Now that I'm poz I'm fucking much more and enjoying breeding holes. When I go to the bathhouse now I usually end up breeding 2-3 holes. For my first load I usually hunt for a hot hole just to deposit my poz cum. I then go into dark areas, gloryholes, etc, until I'm horny again for a hole. But this second time I can fuck for a long time so I do this in one of the public slings to have an audience. Depending on how much time I stay, I can sometimes shoot a 3rd load, which I usually do just before leaving the place.

Here is another one where you see the cock pumping the load...SO hot

I've seen videos where you see the top from behind and the prostate pumping the load. But this one is the best one. Minute 1:24 on

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/fuckeg-by-black-ttbm-32411622

Stupid:  Bareback bottoms at a bathhouse asking "Are you clean?"

I don't know about other poz guys, but this question kind of irritates me and it encourages a poz top to stealth the hole.

On 7/5/2018 at 5:30 AM, 6811283 said:

Personally I'd feel comfortable with a compromise of about 7 days.

This is what I did on my first period I was on PrEP.

I started 10 days before my trip to South America where I was renting an apartment with a sling. I also knew that many of the local young and not so young guys liked older. I was prepared and was glad to have been taking PrEP because I was able to enjoy sex without worrying about every cock that went into my hole.  I stopped 10 days after I came back from my holiday. When I went for my appointment with my Dr. she told me that the protocol called for 30 days after the last sexual contact.

I started my second period of PrEP and I was worrying about those 30 days of PrEP without sex. Most likely the pharmaceutical companies exaggerate the dosages to make more money, protected by the pretext of safety.

8 hours ago, RawLeather said:

For me the bigger the cock, the better.  Always up for a good bare challenge

I'm also a bottom but it's kinda annoying that even when the issue has to do with guys with big cocks who like to fuck, bottoms think the issue relates to them.

We already know that most bottoms who bareback are obsessed with cum and getting their hole bred. But this question is for guys with big cocks who like to fuck.

Bottoms: Control yourself!

On 3/20/2018 at 9:09 PM, 6811283 said:

The official recommendation has been to keep taking it for a month after the last possible exposure, but the more recent thinking is that that's probably too conservative.

The issue I have with PrEP is that one has to continue taking it for a month. I find it too long because when I'm on PrEP I'll be more tempted to take loads which means having to wait for another month, during which time it could happen again. If the wait were 7-10 days it would be less likely for that to happen.

On 5/30/2011 at 1:42 PM, slobbvers said:

Couldn't cum in the bottom as his hole was too loose for me.

I can tell from the way the cock feels whether or not a tightening of my hole is required to provide the top with more friction in his cock. Plus, when my hole has opened up, the top can go deeper and get more friction that way.

I've never been a "size queen" because I've always been afraid that getting fucked by a big cock may hurt my hole and may have to stop getting fucked for the evening because I'm bleeding. And I enjoy getting fucked by regular and even a smaller cock, especially if at the end I receive the reward. At bathhouses I've come across guys with big cocks and we've tried to fuck unsuccessfully. Isn't this frustrating for tops?

However, a couple of days ago I was at the local sauna on the sling in my room. The first guy who fucked me had a cock bigger that what I usually take so he was trying hard to penetrate me with his monster cock. As the first cock I was expecting a regular cock! I had put lube with a lube injector so after trying hard to relax my hole the top was able to go in and began to fuck me. After a few seconds his cock felt really nice inside and noticed that he was very excited fucking me and started to shoot pretty soon. He said "I needed a hole for my big cock" and left.

Is it sometimes frustrating being horny and wanting to fuck a hole with a big cock?

13 hours ago, Memphian said:

When I was about ready to leave I put a finger in his hole and it was so creamy.  So I thought "what the hell."  It felt fantastic but I was so turned on I added my load in less than 30 seconds.

Well done! And it doesn't matter how long you fucking the sloppy hole because as you said it felt great, but you also ,made another bottom very happy.

There is nothing strange with a total bottom breeding a hole just to get off, as Memphian said, instead of jaking off.

In the last few months I've had two total tops fuck-buddies of mine tell me that they are thinking about bottoming. Both are Mexican. One is a top guy in his 30's whom I met at the sauna Oasis in Montreal. I love the way his curved uncut cock feels in my hole. He always says "Que rico!" as he dumps his load in my hole. The other top is a guy in his late 30's whom I usually meet at the Blackout event in the local sauna.

I correspond by email with both of them to either meet at a sauna in Montreal or at the Blackout event in my local sauna. But lately both have been hinting that although they enjoy being tops they've been toying with the idea of bottoming.

