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You need a core few guys who you know will participate and then have them put the word out to their fuckbuddies. If it's just a wide open invitation to people you don't know, most of them will be no-shows. Sometimes I just get together with a buddy and then invite guys over via BBRT or MH. Works pretty well for us

Yes, it's obnoxious. It shows how immature they are if they can't even utter the words "HIV positive." I've gotten very good act clicking the "block" and "ignore" buttons when I come across those profiles. But the whole "clean" thing is no worse than the guys who say they're neg in their profiles and then say they're poz when they hit me up. What other things do they lie about?

I've been to a couple of the Raw Riders NYC parties. Had a great time. You can find the party organizer on here - he's RawRidersNYC. He's more often logged in at BBRT as RawRidersNYC.

Well I guess I'll just have to start highlighting that as one of my specialties

I used to have a ton of apps on my phone (Grindr, Growlr, Mister, Scruff, Recon...) but I find the BBRT & Manhunt mobile web sites are all I need for hookups. Lots of the guys on the apps were just browsing and wanting to chat. And my friends who are on the apps don't need to be seeing me in all my slutty glory

Rush gives me the worst headaches I've ever had. I've found that Amsterdam is nice and smooth but doesn't pack much punch. I stick with the Jungle Juice Platinum Black when I can find it; it works the longest for me. In a pinch I'll use whatever's kicking around as long as it's not Rush

Another term I hear sometimes on British TV is "trouser-tightening", as in "trouser-tighteningly good". To me that conjures up the image of a guy getting a hard-on in his pants. Is that what it actually refers to?

Massachusetts may be liberal, but it's still puritanical. Boston has pretty much zoned sex out of the city completely. There are a couple of adults stores for toys and whatnot, but no back rooms or video booths anywhere. There's Main Street Video in Somerville (across the river to the north), but I've never been. I used to hang out at the Fens when I was much younger and did get some action there, but it was completely hit or miss. (The cruising area of the Fens is a section of overgrown reeds on the shore at the intersection of Boylston St the Charlesgate ramps to Storrow Drive. It's a few blocks from Fenway Park.) The two bath houses in Providence, RI, are a better bet IMHO, and they're only an hour south of Boston.

The only studio video I've ever seen pissfucking in is Dick Wadd's "Palm Springs Wet Dream (2002)". There are some scenes available on demand at AEBN. And there's a detailed description of the video at gayfistingvideos.tv. I think Scene 2 is the pissfuck. There are probably others, but I don't watch a lot of piss videos since they tend to have a lot of fisting in them too and I'm not into watching that onscreen.

Yeah I got lost in how to post in "personals > men seeking men" and it took a while to figure it out. You have to categorize the post like this: personal/romance > dating, romance, long term relationship (ltr) > i am a man seeking a man > and then choose the geographic area you want it posted in I don't know why they have these separate sections, since most of the posts in "men seeking men" are NOT ltr posts -- they're just guys looking to suck cock. It's also useful to put "m4m m4mm mm4m mm4mm" at the bottom of the message so it gets found in searches

I used to buy stuff from Fort Troff, but the melting dildo incident recently (described in another thread - search the forum for "toxic sex toys") has put me off them. Their customer service has been pretty bad. My favorite toys are from Ox, so check them out at oxballs.com. I'll only use silicone toys from now on, since they appear to be the safest. Just use water-based lube with them and it looks like you're good to go. I'm lucky to have a great fetish shop in Provincetown -- Full Kit Gear (they are testing a new web shop at fullkitgear.com). It's always nice to be able to chat with knowledgeable sales staff and try stuff on before plunking down lots of cash. Mr S Leather in San Francisco also has a great selection of basic and advanced toys, and they make a lot of their leather and neoprene gear themselves (they have a web shop at mr-s-leather.com, and you can even buy some of their products on Amazon).

I used to have the same experience. I find if I've been drinking or doing g I can fuck and fuck and fuck without shooting too soon. If a guy has a really really tight hole, though, I have a hard time holding back.

