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I agree with this, I feel the USA gotta be one of the bottomest countries in the world. Why this is like that, could be due to so many things. I feel every total bottom is born like that, and he hardly fucks another guy. Instead, top guys, even though are born being top as well, tend to be more curious and bottom from time to time. A top never run short of options in this side of the world. Sadly, many bottoms don't find what they are looking for, constantly need to lower their standards to get some dick.

I walk around bare feet. Why would I be so worried about stepping on cum or piss? If I were to get it in my ass! About athletes foot, well, there's otc generic brands which work excellent to get rid of it, fast. I've never gotten athlete's foot for walking around barefeet, wonder how likely is that to happen. I also wonder, why is wearing booths, sneakers or such "required", or the norm at sex parties? i don't get it yet.

Anywhere in the USA I've been to or lived at I have gotten more attention than where I live. I feel the clue is being different, and not necessarily being of other race/culture. There's many ways of being different.

I feel true versatility doesn't exist, no one can say he is 50/50 anytime, anywhere, with anyone, it makes no sense. Nevertheless, it does exist to some extent, for example, I'd say that I'm 80% top, 20% bottom. I don't have any specific type of guy; I like many races, sizes, colors, etc. But when it comes to sex, I have very well defined types of guys I'd like to get fucked by, which are the fewest. I am an excellent top, but not good at bottoming. When bottoming, I'm ashamed of most positions, don't like to be watched by others, feel pain, take forever to clean myself, I'm a bad dick sucker I'm not interested in it, I'm kinda dominant/commanding which is not the typical role of a bottom, 90% of the times I jo I think in past experiences when I was the top, etc. Then why do I bottom? I'm not really sure, probably has to do with trying something different, the excitement of it. I also like manly men, so if I meet a good looking manly guy who is 100% top, I wouldn't let him go. When I bottom, for some strange reason, I like it to last for a long time, and even though it hurts, I somehow manage to handle it. If I meet a top I chat with before meeting, I tell him most of this, so he knows what to expect. Most agree and are satisfied, as even though I'm not a power bottom, they feel they are fucking another top, which makes them really horny, plus my ass is really tight, which adds to that sensation. My experiences with other versatile guys I've had sex with is we usually assume a definite role. If I'm to get fucked by a top, I prefer him to be a total top, not expecting me to fuck him or viceversa. I hear a lot that versatile guys enjoy the most, but it's not necessarily true. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable with this situation, I'd love to be 100% top, as I know I'm excellent at it and besides getting fucked from time to time, all of me is a top; I dress, act, talk like one. I am 100% gay, and I am not ashamed of telling others that I also bottom, don't hide that part of me, I'm very open regardless of my conflicts with being a bottom. As a top, I have an above average dick, good girth. It gets rock hard in no time and stays so for a long time without pills, drugs, alcohol, or cockrings. I can fuck nonstop for 3 hours if the bottom resists. I love rimming ass, sucking nipples. I love to try many different positions and see the bottom's horny face. I am dominant/commanding. I have no problem being watched when fucking another guy, among other things. Sometimes I wonder if I could call myself a top, it's comparable to married men who have sex from time to time with other men but keep calling themselves str8, and it kinda makes sense if he just do it because of the excitement of trying something different, but are emotionally and physically attached to women. I feel most guys, regardless of their sexual position preference, prefer not to know what you really like. For example, if I were to fuck a bottom, he just wants to know that part of me, a top. If i were to fuck a versatile guy who is into bottoming, the same applies. If I were to get fucked by a top, he might just want to know that part of me, to think that i'm a bottom. Don't get me wrong, I am more than cool with what I am, I just do what I wanna do, this is not in my mind 24/7. And I've met some versatile guys I've fucked and they've fucked me, and I'd say is the most wonderful thing about been a gay man. But finding guys you are really compatible with and willing to do just one thing with is very hard, imagine finding guys with full compatibility that you would like to do 2 things with, it's beyond hard to find, I'd say I have met only 3 of those! All of this is kinda random, I'm not sure what's the main purpose of this, nor what to ask. I'd say it's about confusion. How do you fully top or bottom guys see versatility, and how you versatile guys see it, does the same happens to you, or are you fully happy with being vers? Any thoughts, comments, experiences, or impressions are cool.

