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The video is cool, but I guess it involves lots of practice, you learn to correctly do it after months of routinely doing it, to know how much water is enough. When I started cleaning out my ass, I used to use a bottle of water and push it up my ass, as much water as I could take, which made me feel bloated, and eternally discharge fecal matter, and it took me about 2.5 hours to feel clean, then 1 or 2 hours later, after I thought I was 100% clean, a big amount of brown with shit pieces falling down my ass again. I got very frustrated, wondered if that was what bottoms had to go every single time they were going to have sex. I feel there's no perfect method, and to be completely clean involves lots of work. So I think the best we can do is control what we eat, not eating irritating foods, those that create gases, too much meat which makes it stinky, and eating what's necessary, not lots more. As I don't bottom much, and do it seasonally, when I start doing it what I do is to take Metamucil before main meals. It regulates your bowel movement, makes shitting more predictable, when you take a shit, you empty a lot of your intestine contents, it comes out neatly without pain and effort and the turds are kinda spongy/gel-like, not as messy as when not taking it. It is so wonderful, that when I can eat at the same times, same amounts of food, etc, I have been fucked after taking a shit, and no accidents have happened. But along with Metamucil and an appropriate diet, I also put glycerin suppositories up my ass. In me, it creates bowel movement in less than 5 minutes, and is effective also in emptying the intestines. I put 2 at a time until nothing else comes out. Bad thing about it is that sometimes it leaves you with a burning sensation that lasts for about 2 hours, but not always, and sometimes last for a shorter time span. The ass area is clean because of the Metamucil effect's, the shit is gel-spongy, not thick and messy. Nevertheless, it might not be 100% clean. What I do just in case is to introduce my longest finger up my ass and rub it against the walls, sometimes 3 or 4 times is enough to take out any little pieces left, or if I see it too dirty, flush a bit of water up my ass to take it off. The combination of these 3 techniques have worked out excellent for me, but it's a routine, involves some kind of work and could become boring, but it's better than the 1000 year old water up the ass technique imo. This is mostly for routine fucking. For a special event such a gang bang, sex party, fisting, other techniques are needed.

Anything that's deviated too much from what's normal is not appealing. I don't like fucking bottoms whose dicks are way too big. Same with bottoms whose dicks are way too small. A bottom whose dick is way too small makes me feel I am fucking a woman who changed her sex to man and has a big clitoris, and I really hate that odd feeling. I have fucked very few bottoms with way too small dicks though. The smallest one was 2 inches, thin one. The next smallest one was about 3 inches. Both of them HARD!!!, so when soft, you need a telescope to find them out. Even though I don't care about the bottom's dick while fucking him, at least one between 4-6 inches is ok, as it's normal, I feel I'm fucking a man.

I think this is way more common than you think, I am the same, and I've met many men who are also like that. I am versatile, much more of a top. I don't like sucking dick, just find it boring, plus my mouth is small, is uncomfortable to have it open for so long sucking a dick. Also, I dislike precum, it's nasty. It's wonderful when I find a top who is only interested in burying his dick in my ass, without expecting me to suck it. I LOVE asses, they are so beautiful, exciting, can rim a good one for hours.

Life is not over at 60, but it's definitely much harder to find guys to fuck or get fucked by. I agree ageism is a gay thing, at least in developed countries it is, where a number determines if a guy wants to have sex with another one, not his looks, nor his sexual skills. I think that we have made such stupidity grow bigger and bigger, why? because everyone wants to only fuck and get fucked by barely legal guys, 18-21 yo ones. A 43 yo man is not interested in a 41 yo one, he wants to play daddy-son. A 62 yo man doesn't want to have sex with a 58 yo one, he wants to play grandpa-grandson. So, those in their 40s, 50s, 60s+ depend on younger guys with such fantasies/fetishes in order to get laid. If they were cool having sex with contemporary ones, they'd have sex every single time they want to, not having to wait weeks for that boi who is interested in his daddy/grandpa. I feel life is about stages, when we are wayyy older than 18-low 20s, why insisting in hunting for them? I know they are hotter, more energy, etc. but what, we are no longer the same as them, life in our 40s and 50s+ is more about experiences, intensity, passion, the time of looks, attitudes, "look at me, I'm the hottest one around" is over. Nevertheless, if a young man and an old one are cool with a relationship, why not, go ahead, be happy. But, I feel most older guys take advantage of youngsters confusion, as I guess most 18 yo guys don't feel comfortable having sex, and going out with a 48+ yo man. When I was younger I preferred guys in their late 20s to lows 30s. now I prefer them on my same age range and I am sure that it will be like that once I turn 40, 50, etc., if I get there. So, I wont be one of those bitter 40 yo+ men writing about how stupid, bitch, ignorant, etc. gays are just because I can't find a 18 yo one to fuck with.

