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Will be i the Greater NYC area for 5 days in March. Able to travel & host. Looking for some TOPS to get it on with mostly in the evenings and nights

Well YEA... that would make sense. But there have been 2 known published cases of that happening and none recently as far as I know. I don't believe they were in the US  I could be wrong

I prefer to refer to mine as my HOLE.  I do have a FB who calls it a cunt.  That turns me on BIG TIME. but Pussy??? not so much

A FULL STI check wouldn't be a bad thing. But Herpes wouldn't cause prolonged pins & needles in the legs.  It causes pins & needles just before an isolated breakout of a lesion

Whats he going to do... BREAK OUT ??  He just went IN !! LOL

Just my 2 cents... well, first personally I was diagnosed Aug 2008... most likely pozzed summer of 2007 on Fire Island.. I can remember the Fuck Flu that August, misdiagnosed for a year. this was before I was involved in HIV outreach and had no clue besides being around NYC I the 80s.

Ok, now my "rant" as some may call it.  I think its ridiculous to get pozzed these days.  What with PrEP and the knowledge we all have.  I'm okay with my status and enjoy BB sex without a worry. Am I a member of the "brotherhood"?  I guess  is it a big deal ? NO !

Its better long term to remain negative.  

Everyone can go on with fantasy and all that.  Just my humble opinion from being out on the front lines of battle for 3 years

On ‎12‎/‎13‎/‎2017 at 2:27 PM, coastalbender said:

Hell YEA !! Its the proper thing to do.  I am the same way.  I will add that "anytime" when they thank me... My regular FBs know how much I appreciate there seed in me and that I will keep it with me as long as possible.

 

Does anyone else become absurdly grateful after being given a load? I have been like that from the first time I ever had a cock in me. It was a blowjob, and he just let me suck until I got a drink from him. After I sucked out his final drops, I was just overcome with gratefulness and kept thanking him. He looked a little freaked out, but it also seemed to turn him on, since he wanted another blowjob.

When I get fucked, it's even more. I am just about ready to worship a top while he's in me, and I'm totally into worship once his load is in me.

12 minutes ago, lioilk said:

Hi,

 

I recently noticed on the Internet many breeding videos with creaming asses. The top is giving the bottom some nice fuck while his dick is being covered with some white liquid produced by the bottom's ass.

Two questions about this:

 

- Do you guys cream when getting fucked, and if yes, how do you manage to do so?

- Is that a black bottoms thing? In all these vids the bottoms were always black, and I have never seen a white bottom cream in a video so far.

Any insight about this?

I wouldn't say "creaming".. but when I'm getting a particularly good fuck I produce lots of anal secretions... The other night, with one of my favorite tops I was so wet between his precum and my juices I'd thought he had already shot his load...

1 hour ago, hungry_hole said:

Same here. I'm not having much sex partly because of HIV. I can't see myself on PrEP in a long-term basis because I wouldn't be able to justify taking the drugs if I'm not having enough sex.

I'm planning a vacation to a Spanish-speaking country in a couple of months so I have enough time to decide and start with enough time. I'm staying in an apartment where the owner provides a portable sling. I setup a profile where I advertise myself with a sling and interested in anon sex, pump & dump type action. In spite of being older than 60, I've received tons of winks and messages from guys who want to stop by the apartment for anonymous action. From the responses and previous experiences there, it appears that many of these Latino guys are into mature guys. I love Latino guys! This made me think about PrEP.

I'm not a big fan of PrEP because it does not protect from other STD and I know that being on PrEP I would want to have more anon sex and other STD would show up. I also have a problem with PrEP because I don't see it as a long-term sustainable solution because of money and long-term side effects. But I woulkd like to go on PrEP for maybe 2-3 months. A few weeks to get used to the drug and evaluate the side effects and then for the rest of my 6-week holiday.

 

That's a perfect situation for taking PrEP intermittently.  That's what is great... You can go on and off PrEP as needed with no diminished effectiveness... Have a BLAST

6 hours ago, cman54 said:

Hi Buddy, If you let him cum inside it does not mean you are a chaser. So many people use the term chaser as some thing bad. I would think if you let him cum inside you it would mean that you are really turned on with him and you want to enjoy the moment with him as much as you can. You say you to are really into each other so if I were you I would let him do it. Tell him you want his cum in you. You will get lots of guys telling you to get on Prep and that's fine if it is what you want. Me personally I would not take prep. I would take the poz not on meds. cum. That's me. You need to make up your own mind on it. Most of all though enjoy the sex. I would let him put his bare cock in me often and push it farther each time. Let him pump you and get some rhythm going.

