BarebackedBear
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Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
I also work in tech, and that's another fear that I have. Especially with the distrust of legacy news outlets and the rise of sites like Twitter becoming the primary news source for a lot of people, and how these media empires are owned by individuals who are a little bit too cozy with the administration. This isn't anything we haven't seen before, though. I think if you're of a certain generation you must have learned in school about the Hearst media empire. I doubt anyone reading this is old enough to actually remember that first hand. But then again now we've come full circle to my last reply talking about the lack of education in this country in the area of civics being the root cause of a lot of what we've seen lately. Hearst also used the "America First" branding on his media and in praise of fascism's rise in Germany after his shift to the right. Every old concern and fear is new again. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
I've been saying for years, but especially since Trump entered the political scene, this country has a serious problem with education, specifically around government and civics. It's not a blue collar versus white collar thing. No sane person can look at what the Republican party has served up for nearly a decade now, both at the national and local level, and feel that this is really a long-term solution to real problems that real Americans face. Both sides are guilty of engaging in partisan identity politics, but in the Trump era that's the only thing the GOP can offer. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
This is what I'm primarily afraid of. I'm coming from a place of privilege. I'm a white male, age 18 to 49 as The Simpsons joke goes, meaning I'm basically the demographic with power in this nation. I'm even straight passing, even though I hate that phrase. But I'm still a fag. And I'm concerned that groups that hate now have their mouthpiece and figurehead back in the White House. I remember what it was like last time. I live not far from Charlottesville, VA. I remember the neo-Nazis with tiki torches. The administration is going to have a lot of power, at least until the next midterm when we have an opportunity to take back the Senate. I hope we don't lose any Supreme Court justices between now and then. But I'm mainly concerned about what this is going to mean in the neighborhoods. In the communities. In the streets where people are emboldened to act on their hate once again. -
Trump wins bigly, world to end tomorrow...
BarebackedBear replied to ktopper's topic in LGBT Politics
Preface: I firmly believe that in addition to being a rapist, a misogynist, and just overall a disgusting excuse for a human being, Trump's rhetoric and his focus on grievances and his strong man attitude towards ruling rather than governing puts him squarely in the category of fascist. I'm also well aware that he's going into his second presidency immensely better prepared than he was for the first, after years of being groomed for this by a cabal of conservative interests with their own agenda. That being said, I feel like there's a little bit of catastrophizing on the left in light of the news. I think in the short term his economic policy is going to be a cheap sugar rush for the economy which is definitely going to have long-term knock-on effects. With a power shift in the Senate, any nomination he wants to make will get pushed through. Yes, it's bad. But until he starts to make good on these threats I'm stopping short of calling this an existential threat to democracy. He not only won, it looks like he actually crushed the popular vote unlike the last time he managed to game the electoral college. I still think we have enough rational, sane people in this country to hopefully keep the worst of the damage in check over the next four years. I have to believe that at this point. -
As a bear type I'm loving that body hair is coming back. Men should be comfortable to be themselves and the push for hair removal always seemed weird. For my own preference, I am attracted to all types of men, hairy or not. But furballs always get my dick twitching. I once - once - shaved for a guy who wanted to see me "smooth." I'm pretty damn furry. Within about ten, twelve hours I had "stubble" head to toe. It was horrible and lasted for days until my "body beard" started to grow out. Never again. If you're not into fur, I'm not the guy to take home.
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Are “Belly’s” in Vogue? Help Me Understand Please
BarebackedBear replied to a topic in General Discussion
"Dadbod" seems to be the flavor of the week with The Gays these days, and tbh I'm here for it. I've always been a big, beefy bear type. Hairy all over with a tummy, thicc ass, solid thighs, bearded. For ages I was invisible while twinks and gym rats were what the porn industry told guys they should want. We're heat in the winter and shade in the summer, and a thicc ass makes a great slapping noise when you're clapping cheeks. Don't sleep on the bear types. I've even had a few guys tell me when I get really worked up in the moment, I growl 🐻 -
Depends on the top. One of my regulars has a shorter but insanely thick cock, beer can fat. On my back, legs up with him lets my hole relax and gape easier, plus he likes seeing my face when he forced himself in. One of my other regulars has a thinner cock but he's well over 9". On my side with one leg pulled up to my chest unkinks my guts so he can slide in all the way to the balls, deep past my second hole. With most other guys I'm a face down, ass up kind of bottom.
