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Nowadays we have made our own rules: - 100% tops don't catch HIV. - Bottoms and tops can fuck bb, as long as the top pulls out and doesn't cum inside, both will be safe. - You'll be safe as long as you ask the other person "are you clean"? If he says yes I am, go ahead, there's no risk. - Among str8s, only risk involved in raw sex is the woman getting pregnant. I agree with JoshLandaleXXX, bb is a decision we all have to make once we know all the risks/consequences. I used to dislike too much HIV, condoms propaganda, but nowadays I really feel they are doing very little to educate people. So this extreme ignorance arises as a direct cause of this. If this continues, lawsuits from poor fragile little fellas getting infected by devil ugly men will soar. They REALLY, REALLY believe this bs, the way I posted it.

I'd say it's a combination. An extremely hot man with a 3" cock will do little to satisfy me. The opposite is also true, a very ugly man with an incredible 8" cock won't satisfy me. I have had both and can't really say which is worse. I need balance, I need a reasonably good looking man with a reasonably good sized dick with reasonably good fucking skills in order to feel pleasure. That's why a lot of the times I go out cruising I come home without having done anything.

I am very proper and masculine, hence I won't ever refer to a part of a male body using female adjectives, and I'd get extremely angry if someone refers to my ass like that (it hasn't happened yet). I have had guys telling me "fuck that pussy" and such things. I tell them to shut up or my dick would get soft.

I hate lubes, I can't stand the smell of them and hate the sticky/messy feeling. Also, I'd say I'm allergic to them, as I feel a burning sensation. When I fuck another man I prefer to not use any kind of lube other than spit. Nevertheless, as my ass is very tight and I get lots of pain when getting fucked, I decided to try that Gun Oil, based on so many good mentions in this thread. It is better than all others I've used before, but still, far from what an ideal lube should be. I guess lubes are not for everyone, or there's still room to improve them.

I guess it depends on weather and where we cruise. I mostly wear basketball/running shorts and shoes and a t-shirt, sometimes a cap on my head.

I prefer the top to last a decent amount of time. Nevertheless, in some instances I prefer him to cum fast, as if we are in a public place and there's a risk of being caught, also, if I'm not much into him and let him fuck me because I couldn't find anything else, etc.

All humans want to be accepted and/or tolerated. When we are part of a discriminated group we say all sort of things to justify ourselves and say that everyone else is wrong, is stupid, and should accept us no matter what. Now I'd like to ask the following: - Do any of you or other people you know have a 100%, again, a 100% discrimination-free mind? - Can you say that you are cool anytime anywhere with any race, any person with peculiar conducts, looks, smells, hair styles, way of dressing? Truth of the matter is we gays are easily the most discriminating. We reject fats, ugly, old, and anything else we don't like. We reject people because we don't like the way they are dressed, because they are too short, because they are other race than the one we like to have sex with, etc. What I mean is that there's not a single human, or maybe very few who can say is 100% discrimination free towards other humans. We are born full of defects, and competition, rejection among us is the norm. For that reason, I feel we won't ever be completely non-discriminated, we are way too colorful. What we should aspire for is to be respected. By respected I mean the following; on their inside, many won't like us, but they should understand that we are as human and have the same rights as them, so they should respect us, don't treat us like we are not worth anything, not bullying us, threatening us, etc. That's a more real approach IMO.

This sounds very funny. I have experienced a few situations with angry people at sex places, but have never seen an scene like that, it's wayyy too much. I fully believe that many guys behave like that and even worse, what a shame, as time passes, we gays are behaving more nastily, maybe imitating str8s in that sense, too.

I'm not a fan of dick sucking, I get bored very fast, see it boring as hell. I love having mine sucked, and based on experience, I'd say it's 50/50, many guys get bored and offer their asses in no more than 5 minutes, while as many other guys can keep sucking for 2 hours if I let them.

No I can't, I would puke.

I had seen such faces before, but used to think that besides AIDS some people also get them for different conditions and aging. Anyway... that's in no way hot.. DO whatever you can to correct it.

I know nothing about this, but I'd say that if you wish to and can afford any procedure to correct it, do it. Besides some likely minded guys on this site very few people think it looks hot, so why not doing what's necessary to look better? I would do anything, even if I become indebted in doing it.

