to get tested as often as one perhaps should.
  17. This illustrates perfectly my frustration with the lack of personal responsibility. Today, I got the results of last week's STI testing. I was given chlamydia. It has ruined my day. Why lie? I guess it's easier than taking personal responsibility for ones self and ones decisions. While my day is ruined, my life is not. I know the risks to receiving any man who desires to mount me and while I do NOT like nor enjoy the consequences, I certainly do not fetishize them, nor desire them, nor do I want to share them. I deal with them. In what I hope is an adult and responsible way. For me, bareback is more fun without the bugs and the diseases.
  18. Where is google analytics when you really need them?? LOL Best times to visit the ABS by horny men should be a thing.
  19. Great question. I have a feeling with air tags and other newer tracing devices that catching a cheating spouse may be easier or may confrontational. I met the man of my dreams this past weekend, lol. Kinda sad when he's already married and just fooling around on the side. I may never see him again.
  20. AMEN. The apps and dating websites only put this front-and-centre. Well said. This is why if I had one WISH for the gay-community it would be for bottoms to top other bottoms. Especially the bottoms that also have average and above size cocks. Please do not cage those - share them!!
  21. This happened to me at WORK circa 2010... My colleague basically asked the same question....word for word. Who's the "woman" in the relationship? is the gist of this question. Who "takes it"? AND IT IS OFFENSIVE The amount of bottom shaming baked into modern day society is endless. Poor women. I feel sorry for them. PS It was a woman who asked this question of me.
  22. Went for STI testing today and got a second opinion. In that process, I realized I did use a different lube recently which probably caused an outbreak. I do appreciate the forums and this community for providing very helpful and personal context to some of these shared experiences which are not pleasant and [banned word] to discuss generally. Love you guys and thanks for sharing your experiences.
  23. Thanks for sharing! I had two doses of the MPOX vaccine - yet I am getting pimple spots on my ass and it seems too punctual to be acne... Any update from around the community??
  24. In my experience if I get too loose the top may not be able to finish inside me.
  25. I have always believed this - thanks for confirming. I wish more Tops out there liked to share...
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