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if it wasn't me Boss, I promise you I'm not the possessive type - if he didn't look after you properly, I'll show him how to...
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It takes a bit of work to learn how, but best bet is to drink lots of something that tends to be diuretic. Coffee and tea are good but need supplementing with water. Beer's also good, but remember you don't want him falling over drunk, so fruit juice or water before. Most guys know how much they can drink before they need to piss. You need to take him well past that limit. Example: I can easily drink four pints before I need to piss, so if I'm planning on pissfucking I reckon on having two or three pints of water before switching to beer (purely for it's diuretic effect of course). Maybe get him to fuck you with him lying on his back so you're sitting on his dick - that way you could discretely use a hand to press on his bladder. In my experience learning to piss with a hardon is more of a "you just don't do that" psychological thing than anything physical. I find it takes a bit of concentration to get it flowing, but once the tap is on there's no problem.
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Yes Sir, Boss - you have any idea what saying that does to my dick and my mind? Giving you total control of me, knowing that my sole function is to serve, feel whatever pleasure or pain you want me to feel, mouth an arse open to your dick ready to take your piss and your cum...
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oh fuckin hell Boss, just what I needed - the sweet/sour taste of your arse, the feel of your hairy arsehole, the knowledge that anyone with an ounce of imagination can see what I've been doing, but above all, just getting my tongue in your arse...
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"by the time I absorbed your message looks like I pissed myself so fuckn much precum just tasted it fuck want to kiss ya." You know who who are ;-) -
hey pisspig, you ain't heard me getting off (though many of my neighbours have). My introduction to gags was to stop the neighbours from figuring out what was happening...
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'just the right amount of too much' Your bf has a very apt turn of phrase - lucky man!
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However, consider the fact that the very drugs keeping you alive have not been studied in sufficient depth to know what happens in the medium to long term future. HIV gerontology is a completely new field because 20 years ago we were all expected to die within 5 years. Some people are developing the "diseases of old age" much earlier than expected, and in different forms. Prognosis: who knows? Today's drugs are much gentler than the sledgehammers we took in the early nineties, but still cause problems. In some ways today's drugs are working too well: we are seeing the beginnings of an obesity epidemic amongst people with HIV and, in the UK at least, something like 18% of deaths of PwHIV are ascribed to metabolic syndrome (hypertension, hyperlipidaemia, both resulting in heart problems, strokes, diabetes etc) Don't be fooled by the "it's a manageable disease like diabetes" line. Although both are slowly destructive diseases, the course of diabetes is much better charted than that of HIV.
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I Have 2 Personalities - One Rough & One Romantic
bearbandit replied to TxBBTop's topic in General Discussion
How many personalities can a guy have? Around the village I'm the first to coo over a new puppy, beg to smell that puppy breath (I used to have rottweilers), and it's me the little old ladies phone when they need a light bulb changing. I get on the bike and in between giving the finger to road hog car drivers, I'm waving (or least giving recognition nods) to the people I know from the days before I had the bike. Let me ride through a town rather than country roads and I'm a cunt: I learned to ride in London, once I'd passed my test I watched the couriers and learned my moves from them: those guys miss nothing! See me on the bike in town and just give me room or I'll scare the crap out of you: I know precisely how wide my bike and I are... At the same time I'd cheerfully take a learner out on his first forays into traffic, show him how to do a manoeuvre according to the book, and how you really do it (get your licence first!) I can do a perfectly nice dinner and safer sex fuck date (I even change the sheets), but if it's a nasty date, one of us is going to hurt like fuck in the morning despite the grin. My current obsession is pissfucking, don't care which way round, and a recent encounter has given me a taste for gut punching. I have a low platelet count so bleed easily. If it happens, it happens. Ditto a bit of shit on the dick. It's why kitchen roll was invented. I can be a painful, humiliating top without streching the sub's limits further than he's ready for, I can go sub and beg for more (there is one word that really does it for me and I'm deliberately not using it). The consistency I hope I retain in my life is total honesty. -
