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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had a fuckbuddy years ago that was a great lay. Thick uncut dick and he could go for miles before he put a baby in me, likes to edge in a hole nice and slow and gape it out. He lives over an hour away and we fell out of contact during the pandemic, during that time he met a guy and they got married. His husband is just as well equipped as he is, long fat dick with a big head. And even better, he likes to pound hard. I reconnected with my buddy and met his husband for the first time yesterday. They've got a play room set up at their house and for about an hour they took turns abusing my hole on either a bed or on a breeding bench complete with straps. I felt loads getting pumped into me at least twice, maybe three times. The hubby was a little bit nervous about going too hard and my buddy had to tell him more than once that's how I want it. At one point he pulled that fat meat out of me all at once when they were going to change who was riding and who was watching and I swear you could actually hear the head pop out of my hole. Once I stopped cussing and shaking all I could do was thank him for it and ask him to do it again at least one more time before I left. I drove home sitting on a towel and entire back side of my tighty whities was soaked from all the leak, had to basically peel them off to hop in the shower. This morning my hole is still puffy and sore. -
Taboo question to ask a poz guy?
BarebackedBear replied to gay87's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I'm not POZ but to me this feels like a tacky thing to ask. I'm not sure what you would even gain from knowing how it happened unless it's a fetish for you, and I would hope in that case it would only come up in conversation if it was a fetish for that person also. If you're close with this person, there's a good chance it's already come up in conversation. If it hasn't, they may not want to talk about it. If they are a former chaser or current giver, chances are they've already broadcast that to you, and then you've got your answer. Asking someone this just feels like it's curiosity about something that's not your business or opening the door to offering judgment, which I know wouldn't be everyone's goal in doing this but it just comes off weird. Of all my acquaintances who are POZ, only one ever told me how it happened, and it was not a pleasant story that he told lightly or with any measure of pride. This is an area where it's best to tread lightly unless you know a person and their story intimately. -
... both in real sex, and in porn. I've been cruising porn more than usual this week since I'm off work and my dick is hella entertaining, and I've seen too much back basting in videos. When it comes to the money shot in bareback porn, there's the good way to capture it, the best way to capture it, and the worst way to capture it. I said what I said.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm blessed to have a fuckbuddy who can go for 3-4 rounds when he's got the time to hang out instead of a pump and go. Today was a longer breeding session. Nearly four hours, I took three loads. He's very well equipped to satisfy a power bottom pain pig like me. Shorter than most cocks but beer can thick and he's not afraid to force it in, pound it, yank it out hard and force it in again. An absolute hole destroyer. At one point on my back I thought he was going to split me like a piece of firewood. I think it was round three I was on my side and he edged in me for close to half an hour before putting me on my back again to finish. This was the aftermath. I haven't been wrecked like this in ages.
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What awakened your sexuality in your early years.
BarebackedBear replied to a topic in General Discussion
Widower dad in the neighborhood where I grew up. He just absolutely dripped sex in my eyes. I already knew I was gay and had looked at some porn, had perved on different male celebrities, but didn't feel that strong desire to be with a man or "awaken" beyond curiosity and awkward attraction until one summer. I was a very young teen, not even driving yet, he was in his very late 50s or early 60s. All three of his daughters were grown and out of the house living their own lives, his wife had passed a few years prior. An empty nester. Probably about 6' tall give or take, husky / dadbod, bald, always had some style of facial hair (I found just the mustache the most attractive). I remember one day I was riding my bike past his house and he was outside mowing the lawn, shirtless, in a pair of short shorts with striped tube socks pulled up to his calves. I damn near went over the handlebars when I got distracted and hit the curb 🤣 That summer he asked me if I'd like to make $5 a week stopping by his house after school to do some pet sitting duties. Make sure the critters had water and some exercise until he got home from work that evening, clean up any messes. One day I was doing the pet thing cleaning the litter box in the laundry room and saw a basket of laundry to do with his tighty whities on top. I couldn't help myself and pulled them out, gave the crotch a good sniff. Instantly felt like I was high, rubbed one out right there. Did the same thing any time I was lucky enough to find his laundry waiting to be done. Eventually he became my first, but that's a story for a separate thread. But that first time I pressed the musky, stiff, piss stained pouch of his Jockeys to my nose and breathed deep, I went from being curious to a full fledged faggot. -