Sex roles are not carved in stone because all men, unlike women, have a cock and a hole that they can use for either role. It becomes a matter of preference and what makes the guy feel more comfortable. I've argued that no matter how much of a bottom a guy is, topping and breeding a hole is not such an unreasonable demand, at least for most total bottoms. I've met many bottoms who after a long session of load-taking they feel very horny and who enjoy dumping their loads into a hot hole before going home, rather than jerking off.

But what about total tops taking loads once in a while? Any former total tops who started taking loads? Any reason why a guy would not get fucked?

On 3/7/2017 at 10:04 PM, bbzh said:

I don't think monogamy works particularly well for straight people and it's an even taller order for gays.

I doubt that wanting a monogamous relationship has anything to do with sexual orientation. I'm sure that many straight men would be non-monogamous if they knew their actions wouldn't jeopardize their main relationship with wife or girlfriend. The way most straight men safely break the monogamy is by watching porn, which most women consider a form of cheating.

On the other hand, it's easy for men who have sex with men to be non-monogamous because all participants are men, so there are no nagging women placing unreasonable expectations on men.

On 8/21/2011 at 2:05 PM, eurotopnyc said:

I would say a bottom should ideally loosen the sphincter on the instrokes and GENTLY tighten the grip on the cock on the outstrokes.

Very good advice because by loosening the hole it allows deep penetration and more friction as the cock goes in deep. Also a gentle tightening is all what's needed to provide enough pleasure to the top.

1 hour ago, coastalbender said:

I often thing about being what I call "bottom to a bottom".

For me it's a huge turn-on being fucked and bred by another bottom., especially when I notice the guy fucking me has a sloppy hole.

1 hour ago, coastalbender said:

Of course, I wouldn't expect him to fuck me, that's not his thing, but

Just because someone is a bottom doesn't mean that he won't enjoy fucking and breeding some sloppy hole at a bathhouse after he's done for the night. A bottom is not like a woman who really can't top.

I've been reading about Parliament House for many years and I always think of of it as the ultimate place for a cumdump to get a room. And I came across this 2012 news: http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/2012-08-06/news/os-rape-hiv-parliament-house-20120806_1_hiv-positive-man-hiv-positive-man-hiv-positive-status

It's so hot as it all happened:

"Kenneth Creuzer [rapist], 48, told investigators the door to the man's room was open, so he walked in and assaulted him as he lay on his stomach, a police report states. Leaving a door ajar and the blinds open while lying facedown is known as an invitation to sex, Creuzer told investigators.

Has anybody been to Parliament House? Are guys who are not hotel guests allow to roam the hallways?

17 hours ago, Berdell said:

I have a shower wonde  in my shower. Goes in deep and has plenty of water and pressure to get your man cunt really clean !

I find that many techniques that work well for others may not work for me, or, even more interesting, techniques that used to work for me no longer work because things change as one ages.

I came across an article (https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2017/jul/09/everybody-lies-how-google-reveals-darkest-secrets-seth-stephens-davidowitz) that estimates the male population based on "Porn Searches" on Google to be about 5%:

       Countrywide, I estimate – using data from Google searches and Google AdWords – that about 5% of male porn searches are for gay-male porn. Overall, there are more gay porn searches in tolerant states compared with intolerant states. In Mississippi, I estimate that 4.8% of male porn searches are for gay porn, far higher than the numbers suggested by either surveys or Facebook and reasonably close to the 5.2% of pornography searches that are for gay porn in Rhode Island.

I have watched lots of gay-male porn but I have never done a Google search for porn. Maybe other do, I don't know. I have a few sites that I use but I never search for porn using Goggle. I wonder is others search for gay porn and are part of the statistics of the article.

I remember the times when many universities in North America had at least one bathroom with gloryholes. The university I knew had a bathroom near the pool tables and the Student's Pub/Bar. This bathroom was very busy on Friday and Saturday nights with lots of horny drunken students. There were 4 cubicles and gloryholes in 2 of them.

On 4/4/2018 at 4:01 PM, raunchycumslut said:

My current issue is that lately, I have a LOT of guys hitting me up for a face pic (sometimes after chatting, sometimes right away). When I send the pic, they never respond, ...

If I'm cruising online I'm looking not only for sex and loads but specifically for anonymous loads. I'm never looking for a friend or someone to have a coffee with. So I usually make it very clear in my profiles by saying that I'm not interested in  exchanging face pics because I like sex to be anonymous as possible: "If you want to send me a picture send me a picture of your cock, not of your face". That way then my refusal to exchange face pictures looks less of a need to hide something and more of a wanting sex to be anonymous. I don't even ask about age.

16 hours ago, barecubtop said:

... I live in a university town where younger guys will hit me up on Grindr because they see I'm a top, but when we get to trading pics they will either disappear or block me. 

As a top you should be able to get away with hooking up with bottoms without sending a face pic, just your cock.

16 hours ago, barecubtop said:

the apps can be very frustrating and screw with us mentally in terms of the rejection ...

