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I've been looking for similar scenes but it seems like guys fantasize it but aren't really willing to do it. I met one guy last year who did a mugging scene where he found me in an alley and roughed me up (kicking, punching, gagging), then fucked me raw and left me on the ground with cum running out of my ass. Never saw him again. I think he blocked me on BBRT. Ater a rape scene I did with three guys, I ended up at the ER with a pretty bad concussion. Other than that, it was great! [i have since added 'don't kick my head' to the short list of limits.] And I'm not into humiliation - the 'puppy', lick my boots thing. I like the violence. Yes, it's twisted, warped, and probably comes from some childhood abuse thing, but there are so few guys who will actually do it that it's kind of a treat for me. I love abduction/mugging/rape scenes and fucking outdoors in the dark in an industrial/warehouse/garage setting. I could go on... any Boston, Providence or Ptown guys who want to play should send me a PM.
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I found the blog of a guy who is documenting his attempt to use this on his pubes... http://triaformen.blogspot.com/
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Laser doesn't work for everyone, either. A number of years ago, my daddy at the time insisted that I get laser removal to make my ass perfectly smooth. It worked temporarily but even after a number of expensive treatments the fur still grew back (though somewhat less). He really got off on my hairless butt, so it was worth it to him. I would be very hesitant to try to do any kind of laser treatment at home. Laser removal hurts. I don't mind pain but I'm not good at inflicting it on myself. And I can only imagine the kind of contortions you'd need to go through to use that Tria Beauty thing on your ass.
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I thought "Condom Nazi" was an exaggeration
calrockxxx replied to HungLatinDom's topic in General Discussion
There will always be assholes preaching to tell others what they should do. The condom brigade has failed miserably in trying to get guys to use them despite giving them out for free all over the place. But he goes on and on and on. This guy was an activist, so he obviously harbors lots of anger toward people who haven't been following his rules. No one is using condoms, so he needs to yell louder. He mentions how condom use is supposed to be enforced at sex clubs in SF. I'd love to see someone try and tell me to use a condom when I'm standing naked fucking a guy at a sex club. The condom brigade prey on fear, and you know what, HIV is treatable so there's not so much fear any more. -
This reminded me that PBS is airing the documentary "We Were Here". The 2011 film follows five men in San Francisco during the AIDS crisis. I found it hard to watch, and it made really clear how fortunate we are today to have meds that help keep us healthy. It's available on DVD from Netflix, too.
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I was checking out BBRT and I have a question ...
calrockxxx replied to a topic in General Discussion
All of the categories are kind of arbitrary. A4A has that weird "anything goes". And Manhunt is completely lacking in a "Bareback" profile checkbox even though they have a Bareback chat room :\ -
Yeah, this happens to me from time to time on BBRT and Manhunt. I used to block guys when I realized I knew them. Now I just unlock for them and see what happens. I've even bumped into a couple of them on here
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Where are you most successful with barebacking?
calrockxxx replied to DaddyBare's topic in General Discussion
For me it's either BBRT or someplace where there's lots of anon sex. Here I'm lucky that everyone in town is a short walk or bike ride away, so it's easy to hook up without the drama I often see in posts on here. We also have the infamous Dick Dock during the summer which is full of guys looking to get off. Great fun. -
For me it totally depends on the guy. If I'm in a dark room fucking or getting fucked, I probably won't be kissing. If I'm 1-on-1 with a guy I find really attractive, I probably will. I'll let some guys fuck me who I wouldn't normally touch with a 10-ft pole. And I just don't like kissing guys with moustaches or beards. Bad breath and bad teeth also turn me off. So it's not a yes/no for me. I met a guy at a sex party and we started kissing -- the host flipped out, demanding "no kissing!" And I have several regular guys I play with who never kiss.
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I laughed when I read this; it's so true. It struck me last year how accustomed I am to fetish gear, sex toys, leather, restraints etc. when I took a straight girlfriend into a sex shop. She was terrified and I felt like a tour guide. But at least I got her to buy her first dildo (at 32 years old!). Back to the OP's question: What is "pig play"? I equate it mostly with assplay and cum play (rimming, cum eating, felching, snowballing), but not to raunch (where raunch implies scat). But then I wonder where watersports and fisting fit into this. Are they pig play, raunch, or something else entirely?
