4 hours ago, BreedingTop71 said:

I am struggling to understand your point. If a bottom wants to cum alone, who is anyone to say he is greedy? Why should he be compelled to share anything related to his body?? It’s his load, his pussy. Most subs know they exist only to please us Alphas. As a total top it would be extremely annoying to me if the bottom I am using starts to please himself before after or while I am using him. So from my perspective, to each his own, and passing judgement on someone else’s practices is not only improper, it’s reprehensible.  

To answer you question just read this response:

5 minutes ago, smileatyou said:

Not when I'm bottoming. But I love to end a load-taking day by dumping mine in a bottom bitch like me. Enjoy telling a bottom, as I'm breeding him, that I just took a bunch of strangers' loads myself. 

Yes, a bottom can end his load-taking day by dumping his huge load, after edging for a long time, in a hole of his choice. I'm sure  that smileatyou shoots as soon as he goes into the hole or not because the only purpose of the fucking is to get off. And the bottom is left happy with one more load in his hole.

I've noticed that so many guys take their role so seriously and if a guy defines himself as a bottom he feels he is betraying his bottom role if he breeds another hole. I think guys take on the role that they feel more comfortable with and nobody is born to be a bottom as some seem to suggest. 

I'm sure that if a guy gets good hard-ons, can fuck for a fairly long time before shooting his load, and enjoys the fucking itself, he'll probably be more of a top and want to fuck more than a guy who has trouble getting a hard-on or cums too quickly. Getting fucked is not for everyone so some try it and some don't.

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2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

No, I’m not incapable of ejaculating. The only time I masturbate to ejaculation is perhaps maybe once or twice a month when I have been isolated from sexual contact with other men for a couple of weeks or more. Then, when I do, I feel a sense of self-loathing immediately afterward, every single time. I do not jack off after a night of anal service.

You aren't the type of bottom that I'm talking about because you say that you don't need to cum after a breeding session at the bathhouse.  No need to argue with me then. I'm talking about the bottom who at the bathhouse jerks-off alone in order to take a break or to stop being horny so he can go home. To those bottoms I would suggest they pump their load in another hole instead of jacking off. Why not make another bottom happy?

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Do I disagree that it would be considerate if vers bottoms always did a little Topping? No. But I am convinced that there are too many variables influencing human sexuality to expect such a broad imperative as yours to apply. Ability to masturbate does not automatically translate into ability to Top.

I disagree with strict rules on bottom/Top because I see it more as a suggestion: "I like getting fucked". Being a bottom or a top or anything in-between is not in the genes as some guys want to believe. Being a woman or a man is in the genes and it's funny how some people reject their DNA.  Sticking their cock in a hole is normal as taking a cock in your hole is something that needs training and a state-of-mind. That's why many bottoms start as tops and then move on.

15 minutes ago, bellyguy44 said:

I do not feel the Need to cum. Just to servy Top men my two fuckholes all  the time.

@bellyguy44 I know you like serving tops with your two holes, but you are saying that you never ever shoot a load? Not even when jerking-off while watching porn?

11 hours ago, ErosWired said:

@hungry_hole@tallslenderguy - your argument (which you have made repeatedly and has little to do with this thread) assumes that all bottoms are vers bottoms - patently untrue - and that every bottom at some point needs or desires to ejaculate.

I am not talking about guys who like getting fucked, who can never get a hard-on, and who never feel the need to cum. I'm sure there are some around but most  who call themselves 100% bottoms shoot their loads but mostly in private, after a few loads. @ErosWired: Are you one of these guys who can never ever shoot his load? If you are, I'm not talking about you.

The situation I'm talking about is that of a bottom at a bathhouse who takes loads all night, and then when he wants to take a sleep break or decides to go home, he jerks-off in his room or at home and at most maybe, he may get sucked at the gloryholes. But he never breeds another willing hole and that to me is "greedy" because that bottom could hunt for a willing hole and breed it instead of jerking off alone and make another slut bottom happy.

The other comment I read here from bottoms is that after shooting their loads they are done and no longer get fucked.  I read from one bottom who complained that he had this annoying situation that after shooting he's done. THAT IS HOW THE MALE BODY WORKS! This was  part of the work by Masters and Johnsons in 1960's.  Men are done for a few minutes and then they can be horny again which is why many go home after a night at the sauna and they are horny again.

Looking for poppers in Ottawa. I see guys using them at the sauna but I forget to ask where they get them. I don't use them but I like having for my "guests" in my room at the sauna.

On 11/9/2018 at 3:34 PM, tallslenderguy said:

As bottoms, we still possess the anatomy and physiology associated with being able to breed and feel the physical pleasure of doing so.