Again, as a top you should not find yourself in this situation.

Canada has same-sex marriage, legal weed, and now, legal prostitution? While the US moves backwards, Canada moves forward.

https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2018/04/17/liberals-sex-work-decriminalization_a_23413749/

When the topic of prostitution is discussed the focus is always on women and how they are victims to men. But what about men who want to make a few bucks? Male prostitutes are  not affected by "human trafficking" or by abusive "pimps". So why not make male prostitution legal?

22 hours ago, muscmtl said:

I have read so many comments on forums, FB and Twittter, and seems that everyone is forgetting that we live on Planet Earth, not planet US.

It's true that many Americans think that the World and the US are one and the same thing. It's called egocentric-ism. From the Google Dictionary, the synonyms for egocentric: self-centered, ego-maniacal, egoistic, egotistic, self-interested, selfish, self-seeking, self-absorbed, narcissistic, vain, self-important. You get the idea.

The only positive comments I hear about FOSTA/SESTA have to do with trying to prevent trafficking of little girls and women. So my question is, why then are they preventing some horny guy from making a few bucks by breeding a willing hole of some hungry bottom who used to advertise on CL? Instead of using a sledge hammer there must be another way of preventing stupid girls and women from being exploited by men who they think loves them?

Although I'm not at an age where I could offer escorting services I still believe that putting restrictions on what one can do with the body is a violation of your human rights. Why should someone who knows they can make ten times more using their bodies as escorts be forced to continue using their bodies to clean toilets at a mall?

On 12/31/2015 at 12:31 PM, bbzh said:

I am not sure I care who my sex partners fuck when they are not fucking me. And it surely doesn't matter to me how he self-identifies.

Same here. I find that when I'm getting fucked I really can't tell whether the guy fucking me is straight or gay, or even top or bottom. All I know is that the guy is horny and that he's turned-on by the idea of fucking and breeding my hole. I've been fucked by feminine guys but I never noticed it until they either talked to me or noticed their mannerisms; while being horny and fucking me they looked as masculine as the most macho-looking guy. That's why I never describe any guy who has fucked me as a top or straight, etc. To me they he's just a horny guy who at that precise moment wants to fuck my hole and breed it. That's all I care.

I was on a sex-holiday in South America and an apartment that included a sling. A guy in his 30's wanted to anonymously breed me on the sling but after my hole was loaded with cum from and older guy, not just any cum. It had to be from and older guy, so one day when I knew a young guy wanted to try fucking me on the sling I coordinated with him, and told him that the cum was from a guy in his 60's. What difference would it make?

I liked this oral session at a private gloryhole because of the huge cock that you see emerge from the gloryhole at the end. Once the guy gets his pants on you can see his "big package" containing that huge cock.

Straight Muscle Fit With HUGE COCK Anonymous Gloryhole

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/straight-muscle-fit-with-huge-cock-anonymous-gloryhole-34618741

On 3/23/2018 at 3:58 AM, InsatiableBoy said:

With that in mind, this bill is a bunch of partisan bullshit. Despite how much our legislators and president (ugh) love sex workers, they pose a significant threat to core "values" these legislators hold. I do believe sex trafficking is pure evil, but Craigslist shutting down their personals section is working proof that this law isn't a targeted solution. It's legal overreaching to kill multiple birds with a single stone. Maybe Craigslist really was a hub for sex trafficking and I never encountered an ad using the service to promote it, but I've seriously never seen a single ad that in any way indicates that pattern.

The concern is female prostitution and when they mention "human trafficking" they are really talking about "women trafficking". So many women are weak emotionally  and in the stupid search for a "boyfriend" that they are easily tricked into working for some guy who they think loves them (stupid women!). You could never do that with men! If someone tried it with boys instead of girls, well, good luck! Boys would learn the ropes in a day and would be on their own making their own money the next day.

There is no problem with male prostitution. So why not make only female prostitution illegal and allow men do be free with their bodies? Making prostitution illegal is in a sense an infringement of our human rights because we should be able to do whatever we want with our bodies...(the same argument as abortion). But the problem are those women who allow men to control them and obviously men would take advantage of those emotionally weak women.

On 3/15/2018 at 3:30 PM, 6811283 said:

In the PrEP research trials, no one who took at least 4 pills a week was infected. Of course it's best to aim to take your pill every day, but if you happen to miss one or two, don't stress.

I stopped PrEP and had the appointment with my doctor and we agreed to continue PrEP for short periods of time, which was what I wanted. I don't want to be taking Truvada when I'm not having sex and lately I haven't had the time or opportunities for anon sex which is the way I like it.

My doctor told me to start Truvada 7 days before planning a sex holiday but continue taking it for a month after the last sexual contact. I found a month to be a bit too much but that's what is recommended, I understand. Any opinions on the protocol when stopping Truvada?