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In my little corner of the world it's pretty widely understood that "wild" means bareback and "mild" means with a condom. And look -- rubio2001 above used the phrase "get freaky", apparently to mean "have kinky sex". It's vocabulary day at Breedingzone!
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From my experience, it's just a synonym for "kinky" and doesn't refer to any specific kind of sex act. I've never asked any of the guys I've fucked around with, but it seems to generally mean uninhibited sex. Urban Dictionary says this for Freaky Sex: Another way of having kinky sex only in a more perverted manner. How do you have kinky sex in a more perverted manner?? Other words we need to define... piggy pig play wild mild to wild puppy play K9 slam ball fucking (there's a slang term for this) There are plenty of noobs and more experienced guys who just kind of stumble through the vocabulary without knowing what it means - until it's too late! I think maybe you should start a dictionary thread!
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Why not both?
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Increase Nipple size and sensitivity
calrockxxx replied to DarkroomTaker's topic in General Discussion
Getting them pierced will definitely make them more sensitive. Mine tend to stand at attention much more with the piercings I was thinking of "crossing" my nipple piercings with another set of piercings behind the current one, to form an X. That would definitely make them bigger! Unfortunately, mine have been acting up a lot lately even though they're several years old. I may retire them and do more piercings "down below," but that's another thread... -
I love my PA and rarely take it out. It took about a month to heal. I've tried lots of different jewelry and prefer what they call a "curved barbell". It doesn't get caught on clothing like a circular barbell does and you can take it out easily unlike a captive bead ring (the last time I had a captive bead ring it took me and my piercer both squeezing a big pair of pliers to take the thing apart). New piercing are usually done with a captive bead ring since you want to be able to move it without taking it out once it starts to heal. I always go commando these days since I find it uncomfortable to wear underwear with a big ring (I don't even like wearing jocks anymore).
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Do poz guyz need more sex than neg guyz?
calrockxxx replied to cougkdc99's topic in General Discussion
I don't know if I need more sex, but I definitely get more sex than any neg guys I know. My therapist thinks I spend too much time thinking about sex, so I don't tell him about it anymore. I try to get in at least one trick a day. It's kind of an apple-a-day thing for me. There's no shortage of bottoms here, so it's really not hard to get in a daily fuck. -
I'd say the ones that do the most damage are multiple frenum piercings, AKA a Jacob's ladder. I find they hurt the most, too. I have a PA and I like the feeling of fucking with it, but the only time I ever really felt a PA in my ass was when I got fucked by a big 00 gauge one. (Mine is a 4 gauge, so it's small in comparison.)
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why is cheating so prevalent in our community?
calrockxxx replied to LABoundanddown's topic in General Discussion
I don't think cheating is really that much more common. There are plenty of monogamous couples out there. I'm not into that, so I get called a slut, whore, player... whatever. I know what I want and I go after it. If a guy says no, I move on. No need to beat around the bush. And anyone who says sex isn't important in a long-term relationship has never been in one. -
You can find them, they're just not out on display. Try the fetish shop on Mass Ave near the Central Square T stop in Cambridge. Ask for "polish remover". If you're traveling, don't try to bring them on board an airplane. There is a nice little sign at the Ptown airport warning travelers that they could be arrested for carrying them.
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Definitely into some cum swapping fun In Ptown most weekends and Boston weekdays...
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I've never bought any (stole some as a kid to play with them; had a particular fascination then with the "natural" ones made of sheep intestines). I collect them and used to have ziploc bags full of them. The local ASO gives out these little packages with a couple of condoms, lube and a breath mint here in town during the summer. I use the breath mint and the lube and periodically bring the condoms back to the ASO to restock the bin at their office.
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Do you know of any resources to learn more about HIV treatment outside the US? I haven't been able to find much online, but I may not be looking in the right places.
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It's pretty much what you make it. I don't go to any of the ticketed events; I just go to Steamworks and find guys on BBRT and fuck all weekend Strangely, Factory Videos has a boot this year at the Leather Market -- they are all BB porn and Damon Dogg (formerly with TIM) is part of their stable now. They're part of the same group that runs BBRT, too :-)
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By "bareback sites" do you mean hookup sites or porn sites? What are these "many sites" you speak of?
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Cumunion Providence/Boston party on April 21
calrockxxx replied to calrockxxx's topic in Boston / Providence Metro Areas
Didn't make it. There's another one coming up on May 19, same place.