No, I'd say around 10% dared to openly offer bb sex, or acknowledged it is wonderful, but considering all the guys I've had sex with, I'd say I've fucked bb with about 60% of them, so the other 50% were into bb, but didn't dare to openly accept it. I couldn't agree more with NiceHard1's term "discloseaphobics", if HIV status was on the table, involved in prior conversation, that percentage of raw fucking would be extremely lower, maybe around 15-20%, on both sides, myself, and others.

I think we versatiles will go through such dilemma all of our lives, key thing is better accept ourselves regardless we feel confused, that we don't fit most of the community's role playing, etc. Makes me think in truly bisexual men, some say it's the best, I'd say that it must be hell, specially sex addicted ones.

Interesting, I had never read about this anywhere else. Many times, after I get fucked, I like squirting my ass as to see if there's something there, whether the top came in me, out, or even if he didn't cum. Because of this obsession, I got to notice some cum-like thing coming out of me. Since first time I realized it was mucus of the intestines, but what intrigued me the most is why it happens to the extent sometimes it happens, if it is some sort of mechanism of us gays to lube the ass and prepare it to better take dick. I have noticed, specially when the guy doesn't cum, or cums outside, when I squirt, that I have more of it if the guy was very hot and/or did a great job fucking me. A few days ago, I got fucked at a darkroom, and I was feeling a mess in my ass, so I decided to check if the guys cum was getting out of my ass. The guy did rim my ass, and I lubed his dick with saliva, no lubricants, but, was about 5 minutes after getting fucked, so saliva dries up, and it's not that sticky/slippery. When I touched my ass area while he was still plowing me, and took a sample of that messy thing, it was cum like, no way it was saliva, you can tell the difference. I asked him, which I usually avoid, as I think it's annoying, "did you cum"? he said no, and I know he didn't, as he kept fucking me for a long time, and even if he was multi-orgasmic, his dick size, pace, etc, nothing changed, not even for a few seconds. After that, I did took his dick more easily. I can't say I have anal orgasms, that I feel them, enjoy them, I don't even notice that happens to me, it's just there once I finish sex and check it out, or what I already said, seems I had so much coming down that it even got out of my ass by itself. That mucus I'm talking about, I've always noticed it is very cum-like in color and even odor, but it's thicker. I think many guys have such mucus while getting fucked, when not using lubricants, only saliva or even nothing, I notice some asses feel way better than others. Most people always talk about what a wonderful ass is, mostly tight and warm. I define a perfect ass as tight, warm, AND wet. What exactly is that slippery/wetty feeling that feels so wonderful, I never got to fully know, but after reading this and writing all of this, I have a very strong idea/hypothesis. I can tell they didn't put lube in their asses before getting fucked nor any other chemical, as it smells natural, to sex. I get told a lot that my ass feels wonderful too, and I have such mucus in my anus to some extent, I'd say always, after having sex. Because of these things, I feel we gays, or some, are adapted somehow to naturally lube our asses, but religion and all other homophobes wouldn't want to recognize this if research proves it's like that, as it would somehow validate gay sex, since our bodies have adapted to lube that area when getting fucked.

I think most gays are opportunistic barebackers. I'd say of all the times I've fucked or gotten fucked by another man, either we met online, or on-site, only 4 proposed me to fuck bb, and only 5 said something related to how wonderful bb sex is while we were fucking. Considering I've had sex with over 100 guys (bareback), this is less than 9%. I was born in the years HIV was officially recognized, so I was a child, who lived in a small city. I did not got to see nor experience a lot of really nasty HIV related deaths, only one or two, but as a child, didn't impressed me much. Thing is, nowadays, as we age and more youngsters are becoming sexually active, they didn't live those times, nowadays they see it as a condition we can live with, nowadays they see there is lots of acceptance and information (compared to the 80s), so I think, even though I was a child and got a bit of paranoia, prejudice, phobia, segregation, and got to see 2 people nastily dying due to aids, all bones.... I started having sex in 2001 very nervous, but a few years after, I started barebacking, embraced it, and I am in no way afraid, so what can you expect about guys who were born in 1985--->, most will bareback regardless of HIV.

