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I have to agree with lower on this one, he needs practice and allot of it. You could teach him to fuck and have allot of fun doing it. You could also try a cockring on him and take regular breaks once he starts to last for a while e.g. fuck for a while then let him have a cold shower and be at it again. Loads of fun to be had so enjoy the ride and let us know how you get on. J

This is a good question for guys inthe UK. I have noticed a deterioration in the quality of poppers for sale inthe UK over the last 5 years. I usually buy my poppers online and the good stuff: Iron Horse, Man Scent, Jungle Juice, used to be shipped from the Czech Republic but now come from Canada and get opened by customs. I didn't know about the guy in Old Compton Street but it would be useful to know where other guys in the UK/London get their poppers from? J

I have a agree with AlwaysOpen. What are you waiting for?

I got fucked by a guy with a large PA and metal ball and it was great. He shot a decent load and then carried on fucking using his cum as lube. So much fun!

I would also like an invite to this party, looks like it could be fun.

@leogon7 - do keep us up to date with your experience. @felcheruk - I checked the website and the place opens at 3pm. Is it usually busy this early on weekends or does the main crowd arrive later n in the evening?

Whether this works or not will depend on the "chemistry" between the two of you, but if you start off with a negative attitude it may never work. I don't regard myself as a size queen, I mean how many times have I been with a guy whith a big dick who can't get hard...much prefer a hard dick to to big dick. Do let us know how you got on. J

...and just look at the shit Julian Assange is in, which if the media are to be believed, is all about "bedroom etiquette" and whether it is sexual assault for a second fuck without a condom when the first fuck was with one.

When I was working in the Gulf 2 years ago my Lebanese FB called me to get ready as he wanted to call round for a fuck. He arrived and as usual we got right down to it. He fucked me for a while but said he didn't want to come yet. He then got texting on his phone and rather sheepishly enquired whether he could take me round to someone else. I reluctantly agreed but didn't know what to expect. He then drove me to a smart hotel and led the way to a room. I was really nervous but the guy in the room was expecting us. He was a Brazilian businessman. The two of them then took turns fucking me and it was amazing. Both of them got really horned up watching each other fuck me. Once I was truly loosened up they poppered me up and double fucked me - another first for me. It was my best 3 some ever. The whole scene lasted about 2.5 hours. My arse was sore for days afterwards. Sometimes it's worth just going with the flow and seeing what happens. J

I agree with all of these comments. The amount of men in London on hook up sites that have a "last minute emergency" once they have arranged a date that prevents them from cancelling or engaging in any further communication is truly astounding! Some of my mates who have been around since before the internet often say that it was much better before all the the so called easy hook up sites when guys had no option to go to bars or clubs or parks etc. to meet someone. J

Big, you have raised a very interesting issue which I have spent much time considering recently. Maybe it is just the time of year, New Year, a time to reflect, new resolutions etc. When my last relationship ended over 18 months ago I really missed the sex and intimacy. We had a very sexual relationship allbe it monogomous, which was by choice but also because there wasn't really place for anyone else - and that was fine. Looking back it was wonderful to have a friend and mate to do things with, go to exhibitions, a movie, cook a meal together, get drunk togehter go away for a weekend, visiting friends etc. Once I accepted that the relationship was over I tried to replce the sex - up to a point. At first I really enjoyed the sexual freedom but just couldn't get used to using rubbers. So I've had some great "sexually liberating" experiences but once I had played in a club for a few hours I was leaving with what felt like a large emotional vaccuum in my mind. I've tried doing the local "scene" again but as I am not good looking, and not a young as I used to be I need to really make the effort engage with people and get people to engage with me. The "scene" is extremely shallow and it is apparent that guys are holding out for that possible next guy who may just be better looking, richer, younger, have a bigger cock etc... I even tried speed dating. What a bunch of losers! Most of the guys I met were just too precious about themselves and I got fed up being measured against their set "wish list". Anyway, to get back to the thread. I've had "open relationships" and surprisingly (or not) it was the other party (who wanted the open relationship) that became too jealous and insecure and then either opted for monogamy or ended the relationship. I also know a number of couples who have beem together for over 15 years and now have open relationships and they all agree that when a relationship becomes "open" some of the magic is lost, and I can't help but agree with them. The solution appears to be security and communication to overcome this apparent loss of "magic" so you both still feel fulfilled in the relationship. This said it is a challenge to have a relationship with someone who is always on the hunt for someting else... I did make the decision early on that I was not going to let singledom get me down. My pleasure does not depend on anyone elses' permission. Eg. I joined a scuba diving club and have just been on a skiing holiday on my own. None of my friends wanted to come along so I went alone. Sure, people stare at you when you are having dinner in a restaurant on your own but I'll be dammned if I lose out on my holiday because of the percieved attitudes of others. Ultimately it is their problem, not mine. I'm not sure I have answer yet but surely you have be yourself and then just let things happen. J