I don't like fat men at all, but I have felt attracted to some overweight ones. I don't like them to fuck me, but I love pounding them hard. One thing I've liked about them is that they are cool with their bodies, they feel much more confident than perfect bodied ones, so fucking is focused in that, the act, not on body looks, so it's more intense. In big cities you'll find every type of guy, so keep looking.

There must be over a thousand reasons, but based on my experiences, I'd like to comment a few things and explain which I feel is society's main reason to reject us. I'd like to center this discussion in gay men, excluding transvestites and transgenders, to make it simpler. I wasn't raised under the influence of any religion. I did go to church (catholic and protestant), but very few times. My parents taught me to respect everyone. So, I was raised without any direct source of hate towards gays trying to influence my way of thinking. I did grow up hearing a lot of anti-gay bashing, mockery, etc., but as I am very objective and open minded, I just regarded it as ignorance from people not worth caring of. I always accepted my sexuality, saw and see it as something I can't nor wish to change to make others happy. I never had a girlfriend, nor say I have one. I wasn't always open about my sexuality because I was too shy, felt afraid of being rejected, but again, I didn't care if I was, I was not going to change who I am. All of my life I have been curious about certain things related to gays. I used to not like many things, and I still dislike many of them to some extent. For example, still today, I find it hard to believe that so many gay men speak with such annoying voices (and I'm sure you know which kind of voices I mean). Still today, I don't understand what's so fun about wearing women clothes/accessories. Still today, I don't understand the drama most of us show every single day. I have always acted like a man (that's what I am), being gay is just a sexual preference, but we are still men. I speak, dress, act like a man. I am not bitchy, I am very humble, like to look good, but don't care about expensive clothing and so on. I can do any kind of job, don't care if I get dirty or sweat a lot, if I get a cut don't start crying. I am not Mr. Macho Man, never think "no-one will ever know I'm gay, I'm way too macho", NO! Many people do notice, many others don't. I remember two situations when I was called "faggot", one in 12th grade by a girl for about 3 weeks and once while I was walking to a grocery store near a house I used to live when I was 19 yo, this one was a young man, it only happened one time. Besides that, I have been asked indirectly if I'm gay a couple of times, but not in an offensive way. I guess many regard me as an educated, good mannered man, not necessarily gay. So, I don't feel like a victim of society. Every time I know of the terrible time gays go through I feel deeply sorry, but barely identified, as I was barely bullied by that, I was a LOT by other things, but not because of that. My parents fully accepted me when I told them I'm gay, I have never felt discriminated at any job, I am not afraid of being bashed for being gay. I know VERY religious people and they fully accept me, I get along perfectly with straight men. I have been/treated with very low class people and never felt in danger. When in the USA I notice I am barely discriminated because of being Latino. For the same reason, I don't act trashy. Many of my fellow Latinos are always complaining and I tell them plain and simple "don't pretend to be accepted while acting so trashy, you won't, start by dressing up neatly and speaking more properly". I feel that what society dislikes the most about us is the way we act, many things like what I previously said are simply annoying. Actually, there's a lot of homophobia between gays because of the same thing. I think society is more than ready to accept us, or at least being about half or even less homophobic than today if more gays live a normal life. By normal life I mean not an acted one. If more of us leave that bitchy attitude at home, speak with our normal voices, dress neatly instead of like a cheap woman wore, etc., we would be much more accepted. Religion nonsense won't be much of a deciding factor these days, in fact, it's power nowadays is much lesser than decades ago. Concluding, it's not about changing who we are to be accepted, it's about discarding so many learned annoying conducts. Do you agree or disagree, why?

I absolutely LOVE rimming asses, but only if they are clean and hairless. I love having mine rimmed as well, but on a lesser extent. I have never been with a top who was into having his ass rimmed, maybe a lot of them were into that but none dared to ask for it. That's a fantasy of mine I wish to someday accomplish, to rim a hot masculine top.

Only once a top asked me to do that to him while I was sucking his cock. I didn't know how to do it, but he was like "harder, harder". I really dislike anything that involves pain, so I disliked it, don't wish to do it again nor to have it done to me.

