On 8/13/2018 at 8:41 PM, Txyyxxxb said:

... Being a guy on the more modest, smaller side of the spectrum (5.5in) I feel discouraged about the whole idea of topping. It's one of the many insecurities I have about myself.

If you feel self-conscious of your cock size but you want to try to fuck and breed a hole, it may be better if you go to a bathhouse on a busy night and try topping in a gangbang situation, when some cumwhore bottom is offering his hole to horny guys. Especially when a few guys are gathered around a bottom getting fucked on a sling would be the perfect opportunity for you to step forward because in gangbang situations bottoms are not really picky about looks or cock size.

7 hours ago, ErosWired said:

@hungry_hole -  No, what I describe absolutely does not happen to almost every guy after they ejaculate, and no, I am far from “clueless” about how male sexuality works. I just disagree with your unsupportable claims, and your openly judgmental opinions. Please, spare us both your armchair psychology and your thinly veiled hostility. If you’ve got a beef with me, either hash it out privately or just block me, but don’t embarrass yourself on the open boards. I’d rather agree to disagree and not get personal about it.

Drama queen

On 11/18/2018 at 12:28 PM, ErosWired said:

... when I do [ejaculate], I feel a sense of self-loathing immediately afterward, every single time. I do not jack off after a night of anal service.

This caught my attention because it shows that many men are clueless about how male sexuality works.

What ErosWired describes happens to him when he cums happens to almost every guy after they shoot their load, whether they are a top, bottom, straight, gay, cumdumps. I've read here bottoms describing their "annoying case" that after they shoot their loads they are done, as if it was something particular to them. Weird. This is why I once mentioned that many bottoms are self-centered, thinking that it only happens to them.

What distinguishes guys who top from those who prefer not to, is that "tops" really enjoy the fucking itself, can stay hard for a long time, and a very powerful breeding experience. So I say I'm a bottom because I'm not a very good top but I know that if I enjoyed fucking as much as some guys who've fucked me, I would also be a top.

On 11/19/2018 at 1:18 AM, kdk183 said:

My posts keep getting flagged yet I can find others in my area that say worse.  I think it's because my first ads were pushing the limits and now they automatically check my thoroughly!  Some stuff that was allowed in the beginning is now off limits.

I was afraid that my posts would not be accepted in Doublelist but haven't had any problems with this ad. I noticed that when the message comes up about the language on the ad, it's sometimes a warning.

I find it interesting that although I have no age on my ad, no one has asked my age or anything about me. All they have wanted is a blow job and some have asked for breeding through the gloryhole.

No problems with this ad of mine
 

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Private gloryh@le 2pm - 4pm (near merivale mall) (nepean)
I have a private gloryh@le in my apartment, available on request, Merivale Mall area (Nepean). Interested in totally anonymous action, you won't see me and I won't see you. I just want your cock and your load. Not interested in your age or your shape although guys with big bellies are not good for gloryholes.

Here's the scoop. Once we confirm a time I'll give you the building address and ring number.

After you punch the ring number I'll let you into the building and give you the apartment number. The door of the apartment will be unlocked, so you just walk in and the gloryhole will be on your right. It will be covered so I don't see you and you don't see me. Approach the GH, unzip and my mouth will be waiting for your flaccid or hard cock. I love to feel a flaccid cock and have it grow in my mouth.

I can suck you and I'd love to swallow your cum. I love oral, but if you'd like do drill a hungry cumholle you just let me know and I'll have a clean lubed hole waiting for you and for your load. Either way, when you're done pumping your load in my cumholle, just clean yourself and leave. No talk unless it's dirty talk.

 

On 11/19/2018 at 12:48 AM, Kayne said:

Our government at work...

And Americans keep blabbing about how free their country is. Really?

32 minutes ago, Cumfilledbottomboi said:

No.  I’m not a woman. But I’m biologically wired to be the bottom.

Biologically wired to be a bottom?  This is the kind of statement I find ridiculous, to view being a bottom as a religion.  I'm a bottom because I don't last too long fucking and keeping a hard-on, because I'm sure guys are tops because they enjoy the fucking which they can do for a long time. I would probably be a top too.

You are biologically and "wired" as a man, with prostate, cock that gets hard and can shoot a load, even in your DNA. You can choose what you want to do with your equipment and in your case bottoming is what makes you feel comfortable. You can breed a hole, just like you like your hole bred, but you refuse to top by saying that you are "wired" to be a bottom. Many supposedly wired-bottoms do a good job fucking and breeding when too horny or if they have problems with their hole, hemorrhoids, etc.