A thank you to the bottoms out there
bearbandit replied to Deepanalnut's topic in General Discussion
If I know I'm going to get fucked, the night before I have miwsli as my evening meal and take a couple of imodium (loperamide) before I go to bed. I tend not to eat during the day anyway. A couple of hours before I expect him I have some more imodium and will have had a quick douche to make sure. Works for me... If I'm fucking unless it's in proportions to make someone into scat happy, well, isn't that why you keep a towel handy? My tongue isn't long enough to get shit out, but if I get some in my mouth while rimming, I just spit it into his face and move on. Let him deal with it. If I end up with a really shitty dick, he's going to at least attempt to clean it before I use the towel. Let's face it, the arse is a two way street. Giving a top a clean (or even cleanish) ride is common courtesy, but give the bottom a break: many anti-HIV drugs have IBS like side-effects so unless he knows precisely how his medications affect his arse, allow him a little leeway. I've learned how to control my medication when I'm expecting to get fucked and part of that involves taking a drug I wouldn't normally take (imodium - as my doctor says, it's better out than in). If I hit lucky in bottom mode (unlikely in the middle of the countryside) I'd tend to forego getting fucked, suggest using toys or keep it oral, but there are times when shit happens... -
cut all the politics out and what it boils down to is that it takes a man to fuck another man's hole, whether it's mouth or arse. Similarly it takes a man to suck another man's dick, or take that dick up his own arse. No justification or emphasis needed...
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Gay Bashing Victim Guilty Of Assault For Defending Himself
bearbandit replied to rawTOP's topic in LGBT Politics
the "right" to attack someone, even if they have they have invaded your home is still hotly contested. As a former rottweiler owner I've kept a close eye on this one (I lost my last rottweiler in November 2011) Sorry Tony, but you've been reading too many tabloids. There is a problem with Romany people buyng up land, building on it and the requesting retroactive planning permission, but i don't think it's in the same league as what you're talking about. The squatting movement in the UK has been mostly political, mostly left wing or anarchist and has paid close attention to the rights of the owner (usually the local authority: it's been very rare for a privately owned home to be squatted). I lived in a number of squats when I first moved to London: we fixed the places up, made them liveable and maintained them. Any hint of a private owner other than a large corporation was enough to make us get out. The idea of that you could go on holiday and return to find your home squatted was, and continues to be, a fiction generated by a no news day for the right wing press. and ironically the UK right wing look to the US for inspiration... -
A strong argument for my belief that bottom to top is a progression, learning all the way and that even when confirmed (fuck it sounds like church!) in role, it's often good for a pair of bottoms or a pair of tops to have a sneaky fuck while no-one's watching....
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On another hookup site, "versatile" means "top". In a year of membership I've had precisely two hookups who've realised that "versatile" can go either way. One hasn't happened yet, but in the sex talk leading up to us meeting, there are definite points where he wants to be on top. Fine by me. He got it and I'm looking forward to getting and giving it. He's got some delightfully nasty ideas (and I've got worse)... The other presumed is that "versatile" meant "slave". I can do and thoroughly enjoy total bottom, but I can't do a 24/7 scene - once he's out the door I'm back to me. Might be different if we lived together, but that's something we'll ever know. Other guys - I take one look and make the instant decision that the only bit of his body that gets near my arse is his tongue. I don't fret about what people think of me: if desires co-incide, then brilliant. If some guys think I'm not a proper top because I sometimes like to take it up the arse, well, that's their idea. If some guys think Im not a proper bottom because I can't wait to get into that hole, their problem. If some guys just think that well, that's what bearbandit likes... we'll get along fine. I honestly don't believe that there is someone totally right for anyone else one this planet. It's simply a matter of how far you compromise and how happy you are with your choices. Right now? Any horny guys in north mid Wales, I could sure use a load or three... (and I'm not saying which way wihout more communication from you)