My first reaction is why isn't he on meds ??  I don't believe for a second the number of guys claiming they want the virus to take over their bodies.  So in a real ife situation the POZ partner would be undetectable and you can have all the fun you want. U=U

Starting a week before should be plenty of time to get the blood level of the Truvada up... I know a guy who does this regularly for his trips to Ft Lauderdale.  While he's in Canada he doesn't have sex... comes down everyother month for a couple weeks...

17 minutes ago, Jaegar said:

Has anybody here had a mild fuck flu? A few weeks after a pretty rough group session, I got a terribly persistent headache as well as being achey all over. This persisted for about a week. I'm about due for a test, so I guess we'll see.

The FUCK FLU can vary in duration and severity from one person to another. Only a 1/3 of people really experience it. so the remaining can be slight headache, a little achy like a regular cold.

20 minutes ago, rawTOP said:

According to many studies, if someone is truly undetectable (or even fairly close to it), there's zero risk having sex with them. People who are undetectable are incapable of transmitting the virus. That means even if you don't take PrEP you won't get HIV from them.

But they could be lying, which is why PrEP is good – it lets you protect yourself from people who may not tell you the truth. You really can just stop asking questions and spread your ass and not worry about HIV.

Good point...When I do HIV counseling, I now quote the CDC in stating Undetectable = Untransmittable.  I then add that the small prints adds.. "consistently" undetectable and also for an individual to consider the source.  Meaning  you KNOW the guy more than a casual 1 X hookup.

17 hours ago, VersBBGuyinDC said:

Hey everyone.  Long time lurker, first post. About a year ago I joined the BBBH and haven't looked back.  After a few raw encounters a fuck bud recommended I jump on Truvada.  So after testing NEG my doctor prescribed it for me and I've maintained my neg  status since.  I wouldn't say it has made me sluttier, but I have almost entirely abandoned condoms. 

I'm curious to know if anyone on here knows of someone who seroconverted while on Truvada and taking it properly?  I know the studies show about 3 or 4 cases.  But I wonder sometimes if the drug industry doesn't supress the bad news in light of how effective Truvada is at preventing HIV. 

I'd like to explore more scenarios where I know condoms won't be available, like bathhouses and CODE parties here in DC.  

Hey Guy... PrEP works. maybe close to 99% effective when taken properly.  I know everyone loves a good Drug Industry cover-up, but I am pretty confident that the 3 reported cases are IT ! In my outreach and testing experience its a GOD SEND and hope more jump on the bandwagon... Good Luck

It's been a hectic week with getting ready for and then recovering from Hurricane Irma. My favorite FB & I haven't had a chance to meet up for quite awhile. Saturday AM is his available time to play.  He says he loves my hole.. and how I moan and thrash about while he's fucking me. We started in my living room, where he bends me forward and eats my hole for just a few mins before sliding the head of his beautiful cock in.  I drag his ass into the bedroom and he's so fucking horny he dumps his massive load after 15 mins. No worries, I suck him, he eats me and he's ready in no time.  We fuck in all sorts of positions til he's deep dicking me doggy and I shoot a MASSIVE load all over the bed & floor.  Yes that's him !!

It's irresponsible to not first treat yourself & even then, if there is a chance you are infective to tell a partner.  I'm all for the fantasy posts on here, it adds some excitement for sure. But.. In the real world, a decent human being would take care of his own health and be responsible

#1.  It feels better... A LOT Better

#2. Its more intimate and yea I do feel more connected with the TOP.

#3. I like the load of course, But the fucking is the main course. With the right top, I can have anal orgasm after another for over an hour ... I have a TOP who stays rock hard and doesn't cum after fucking for 1-2 hours. He is totally turned on by my cumming while he's buried inside me.