I used to, but no longer get offended nor annoyed by anything that happens online, as it's impersonal, shallow. I think it's way different from real life, as online we do and say much more things than we dare in real life. It's impossible to make everyone happy. - If I get a compliment and I say nothing, I am a shallow bitch. - If I only reply with a thanks, I am a bitch, for not saying anything else, or compliment back. - If the other person takes that "thanks" as a sign of interest, I'd keep receiving messages from a person I'm not interested in. I am a very educated person, always try to be nice, friendly, supportive to others, not caring on anything as appearance, income, etc. Nevertheless, I understand internet rules, sadly, many psychos and sociopaths online, we can't be totally open and nice to all of them, so I keep it as simple as possible. In real life I have never had a serious problem with anyone, but I guess online, many regard me as a big nasty queen, but since I barely hang out at gay places, have a private kind of life, I don't care much.

Being versatile is the best thing, but it also leads to confusion and dissatisfaction. I feel versatile is the most common position, but since we follow rules and fantasies, most are bottom. I have never fully enjoyed being penetrated by another man, not even by small dicked ones, it's all in my mind, it always involves pain. Thing is, sometimes I am in the mood of getting fucked, and I am up to tolerate the pain, but most of the time, I am not prepared for it. Also, nothing in me makes me a bottom: - I am a dominant type of man. - I am tall and have a medium build. - I have a big dick and balls which get hard in a second and stays so for a very long time. - I am masculine and serious, not that affectionate but extremely horny all the time. - I LOVE having my dick sucked, but I don't like sucking dick, I love rimming ass. - When in public, it's extremely hard to do anything associated to a bottom, as simple and common as sucking dick, but I can have mine sucked, rim ass, and fuck while others watch with no problems. - When I get fucked, I avoid way too bottomish positions, I mostly just bend over, but I feel very ashamed if I lay on my back with legs up. - Every time I jo, about 90% of the times I remember past sex sessions when I topped a hot bottom. - When cruising, I never get excited when a guy, no matter how hot he is, shows me his dick, but I get mad when they show me their asses. - Etc. So that's what's hard with me being versatile, and I guess many others also go through this. I'd say the only thing that makes me bottom from time to time is the fact that it does feels great (even with the pain I get, I can tell so). I'd love to someday feel that wonderful pleasure without the pain, but I've been bottoming for about 10 years, I even bought a dildo about 4 months ago and have used it about 8 times, I'm just not interested in it. Every time I get into getting fucked, I feel as stressed, as painful, as if it's going to be my first time. When I bottom, I'd say I do it to prove myself, to become a better gay, to better accept my sexuality and to not be ashamed of it, but people are not supportive, when in groups, or in public, when they see me getting fucked, they all have that expression in their faces (what a waste, you seem to be such a wonderful top). So after 10 years of bottoming, I have achieved nothing, just a bit more confidence. As for fucking and getting fucked by the same person in the same sex session, I'd say that's the most wonderful thing I've experienced, but very few guys are up to it. I think some just can't, I used to only bottom or only top, because my dick stayed soft everything I was fucked, but nowadays it stays hard, so I can do both. But it also depend on the other guy and what you like, if he is vers but looks way too bottom, I'd prefer to only fuck him.

I have been to 6 bathhouses in 4 cities, and have never read such signs, I guess they do so to avoid being fined, sued, etc., in compliance with some laws, same as the no more than 1 person per room or no drugs allowed policies. I'd feel very pissed off in a place with such signs and employees constantly checking if you are complying. Also, I feel that even though there's lots of barebacking at bathhouse, a lot of guys there do fuck with condoms, so id you add to that fact a lot of such signs, I guess they do encourage some guys, and there would be even less bb going on, so I'd just skip such places.

I usually feel more attracted to tall and slim guys, but I think that heavier guys are better lovers.

I am not the kind of guy who falls in love easily. So speaking of what has been my life about, mostly sex driven, I tend to get tired of the same people, BUT, if I really like them a lot, I don't. I have had bad luck, the guys I'd settle with, or those that I'd have sex with 3 times a day for 20 years are those that I loose touch with. The guys I only fuck with from time, but I'm not totally attracted to them are the ones that keep, keep, keep, keep, keep, keep, keep, keep, and keep contacting me through the web, text messages and phone calls. I think, after weeks and even months of excuses, isn't that a clear hint that I am no longer interested? damn, some guys are so persistent.

Bestiality should be punished everywhere, it's insane, people into it should seek medical help really.