I've had my PA since college, when I pierced it myself. True story! Not sure if they still operate anymore, but about 20 years ago you used to be able to just get piercing supplies off the internet. I bought all the equipment I needed specifically for a PA (needle, receiving tube, ring), but then it took a couple of days for me to work up the nerve to actually do it. Managed to get it at the perfect depth and dead on center with no infection, but it was a pretty dumb risk to take so I don't recommend anybody repeat that. There was almost no pain, but some of that may have been the adrenaline. The skin on the underside of your cock is extremely thin so a proper beveled piercing needle slides right through like butter. It did bleed a lot for a few minutes, which was a little scary. Like all the rest of my body piercings, I hardly ever wear my PA anymore. At one point I had it stretched to a 2g or 4g, I forget, but honestly I never quite got the hang of peeing standing up without making a mess so I stopped putting it in. The hole never completely closes up on piercings like this and even now I can still pop a 10g in without thinking an eye. An 8g would need me to spit on it, first 😈
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Has happened to me a few times. Never a fountain, more of a slight dribble, and only when I'm getting fucked a few times in a play scene. I also sometimes cum hands free if I'm getting ridden three or four (or more) times in a scene. Just a matter of natural anatomy I guess, a prostate that's getting hammered can only take so much before it starts to relax. My ex was one of those guys who can fuck three or four times in an hour, hour and a half once he's horned up. I always wear briefs or a cotton jock as daily underwear and when he was in the mood for a four load play I used to keep my jock on, or if I was wearing briefs, keep them on and hike them down under my ass for access, so the pouch could catch it if I came or started to dribble. Huge turn on for us both when he's finish and I'd have four loads in my ass and a load & a little piss in the crotch of my tighty whities after having it fucked out of me.
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Oh boy. No offense, but this is the point where you lost me. Unless you're a medical professional with sufficient context, you're just reading pages online. I have a hard time comparing the risks of PrEP to the risks of being on an HIV treatment regimen even if they do involve the same drugs, because the dosage may be different. You're also comparing someone with the virus to someone without it, which may be an insignificant difference, but maybe not? It's just not apes to apples. I've been on it since 2016 and never had a problem. As with any drug, side effects are on an individual level. What has been proven is that when used properly, PrEP is the most effective method we have for preventing the spread of HIV. And if you follow the regimen the doctor sets for you, you should be getting tested for everything under the sun every three months, which will spot problems like effects on kidney and liver function early. I doubt we're going to find out decades from now that PrEP is the new Thalidomide. The original drug used for this had been used to treat the infection for decades, and the new most common drug used is only a slight tweak of the chemical profile of the original which actually lowers the risk of impact on kidney and bone density. In short, I trust the medical literature that says it's safe for just about everyone, and does its job. And I'm hesitant to stir up the spectre of side effects for fear that people might choose not to take the drug and put themselves at risk for something much worse. I'll let a person's doctor have that discussion with them.
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Love having a guy use my hole as a urinal. Only done it a couple times but it felt incredible. Both times the top did it after breeding me.
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I'm not sure how strange this was, versus maybe being comical or even a little bit sweet. I prefer more mature men, and in my mid 20s I once hooked up with a guy in his late 70s. He could still get a boner like blue steel, God bless him. This was the early days of Viagra. I got on the bed, on my back, feet on his shoulders. He said to me, "Prepare yourself, young man. I'm going to ravish you!" I'm sorry, you're going to what me? 🫠 I had to look up that particular Great Depression era slang later when I got home. He was living in a retirement community and his apartment was like a time capsule, complete with doilies, pictures of his deceased wife and kids (who were older than me), a huge console style TV in the corner, and I kid you not, a candy dish with butterscotch candies on the coffee table. He had a tub of Alboline on the nightstand we used for lube and for a brief moment I wondered how old it was and if his deceased wife had used it to remove her makeup. Pretty quickly I pushed that thought out of my mind, deciding that was a door best left closed. Gramps fucked me like a damn demon that night, even with a hip replacement, as his deceased wife watched from a photo on the dresser. We spent time cuddling and talking afterwards and he gave me some "fatherly advice." I got the feeling he didn't have many visitors. I went home gaped and raw and leaking, with a few of those butterscotches in my pocket. I still think about him today.