I consider myself average looking, but most gays and even str8 girls and some guys consider I'm well above average. When I was younger I had much lower self-esteem, and that kind of men used to take advantage of that. So I did such things a couple of times, and some people got really nasty commenting about it, saying I must be into prostitution, that I was doing them a favor, etc. All of that made me extremely uncomfortable, so I started to be more careful on who I fucked with. As I grew older I became more and more shallow because my esteem improved a lot, plus the traumas of what others think about me. Nowadays, since I have accepted my sex addiction, sometimes I have fucked really old and/or nasty men, but on a much lesser extent, mostly when the night is almost over and I didn't find anything else. Nevertheless, not to the extreme. I can't stand stinky people, nor way too skinny/fat, nor way too ugly, etc. I have always wondered how the sex life of such people are like, but I think they do fuck and/or get fucked from time to time taking advantage of better looking guys who are depressed, are total sluts and proud of it, have weird fetishes, etc. They must be assertive and keep trying. Last time I went to a dark room there was a man I was not interested in staring at me, he then started touching my legs and I took his hand off. It was a really slow night, I got there early and by 2 am was still empty, and I was getting tired, really to leave and stop waiting for better looking ones to come. Then the same man grabbed my dick this time, and I let him, he started sucking it, btw, was really good at it, I enjoyed it a lot. But I left soon anyway, as he seemed to be a top, and definitely, I was not willing to suck that man's cock nor get fucked by him. So that's the thing, I'd say most ugly men I have had sex with for whatever reason have only sucked my dick and I have fucked a bunch of them. I absolutely don't get excited enough as to suck their dicks nor to let them fuck me.

I am addicted to cum in a bottom's ass or have it dumped in my ass, but never in my mouth (I love cumming into another guy's mouth). The smell and texture of cum makes me sick, I would puke in no time. I feel fascinated by guys who can take it in their mouths and even more by those who swallow it, as it's extremely exciting, wish I could do it. I have been with a few tops who like sucking and taking cum in their mouths and even swallow it, so I'd say that even though it's not so common, some do enjoy it, but I hate when they are primarily looking for that instead of fucking me.

I think almost all of us go/went through all of those insecurities, it took me years to accept my addiction to bb sex and embrace the consequences. Many believe that the key to be HIV/STDs free forever is to always be monogamous, into stable relationships. But there are some facts that we can't ignore. Gays are the most affected by HIV/STDs. We, men, are naturally horny, adventurous, so anytime, no matter ourselves or our bfs, will seek for some sex from random men from time to time, and since we are also curious, nature call us, most probably it will be bb sex. So, chances of getting infected, even if into a monogamous relationship are still high enough as to worry live-long to become ill. That's one of the reasons that made me take the decision of enjoying sex and take whatever comes with it. But it also depends on so many things. I am a lonely person, don't care about what the very few friends/family I have think, I'm not brainwashed by religion, I am naturally extremely healthy I can count the times I've been to a doctor's office in a lifetime so it has led me to not be hugely scared. I also think that we can die in a second from so many things, an explosion, a bullet, a slip in the stairs, a car accident. So why being so scared life-long and not enjoy the most I can. Again, it all depends on how you were raised, what your convictions are, your view of life, how much of a social person you are, if you are healthy or if a common cold sends you to ER, etc. But above all this, I think what will mostly make you take a decision is how much you like bb sex, some people's addiction is extreme, while others can use rubbers all of their lives, if I were one of those, I'd call condom manufacturing companies and ask for rebates, damn, how many condoms would someone who fucks on average 2 times per day for a period of 50 years spend on condoms? a few thousands I guess.

