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NYCBearpig

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  1. Statistics are great but I wonder how far someone's "jail-em" attitude applies once they've made physical contact? I suspect a strong difference between works in a poll and actions. I agree with previous posters: if someone puts their unwrapped clock in my butt at a sex club et al I'm going to assume he's poz. If it's a 1:1 encounter I say I'm poz and the rest is up to him. If he's neg it probably won't happen.
  2. No signs, showers have doors so it's more difficult to leave it open a crack if you're checking around, but nobody is ever naked. Ever. I also don't cruise or have sex in this or any prior health club I used. I kind of like to keep that separate, but I do appreciate looking at naked men - 'cept not here.
  3. It has never gotten back to "normal" for me. When things start to settle down something else rears its ugly head and that is HIV related, even though I'm undetectable with a good t cell count. This time its something HPV related that reared its ugly head from 35 years ago, and before that it was skin related psoriasis. Add those to the belly fat that is med related and that won't go away and that no doctor that I found is willing to perform lypo on this type of belly fat and you can see why I can't relate to people who "want" HIV and/or who take no meds. Oh, and my asthma came back after being dormant for about 40 years. Plus, the first indication that I had HIV was when I came down with shingles, and eight years later I still have nerve damage from that. I did not "let myself" get pozzed. The only thing I can come up with is via oral and my lousy gum disease, but if someone ever did tell me that they stealthed me I would immediately ask why he thought he could tell me that and expect to live to see another day. I *am* originally from The Bronx, NYC, after all.
  4. I don't think it's the sites that are allowing it so much as the sites that make it difficult to grab the video. If a site uses all available tools to prevent copying there's always the last resort of a screen and audio grab. I've seen films with watermark on top of watermark so even that doesn't work. Bottom line who you gonna sue? As someone else here said, if you fuck in public assume someone's filming, and if you upload videos assume someone's downloading, regardless of the site being used.
  5. I would never do anything that can only be done once.
  6. No, now you're talking a "look" or accessory, the same as the top fucking me fully dressed or leather chaps or whatever, which is totally different than simply leaving socks on while fucking, esp socks that reach the ankle, which I find particularly not masculine (sorry if I offend.)
  7. This is a good reference site. He explains a lot about what UD means. http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Q206070.html
  8. That was nice but Whoring out Persian Boy is way hot. Except you're not naked if you're wearing socks. I don't like socks and sex.
  9. The anon, CL or whatever pump n dump with a hidden cam do the most for my dick.
  10. Sling sex is the best sex there is, especially in a group.
  11. This is one of those topics that makes me hard but that I wouldn't do. Love seeing guys do this on xtube and wouldn't mind seeing it up close and personal.
  12. One time at a sex club I was getting fucked, and at one point the top started sharing my ass with other tops. It was so hot I jerked my jizz rather quickly.
  13. As someone who was around in the 70s here in NY STDs, specifically gonorrhea, was a way of life, so to speak. Everyone made regular visits to the clinics. Having fairly recently (for various reasons) gotten back in the game I'm glad that this is no longer the case, but I suspect that as more and more people bareback this will change and we'll be back to what we had. Not a good thing. The biggest fear are those "antibiotic resistant" strains that everyone has always talked about.
  14. Very important to me everywhere except in backrooms, bath houses, etc. because the dynamic is different. I don't even want to know his name in those cases. However, here, as everywhere else, I like to know who I'm chatting with. While "hidden" from this site, it only takes about three seconds to find a link with my face and chest.
  15. Interesting points. I wasn't equating "too piggy" with anything involving the line. For me the line between what I would actually do and fantasy is separate. I can get off on very extreme piggy and/or hardcore porn, but won't actually do it.
  16. Is there a period of time that you must be on PrEP in order for it to remain effective?
  17. Runs in my family, as does heart disease, so my regular bloodwork includes these other markers.
  18. When I'm searching for more extreme porn I get better hits with Bing.
  19. A friend of mine just went through this. A lawyer is usually a good idea. He ended up with a much better severance package.
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