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Bottomed for a much older (probably over 3x my age) daddy type. On my back, legs up with his arms wrapped tight around them in case I had the urge to pull away since it was my first time.
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@BackwoodsBear 👀
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Anything sex acts your don’t particularly enjoy?
BarebackedBear replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
Getting my ass eaten Getting my dick sucked Both do next to nothing for me. One of my regulars LOVES to eat ass. I let him get in there and chow down because it turns him on but the whole time I'm laying there like 😪 I moan and growl and act like it does it for me just to ramp him up. Sex theatre, as I call it. -
I feel like, as a bottom, I almost never take dick pics. My pecker is like the lettuce leaf under the fried dumplings at the Chinese place, it's there for decoration.
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What turned you into a bare pig?
BarebackedBear replied to germancumbear's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I came of age in a time when HIV/AIDS had always been there since before I was born, and sex ed in schools was all heterosexual focused, largely abstinence, some condom discussion. Also grew up in a conservative, WASPish household and my parents never gave me the "sex talk" other than it's something to save for marriage. It made sex feel dangerous, dirty, and [banned word], especially for a queer kid. I was very young my first time, with a much older (over three times my age) man, who was patient but very dominant. The stereotype "dad type." Without going into the details of my first time, I'll say he did explain to me what was going to happen, and that it would hurt at first, maybe the entire time. He said I could decide if we went through with it and could tell him to stop, until the point he was inside me. At that point, he would not stop until he was finished (but he'd be as gentle as he could), because my instinct would be to ask him to stop and pull out. He assured me he was neg, and said he would not use a condom. I decided to go through with it , and he did finish inside me. I could feel him shooting when he did, and the [banned word] and fear of sex turned into a rush. From that moment I wanted it, and I wanted it raw. Most of guys I played with between then and when I started PrEP in 2016 used condoms, occasionally I'd get a breeding. But since PrEP I've been 100% raw is law. I'm pretty sure that moment in my late teens, on my back, legs up, submissive to him as he pumped his load in me, informed both my barebacking and submissive behaviors. -
Forcing a bottom to cum before fucking him
BarebackedBear replied to smallcocksissyboi's topic in General Discussion
I prefer to nut before getting fucked. Makes my hole tighter and my prostate more sensitive, amps up the pain of the initial penetration which is a huge turn on for me. I've got a few fuck buds I do this with, they like how tight it makes me, too. -
I prefer more mature men almost exclusively. I'm currently 42, and all my regulars are in their 50s and 60s, with the exception of one in his 30s (I can't honestly say he's a regular, he's partnered to one of my regulars who's 62 and the two of them play either alone or together so sometimes I get them both, but I can't think that I've ever hooked up with the young buck alone). I think the oldest man who ever fucked me was 78 or 79, I was in my 20s at the time. I swear, gramps fucked me almost to the point of feeling like I was being raped. God bless that man, it's been decades and that night still lives rent free in my mind. I can almost still feel those low sagging old man balls swinging and slapping my backside as he went at it. Those tanks must have held an awful lot because I leaked the whole way home. It's not a man's age or his body type that's sexy. It's not the size of his cock, either. It's whether or not he knows how to breed a hole.
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Too many flakes and weirdos when you're trying to find random. Too many no-shows. If I clean out my ass you'd better fuckin be here, and on time. And you never know if what you're going to get is quality breeding. I keep a small circle of regulars that always deliver quality breeding. A couple of them are good for three or four loads in an afternoon if we've got time to hang out for a few hours and not just pull a quickie. You get to build chemistry. My regulars know what I like. When you get a few regulars who know each other and are friendly you can plan on two or three guys coming over to spend the afternoon pumping cum up your chute. Plus it's more chill with regulars. I love being on my back with a good buddy slow edging in my guts, spit for lube, hole raw and torn because this is his third time in me that afternoon, sniffing the stiff, musky jock he wore mowing the lawn the other day and brought with him because he knows that's my freak. You don't get that with a random on Sniffies or Grindr.