Almost all guys, tops even more, look to cum, that's the purpose of fucking. Fucking without cumming is like haven't fucked. Almost all times times that I have topped, bottoms cum before I do, and they apologize for doing it before I do. Thing is, I'm totally cool with it, really, I don't need to cum at all. When I cum, whether I'm topping or bottoming, I feel a lot of pleasure, I guess what's typical. Afterwards, most of the times, I feel weird. I become extremely tired, sometimes dizzy/sleepy, get the "don't touch me anymore" mood. If at a cruising site, I quickly put my clothes in place and leave. If I drove a long distance feel like "all of this driving and expending in gas/toll for this?, I wish I stayed in bed jo instead. Anything related to sex becomes repugnant to me, the mess, the sweat, I just feel like "I didn't need this, I'm done, will not do this again for 3 months". I'd say after 10-20 minutes I feel even hornier (even more if I eat/drink something), I just wish to fuck and/or get fucked again, and again and again. I become even more uninhibited. From bad physiological/psychological disorders to this in about 10-20 minutes! I have been like that since I was very young, has nothing to do with aging. I'd like to mention that I have self control, can fuck for hours, literally, without cumming. I think it could be something I've learned to do in order to skip those feelings and enjoy more. Even though after some minutes I am even hornier, the bad experience after cumming is so intense that I prefer to avoid it. I prefer to fuck 5 guys and get fucked by 5 rather than cumming once, twice, or more. Once at home I go to bed, jo, cum and fall asleep in a minute. By facial/corporal gestures I can tell some guys' orgasms are more intense than others. I have always been fascinated by tops who cum and keep fucking, or bottoms that cum and keep taking dick up their asses. Once I cum, I just want to sleep, be alone, sex is the last thing I'm interested in. How would you describe your orgasms; intense, mild, soft? Which physiological/psychological effects do you experience if any? Is cumming that important to you, or is the act of having sex good enough?

As I need to feel attracted to the guy I'll have sex with, I go through that feeling a lot. Also, I'm a sex addict, I do need sex, and I do need some kind of chemistry and attraction, so technically I could have sex any single day of the week, but in practice, I have sex about once or twice every 2 weeks, as so many guys are not my type, I prefer to jo at home rather than having sex with them.

Ain't it curious how blacks call other blacks nigger, and gays call other gays faggot, but if someone from another race/sexual preference say such words it turns into an extreme offense?

I wonder if any of you have been with guys who act like that when they cum. I think it's not common, of over 100 guys I'd have had sex with, only 2 have scared the shit out of me. They were not acting funny, they were real, and both lasted in such a weird orgasm much more than normal, maybe around 30 seconds. Even though some guys do scream and seem to be in pain, these 2 were beyond what's normal/acceptable. First one was about 1 1/2 years ago. This one seemed to be possessed. He was a versatile guy I met at a bar then we went to a motel. He came while fucking me (inside), I was laying on my legs up. He then started screaming very loud like he was in terrible pain, his skin became tomato red, the arteries on all of his body were swollen, his eyes scared me as I saw about 90% white (his irises kinda hid behind the upper eyelids, at first he was holding my thighs very hard then he lost such strength and became very weak almost fell. After he finally shut-up and was back to normal, his body temperature was very hot and his eyes were very watery. I asked him if he was ok, that I got scared, he said yes, that many times he has such orgasm, specially when he hasn't cum for a long time, and that many guys have been really scared about it. Second one was about 4 months ago. This one seemed to be having a heart/epileptic attack. He was a bottom guy I was fucking. He was laying on the bed. I was fucking him hard, then he started to act weird, said something like "I'm about to cum", but didn't immediately cum, instead, he started making abrupt/erratic/sudden body movements, around 6 seconds after he started acting like that cum started flowing out, and I noticed that even though it wasn't a lot of cum, it was very thick, got out little by little, so he probably hadn't cum in a long time like the previous guy. This one didn't scream, he just breathed very intensely and closed his eyes while cumming. After he finished he looked normal. He said "don't worry I was not having an attack". So after these experiences I wonder what it is about. No matter I don't cum in 2 months, when I finally do, don't act like that. I wonder if it is due to anything else, if some guys always experience this, if it is painful, if it could lead to something serious like a real heart attack. Any of you know anything about this? Do you or some guys you've fucked with have acted like this? Have you been scared or feel it's exciting?

Just read that this kit yields results at home, not from a sample sent to a lab as I used to think. I think this will not change our fucking habits of what was said, it's just a tool to have an idea, and get further/more professional aid.

When I top a hot bottom and I get my dick shitted I can tell when it was an accident and when it wasn't (it's a bottom into scat or a negligent one who didn't douche). If it is a minor incident I usually ignore it and keep fucking. If it is a catastrophic mess I say things such as "it's not clean, I can't continue like this". Only once I lost self control. Although I seem to be nice about it, in my mind i'm completely crazy/insane/mad. I just can't stand smells.