Of all the guys I've fucked, a lot of them have shitted my dick, so many (and keep counting), that I am starting to loose control whenever it happens. Last time was a couple of days ago, I told the guy in a bad/aggressive mood "why you asked me to fuck you if you were not prepared, this is annoying", he said "I'm sorry it was an accident, but clean it off so I can suck it", and I replied "It won't get hard again I'm leaving". It is gross, nasty, intolerable smell. It's even more annoying when you are on the go, fucking at a public place with clothes on, so you have to leave the place with the smell and stains, specially devastating at a video booth store, dark room, etc. with so many others looking at you. If it was an accident, I don't get mad at them, as it's something I know can happen. Nevertheless, it's hard to believe it was an unexpected accident when the dick gets incredibly/completely covered with thick shit. Obviously, they didn't douche, in which case I wonder; Don't you know your digestive system? Don't you keep track of how many times and what times you have taken a shit? Don't you know what you have eaten so far? Can't you introduce your largest finger in your ass to have an idea? Ok, there's no guarantee they can be 100% sure, but by answering those questions you can have a clue. A couple of days ago I read someone's reply to another thread that he introduces his longest finger in the bottom's ass to know. I used to do that, but few bottoms like it, it may seem senseless to total tops (he can take a huge dick but can't take a tiny finger?), yes, it is like that, for some reason, fingers in the ass are painful, it burns, specially other guys' fingers. My recommendation is, if you are aware that there's a possibility of shitting the top's dick, tell him. When I've been in that situation, that I was not thinking on hooking up, and hence didn't douche, or as I'm vers I get on the hunt with topping another guy set in my mind then I meet an incredibly hot top I don't want to loose the chance of having sex with him, I tell them I'd love to get fucked, but "I think I'm not prepared because I'm feeling some bowel movement", or more directly "I had no time to douche, so I'm not prepared for it", then I say "we can do other things like oral sex". As most are not into oral sex only, and I said that I really want to get fucked, I'd say around 60% still fuck me. I've been lucky, only twice had really minor accidents, so I took a napkin, cleaned it out, and we continued fucking. If I knew chances of a great disaster were high, I'd tell them I'm not into getting fucked, plain and simple, don't leave room for him taking the decision like I do most of the times. Saying nothing gives room for the top to become mad, furious, aggressive, but if you tell him things like what I already said, it's his decision, he was advised, so that's why this is good counseling. So, what do you think of this, what's your reaction? Any experience you'd like to share? Whatever you like to comment. Would be nice to hear from everyone's povs; tops, bottoms, vers.

I'd never accept money from anyone. When I was younger and first started getting offered money, I used to get really angry, wanted to insult them for being so disrespectful. But I got to understand that it's something many people are into, and being offered money means I was attractive/hot, so I started taking it more nicely, saying "no, I'm not into that" with a smile. I am not old, but I'm not a 18-25 yo boy. Still today I've got offerings, and by guys who are maybe 5 years older than me, so I've got to think that it's not limited to daddy/grandpa-son fantasies, this thing is exciting to many who look good and don't need to pay, and will to pay even for older guys. I believe that with this economic crisis, many more are into getting paid for having sex, and many others that are willing to pay are taking advantage of that. I have been seriously short of money a couple of times, and never thought of doing it. Maybe the risk of HIV and other STDs don't scare us that much, but there are many other risks involved, plus, having to fuck or get fucked by very ugly men is disgusting, so it's not easy money as we all think. Even if you can detach from the bad feelings, and are cool doing it, you should think that you will grow up, and it won't be that nice, would be a trauma, every time you think on all you had to do for a few dollars, because even if they pay you "a lot", lets say, 500 dollars, in 15 years you won't have a spectacular house and a fantastic car, and a bank account so big, that you won't have to work the rest of your life. All you'll have is a rented apt which you won't be able to pay after you age and are no longer attractive, some fancy/expensive clothing, some jewelry, and a devastating emptiness in your life. Sadly, many gays nowadays prefer to sell their bodies, to make a living based on that. They don't work cleaning dishes at a restaurant, they don't clean houses, they don't work as cashiers, what would other disco queens think if they see them, no way nooooo!!!!, but prostitution is so glam and fab, yes, much better than to degrade themselves doing those shitty jobs. Some even act as if they are medicine doctors, successful businessmen, engineers, architects, think they have a position in society and everyone else should respect/envy them because they have a few dollars selling their bodies. I do believe that if in total desperation, in urgent need of money, I'd consider it. It's my body, I am not harming anyone, I'm not stealing. But only once or twice. That's my pov, everyone is free to think and do whatever they want.

It depends where we have sex, fucking naked in a public park is not recommended. Considering the times that I've had sex in a bedroom, I've noticed that a lot of guys get naked, but leave their socks on, maybe they are ashamed of their ugly feet? Very few leave other clothes on, and if they do, I ask them to get them off. I don't have any clothes/uniform fetish, I don't even like jockstraps. I love when both of us fuck completely naked, feels beyond wonderful.

