10 minutes ago, hungry_hole said:

This is a hot video Alirio from Chile who posts (in Spanish) hundreds of videos of him taking loads and pushing them out at the end.

I found another hot video from Alirio, a self-described bottom proven by his videos but who once in a while he enjoys topping.

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/de-activo-follando-a-un-fans-junto-a-su-amigo-40368431

De activo follando a un fans junto a su amigo (as a top fucking one of my fans together with another friend)

"He's a fan who loves my videos and one day he visited Chile he asked me to meet me and do something fun so I invite him to spend an afternoon and I also invited another friend with whom we both fucked him bareback and filled his hole with both of our loads. This is a gift to my fans who like to see me as a top so I expect lots of comments and votes. Kisses everyone and enjoy "

This is a hot video Alirio from Chile who posts (in Spanish) hundreds of videos of him taking loads and pushing them out at the end. Although he's a bottom, he occasionally fucks and breeds holes. In this one Alirio first fucks and breeds a Mexican follower of him and then he takes the load from the Mexican with his sloppy hole. Very hot!

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/dando-y-recibiendo-verga-a-pelo-40580961

Dando y recibiendo verga a pelo (Giving and receiving bare cock) by Alirio

13 hours ago, kitpig said:

So I'm naturally hairy but often make the effort to shave smooth or clip, but I am wondering what guys prefer when they fuck a bttm like me?

I was wondering the same thing. There are some guys who like hairy holes and other prefer smooth hole. But you can please everyone so what is a bottom to do?

2 hours ago, BB4fking said:

I guess the most useful thing I’ve found is to prelube my ass -

I prefer to be more direct so when I get a room and leave the door open guys walking by will see a glow-in-the-dark sign that says "Cream my Hole". No possibility of confusion left.

17 hours ago, tighthole64 said:

Have never seen one of those before, but seems like lots of $$$$ for its intended purpose though.

I'll be going on a holiday to South America en I found a guy who owns a Dungeon that he rents to guys who want a place for sex. He also rents a Spit Roaster and was wondering how portable this thing is. I want to hook up with guys and wait for them on the Spit Roaster in my apartment. If I like it I may buy one for me.

Asking for help to find a special dildo was so successful that now that I'm looking into buying a "Spit Roaster" (https://www.mr-s-leather.com/sex-toys/sex-slings-furniture/spit-roaster-kit-save-10) I thought I asked here for some feedback and tips on that very special fucking furniture.

• When shopping for a Spit Roaster, should I stick to Mr Leather? Or are there different styles and brands?
• How portable are when disassembled? Do the pieces fit on a suitcase?
• Is the Spit Roaster strong enough?

Any other comments are welcome.

1 hour ago, Monster5-8gPA said:

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/slink/

Thanks a lot!

It's weird that LARGE is 21" and the XL is only 20.5". The circumference  is bigger in the XL

Would someone know where can I get this big orange flexible dildo? Since a saw a video (this is a screenshot) of this guy playing with this big dildo I've been looking around but have not been able to find it.

Any tips?

2 hours ago, tnjon77 said:

I think at some point, we all have.  I always see profiles that plainly state things like "no one over 30" or "50+." 

I think you're right, and age is the most common reason for being rejected because we are always too old for someone, a type of rejection that gets worse with time.

On 5/3/2019 at 7:18 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

I’ve been to Montreal before, and like it as a city, but that was before I started taking loads, so have no idea how it scores in that front.  Any pointers gratefully received...

So much depends on how the bottom looks and his age. If a 20-something hot twink gets on a public sling at a sauna will get much more attention than an old out of shape bottom.  When I was in my 20's I was getting all the sex I wanted.

The question was simple, if you were to choose between the (1) freedom to love men from an accepting society or (2) freely fuck with men because there are no STDs. I thought the answer was going to corroborate what I see in the posts in this site and in Grindr, Manhunt, BarebackRT, etc, SEX.

A young guy once told me that he asked a girl if she wanted to take a look at a gay cruising park. The naive woman thought that these parks were places where men go to hold hands and watch the sunset together. She had trouble understanding why guys would arrive in a car alone and disappear into the bushes and was shocked when she learned that the men were there for sex.

I'm not saying that men are unable to love but what I'm saying is that the glue is SEX and if something else happens, then fine but sex is first. I've never heard of an App dedicated to men in love.

Society may be delusional about men being sex machines and pretending all we want is be able to "love" (what a joke!)  but I don't understand why guys in this site are so reluctant to admit that sex is the main motivation, and the only motivation for many men.

On 7/7/2019 at 9:27 AM, ErosWired said:

Put differently, you want to know whether gay men would rather love freely but risk disease, or fuck freely but risk loneliness?

No. In terms of freedom, I want to know whether gay men would rather love freely or fuck freely. If men are able to love freely without any discrimination men should be able to establish monogamous relationships which would eliminate any fear of infection. Ridiculous, of course, but that is the perception that the general public has about gay men, men who have been oppressed just because of who they love.  Sex is never part of the gay world because the only way homosexuality can pass muster, is by leaving sex out of homosexuality.

In 1980's during the AIDS crisis many gay men, all of a sudden became monogamous, the same men who were regular sex clubs in NYC, like the Mine Shaft,  or San Francisco.

18 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

Option B...not even a contest. I freely admit I’m a slut and a whore. I worry about getting STDs all the time..if they weren’t around I’d be getting fucked nonstop

I would also go with Option B, no contest. I don't care about same sex marriage and I just wish we could fuck in peace.