For the record, I feel a difference between an Uncut & Cut cock too

1 hour ago, KptNLine said:

When I'm riding my husband and he starts to get close, he'll almost always take over, pounding me from underneath while I'm still on Top. I would imagine this would be a difficult position for a Top to sustain if He's the one doing the fucking, since all of stress of the thrusting is in your lower back. I would think a more traditional missionary or especially doggy style position would be more comfortable for the Top, just because you can use your core muscles to fuck and not just your back. I've never topped but I've noticed over the years, when my husband gets close, the fucking becomes a bit faster and harder and more rhythmic. I think it might almost be instinct for a Top to "take over" when he feels like he's close rather than let a bottom take him over the edge. Not saying it's right - but I'm thinking that's why you generally don't see a bottom ride a Top to orgasm this way. 

I've had tops cum while Iml doing all the work riding them... Maybe its that GOOD

On ‎7‎/‎22‎/‎2017 at 7:45 PM, Scottyrim said:

I know I am trying to sleep with unmediated  Poz guys. Part of it is a Chaser thing and part of it is trying to see how long luck holds with Prep.

What are your experiences. Who has pushed the boundaries while on Prep.

As soon as someone says they are HIV I am thinking of ways for them to fuck me.

 

 

PrEP is close to 99% effective, taken daily, so unmedicated or not it's going to protect you. There have been 2 documented cases of guys who took it properly getting infected. The strain they were exposed to was resistant to both medications in Truvada.   Its pretty rare.  I think there are 40,000 + on PrEP

1 hour ago, TravelGuy1956 said:

This could be a sort of a compliment.  I had just moved to Columbus Oh.  and  was at a job interview for Lazarus Dept. store.  The interview went well,  but the interviewer and I kept saying we each looked familiar,  but couldn't figure out where.  But as I got up to leave, he suddenly said he remembered where he knew me.   He had picked me up at a bar in Lexington Ky.  and we went to his hotel room and fucked.   He said,  "I may not remember names or faces,  but I would never forget your hot ass".   I got the job.

That's definitely a compliment !!

His Sruff profile states Neg on PrEP

16 minutes ago, mort said:

Some people need a reality check not everyone can take prep like a lot of drugs it can have nasty effects a few of my friends tried it and a bunch of them now have serious health problems

 

this drug is dangerous its not as simple as take it and you are protected

Just not true... I come across many guys on PrEP in my outreach work. Very Very few have any issues with taking it.  It's been proven to be one of the best tolerasted and least side effect of any anti HIV drugs

Decided to spend some time @ Club Fort Lauderdale for Memorial Day.  I haven't  been going to often and when I have was a bit disappointed in the action.  Well.. I went about 2PM got a nice larger video room and before I could begin to check out the crowd a hot 30s latin comes in and drops his towel... good bottom that I am I take his soft uncut cock in my mouth.. Tho not too long (7 maybe..) it was kinda thick. He got the hint and knew immediately what I wanted... We fucked for about 30 mins in various position and he gave me a nice load.  I then cruised around and ran into a "Daddy" that I know fairly well, but never played.. we were in the steam room and I saw is BEER CAN Mushroom headed cock... I sucked then back my hole against him.  He worked it in and we fucked there for 5-10 mins. Needed a break from the heat... I went back to the room and cruised a very hot shaved headed latin.. He comes in and I suck his hard uncut 7+ " while letting him know what I want.. He took the bait, but unfortunately bags it up... I didn't mind he was hot and it felt pretty good. I milked a large load out of him and into the condom... I grabbed it from him and ate it up ( cum not condom) I got Daddy back to my room again and we fucked all over the bed. the Mushroom head making me groan it felt so good pulling out all the way and then back in... He told me he had a HUGE Load and deposited it deep... Ran into a YOUNG (19 yo) that has been hitting me up on Scruff & Grindr.  Hes much cuter in person and has one of those rocket shaped 7+ inches... I was surprised at how adept he was at fucking and we fucked on & off for a good 30 mins and left his young seed .  I let them all seep inside til this morning.  Damn... I gotta get out more often

Resistance does not occur in Truvada as PrEP.  To develop  resistance, the pathogen (in this case HIV) must be present.  You are taking Truvada to protect from infection. You can go on and off without and worry of resistance.

#1  Ask him if he's undetectable.

       How long has he been Poz and how long he's been undetectable.  If he's been consistently undetectable (like for over a year) research says he's non infective... He can't give it to you.

That's basically it... go on Poz.com or Thebody.com and read up on some basic facts..

Good Luck