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I'm bumping this topic to the top of the page as I have a further question on long term side effects. I've been on prep for almost 2 years now. I used to enjoy alcohol allot more but lately have gone off drinking altogether. I say lately but looking back it has been over the last 2 years that my taste for alcohol has significantly declined. I used to enjoy a drink, and whilst I don't believe my drinking ever reached a level where it was out of control I certainly had a greater enthusiasm for alcoholic drink, and the fun I would get up to once I had a few... Over the last year I've also worked in the Middle East, which doesn't exactly lend itself to a pub/drinking culture either, so there have certainly been changes to my usual routine. My question is therefore whether anyone else has had a similar experience with alcohol usage and taking prep? J
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I was in Rome last week and followed NLbears advice to go to the sauna mediterraneo. If you are not ordinarily resident in Italy you have to provide ID and buy an anndos card, which is valid for a year. After that entry is about €10. You get 2 keys on entry, one for a small locker for valuables - wallet, passport, phone etc. Which is in view of reception and the other key for you clothes locker - this locker also has 2 towels in. The keys are on a bracelet which you wear on your wrist. They also give you flip flops to wear. The sauna has a few showers, steam room and Finnish sauna with a large plunge pool. Cabins are located upstairs and there is a coffee/snack bar for refreshments. They run a tab on your locker number and you pay on the way out. I was there for Friday afternoon from about 3pm until just after 6, I left then as the place emptied out. It was an older crowd (mostly over 50's) and things were a bit quiet at first but I suspect that word got round that I take it raw and I became popular. A few younger guys arrived later on. I have no Italian, but is was patently obvious that I has been discussed. I returned on Sunday afternoon, a bit later than on Friday and whilst the place was busy, it wasn't as busy as the Friday. I left around 8pm as I was the only one left and I got the message that they wanted to close. This time I managed to get some ass as well. No condoms or lube provided but a few guys seem to have brought their own, others just fucked raw, or tried to avoid anal. Anyway, thanks to NLbear for the initial advice to go, definitely worth while. J
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It's a while ago now but I went to a party straight from a sauna visit and kept my cockring on. It was a metal ring and fit snugly. Anyway, I pulled at the party and we had good sex that night but whe I woke up my cock was bruised to a dark blue colour and my low hangers had twisted - I was in agony. We just couldn't get the ring off despite trying with loads of lube, soap and shampoo in the shower. Anyway, I then went to A & E at the Royal Infirmary where the nurse that saw me admitted me to hospital and they got a medical student to try sawing it off with a small round circular saw. So there I was in A & E with my legs in the air and a young medical student and a paramedic taking turns on sawing off the ring. It took about 2 hours. At one stage it was going so slowly that they were considering calling the fire brigade for assistance! I was so embarrassed, but the staff were great. They kept on offering to bring me a cup of tea but as I had pain pissing I wasn't going to take in any more liquid. It took years before I had the guts to try another metal ring... J
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How Many Holes Do You Breed At The Baths Or Sex Party?
mjapie1 replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I usually like to start as a top then once I have shot my first load I find it easier to bottom, this said much depends on the chemistry and mix of people available, I'm unlikely to turn down a keen broke with a rock hard dick who only wants to fuck. On the occasions when I have got fucked first I usually blow a huge load when I top later on. J -
I have heard and read about intense dreams too and think it may need further investigation. I take truvada in the morning with breakfast before I go to work so don't have the opportunity to fall asleep & dream. Last year I was working 12 hour shifts and continued to take truvada in the mornings, having just come off night shift. It was following a night shift that I most frequently missed taking the tablet, just because I was out of my usual routine. I don't recall any vivid dreams from when I did take the medication but was way too tired to monitor it properly. It would be interesting to know about other peoples experiences. J
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Much depends on where you are travelling from. If travelling from a London airport with hand luggage only I just put the poppers with my toiletries in the small plastic see through bag and put it through the scanner, I've yet to be pulled over for poppers.
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Istanbul and Bahrain
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When I first started taking prep I experienced "pins & needles" in my feet, sometimes just a dull numbness. I discussed this with the Consultant who assures me that it isn't the truvada, we also agreed that I would take a break to see if the symptoms dissipated. I only went off meds for a few days but the symptoms remained. I also changed my shoes & socks. In any event, the symptoms soon disappeared and I restarted truvada. I've not had issues since and the Consultant asked me about it last month. He still maintains that it wasn't the truvada. J
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I've gradually stopped using these apps, I've got better things to do with my time. I've also now reached the point that I don't provide further photos to my face pic until I receive a pic in return which was slowed the footfall to my pages. But agreed, it is very annoying and frustrating.
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Interesting thread got me thinking. Years ago I was in Blackpool one rainy winter Wednesday evening.The bar had a stripper on but it was quite empty, anyway he'd did his show and then stayed in the bar for a while. I remember chatting to him at the door on the way out, it was pissing down, he had to drive back to Manchester and wasn't in the mood. So why didn't I invite him back to my hotel room duh... A couple of weeks ago I was at home during the daytime. A delivery man buzzed on the intercom asking whether I would take a parcel for a neighbour. I refused and saw him a few minutes later on the stairwell, a young short Latino looking guy - he looked over his shoulder twice at me and I didn't get the message.... I think I need to reinstall my gaydar. J
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I'm short 5'6" so prefer guys my own height, or a bit shorter. I'm really into short guys anyway. Many taller guys just aren't interested in shorter guys as it really messes with the whole top/bottom dynamic. For me there nothing better than hooking up with a similar short guy for a decent flip fucking session.