Had a great time last night with a couple of guys who found me on MH. They were both tweeking so I figured what the hell and did a little g, then ended up being the top for the first hour or so, alternating between them, fucking them and eating their asses. I finally got one of them nice and hard. He had a fantastic 7-inch dick with a nice curve, and he was mighty hard once he got his dick inside me. Pounded me over and over and damn I really wanted it. Finally we jerked off together and both shot all over his chest. I slurped up both our loads and swallowed all that cum. His load was nice and sweet. We cleaned up and I left. Hoping I get a repeat with him; always nice to find a guy with a sweet ass and a hard dick who can actually be vers even when he's high

Provincetown, Provincetown, Provincetown. I wouldn't live anywhere else. Great sex, a small community that looks after each other, crazy fun in the summer, and lots of guys my age. Very little of the UB2 crap here (except during circuit week in the summer). Stunning beaches, lots to do outdoors (whether sport or sex), and a walkable place where you can get by easily without a car. My main mode of transport is a bicycle, even in the winter. It's immaculately clean, incredibly safe, and gay as can be. This place has its share of small-town drama, but I enjoy sitting back and watching it unfold rather than getting all worked up about it. It has good health care and lots of support services for folks with HIV. And with ferry service and its own little airport, it's easy to get to Boston, NY or anywhere else for a break.

The easiest position to vid a fuck is if you're the top holding the camera while the bottom is on his back, or doggy style when you're topping (I prefer the bottom on his back so I can get his face too). I really like the helmet cam idea though to get the bottom's perspective. You just don't see that in any porn! (Google iPhone helmet mount and you'll see lots of dorky solutions.) If you can't get a third guy, the second best is the cam on a tripod or a table. It takes some practice to make sure you are in a good position to get a decent shot. I don't have any trouble holding a camera when I'm topping (it's easier with a cam that has a hand strap, but I usually just use my iPhone). It's great to get a nice shot of my dick sliding in and out after I've cum in his ass... love to see my cum on my dick!

I'll probably stick with the Oxballs silicone dildos from now on. These silicone things are expensive, though, and the material is firmer than the PVC and rubber dildos I used to have (I like a nice hard dick, so that's not a problem for me!). Oxballs was super responsive to questions and I really liked the dildo that melted! Their products are sold all over the place. I'll be doing my shopping locally (there's a great fetish store here in town) so that I can actually judge the size of these things in person. Oxballs sells direct online at their shop... shop dot oxballs dot com. My dildo that melted due to the PVC exposure was "the Ogre" which is listed under the "Large" section. I don't know what their customer service is like, so I can't speak to that. Anyone else have suggestions?

Ok guys, we don't talk much on here about sex toys, but I for one am a fan. But then I had a weird experience. I stored two dildos together for a few months in the same bag. One was an Oxballs silicone dildo (I paid $130 for this gem), the other was a Fort Troff Sticky Bomb 6.5, made of PVC according to their web site (I paid $40 for this one). When I took them out of the bag, there was black goo all over both of them. Where the two had touched, the silicone dildo had melted away into a gooey mess. I tried to clean it up, but the part of the silicone dildo where the two had touched had become sticky and still seemed to ooze black goo. I was perplexed, so I contacted the place I'd bought the Oxballs silicone one and Fort Troff via email. Here's what Fort Troff had to say: Some toys have a negative effect when they come in to contact with other toys. It's the materials that they are made out of. There is unfortunately not a 100% way to know which toys can come into contact with each other. We provide bags for each toys that we sell for our customers to store the toys in. You should always store them apart from each other or in separate bags. OK, that was vague, and I didn't get a bag in my order, nor did I get any storage instructions or warning about any possible "negative effect" of toys coming in contact with each other. Then I got a helpful message from Ox via the reseller I'd bought the silicone toy from... ...sometimes certain plastics, like the really smelly vinyl toys or clear jelly toys, (not TRP like we make) will melt the surface of other plastics or silicones… PVC (vinyl) should not be used as a toy unless you put a rubber over it, btw, it is not approved by any FDA in any country for use on skin or in the body, if a toy has that new car smell, it is toxic… I checked my Fort Troff Sticky Bomb and sure as hell it reeked of "new car smell". And I hadn't been using a condom over it. Egad, is this thing I'd been sticking up my butt toxic? So I did a little research online. And I quickly learned that sex toys are unregulated, and there has been quite a bit written on PVC toys and the dangers of the phthalates that are used to make them translucent and soft. The most damning was this article from the Village Voice back in 2007: Dangerous Dildos. In the article the author has this to say: ...many toy manufacturers have begun advertising products as "phthalate-free." ... but dildo companies are not required to list a toy's actual ingredients. This allows the industry to provide misleading and incorrect labeling, which it routinely does, from "hypoallergenic dildos" to so-called silicone toys that aren't made of silicone. So what did I learn from this experience? 1. Don't buy house brand toys, even from a well-known shop like Fort Troff. 2. Don't store toys together. Make sure they're in separate bags (and not plastic bags, either). 3. Use water-based lube with toys, not silicone. 4. NEVER buy a toy that is made of PVC or "vinyl", since these most likely contain the phthalates that are harmful and potentially cancer-causing. Now I'm out about $190 in damaged and potentially toxic toys. I forwarded the message from Ox on to Fort Troff. I ever hear from them, I'll report back. And it will be interesting to see how they respond when they get my used Sticky Bomb dildo returned for a refund.