I recently contacted an Xtube member (Trittyler)  who has lots of videos of him taking loads, he's a bottom, probably "wired" as you say. But in the past few months he's been posting videos of him topping and breeding all kinds of holes. I was curious and he told me that he had some surgery in the anal area and that soon he'll be back bottoming. But he can top and very well, and you can probably top too.

I'm asking for all bottoms to breed other holes but what I'm saying is that a bottom can still fuck and keep being a bottom. @Cumfilledbottomboi, try fucking because you are "wired" and have all the equipment to top.

5 hours ago, ErosWired said:

You do realize, don’t you, that your statistic also demonstrates that 43% do not give loads, which means that just under half your sample does not enjoy fucking s sloppy anon hole, and whether you believe them or not doesn’t change that fact one iota.

I don’t mean to keep yanking your chain, man, but this is not science, or even good statistical analysis.

You're wrong! With my BarebackRT stats I'm showing  that there are many "Total Bottoms" who also breed holes without having to call themselves Versatile-Bottoms. They are just bottoms who when horny at the sauna and want to go home, instead of jerking off they find another bottom's hole to dump their load. And they are still bottoms!

Plus, many of the bottoms who say they don't give loads probably occasionally do because they are men and they get horny too. I'm sure many say they don't give loads because that way nobody is going to ask them to fuck them.

Being a bottom is not like being a woman who biologically can't fuck a hole. Being a bottom or a top is just a preference for the role that makes you feel more comfortable and enjoyable.

Some believe that being a bottom brings a man closer to being a woman, one example, that a bottom like a woman can never fuck and breed other holes. From my own experience as a bottom I know we get horny just the same as a guy who calls himself a top.

I can believe a guy who says he cannot take cock up his ass but I cannot believe a bottom who says he has never for instance, enjoyed fucking a sloppy anon hole and adding to the mix. I know it because I've been bred by bottoms and I can't really tell the difference with when a top breeds my hole.

I did some searches in BarebackRT in the city of Vancouver. Search results are shown in groups of 20 and I have the results in number of pages, the last page being usually having less that 20 profiles. Results:
 

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Bottoms..................................................................................................... 21 pages of results (~410)

Bottoms who take loads..................................................................... 18 pages of results (~350)

Bottoms who take loads and also give loads..............................  4 pages of results (~70)

Bottoms who take loads but could maybe also give loads.... 7 pages of results (~130)

 

Out of the 350 bottoms who take loads 57% may also give loads (70+130).

I find it Most Stupid when people refer to having sex as "sleeping", especially by guys in this site. C'mon, the use of the word "sleeping" is for people who are offended by sexually charged words.

I've read in this site comments like "I'm afraid to go to the clinic because I slept with so many guys at the bathhouse the other night."  Most stupid!

On 11/18/2018 at 1:37 PM, M4mnow2 said:

I’m heading to Seattle in a few weeks, I want to get fucked and used as much as I can. This is a fantasy of mine and I’m going to fulfill it!

You probably already know, but there's LOTS of competition for loads from cumhole bottoms, like never before because of PrEP and probably videos on the Internet with hot ideas for sex.

Once guys started relaxing with the use of condoms, I was one of the first barebackers in my area. For a top it was hard to find at the bathhouse a raw hole to dump his load and I took advantage of that. But now, the competition for loads is fierce.

2 minutes ago, reliableslut said:

I may be a cumdump, but I am also an occasional top and face-fucker.  Though not my favorite thing to do in the bedroom, I still love breeding ass and throat.

@reliableslut has just confirmed what I've been trying to say. That cumdumps don't have a special gene that doesn't let them top. Topping and bottoming are choices for sex and each man chooses the role that makes them feel more comfortable. Some guys can never bottom but not because they have more Testosterone but because they don't feel comfortable with something up the ass. I don't do toys and fisting because I don't enjoy it.

17 minutes ago, FaceLoad said:

It sounds to me like you think you deserve dick on demand and are complaining because random faggots are passing you by.

I haven't said anything about me deserving anything. All I'm saying is that more bottoms and cumdumps at the bathhouse should not feel that their Cumdump/Bottom identity is being threatened if they breed a hole.

8 hours ago, FaceLoad said:

You profoundly misunderstand faggot nature, probably because of the euphemistic nonsense of the terms "top" and "bottom". ...Unlike the average, possibly confused homosexual, a pure faggot is straightforwardly female for all sexual purposes and does not have the psychological wherewithal to think of itself as the man, much less to penetrate anyone. Its penis can give it pleasure, but is indistinguishable from a clitoris in this function.