Thanks, you said what I was going to say but didn't. Some guys whose looks are well above average tend to be self centered, shallow. If a guy with a normal body have sex with a muscled one, the muscled one tends to feel superior than him, as it's usually the case when, for example, an engineer have sex with a cashier of a fast food restaurant. Looks are always important, but a human should be admired by how humble, caring, dedicated, he is with himself and with others, not just based on his credentials, his job/salary, and/or how beautiful his body is. I might not have sex with someone nice but "ugly", as he is not attractive to me, but I'd admire him, good personality is a big plus. I wouldn't have sex either with the muscled engineer one because I dislike attitudes, and I wont admire him, as there are millions of professional with great bodies around the world, nothing special about him.

I pretty much felt the same when I started going to cruising sites. I'd say that if you are concerned about getting any STD, better advice is to always use a condom, no matter how "normal" the guy looks or what he tells you. Nevertheless, going to such places is so exciting, you might be very tempted to start doing even riskier things, so maybe you should have your STD tests done, and if you are free of them, then look for a bf who is STD free as well so there's a "lower" chance of getting one or more of them. Many times, when it's dark, we don't fully get to appreciate how the man we are approaching or who is approaching us looks like, and even takes some time, talk a bit before figuring it out, and many use lots of camouflage, wear clothes that cover them all but their hands, then use hats, so you got to see only his hands and part of his face, I usually avoid these ones; if this is the case all I do is to talk a bit more, then making up some fake story as "good to meet you, but I gotta go", or ask him first what he likes, if he says, for example "I like to fuck I'm a top", then you say "I'm sorry but I am a top too this wont work", another thing I do is to act like I am nervous then I say "I'm sorry I'll keep walking around I'm too nervous right now, "I'm afraid of getting caught by police", also "there's some people coming, or some people around, I feel uncomfortable will leave". If you are already engaged in a sexual act and for any reason you wanna leave, maybe you got tired, bored, lost interest, or he is not so good at it, smells bad, or whatever, I do basically the same, start looking very often all around, then say "I think someone is around, I'm sorry lets stop it I feel uncomfortable". It's all about making up a story which seems to be true, or even though he knows its fake, he wont feel bad about it. You will find out your own ways of dealing with different situations; stories will be varied if you really will leave, or if you will keep looking for other guys around. From my experience I know guys get mad when suddenly leaving, with attitude, or you demonstrate you are angry because he is not what you were looking for, a fake story, plus being nice and humble, with some acting is preferred.

This is a great topic, I could write down so many things, but here are a few good ones that jump to my mind. At cruising places, bath houses, sex clubs and such. - 100% bottoms who touch their dicks, showing their bulge instead of showing their asses. - Guys who wear jeans, a polo and shoes at sex parties, they should be absolutely banned, asked to leave. - Guys that rejected you minutes ago, but if they see you in action, they want to join. - When you are very horny fucking someone then someone non of you is interested in keeps looking, walking nearby and doesn't leave. - This one is very common, those who ask "do you have a condom", if you want a condom, are so worried about not using it, then why the F*** don't you bring them with you? they are cheap and sold everywhere. - Those who take your load or give theirs to you, then ask "you are clean right"? Great moment to ask, after you are done! - This one might not be so common, but happened to me once, probably was the most annoying moment I've had while having anonymous sex. Before getting fucked by this guy, I was fucked by another guy who came in me, after 3 or so minutes after he started fucking me **BB** he asked, someone already came in you right? I replied, yes, then he said, you gotta be careful with some guys who come this place. I took his dick out my ass, put my shorts up and started walking and ignored him like a piece of s***. - Bitchy/judgemental attitude of others; not at churches, not at health clinics, at cruising places! - Those who ask personal questions, even when both know they won't see each other again. I know everyone lies when asked such things, and I don't care saying whatever comes to my mind, but it's annoying. There are so many other things to talk about, or even better, just shut up and fuck! - Guys that, if you let them, suck your dick for 2 hours nonstop, it's plain boring I need more action. - Tops that cum in 3 minutes. - Bottoms that there's no way they didn't know they were not ready to get fucked yet put their asses in the air to get fucked not caring on what will happen. - When you become regular of a hooking up place then someone you already had sex with and it didn't go so well, every time he sees you he approaches you and start talking/socializing. I go to such places because I love diversity, options to choose from, different people, so leave me alone I'm no longer interested in you! - This one gotta be among the most annoying ones, the one we all must know how to deal with unless you are one of them. I mean groups of guys; 3, 4, 5, 6 who gather and start talking s***, dancing, laughing loud, watching Lady Gaga concerts in Youtube through their smartphones, and all looking at you and commenting when you walk by them. In dark rooms: - When you are fucking a guy or getting fucked, then someone else starts touching the dick as to feel if you are fucking bb. - Guys that start touching you, you are not interested and take his hand off. Then that procedure is repeated like 15 times because they don't stop doing it. Wow, got tired thinking on all of this, yet I could write 10 times more what I already did. All of these activities would be so much nicer if we act like common sense dictates.