We don't live in a world of totals, even though there are lots of total bottoms and tops, most gays are versatile, at least to some extent. Even though many gays are (mostly because of a hard life) bitter, bad tempered, resentful, vindictive; we are truly loving, caring, fragile, compassionate. Even the most top macho man has good feelings, which makes us more woman-like, not str8-like in that sense. So this might be why most gays are bottom, vers/bott and look/dream for the rough, dominant top man in order to please him set in their minds. So even though it's a stereotype, I kinda understand why so many, or even most str8s think of gays, no matter how butch some of us are, as women, that we only bottom and are fragile and tearful. We are gay men, have one sexual organ which gives us pleasure (the penis), and "another one" which makes us different (the anus). As long as both are functional, from time to time, at some degree, it's expected to feel the desire to fuck or get fucked. Some total bottoms/tops are so because of physiological/psychological issues. Some total bottoms are those that never get hard, have a micro-penis, feel pain in their penis if they fuck another man. Some total tops are those ashamed of the idea of getting fucked by another man, think it makes them less of a man, it burns and hurts like hell when getting fucked, is very afraid of shitting the other guy's dick. So I guess that besides those who fall in those categories, it's common/expected for a gay man to feel pleasure with the idea and/or practice of both sexual positions. Society, fears, issues, dilemmas, physiology is what leads to all of this top/bottom role-playing. Whenever we life our lives like str8s do, someone who sucks and gets fucked, who cooks for hubby and another one who gets sucked and fucks and works like an animal, we are not truly embracing what we are, gays, we are both men, not a woman in the body of a man and a man. Not all versatile guys are bottoms in disguise. Many like to top/bottom almost equally, but most probably we prefer some position over the other. When I have sex with a top, bottom, or vers, I enjoy the moment, if he is bad at it, goodbye, if he is good at it, excellent, we can become fuck buddies. His sexual position is truly irrelevant. I'm a total disaster as a bottom, but I am an excellent top. I have never been rejected by any bottom because I take dick in the ass from time to time, so I really feel sorry for those who reject versatile guys just because they classify themselves as versatile, what a shame, you could be wasting lots of excellent fuckers.

Maybe we feel better because of the act, sex, not properties of the cum. But if cum is in fact an antidepressant, maybe they'll try to hide the truth to discourage raw sex.

Now what? Grow up. He didn't put a gun in your head and told you "fuck me bb or you'll be dead". We all should be responsible of what we do, not trying to fuck up others legally or take any sort of revenge, it's that simple. Sadly, most states promote such fucked-up way of thinking.

Those kind of tops, who focus way too much in a bottom's dick; say it's big, beautiful, like to suck it like a pro, etc., might be closeted bottoms or versatile. By the way, a 7 real inches dick is big, not huge, but can be called big. Average dick size is 5" to 6".

I think there are some decent ones out there, problem is it's users. I have thought that hooking up sites should have a system in which users can vote on other user's behavior, likeliness of him using a fake pic, those looking for friendship or love, etc., so webmasters could further check them out and ban them from the site (same would apply to those who abuse of the voting system). All of that, plus an user-friendly interface with lots of nice features would be great.

It depends, I prefer the room to be dimly lit or at least have some area where I can see who is going to fuck me, then get into the darker one. I don't like totally dark rooms, there's no way I'd let anyone fuck me without seeing him beforehand. Sometimes I've been so horny that I don't care about that and get into the dark room, but still, I need to have an idea of who's going to fuck me, so I touch him, and once I feel a body twice as big as mine, or a belly soft as jelly, it's an instant turn-off and I have to leave, as it seems 95% of people who get into those rooms are the rejected ones everywhere else where they can be seen; bars, discos, grindr, adam4adam, the park, the sauna, etc.

I have noticed that a lot of tops LOVE sucking dick, they do so for a long time, with great skills, similar to the most professional bitch. I am vers/top, prefer to top. Whether or not I know beforehand that I'll get fucked, it really bothers me when the top sucks my dick then wants to fuck me. Once I have my dick sucked so good, I want to fuck, not to get fucked. I guess it also bothers total bottoms, as they feel (more) pleasure in their asses, not dicks, most probably would love having their asses sucked instead, and few tops do that. I am not into stereotypes, specially being versatile, believe that we, men, should enjoy ourselves regardless of sexual position preference. Nevertheless, if you are going to only top, or to only bottom, why don't you do what is supposed to please the other person the most. Tops who suck dick, bottoms who suck ass, among many other possible examples, makes no sense.

No race has better fucking skills than others, it all depends on what you, as an individual, like and prefer.