This is sounding too religious and/or philosophical for me. This idea that bottoming is sublime is a common theme here.

The issue I'm arguing for is so simple and it only refers to bathhouse anon action. Bottoms who go to bathhouses and WHO CAN SHOOT LOADS but when horny and want to cum, they do not breed holes and instead jerk-off privately in their rooms, could do better for their fellow bottoms, One day it will be their turn when on a sling and another bottom who just wants to unload breeds his hole.

4 hours ago, smileatyou said:

Not when I'm bottoming. But I love to end a load-taking day by dumping mine in a bottom bitch like me. Enjoy telling a bottom, as I'm breeding him, that I just took a bunch of strangers' loads myself. 

This is a bottom that I would not call a greedy bottom because at the end of the load-taking day he is generous with other bottoms and makes them happy by pumping his load in their hole. He has a good time and the other bottom too.  And one day there will be another generous bottom that will return the favor. I've been bred by bottoms at a bathhouse and I really appreciate it.

4 hours ago, BreedingTop71 said:

I am struggling to understand your point. If a bottom wants to cum alone, who is anyone to say he is greedy? Why should he be compelled to share anything related to his body?? It’s his load, his pussy. Most subs know they exist only to please us Alphas. As a total top it would be extremely annoying to me if the bottom I am using starts to please himself before after or while I am using him. So from my perspective, to each his own, and passing judgement on someone else’s practices is not only improper, it’s reprehensible.  

To answer you question just read this response:

5 minutes ago, smileatyou said:

Not when I'm bottoming. But I love to end a load-taking day by dumping mine in a bottom bitch like me. Enjoy telling a bottom, as I'm breeding him, that I just took a bunch of strangers' loads myself. 

Yes, a bottom can end his load-taking day by dumping his huge load, after edging for a long time, in a hole of his choice. I'm sure  that smileatyou shoots as soon as he goes into the hole or not because the only purpose of the fucking is to get off. And the bottom is left happy with one more load in his hole.

I've noticed that so many guys take their role so seriously and if a guy defines himself as a bottom he feels he is betraying his bottom role if he breeds another hole. I think guys take on the role that they feel more comfortable with and nobody is born to be a bottom as some seem to suggest. 

I'm sure that if a guy gets good hard-ons, can fuck for a fairly long time before shooting his load, and enjoys the fucking itself, he'll probably be more of a top and want to fuck more than a guy who has trouble getting a hard-on or cums too quickly. Getting fucked is not for everyone so some try it and some don't.

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/slim-bbc-top-long-dick-anon-bottom-37363171

Incredible fuck and breeding...

SLIM BBC TOP LONG DICK ANON BOTTOM

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

No, I’m not incapable of ejaculating. The only time I masturbate to ejaculation is perhaps maybe once or twice a month when I have been isolated from sexual contact with other men for a couple of weeks or more. Then, when I do, I feel a sense of self-loathing immediately afterward, every single time. I do not jack off after a night of anal service.

You aren't the type of bottom that I'm talking about because you say that you don't need to cum after a breeding session at the bathhouse.  No need to argue with me then. I'm talking about the bottom who at the bathhouse jerks-off alone in order to take a break or to stop being horny so he can go home. To those bottoms I would suggest they pump their load in another hole instead of jacking off. Why not make another bottom happy?

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Do I disagree that it would be considerate if vers bottoms always did a little Topping? No. But I am convinced that there are too many variables influencing human sexuality to expect such a broad imperative as yours to apply. Ability to masturbate does not automatically translate into ability to Top.

I disagree with strict rules on bottom/Top because I see it more as a suggestion: "I like getting fucked". Being a bottom or a top or anything in-between is not in the genes as some guys want to believe. Being a woman or a man is in the genes and it's funny how some people reject their DNA.  Sticking their cock in a hole is normal as taking a cock in your hole is something that needs training and a state-of-mind. That's why many bottoms start as tops and then move on.

15 minutes ago, bellyguy44 said:

I do not feel the Need to cum. Just to servy Top men my two fuckholes all  the time.

@bellyguy44 I know you like serving tops with your two holes, but you are saying that you never ever shoot a load? Not even when jerking-off while watching porn?