As bottoms we enjoy the pleasure of being bred by anon loads but I find that many bottoms are too greedy and self-absorbed and forget that other bottoms also like being bred.

At an all night session at the bathhouse, more bottoms should think about their fellow bottoms waiting for a load and when taking a break or before going home, hunt for a hole and dump your load. And then take the break or go home. Think about this, it could be you next time who ends up happy bred by a horny bottom. It doesn't matter if you cum too quickly because all you want if to get off and please a bottom at the same time.

1 hour ago, Pozlover1 said:

Guys’ sex organs are external and guys have a physical need to empty their prostate.

Girls have emotional needs but no physical necessity to have sex.

Girls’ sex organs are internal and there is always emotion attached to sex. 

Girls  use sex to filfill emotional needs first and physical  pleasure second. The sex is secondary to snagging a mate. 

Guys’ emotions are more detached from the sex so promiscuity with people they will never see again and don’t even know their name is easier for them. 

When people find out that I have sex with men, MSM, many assume that the reason is because I am attracted to men and not to women. No, what attracts me to men is the way men like having sex, anonymous, no-strings-attached. I don't particularly like the way women deal with sex.

On 11/15/2018 at 10:01 PM, Davylee58 said:

What about an older guy in shape,not fucked alot thru years,but now divorced hand looking,you all think I can cut it  to what you what?

If you are asking what the situation is for an older guy coming-out is into the world of sex with men, bathhouses, Grindr, etc., I would say not very good.

No matter how many guys say how hot older guys, youth dominates the whole sex scene, and even worse now with online hook-ups and availability of pictures, We older guys are not into taking selfies every 5 minutes because we are no longer in-love with our wrinkled face. That's why I prefer bathhouses where I don't have to explain my body because others see me and they like me or not. When I was young I used to get lots of attention and one adapts by increasing the kink level, and many guys like that.

An older guy can increase his chances of being noticed and wanted if he has a decent cock, nice hard-ons, and shoots nice loads. He can then take on the top role, go to bathhouses or sex clubs to proudly show off his topping attributes. This kind situation could be a lot of fun. But if an older guys wants to come-out as a total cumwhore bottom, good luck!

I'm an older guy who started having anon sex in my early 20's. I was getting then lots of attention from horny guys but even with that attention, it took me some time to understand how the cruising works. I became an expert at cruising but I was still young, which was good.

I like having started anon sex in my 20's because I've experienced the cruising and anon sex as I age. But even in my situation I do feel a bit of "envy" for the young hot guys who now have so many ways of expressing their Narcissism, 

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2 hours ago, blondy said:

I love pre-loaded bottoms ...

Pre-loaded holes are so hot that can make a total bottom fuck the hole and breed it. I hear all the time that bottoms who top usually go for a sloppy hole.

2 hours ago, RobDog said:

Breeding... a special bond, may be even spiritual  between two men

I prefer to see it as a very strong emotional bond from both, the top and the bottom.

5 hours ago, NLbear said:

MascPAguy

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My top buddy brought a hot bottom over to my place to get tag teamed. After talking to him I could tell he was a good bottom slut and would be down to take more cocks so invited a couple over to fuck them too. Loved watching the hipster guy pound him. We all enjoyed pounding the hot bottom’s ass, each giving him a load. Love doing group play.

It's a very hot video but I don't like the way the bottom  starts moving his ass when the top starts shooting, because I don't like it when I fuck,

I started bottoming bareback in the early 70's when I stayed at the YMCA in NYC in a room of one of the men's floors. Got a few STDs. I stopped barebacking when everyone did because of HIV but started taking loads again in the early 90's and took hundreds of loads but no HIV. I was on PrEP for a few months but then I stopped and bingo! I'm now still mostly bottom but I'm now enjoying breeding holes

"Get your hole ready for my babies"

On 11/8/2018 at 8:42 PM, daddyloadny said:

I like edging at the bathhouse so I can plow as many holes that are available. 

Then when I am ready to pack it in I blast inside a lucky hot ass.

Depending on the time you'll be spending at the bathhouse you can edge for a while, even fuck some holes and then blast inside some lucky hole. But if you do this in the middle of your visit, all you need to do is rest for a while and you are good for another breeding after more edging. Two happy holes instead of one.

On 3/31/2018 at 8:49 AM, constructionguy said:

I'm a top. I've encountered bottoms who let me fuck them raw but insist I pull out b4 I cum. It's really frustrating.

I've been a BB bottom for decades buy now I'm topping a lot and really I enjoy depositing my poz load in an anon hole. I only do anon sex in saunas and what I've done, as it was already suggested here, I quietly deposit my load and leave the room. Once the guy noticed I had shot my load inside his hole, I just told him I couldn't help it. Most likely some of these guys will want to get bred after they feel cum inside their holes.