Love sex in the dark. Heightens all the other senses There are always some guys I'm not that into, but if they've got great cocks I don't mind.

Mmmm. Take me with you?

Condom porn is too sanitized for me -- look at all the stuff Falcon/Raging Stallion puts out. The guys barely look like they're into it. Clearly there's a big market for it, and I'm just not in their demographic. And Bel Ami's crap is the same, regardless of the condoms. Those guys look *so* bored it's pathetic. I definitely prefer watching regular-looking guys having sex over those toned, shaved muscle guys any day. But when guys bareback and then just lay back and jerk off on their chests, that kills the fun for me.

Is it rape when it's consensual? I don't think so. Is it rape just because someone is poz? That doesn't make any logical sense. Even before I was poz I always equated barebacking with HIV. I didn't always disclose that I was neg, and that pissed off more than a couple of poz guys I had sex with. They didn't want to feel responsible for passing it on. So if a guy asks you to poz him and he gets HIV, can he then sue you in court in Canada and win? Is there anyway to ever prove sex is consensual? No, it' just he said/(s)he said. Bareback = Poz, and the courts need to recognize that the risk of transmission falls on the person who is neg when he willing participates in bareback sex.

I can't stand cock rings; I've always found them too constricting. I go for ball stretchers instead, and I'll wear them anywhere, anytime

OK, so I had a random guy on Grindr ask me to fuck him. I was kinda in the mood, it was early, so I said what the hell. I told him I was poz and whatnot and he said he wanted me to fuck him with a condom. Yeah, like I'd do that. I thought I'd be respectful and put a few condoms on the nightstand. When he showed up and we started playing, he wanted me to rub my dick against his hole. Then he wanted the head in. Then a little more. Finally he just pushed himself all the way down on my dick and started riding. His ass was one of the tightest I've ever fucked. So I came pretty quickly, I told him I was gonna cum and he leaned forward and pulled my dick out. I shot all over his back. Then he said "wipe it off and push it in," which being the cum pig that I am meant "wipe up all that cum and push it in my hole." That's what I did but that wasn't what he wanted. He wanted my dick wiped down and pushed back in his ass. Oops. So much for communication. I got soft and he really wanted me hard, so he turned around and started sucking on it. This was not the behavior of a guy who wants to use condoms! Do any of you guys ever have this happen? A guy who says he wants condoms and then doesn't use them? I found it annoying, since I'm pretty damn clear about what I want (well, most of the time). I haven't used a condom ever (I only remember jacking off in them when I was a kid), so I wasn't really planning to use one anyway.

good lord i've never even looked at the tv screens in any of the saunas I've visited i do like it when guys in the rooms next to me are watching it though so i can enjoy the sound track!

Don't know him - what vids is he in??