Besides big cocks, gays LOVE a well toned or muscled body, it's a huge obsession. I also love toned bodies, but if I were to choose, I'd prefer better looks, a cute manly and horny face but no muscles, and even a bit of belly fat drives me crazy, much more than a muscled body guy who's face is not the best looking one. Reason for this might be that all muscled bodies tend to look the same, gets boring over time, but a face is unique to every single human. Also, anyone can have a muscled body if they work for it, it's not a natural feature they were born/blessed with, so if the guy with good looking face gets toned/muscled, wow! would be fantastic. So what do you feel, if you were to decide between one or the other, which one you prefer.

I just ignore it. Most guys want 9, 10, 11, 12 inches cocks, but can't actually take a 7" one without complaining. Is this desire, the fantasy of huge cocks that have driven gays to lie about their real size. On average, I notice guys add 2 extra inches to their real cock size, so if someone says he is 9, most probably he is actually 7. Because of this, we sometimes tend to think that the average cock size is 8 (the universal cock size), and 9 is just slightly above average, and 7 is small. Fact is, studies have found the average dick size is 6, 8 is not the universal size, it's actually well hung, 9 is horse hung, and 7 is good enough. Yes, there are plenty of guys with 7, 8 or 9 inches cocks, but there are muchhhh more who are somewhat around 6. I have been fucked by guys with small and big cocks, and a bigger size doesn't necessarily mean more pleasure, it's about how good the guy topping does it.

I am kinda weird, but I can suck dick and ass as long as it's not sweat and/or stinky, but I'm sensitive to smells in the mouth, the slightest sense of bad bread makes me ill. Nevertheless, I do love kissing, just avoid it because of what I just said, but if I have a strong tasting mint with me or something like that, I could do it and makes me horny. Besides bad breath, I also notice some guys have lots and lots of saliva and it, along with their tongues, feel cold, which is beyond nasty. I'm more than cool kissing another guy when having sex if all of the above is not present, and if he likes to do it in a wild way, not romantic, if it's a hook up I found anywhere, and he starts kissing me in a romantic, passionate way, that's a huge turn off.

I barely bottom, but when I do it I like to enjoy it as much as I can, no matter how much it hurts I can handle it if totally in the mood. When I started bottoming years ago, I had the sensation that I was in the urge to stop and take a shit. It's been about 2 years since I stopped it from ruining my enjoyment, just needed more practice, getting used to it and mental peace, thoroughly cleaning myself and knowing I am totally clean. Right now, my problem is that when I'm getting fucked, I feel like I'm going to cum, so I need great concentration, mental manipulation to not let it happen, as once I cum, there's no way I can handle a dick in my ass, I get a terrible burning sensation and need to ask the top to stop. I have tried jerking off prior to getting fucked, but it hasn't helped, I just loose interest in getting fucked and if i do get fucked after jo, I feel a burning sensation comparable to when I cum and I'm still getting fucked. Would like to know if this happens to any of you guys, and what you do in order to overcome it, as it's really bothersome, instead of focusing on how good the dick feels, I need to focus on not to cum.

