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hairyone

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  • Birthday 01/01/1965

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  1. In a non-sexclub situation, how often do the tops not say anything compared to those who do say something (or give a smack on the ass)?
  2. I started Doxy PEP on recommendation from my doctor here in Washington, DC. I get tested every 3-4 months and get an STI maybe every other year. But, my doctor recommended it for me several months after this year's Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL). MAL is a huge leather, sex-filled event held in DC every year. And every year my doctor, who has a large gay patient base, sees PLENTY of STIs in the weeks following MAL. However, Doxy PEP was available at MAL this year for all attendees for free and those guys took advantage of it. And this year, my doctor saw no STIs like he usually does from MAL attendees. ZERO. ZILCH. So far, good enough for me!
  3. Bottoms, after a hookup (anon, or cum-and-go, or bathhouse, etc.), how do you feel when a top ignores you without saying anything and just leaves? How often does that happen? A lot of times it appears the top will try to make small-talk or say something like "Thanks" or "See ya" or something like that as they leave (or even a smack on the ass). Is that because of "good manners"? I wonder how often a top just ignores the bottom after they get off and how that makes the bottom feel. Tops, do you do that? Why?
  4. 59 years old and I still JO every day (usually even on the same day I have sex with someone). Many times I'll JO 2 or 3 times a day; rarely 4 times or more but not uncommon. It is very rare that I miss a day but that's usually a REALLY busy day or wanting to "save up" for an upcoming very special occasion.
  5. I've had a few anal orgasms over the years but they've been more frequent over the past few years. During covid lockdown, I purchased a fuck machine and was able to learn how to take bigger dildos into my ass. Once I started becoming comfortable with having my second hole penetrated, I started having anal orgasms and it seemed it was caused by a spot about 9 - 10 inches deep, right past the second hole. They don't last minutes for me but I can get several over a short time period. It's not like a regular, ejaculatory orgasm (which is still better for me) but I still love the anal orgasms! I haven't gotten the same intensity from getting fucked by a man. But I think my body is starting to learn. Just the other day, I was using smaller dildos with my fuck machine (6.5" long and 7.5" long) and I started having anal orgasms pretty quickly! Part of it is because I'm learning what it feels like when I start getting that... "tickle" inside (not sure how to describe it). But then it builds until my eyes roll back in my head, and the muscles deep in my ass start spasming sending waves of pleasure through me. When I use the bigger dildos and start to have an anal orgasm, my muscle spasms push out the big dildo and it kinda distracts or shortens the orgasm. But, when I was using the shorter ones the other day (which didn't go past the second hole and they are a bit firmer), I didn't push it out and had some pretty intense orgasms without ejaculating. I don't get that "post ejaculation let down" after an anal orgasm. I can definitely have more. I usually don't have a hardon. That could be because I'm really focused on my ass or that I'm getting a bit older. I've always had a lot of precum but I get a LOT more with a session on my fuck machine. After playing for awhile (up to a few hours) on my fuck machine, I can still have a regular ejaculation orgasm. Other times I'm satisfied with just the anal orgasms.
  6. It's a very smart way to launder money from churches to his personal coffers. There will be entire congregations that will buy it.
  7. You're 28 in a sexless relationship!? 😦 Dude, you deserve better. Have a chat with her and tell her your needs. Figure it out before you are bitter and old. If you continue bb sex with men, you need prep. You don't want HIV. Yeah, it's treatable but there is no cure and life on treatment sucks. If you do get HIV, get on the meds and take care of yourself.
  8. I love the Edge 2 by Lovense. [think before following links] https://www.lovense.com/adjustable-prostate-massager It has two very strong motors which massage inside as well as outside (along the taint). Some of the pre-programmed sessions are incredible.
  9. I have a thick dick and sliding into a pre-lubed and pre-fucked hole is usually so much easier. It's an amazing, loose, warm, silky feel. But what really gets me going is when I can hear the bottoms guts sloshing around with the cum of many men while I'm fucking him. Then I know I'm with a talented and well-used cumdump. I understand that feeling and switch between feeling a bit jealous and a bit thankful to share a talented hole with other men knowing they have had their pleasure in him as I am about to.
  10. The manufacturer has a co-pay assistance program that could cover most of that. Call them. [think before following links] https://hcp.epclusa.com/access-and-support#:~:text=The EPCLUSA Co-pay Coupon,co-pay for their medicine. Good luck, man.
  11. Living in Washington, DC, and running in to sex workers occasionally, I have heard stories of escorts officially signing NDA's for some of their clients. They are paid handsomely for it. But it's the classic case of those who have much to lose, go to great lengths to ensure that discretion. Not real sure if those NDA's can be enforced but it could take a ton of money in legal fees to defend breaking an NDA. And any rentboy who blabs isn't going to stay in business long. And I'm sure those NDA's are written in a way that keeps any hint of prostitution out of it. (NDA = Non-Disclosure Agreement. Legal way to keep someone's mouth shut or they can face severe consequences, $$$$$.)
  12. Sex is easy to get (particularly for a top). Discretion is not. Many customers are not necessarily paying for sex. They are paying for silence. Good rentboys keep every hole open for their client during their meeting and keep their mouth shut after the appointment.
  13. Sex without intimacy is one of the most basic biological and physiological needs of humans. And those most basic needs have to be met before we desire intimacy. Sexual intimacy is part of a love and belongingness need of humans. And these needs can only be addressed after the biological needs are met and even after the needs for safety is met. Check out "Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs" where he discusses the levels of human needs for fulfillment. [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs There are different levels of intimacy (think of levels of intimacy from "acquaintance" through "long-term spouse"). You could consider learning someone's name as low-level part of intimacy. Of course, when great sex and great intimacy combine into one experience, THAT's powerful!
  14. Is there a video of someone putting this on? Honestly, I'm just not seeing how it all goes together. 😕
  15. I love fucking and breeding in many positions. But my favorite is with the bottom on his stomach, flat on the bed, legs slightly apart so I can mount him with my legs on the outside of his thighs. In this position, I can get in deep and grind around in all directions depending how high or low I'm entering his pussy. Moving up a little, my dick pushes down harder onto his prostate and love his response when I punch it just right with my cock. I can also get up on my knees and enjoy the view of his back (especially if hairy and/or tattooed! WOOF!) and his submissive position. Or I can lay fully on his back to hold him down (again, if his back is hairy, my hairy chest rubbing his hairy back drives me wild!); lick or chew his ears and neck (even easily grab his hair if I want). I can grab his hips and hold him on my dick the way I want. I really enjoy finally grabbing his shoulders (under or over) and pull him onto my cock as I unleash my load into him. There's a combination of closeness and submission that gets me off. There is also an option for him to easily suck off another guy sitting on the bed at his head and THAT gives me an awesome view. Hell, I can even help! LOL Damn. I'm hard again!
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