Think about, if there were no STDs it would not only provide you with peace of mind while being a whore, but the lack of STDs would also allow men who are married or in a relationships with women, to have sex with men without having to explain anything to their wives. We forget that there is a large number of so-called straight men who want an emotional/intimate relationship with women, maybe children,  and casual sex with men, no kissing or possibility of love. Some men who are have sex with women like being a top with the woman and then be the bottom with men. I've seen that a lot.

7 minutes ago, Pozlover1 said:

#2 is an unrealistic expectation. ...

Both are unrealistic expectations. My question is a hypothetical one.

I find it ridiculous when gayness is defined, mainly by women, as the freedom to love whoever you want. Love? Isn't sex what men want?

Confronted with two options, what would gay men choose?

1. Laws that give total protection to LGBT and discrimination ends completely in society and men can freely love other men
2. All STDs, including HIV,  Hep-C, etc, become a thing of the past either with vaccines or cures, and men can freely fuck each other

I would obviously choose #2

On TMZ they had a story about "Janelle Monae Rocks Tiny Bikini in Cabo -- I Like That!".

Because I was not at all interested in the story I was about to switch when I spot a hot bulge on the black dude on the left. Never mind the tiny bikini...

https://www.tmz.com/photos/2019/06/20/janelle-monae-bikini-thong-booty-vacation-cabo-photos/images/2019/06/20/janelle-monae-bikini-thong-booty-vacation-cabo-photos-07-jpg

On 6/29/2010 at 6:12 PM, Tom said:

This is something I wrestle with all the time...But there is a part of me that wants to be a total slut. A part of me that wants to get used...get fucked and have piss and cum pumped into me by many men...Bottoms: do you wrestle with wanting to be a cum dump who is fucked and cummed in by many guys? How do you handle it?

Comments from so many bottoms makes me think of those women who keep complaining how dehumanizing it is to be seen as a sexual object, never mind just a hole for cum.

Is it "success or failure?" when a guy fucking me cums too quickly?

 I usually assume it's a bottom just getting off before going home. I know that one of the reasons some guys bottom is because they don't last long. I like it when a guy cums quickly.

A bottom who is young (20's and 30's) and really hot, like Dawson, will be more successful in organizing a gangbang or whatever event he wants.

I find that nowadays with PrEP and ART the amount of bottoms willing to be cumholes has increased and the competition if fierce, so trying to arrange gangbangs is even tough for hot young bottoms.

On 4/22/2019 at 3:50 PM, Guygonebad said:

I’m a total bottom cum dump..[but] If I do choose to deposit a load inside a guy, I ONLY give it to a fellow cum dump slut. It does happen often these days, but if I do only my fellow cum dumps get my big cock and load!

This is the perfect thing for bottom sluts to do...Congrats!

8 hours ago, Str8C said:

... I felt a wet sensation just inside my hole for a few seconds. 

I find the wet sensation to be a common indication for me that my hole has been bred. It becomes harder to tell once your hole is wet and a second guy fucks you.

6 hours ago, coastalbender said:

I'm just not turned on by men's asses. Cocks, yes, ass, no. Just not my thing and has nothing to do with "role".

To clarify things, I'm talking about a bottom who spends a few hour at a bathhouse sucking cock, getting fucked and hopefully taking a few loads. I'm not talking about a bottom in a 1-1 sex session.

No matter how much of a bottom some guys are, once the evening is over and they wanna go home many are horny feeling the cum in their hole, or they watch a gangbang and get turned on by a freshly bred hole, they decide to shoot their loads before going home. 

I mention this because I've noticed that many bottoms feel that if they ever top they are not real bottoms. When that's not the case.

I took my first load at the YMCA in NYC, months before the song was released. Back then there was no such thing as bareback.

I took a room in one of the men's floors. The rooms were cheap so it was busy with guys visiting NYC or new residents to NYC. I didn't have much experience but I quickly realized that all I needed to do was to leave the door of the room ajar. I was then in my 20's so guys would be dropping by my room. The cruising went on all night, guys from all the men's floors walking around, it was pretty wild.

I find that one of the reasons guys don't enjoy topping is because they cum too quickly. As opposed to guys who can pound holes for 20 minutes and never loose the erection and without shooting their load. If guys can do that, it makes sense to want to top.

There are guys  at a bathhouse who mostly bottom but once they're done for the night they hunt for a hole to dump their load and be able to go home. These guys usually cum fast because they're feeling so horny with the loads in their hole, but I don't care if a guy cums quickly.

On 8/24/2014 at 2:41 AM, 19HairyBoy said:

What are some things that annoy you when at a bathhouse?

For me a good sauna/bathhouse: (1) Has to provide good cleaning facilities for deep cleaning, especially when they offer public or private slings. (2) I like saunas with enough dark areas conducive to to some kinky action. (3) The place has to offer private rooms

On 10/11/2018 at 11:53 AM, KptNLine said:

... Being fucked feels physically good, it's true, yet the sensations of pleasure (at least for me) are so much more intense when I'm with my husband then when I've been with someone else. For me at least, there is a component of that emotional connection that enhances the pleasure of being fucked.

For me, there is nothing hotter than taking an anon load from someone at the bathhouse, park, or at my private gloryhole. The best is being at the sauna in my room, a guy comes in, plays with my hole, he fucks me for a while, he dumps his load and leaves without saying a word. And all I'm left is with his load leaking out of my hole. Those are my best fucks.