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first dick sucked-- cut or uncut?
BarebackedBear replied to cumfillthishole's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Cut. I was a teenager, he was an older widower (probably late 50s? Early 60?) in the neighborhood. Probably only about 5" long but beer can fat, an absolute unit. I had no idea what I was doing and was nervous as fuck. When he shot his load he didn't warn me, just flooded my mouth. We played a lot in my teens until I went away to college. He was also the first guy to top me. I have no preference for cut or uncut. All peckers are good peckers as long as they're bare. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Got together with a regular FWB who indulges my pain pig side. Honestly I don't know why it's so hard to find guys who are, he's one of only two in my little black book. Mid 60s, bearish, bearded, thick cock, low hangers. Spent some time on the bed sucking his dick to get him hard before he told me to stand up and bend over the bed, legs together. Lubed us both up and put his cock against my hole. No fingering to loosen me up first, just a fingertip to get some grease inside the ring. Grabbed my hips and started bouncing the head against my hole. On the third or fourth bounce he pushes past that ring of muscle and slides in all the way, felt his balls slap my taint. Felt like someone had lit my asshole on fire, let out a yelp I'm sure his whole neighborhood heard. Fucked me in that position until I started to loosen up, then told me to get ton my back and jerk my dick. He likes how my hole clenches and milks him when I nut. Didn't take me long before I shot, four ropes before it slowed to a dribble. First one over my head on the bedspread, second one in my face. While this is happening my hole starts clenching around him. As my hole was milking him he unloaded in me. My asshole is still sore today and I'm here for it. -
This. It's a great site if you're nervous about hookups because it does sort by HIV status and prevention method. It's also a good place to go if you're looking to explore some fantasies around playing with POZ guys whether or not you're on treatment, if so inclined. Lots of POZ undetectable and POZ unmedicated guys there who are more than happy to help you indulge the fantasy. Met a partnered couple on there ages ago, both POZ undetectable. Told them I had a fantasy about being bred by POZ guys but was nervous. They had me over, along with another guy from the site, also undetectable. Helped me live out that fantasy in a way that felt lower risk.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BarebackedBear replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Nothing too crazy but had another great casual sesh with a good buddy today. First, called off work because I felt like an early weekend (don't tell my boss). Called up a buddy who's not much for fucking or being fucked, but he's a major bater. Went to his place and spent the afternoon with him in bed slow edging, watching some porn. Not gonna lie, as soon as I got there and stripped I grabbed a pair of his drawers out of the hamper to sniff while we did 🐷 I could tell when he was getting close because he was spending less time stroking and more time letting it jerk and twitch while he watched the tv. I told him when he's ready to finish, shoot it in me. He looked at me and said yeah it's about that time, roll over. I got on my side and lubed my hole, he got behind me on his knees and slid his dick in to the bush. No pumping, no fucking, after maybe half a minute I felt him flooding me. He'd worked up a big load edging for a couple hours. After he pulled out I shot my own into a rag, put my shorts on and hopped in the car, sitting on the towel I keep in the trunk for such occasions. Enjoyed the feeling of his load leaking as I headed home. -
41 here, started PrEP at 34. Never enjoyed bottoming with protection much, the freedom of PrEP made me a huge horndog. It's not only taking a load, bare skin on skin has a whole different feeling. I even top some now since I can go bare (never enjoyed topping with a rubber, either). Still on PrEP almost eight years now, never a side effect. Kidneys and liver are fine. No bone fractures other than breaking a few fingers doing a brake job on one of my bugs a few years ago. Your mileage may vary. And no bare sex is ever 100% safe, even with PrEP. Life is about weighing the risks vs. the rewards. You're more likely to die of diabetes than AIDS related complications in any first world country, and that's IF you're infected. Nobody can make the decision for you, but don't forget that avoiding death isn't the same as living.