I had a gloryhole in my apartment that I used to advertise in CL, totally anon. I would wait behind the gloryhole, door unlocked for guys to just walk in.

I tried Doublelist but had to "mask" some of the "dirty" words like gloryhole. Otherwise it would not accept it. Also I had to use the word "holle". I had 2 guys come over:
 

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Private gloryho*le
I have a private gloryhole in my apartment. Private Gloryhole available on request, Merivale Mall area (Nepean). Interested in totally anonymous action, you won't see me and I won't see you. I just want your cock and your load. Not interested in your age or your shape although guys with big bellies are not good for gloryholes.

Here's the scoop. Once we confirm a time I'll give you the building address and ring number.

After you punch the ring number I'll let you into the building and give you the apartment number. The door of the apartment will be unlocked, so you just walk in and the gloryhole will be on your right. It will be covered so I don't see you and you don't see me. Approach the GH, unzip and my mouth will be waiting for your flaccid or hard cock. I love to feel a flaccid cock and have it grow in my mouth.

I can suck you and I'd love to swallow your cum. I love oral, but if you'd like do drill a hungry holle you just let me know and I'll have a clean lubed hole waiting for you and for your load. Either way, when you're done pumping your load in my holle, just clean yourself and leave. No talk unless it's dirty talk.

 

11 hours ago, evilqueerpig said:

I think it's more of a bottom declaring his ass is open to all tops....just my 2 cents.

The idea may be hot, but I second this.

Regarding the question "Do Tops have a right to bottoms’ asses?" the problem with this statement is that it's not even true in a bathhouse. It's common to see at the bathhouse guys on their beds ass up but a top enters into the room and the guys says "Sorry, just resting" or "No thanks", because they want their ass to be owned by only guys they want. Maybe a place where it would make sense is in a darkroom where holes are there to take any cock.

1 hour ago, neg4charge said:

... Now that being said when a top has just unloaded in my ass I LOVE to show him the kind of ass muscles I have to milk those last drops out without moving my hips. Puts my fellas on the moon and keeps them coming back ??

When I'm being bred I want the entire load in my hole and I want them to stay pumping cum until there's no more left. But because I know that the sensitivity of the cock increases once the breeding starts but not in the same way for everyone. While the breeding is taking place some guys want the bottom to squeeze hard and milk their load out. Not all tops react the same while shooting and the case that comes to mind is a top who fucked me bare for many years and every time he came he would start trembling and asking me not to touch him. With him I learned to open up my hole as wide as possible so he wouldn't pull out too soon. I didn't mind the not touching but I did want his load. Now when the tops starts to shoot I always open up at first and gently squeeze my hole seeing if he needs more pressure or not. One can tell from the moaning.

I now tell the bottom right away to open up his hole when I dump my load, so that way I can also go deeper to deliver my poz load.

Xtube has always been my favorite place for breeding videos. But now there are so many anon, walk-in, pump&dump videos that I'm becoming addicted.

I've noticed that when I look at member's videos there is a clear move from condom to raw fucking in their videos. Many of the older member's videos use condoms but the newer videos are raw.

I also see it at the bathhouses. Years ago condoms were default but now 90% is raw. Good news!

Whether I want hairy holes or not, I don't really care. But I don't like the way many bottoms handle their hole, especially when I'm ready to shoot. They start moving their ass, tightening their hole, all with the intention of squeezing my load. I don't like it so sometimes I pull out right after I shoot. I like and open hole, something a top taught me many years ago: "Open up" he used to tell me when he was shooting. So I learned and now I open up when the top is shooting, something I want the bottoms to do when I fuck and breed their holes.

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I heard about the closing of the Banos Metro. I used to like going because of the dark areas and the sling.

Try contacting them, because sex parties are with toys, sling, etc. There were 20 people last Saturday, from what I heard.

I've had a fuck-buddy in Toronto whom I met at the bathhouse a few years ago. He was a bottom but who fucked just to relieve himself. A couple of years ago he pozed and turned into almost a total top. It turned me on to see him breed holes at the bathhouse.

He recently had prostate surgery (enlarged prostate, not cancer) so he can't fuck/cum for a few weeks, I think. Anyway, he's out of commission because he's afraid of getting fucked because of the prostate surgery.

Any bottoms around who've had prostate surgery for and enlarged prostate? I think his surgery was with a laser so he was OK quickly but afraid of his sexual performance. How long should he wait before he gets fucked? I was planning to go next weekend to Toronto but he may not be available.