I have also noticed, on other guys, as I have never used them, that their dicks are spongy and colder, not rock hard and warm as desired, feels weird in the ass and even more in the mouth. I wonder if restricting normal blood flow is appropriate. I know lots of guys love cockrings, but I dislike them because of what I already said and the fact that I love the natural feel of everything related to sex, so I'd skip rubber, cockrings, piercings, tattoos and so on, dick and ass should be free from all man made artifacts.

I have done that hose thing but I don't feel comfortable with it, as I have had water coming out of my ass even after 1-2 hours of doing it, sometimes it had been clean, so no big issues, but sometimes it comes with unpleasant surprises. For those who don't get fucked on a regular basis, I'd recommend eating light non greasy food for at least 24 hours or more prior to getting fucked. After years of trying many different options for cleaning myself, I recently discovered Fleet's Glycerin Suppositories, and have attached to it. They are sold in 100 ct canisters for around 6 dollars. What I do is to take some time to start the regime, start by introducing 2 suppositories, then 2 more, when I see less coming out I put 1 and so on, it does not loose effectiveness with repeated use. It creates little discomfort, usually goes away after a couple of minutes of not having one in your ass. It's supposed to create bowel movement in 45-60 minutes, but most of the time I get it instantly or in no more than 5-10 minutes. Good thing about it is that when combined with better eating habits, you feel totally clean, as the stool comes out as it is, not liquid nor broken down. It seems not to work so well for everyone, so I'd recommend you to try it buying a smaller packet, as some complain of heavy discomfort or very delayed results.

After visiting a couple of bathhouses in a few cities, I've noticed the same things, people posing, walking around, chatting/socializing with others, enjoying the facilities, those who just go there because they need a place to relax or calm down for any problem they may be facing. I also see A L O T of attitude, and lots of very very unattractive guys (and I'm not very picky nor the hottest one out there). I have almost concluded that all bathhouses in the USA are like that, and I feel I won't try them anymore, as paying on average $25 to deal with all of that is not a deal, a total waste of money and time, as there's little or no action going on. Maybe I'd try the ones in Europe if someday I go there. Do you feel the same? Wonder if bathhouses are going to disappear soon?

I prefer a smooth ass, as I've had bad experiences with hairy asses's smells. On the other side, fucking a hairy ass feels better, if I were to only stick my dick in it with little or no other contact or odor, i'd take hairy over smooth.

This is pretty much like those guys out there fucking bb and telling the top to not cum inside, I think it's not much safer, maybe a little bit, but chances are you get infected sooner or later, so if anyone is too afraid of getting hiv, they should use a condom or have no sex.

From what I always read and hear, it seems that for some reason all bottoms like to be dominated by tops, but there are actually some submissive tops. I'm versatile, mostly top, on the dominant side when with a bottom, but I have been sexually involved with submissive tops. I mean, those that are always hard, and do whatever my will is. I can say, for example; stop, lets take a break, lets change position, harder or slower, sit or lay there while I do what I want etc. Also, playing with his nipples, kissing and other things like that in between. Tops like that are the least, but wow, are they great!!! It's about tops that are willing to please a bottom, not being selfish, doesn't that sound great to you guys?

Hi, I'll be visiting Ft Lauderdale this weekend and I'm very excited about the party they'll held there. I enjoy anonymous sex a lot, have been to bath houses in a few cities, and also enjoy cruising at public sites, but have never been to a sex party. The idea of having sex with many different men, being seen by others, more action and less attitude/inhibitions than in bath houses, and getting nasty in so many ways really turns me on. So I was wondering if anyone could tell me their experience about the place (I am not that disturbed by "dirty/smelly" places and such), the men (looks, average age, attitudes, etc.), what to bring/wear, overall, did you enjoy it and would be back/recommend it to a friend?. Any comments will be appreciated. I just joined this site, I'm very excited about it, hope to make this a good place to share experiences and have a good time reading so many interesting posts.