11 hours ago, ErosWired said:

@hungry_hole@tallslenderguy - your argument (which you have made repeatedly and has little to do with this thread) assumes that all bottoms are vers bottoms - patently untrue - and that every bottom at some point needs or desires to ejaculate.

I am not talking about guys who like getting fucked, who can never get a hard-on, and who never feel the need to cum. I'm sure there are some around but most  who call themselves 100% bottoms shoot their loads but mostly in private, after a few loads. @ErosWired: Are you one of these guys who can never ever shoot his load? If you are, I'm not talking about you.

The situation I'm talking about is that of a bottom at a bathhouse who takes loads all night, and then when he wants to take a sleep break or decides to go home, he jerks-off in his room or at home and at most maybe, he may get sucked at the gloryholes. But he never breeds another willing hole and that to me is "greedy" because that bottom could hunt for a willing hole and breed it instead of jerking off alone and make another slut bottom happy.

The other comment I read here from bottoms is that after shooting their loads they are done and no longer get fucked.  I read from one bottom who complained that he had this annoying situation that after shooting he's done. THAT IS HOW THE MALE BODY WORKS! This was  part of the work by Masters and Johnsons in 1960's.  Men are done for a few minutes and then they can be horny again which is why many go home after a night at the sauna and they are horny again.

Looking for poppers in Ottawa. I see guys using them at the sauna but I forget to ask where they get them. I don't use them but I like having for my "guests" in my room at the sauna.

On 11/9/2018 at 3:34 PM, tallslenderguy said:

As bottoms, we still possess the anatomy and physiology associated with being able to breed and feel the physical pleasure of doing so.

As bottoms we enjoy the pleasure of being bred by anon loads but I find that many bottoms are too greedy and self-absorbed and forget that other bottoms also like being bred.

At an all night session at the bathhouse, more bottoms should think about their fellow bottoms waiting for a load and when taking a break or before going home, hunt for a hole and dump your load. And then take the break or go home. Think about this, it could be you next time who ends up happy bred by a horny bottom. It doesn't matter if you cum too quickly because all you want if to get off and please a bottom at the same time.

1 hour ago, Pozlover1 said:

Guys’ sex organs are external and guys have a physical need to empty their prostate.

Girls have emotional needs but no physical necessity to have sex.

Girls’ sex organs are internal and there is always emotion attached to sex. 

Girls  use sex to filfill emotional needs first and physical  pleasure second. The sex is secondary to snagging a mate. 

Guys’ emotions are more detached from the sex so promiscuity with people they will never see again and don’t even know their name is easier for them. 

When people find out that I have sex with men, MSM, many assume that the reason is because I am attracted to men and not to women. No, what attracts me to men is the way men like having sex, anonymous, no-strings-attached. I don't particularly like the way women deal with sex.

On 11/15/2018 at 10:01 PM, Davylee58 said:

What about an older guy in shape,not fucked alot thru years,but now divorced hand looking,you all think I can cut it  to what you what?

If you are asking what the situation is for an older guy coming-out is into the world of sex with men, bathhouses, Grindr, etc., I would say not very good.

No matter how many guys say how hot older guys, youth dominates the whole sex scene, and even worse now with online hook-ups and availability of pictures, We older guys are not into taking selfies every 5 minutes because we are no longer in-love with our wrinkled face. That's why I prefer bathhouses where I don't have to explain my body because others see me and they like me or not. When I was young I used to get lots of attention and one adapts by increasing the kink level, and many guys like that.

An older guy can increase his chances of being noticed and wanted if he has a decent cock, nice hard-ons, and shoots nice loads. He can then take on the top role, go to bathhouses or sex clubs to proudly show off his topping attributes. This kind situation could be a lot of fun. But if an older guys wants to come-out as a total cumwhore bottom, good luck!

I'm an older guy who started having anon sex in my early 20's. I was getting then lots of attention from horny guys but even with that attention, it took me some time to understand how the cruising works. I became an expert at cruising but I was still young, which was good.

I like having started anon sex in my 20's because I've experienced the cruising and anon sex as I age. But even in my situation I do feel a bit of "envy" for the young hot guys who now have so many ways of expressing their Narcissism, 

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2 hours ago, blondy said:

I love pre-loaded bottoms ...

Pre-loaded holes are so hot that can make a total bottom fuck the hole and breed it. I hear all the time that bottoms who top usually go for a sloppy hole.

2 hours ago, RobDog said:

Breeding... a special bond, may be even spiritual  between two men

I prefer to see it as a very strong emotional bond from both, the top and the bottom.