BarebackedBear
-
Posts
132 -
Joined
-
Last visited
.thumb.jpg.803a2e35ba73591c0f23239b4e5c85a7.jpg)
Recent Profile Visitors
1,405 profile views
BarebackedBear's Achievements
-
I'm down in rural central VA, about an hour and a half West of downtown Richmond. Unfortunately not a lot of opportunities to play, not many guys.
-
Probably below average length, but well above average girth, hurt like hell but I took it like a champ and loved every minute of it.
-
Five years later and the criticisms are just as valid. The site looks and feels like it's stuck in the early 2000s. Beyond that my biggest complaint is their "oink" feature because that's the overwhelming majority of my messages. If all a guy wants to do is "oink" me, I don't bother replying.
-
After years of being too shy / insecure to tell any of my partners this was what I was into I was lucky enough to meet one who was actually into it too. We had been together for probably a year by then when I told him it was a huge fantasy to have a partner who would rape me, and after a lot of talk to make sure he really & truly had my consent (I mean a lot of talk, he was very nervous at first), he decided he was into it. Domestic partner rape in the context of a BDSM relationship & exploring CNC was life changing for me and I enjoyed it thoroughly for the next few year we were together. I'd love to find another partner like that.
-
Not into spanking / nip torture / CBT or other pain like that here but huge pig for painful anal /fucking. Unfortunately I've only found a couple of guys willing to indulge it. My favorite regular playmate has a great cock for it. On the shorter side (5" maybe?") but thick, and he can go for multiple rounds in an afternoon. At least three or four, sometimes more. He's not afraid to fuck hard or use me repeatedly that day until his balls are empty no matter how visibly uncomfortable / in pain I am, which is what I like. Last time he came out all I could do was lie on my back whimpering and shaking as he took his third round in me. My hole was bruised for days. He just recently bought one of those open ended silicone cock sleeves that'll add a good 1/4" to his girth at least, but still let him shoot in me. We plan to try it out next time.
-
I stand by my statement. This is the last statement I will make on the matter.
-
BarebackedBear changed their profile photo -
The ethics are simple and shouldn't even be a question: you should make every effort to always know your status through regular testing, and disclose it to any potential partners so they can make an informed choice. Did you consider that it was someone either not knowing their status or actively hiding it from you that put you in this situation? Why would you risk doing the same to someone else? If abstaining for a week so you can get treatment & protect your potential partners is too much for you, I'd consider doing some soul searching during your week of abstinence, because that's a next level of selfishness.
-
For me it's more about quality than quantity. I don't have a body count in the hundreds like some, but the ones that do it best are ones I hook up with on the regular. I'm more interested in things like "How many have you had in one playdate." Banging a hundred guys over a lifetime isn't nearly as interesting as hearing your high score of getting bred by ten guys in one night at a sex party.
-
Hi, I'm here to send you some hate 🤗 Really, though ... we're going to say people who don't like butt stuff have the 'tism and need a psych intervention? That's where we're going with this? People can like or not like whatever they want in the bedroom. I don't personally see a difference between being "side" and being "oral only" which is a term I've seen on the hookup apps for ages, other than maybe it implies "oral / genital only, I don't rim." Every guy I've seen who's "side" is no penetration. If this is a way for people to say they're not into butt stuff I say good for them. I can still have a lot of fun with a guy in bed without one or both of us getting a pecker, tongue, or toy up our backsides. But maybe I'm just not as hung up and fixated on one single, solitary act being the entirety of the definition of sex. Speaking of behaviors that imply having a touch of the 'tism 😉
-
Oof, that comment goes hard on the bossy bottom energy. Reminds me of the guys on Scruff and Growlr that turn their profile into a laundry list of "requirements" to get with them. Pass. I'm here for a good time, not to fulfill some ridiculous fantasy or overinflated sense of entitlement a cumdump has somehow developed for themselves.
-
All peckers are good peckers. I've had everything from 9.5" and thick down to below average, maybe 5" on a good day, and enjoyed them all. My favorite regular is maybe 5.5" or 6" but a little thicker than average, and more importantly, knows how to fuck. Size queens have a lot less fun than guys who don't get hung up on size.
-
If wanting that is wrong, I don't wanna be right.
-
It's a hookup app / site, not the reading comprehension section of the SATs. Nobody's reading profiles and even if they are they're skimming for stuff that gets them hard. I honestly don't get bent out of shape when guys message me who are definitely not what I'm interested in, I just have a pretty firm "no reply" policy: No face pic, no chat. Doesn't have to be public, but you have to send me a face pic if you don't have one posted. I don't respond to the automated "one click" messages the apps let you send. If you live so far away feasibly we'll never hook up, I don't respond (this isn't a pen pal service). If your first message to me is asking if I have more pics, I don't respond. I'm not here to provide spank material. The one thing I will gripe about is guys who will message me saying "I wish you topped." How do you even respond to that? I'm sorry I'm not the daddy bear of your fantasies who's going to rip your butthole open stem to stern? FWIW I do top, occasionally, but it's rare someone trips my trigger in that way & when they do I reach out to them so I list myself as bottom on my profiles.
-
I must be in the minority. All I got from poppers was a headache. No feeling of euphoria. No loosening of my hole as some guys claim happens to them. Took a hit, immediately felt light headed, then felt like I had a hangover for about twenty minutes or so until I could get some fresh air. Was at a buddy's house for a sex party, he had a sling in a shed out back and I was in it with one load already in me when I took a hit before an especially well endowed buddy took his turn in me. Ended up hopping out of the sling and sitting at a picnic table in his back yard to get some fresh air before hopping back in the sling to take a couple more loads. Never again. Maybe I'm just an old man.
-
Bareback: Fetish or sexual practice?
BarebackedBear replied to favorite's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I think for a lot of guys who came of age in the era of AIDS it became a fetish. "The forbidden" that we must never do. PrEP changed that (some didn't wait for it to come along). For me it's a sexual practice. Whether it's sex with a partner, a friend with benefits, or an anonymous stranger, it should involve a certain level of intimacy appropriate to the encounter. And I fail to see how there can be any intimacy if there's a piece of latex between you.