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I spent last week in Paris. L'Impact was good but there was a fair amount of "Gallic attitude." I know it is "rich" from someone living in London but the attitude was quite something to experience. Admittedly my French isn't good but I was trying to make an effort. It's not real a chatty kind of place. The bar only got busy around 11pm but was much more fun over the weekend. Don't keep any cash on you, they will run a tab on your wristband number and you will pay on the way out. Don't lose your wristband, it will cost you EUR 10. Of all the places I went to this was the best. I fucked a nice muscle arse BB in the darkroom but he was a bit of an exhibitionist and move us into the light. This didn't last long, others there clearly did not approve of us fucking BB, and I thought some people avoided me after seeing me fuck BB. Le Bunker was a disappointment. Perfect venue but the crowd was really Stand-offish. It was a sport skit dress code so I was wearing a rugby top with a jockstrap, most were just in tracky bottoms & shirts. Never more that 20 people rattling around the corridors. I had a good session with a guy from Lyon when I arrived (we had a little sling cabin to ourselves) but spent the next 2 hours wandering around aimlessly experiencing the extreme attitude. I was there from 22:30 to after midnight. I think late on a Friday night is maybe not the best time to go. It would be useful to know if others have been there at different times. Given the size of the place and the amount of lockers there must be times when it gets busy. I never made it to a sauna, but then there's always next time... J
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What is the best time to go to "le bunker"? Is it better to go in the afternoon/early evening or later, say around midnight - especially over weekends?
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Anyone else in Bahrain?
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I started taking Zinc a while a ago to increase volume. I haven't noticed that I produce more cum but it is definitely thicker, lumper and creamier. This decreases when I stop taking a daily zinc tablet for about 4 days. J
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I went along having bought a ticket when it was still cumunion. I must admit that there were fewer guys there than I was expecting and the party was slow to get going but it appeared that people were having a good time. I got there before midnight and left at 3. The staff were friendly, chatty and helpful. I thought it was a very mixed age crowd with some, but not much, attitude. Something needs to be done about the "sling hogs" though. Some guys will just lie there occupying a sling waiting to be fucked and won't move if others want to use it. When my mate asked one guy if we could use the sling he replied: "no, fuck me instead!" So we went to play on the soft seats. J
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If I were you I wouldn't go too big (& visible) to start off with. If you start with a small ring you can always go bigger in due course, but much of this is personal preference. You say your nipples are wired, I take it you mean wired to your cock, and sensitive. I'd be interested to know if the sensitivity increases after piercing and healing? Mine aren't sensitive and just get sore when guys chew on them which is a total turn off. I'm a bit of a wuss when it comes to pain. J
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In my experience the more you look for a relationship the more desperate you appear to others and the less likely you are to find what you are looking for. In time you will meet guys and if it is right for you and the other guy a relationship will develop. Once this happens it will up to both of you to make it work, not just one. J
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If you upload pictures of your chest & nipples we will have a look and tell you what to go for.
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I saw this thread a few weeks ago and it appealed to me as I also want to increase my ejaculate volume. I'm a bit sceptical about pills but decided to try and see wheter I get any results. I've been taking 1 x 15mg high strength zinc supplement together with 1 x 500 mg l-arginine daily for 14 days now. My cum has definitely got "thicker" (allot less watery) and I've managed to recover to cum more often e.g. I shot four loads earlier today and am still horny. It would be interesting to know whether anyone else has done the same, and what the results were. J
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Ever run into someone from work online or in a bathhouse?
mjapie1 replied to bttmsubslut's topic in General Discussion
My first ever boyfriend and I split up after after unexpectedly meeting each other at the sauna. Needless to say that was the end of the relationship . He was on his way out and I had just arrived. He immediately went into a rage accusing me of being unfaithful! 15 years later it is still an amusing tale to tell. J -
Recently when I was at a sauna it was during my 4th fuck that my arse started making a "slurping" noise when getting fucked. I had already taken 2 loads so was nicely loosened up. At the time I was on my back, with the top bearing down on me, his forearms holding up my calves. We had got the position just right and every time he thrusted and pulled back my arse made this noise. At first I was a bit self conscious but it really got him going and he only lasted about 5 more minutes before he blew a massive load. It was the first time this had ever happened to me and I would like to know whether anyone else has had a similar experience? Was it because I had: already taken a few loads; or I was well loosened up; or due to our position? Any comments appreciated. J
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I worked for the UK Prison Service with both lifer and shorter term prisoners. I came accorss several allegations of inappropriate sexual bahaviour but little ever seemed to come of it as people move around or the power dynamics of it was all wrong. I know from speaking to some officers that in the lifer community some guys become totally "feminised" in prison but still maintain a relationship of sorts with thier wives and children. I think this was referred to as "institutionalised homosexuality". Anyway, from my experience there is nothing sexy or sexual about being in prison. The routine is punishing, the bullying and harrassment rife and total lack of privacy makes it near impossble to get up to much. It would be interesting to know what others have to say. J
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Here in Europe I've not had any issues. I shamelessly put my poppers in a ziplock bag and put it through the x-Ray machine. Once a female security guard did try to have a closer look and battled to get the top off and it looked like she wanted to have a sniff but because it was busy and I was waiting she just left it. The look on my face must have been priceless! Here we get free condoms and small saches of lube in gay pubs and saunas so I always carry lube like that. I've never travelled with toys though. J
