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What do you remember about your first visit to a bathhouse?
ballerva replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
It was amazing! It was at the Crew Club here in DC around the time it first opened (approx 30 years ago). I actually went with my partner since we were already doing threeways and group stuff. At that time, the Crew Club didn't have private rooms; it had cages lined up where you could play individually but you were able to be seen by everyone else. There were also fuckbenches in the open. I remember getting fucked in both a cage and having guys lined up to fuck my ass on a bench. Sadly, CC is a shadow of its former self, particularly post-pandemic. But that first visit made me want to try every bathhouse I could find. Thus far, I have been to 35 in the U.S., Canada, Argentina and Europe. -
What kind of guys turn you on? (Personality)
ballerva replied to Blkmuscbreeder's topic in General Discussion
I'm most turned on by in-shape guys who are white-collar professionals by day and cumwhores by night. I am okay with anon sex at a bathhouse or a sex party, but nothing gets me going more than having piggy sex with a guy who you wouldn't normally expect to be a slut. That, and being able to carry on a conversation with a guy are big plusses for me. I'm very verbal and love the unexpected. -
I just keep it on my wrist. It sometimes helps to alert other guys that another pig is approaching. I've never had an issue with it being distracting.
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I have been going to the same (gay) doctor for 30+ years. He knows pretty much everything. 🙂
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I typically walk around with my towel slung over my shoulders so my hard cock and my bubble butt are exposed and ready for action. I always get a room and am happy to do 1-1 sex there, but I also like fucking in public sections (in the steamroom). My hometown bathhouse isn't nearly as active as it was pre-Covid, so I haven't been going very much lately.
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I prefer that both my sex partners and I be totally naked during sex.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
ballerva replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Yesterday at the Capitol Bate Club in DC. First time there. I had no idea that fucking took place there, but I wound up breeding a guy and getting two loads up my ass. -
what do you think about Gay Circuit Parties?
ballerva replied to JustinT's topic in General Discussion
Hard pass for me. I'm too old now, but even when I was young enough to go, it wasn't my scene. I don't drink or do drugs, so I would be a fish out of water. -
1. Bad hygiene 2. PNP -- total deal breaker for me. I am an all natural pig 3. Asking if I am "clean" 4. A dirty hole. (Accidents do of course happen, but please clean out as best as you can before meeting. I do!)
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As much as I love feeling a big dick in my hole when I am bottoming, for me it's more about what they do with their dick than its size. One of the best tops I hooked up with had a penis that probably wasn't even 5 inches, but boy did he make up for the lack of size with his creativity in fucking my ass. We haven't fucked in over 25 years but I still remember the sex I had with him. I can't necessarily say that about the hundreds of other guys I've played with.
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first dick sucked-- cut or uncut?
ballerva replied to cumfillthishole's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
The first dick I sucked was cut and quite small. We were both teens and traded blowjobs in his parents' garage. Probably one of the smallest set of cock and balls that I've ever experienced. Like training wheels for what was to come in the future. -
Close to 100 percent. I do advertise that I only play bareback, so it probably limits the number of people who don't from contacting me.
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
ballerva replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Even though I'm undetectable, I always disclose before a hookup. It's a different story at bathhouse or a bareback sex party, where I assume guys don't care about status. -
Very hard question to answer. I love going to a bathhouse and fucking with total strangers, but I also like the connection I have with regular fuckbuds. Sometimes I want to just fuck every hole or take multiple cocks and loads from strangers; other times I want the passion I get with regulars. Both are hot.
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Ballerva -- just outside of DC
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Any cumdumps here that are neg and drug free?
ballerva replied to Openmouthpolicy's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
If you're on PreP, I don't see what difference it makes whether your sex partners are neg or poz. Undetectable here, and drugs are a no-no for me. There are a lots of guys that say they are neg but in actuality have no idea of their status if they haven't been tested in a while. I'm admittedly biased due to my own status, but I've always believed your "safest" sex is with someone who is undetectable on meds. I get tested for everything every four months. -
100 percent
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Why does becoming POZ make guys become sex crazy
ballerva replied to Dirtyfuckboy's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I didn't chase and don't recommend that guys poz, but it was oddly liberating for me. It revealed the true sexual being inside me, and I no longer had to worry about pozzing. I am a total barebacker now, where before I was a condom nazi. And I love poz talk and poz sex. -
Most embarrassing was actually the first time I ever got fucked. I went to a gay bookstore to buy some magazines. Guy cruised me and we wound up going back to my place. This was in the middle of the AIDS crisis, and not expecting to have sex I didn't have any condoms. I still so wanted to get fucked that I was willing to take it bare. The top had me sit on his cock. As I was starting to squat down (his cock was not yet in me) I was so excited that I shot my load all over his chest. I was totally embarrassed and not at all horny anymore but I felt bad enough that I still squatted on his shaft and took his cock.
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Actually, I prefer option #3 -- cum should flood into the ass!
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I live here so available to breed horny visitors
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I was 12 and it was in my friend/neighbor's garage. He was also 12. I don't know how it even started, but we pulled down our pants and took turns "blowing" each other. Since it was a "blow job" we first thought you were supposed to blow, not suck it. Hilarious. We sucked each other's cocks and rimmed each other all through high school. For some reason, we never did fuck.
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You only have to look at my profile picture to see how much I love black dick.
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What turned you into a bare pig?
ballerva replied to germancumbear's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Short answer: I pozzed. (I wasn't barebacking before I converted.) Took me a while to adjust, but once I did and became undetectable I became a 100 percent bareback pig -
I will be in NYC this week and plan on attending the Dad/Son party on Tuesday night, Workman's Lunch on Wednesday afternoon and the Bear Party on Wednesday evening. $30 to get in each but they are well worth it. And I've never seen anyone use condoms at these parties.
