NJRawDaddy
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I love being a cumdump. I always have the tops draw tick marks on my body. I find the ritual both encourages and reinforces their use of my hole, as well as looks damn sexy when it's done. Show off your body and the tick marks on it. Here's me.
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Cumdump in Secaucus, NJ - March 6, 2026
NJRawDaddy replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in New York Metro Area
Epilogue: 16 guys fucked 24 loads into me. A great time for everyone involved. One amusing moment: a guy showed up with a huuuuge dick. I could only get my mouth on half of it. I was actually a bit scared about being fucked by it. When it came time, he pulled out a condom and put it on. I told him no condoms, so put on his clothes and left. He made his choice, I made mine. But a part of me was relieved that I didn't have to bottom for him. Part of me is regretting I'll never get to experience it.- 1 reply
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The boiler room of the Clara Maass Hospital (now Medical Center) in Newark, NJ. This was over 20 years ago. I don't actually rememer if I was fucked there, but I did have sex. Close enough.
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Normally I would have, but he had traveled out to see me and I got confused with the times. He was in the area and sending messages that he was leaving when I realized the error. He came inside saying he really needed to be going at that moment and didn't have much time to play. So when he pulled out a condom to fuck me, I decided not to make an issue out of it. We had little enough time as it is, and it was my fault that the time got screwed up. Since I was inconviencing him with the time, I wasn't going to press him on the condom. He slide (rubber and all) into me and came within 60 seconds. Set the condom on the edge of the bed and left. I walked him out of my home, then came back to the bedroom. It was still quite warm, so for the first time in my life I poured the cum from a condom into my hole. It was erotic in a suboptimal sleazy kind of way. But I realized that I didn't know how to evaluate it. Was it a load or was it not a load? Since the community is split, I think I'll go with a fair compromise -- each person is free to make their own definition, and in my case I'll count it as half a load. So when I tell people I took "x and a half loads" this year, that ought to get some funny questions how I took half a load. This amusing story will follow.
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I asked ChatGPT for an answer on this. It waffled a fair bit, but I pressed it for an answer. Here's what it finaly said:
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One thought. The urinary incontinence issue may be a major issue for some partners. 25+ years ago as an escort, I arrived at a client's home. The first thing he asked: "are you into watersports?" I said I wasn't. His next question: "Ever wanted to try it?" Me: No thanks. Turns out he'd had radical prostate surgery causing constant (albiet gradual) dribbligns from his dick. When he orgasmed it came out in a giant stream of urine. It wasn't my scene and I would have left earlier had I not been paid by the hour. I have no idea what the surgerys are like today and what percent chance there are of certain side effects. But you may find yourself very popular with certain aspects of the watersports community. I'm sure they'd love urinary orgasms. Good luck to you with your medical challenges.
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I really should have put up a poll...
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Any Ex-Escorts Want to Share Stories
NJRawDaddy replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
I escorted in the mid-late 1990s. I started after I got out of grad school and couldn't get a job. I was one of the first escorts on the Internet. Well, sorta. Y'know how the hookup apps have guys looking for "generous" men? That was a thing back then too. We hung out in the America Online chatrooms. I was one of the first to leave it in favor of building my own web presence. It took off bigger than I ever dreamt possible. I did it full time for about five years. Most of my clients were in the NJ/NYC area, but had clients that flew me around the country and occasionally took me on trips around the world. I eventually wrote two books about be experiences. Both are out of print, but their pages still exist on Amazon. Suburbn Hustler; Stories of a Hi-Tech Callboy. (That's me on the front cover) The Male Escort's Handbook: Your Guide to Getting Rich the Hard Way. (Not me on the front cover, but I'm on the back cover.) I left escorting to get into porn and produce my own line of amateur videos. In retrospect it was a poor idea. Escorting was far easier and more profitable, but it wasn't intellectually challenging. Running a porn business was better at that. I have no real regrets, but in hindsight it wasn't ideal. Bonus points if anyone remembers my "nom de porn" - Aaron Lawrence - from my escort / porn days. I wasn't a big star by any means, but I did have a strong online presence for the day. -
The top didn't empty it in me. He left about 30 seconds after he came, and I emptied it in me. So... Yes? No?
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I need an official ruling. Y'all are perfect for the job. > Does getting fucked with a condom and pouring the load inside your hole count as taking a load? No weaseling out of the question. 😉 I need a yes or no.
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February no loads refused cumdump
NJRawDaddy replied to Eastvillagefun's topic in New York Metro Area
Interesting. I'm new-ish to cumdump events. I've held eight of them so far, all out in NJ. Lowest was 11 loads, highest was 25. The're getting better over time as I refine the system I'm using to hold and promote them. Sorry this one didn't work out for you. You identified one principle that I've been learning. --> Personal satisfaction after the even t= a balance between numbers (maximizing tops and loads) and enjoyment of the experience. Sounds like you didn't get much of either. I've been doing fairly well. Hope your new events and hookups are more rewarding to you. -
February no loads refused cumdump
NJRawDaddy replied to Eastvillagefun's topic in New York Metro Area
So don't leave us in suspense. How'd the big cumdump weekend go? -
I'm glad the Red Roof Plus in Secaucus is getting such rave reviews here. By pure coincidence I'm doing a cumdump event there this Friday night. I normally host mine at the Red Roof Inn in Edison, but thought I'd try a different location and see what happens.
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Bareback cumdump Friday (4pm - 10pm) - Red Roof Inn, Secaucus (Will begin earlier if the hotel gives me advanced checkin) My record: 17 guys / 25 loads in me - all from fucking. Let's break it together. Smooth, pump-and-go flow. Jump in, play, fuck, cum inside me - then recharge and repeat, or head on your way. Bareback only. No drugs (poppers okay). No crossdressing. No other bottoms. All ages and male body types welcome. Regulars and first-timers appreciated. Message for invite.
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365 loads in a year - how's 2026 going?
NJRawDaddy replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in General Discussion
My progress: I've taken 92 loads so far. That brings me all the way up to April 2, so I'm well ahead of schedule. I'm already thinking ahead to 2027, wondering if I should go for 1.5 loads per day on average.