I suppose the possibility of being filmed in a public place adds to the risk and excitement but it is different in a club or bar. I was in Berlin last year in a well known leather bar and there were two American tourists in the bar with their smart phones taking pictures and filming etc. it was obvious what they were doing and the rest of the guys in the bar just stopped playing. Their behaviour ruined the atmosphere. I'm not sure exactly what happened but they left very suddenly after about 20 mins and suspect that the barman may have asked them to leave. I would be very uncomfortable if someone were filming me without my consent and I would probably stop what I was doing to prevent any further filming/photographs. You would never know where it might end up and the damage it could cause. J

I've never been but would like to go. Do guys get undressed there? if so, are there lockers or somewhere safe to leave stuff? Also, when is the best time to go? J

I don't use a dildo to loosen up as I want to stay a tight as I possibly can. It usually takes me about 1 hour and a number of flushes before I come clean. I also take a few breaks throughout the process and do squats to loosen my gut. Diet is also important and in time you will get to know yourself and what works and what doesn't.

I'm uncut with an average size dick. I do love my foreskin though but recently I have noticed that it has become tighter, and if I jerk of too often then the skin splits and it can become sore and painful. I've been single for just over a year and my foreskin was much looser when I had a BF as we had a reasonably good versatile relationship. Admittedly he was the more active partner. BB fucking uncut is a great sensation and I love the way the arse peels back my foreskin as I press my dick in. I'm not a good top though but as I have said before on this site I believe there is a lot to be said for versatility. With some uncut dicks the foreskin peels back with a hardon with looks fantastic. I'm starting to consider circumcision, or at least a partial circumcision. And I have a few questions: 1. Have any of you experienced the same problem, and have you tried to rectify it? If so, how? 2. Does anyone have any general suggestions for stretching a foreskin, if so can you please share them? 3. Has anybody had a "partial circumcision"? How does fucking now compare to before you were cut? Are you happy with the result? J

Pisstopper I believe you make a valid points about gay guys ultimately wanting cock(s) up thier arses and being a "relentless bottom" is percieved as being more achievable. Being a good bottom does not come naturally though. It takes allot more effort and discipline to be a good bottom e.g. how to keep yourself clean, taking 8"+ ( or good girth) with ease, how to "milk" a cock with your arse etc. Although I've visited and lived in cities in the Middle East where being a bottom is a social taboo so there tend to be many more tops than bottoms e.g Turkey and any of the Gulf States. I still think there is much to be said for versatility though...

My clean out routine is similar to those detailed above. If I can't get clean in about an hour then I don't get fucked. Sure, when in a relationship fucking was not always spontaneous but we had enough sex to overcome that. It's great to be able to present a clean arse for rimming, fucking and A2M. Travelling can really mess with a diet and clean out routine and it would be useful to know what frequent travellers do to be clean?

To me it's all in the chemistry. Oral can be very horny but if there is little interest from one person then the other(s) will pick that up soon enough. Some guys can get a hard on in an instant but lose it just as quickly while it may take another guy a bit longer...it's the variety that makes it interesting.