I've been reading the responses and I can understand someone who's 100% bottom like myself.

I don't expect bottoms all of a sudden to become tops in a relationship. What I'm talking about are bottoms topping at the sauna or at a group sex session after they have finished bottoming and are horny as hell with all that cum in their holes.

Before going home from the sauna many bottoms go to their room or wait until they are home to jerk-off. I suggest that if a bottom is horny and has to go home find a hole and breed it. You will make another bottom very happy and maybe one day it will be your turn. Instead of jerking-off, breed a hole. Why not?

On 12/13/2017 at 2:16 PM, ChileanTop said:

La Fraternidad Bareback de Franko, siempre organiza gan-bangs aca en Santiago

The bareback scene in Santiago is quite large by which I mean guys bareback everywhere. This is backed up by statistics which makes Chile the country in Latin America with the larges increase of HIV infections: 40% in 3 years.

I'm having a guy in Chile organizing for me what he calls a gang-bang event. He provides the apartment, the sling, let's the guys into the apartment and makes sure things happen. Lots of bareback action there.

Back to the topic of too many bottoms: not in Chile. In preparation to my trip I've found that there are lots of guys who wanna top  bareback and like the idea of anonymous sex on a sling. The walk-in scenario is a big turn on for many there.

The other curious thing is that in Chile there are many more young guys interested in older men than in Canada, and is not because of the money. They enjoy sex with older men.

The anon stealthing going on in bathhouses is a bit different from the one mentioned in the news. First, it's difficult to bring charges against someone when nobody knows any names and they will not see each other again.

On 11/27/2017 at 12:42 AM, 6811283 said:

The thrill of chasing will last until you are poz, then it's over. It's like the dog chasing a car -- what does he do if he catches it? I know that urge personally

Very well said. I have trouble understanding the chasing fetish because once you poz, then what?

On 11/27/2017 at 12:42 AM, 6811283 said:

 You're still gonna have to take pills the rest of your life if you're poz, so why not just take them now as PrEP?

It's hard to predict what will be available in the future to prevent HIV. What if something like PrEP becomes available, that also prevents other STD?

I would discourage chasers from pozing because of the dependency on the health system but also because it will complicate your life. Ongoing blood tests, drs visits, having to reveal your status, when moving to another country. Being poz may sometimes complicate your life, simply by closing options. A guy who's in his early twenty's becomes a cumdump, then a chaser, poz by 25. Nobody knows what will be in store for this guy in his late 20's. I've read about guys who were describing their recent pozing experience and who mention not being able to be a father as one of the issues they had to come to terms with. A request for fathering a baby for a lesbian couple would have to be rejected. I think you can "wash" the sperm or something. Being sick has never been better than being healthy.

I know that a Thank You is many times well deserved. But for many in the the mood of Being a Hole sometimes complete silence after the delivery of the load is much hotter: slowly pull-out, clean, get dress, and leave without a word can be extremely hot. A Thank You makes me a person and I wanna be a hole.

I liked this video because it's a German guy fucking an American. I found it hot to hear the German guy as he shoots his loads. Really hot, in English with German accesnt.

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/bareback-creampie-1-32947822

bareback creampie 1

fuck a american man bareback and cum in his hole

By Sucker333

I'm planning a trip to Santiago (Chile) so I've been manhunting, actually using Manhunt site. It's very popular en Chile..

I've been surprised by the amount of tops who are looking for anon action with mature men. In Manhunt I must have close to 100 conversations with guys who are interested in meeting for bareback sex as a top.

I will be renting an apartment for someone who specializes sex-vacation because he not only offers a portable sling but he also organizes gang-bangs. Gang-bangs are difficult to organize but this guy does all the work. All I need to do is to jump onb the sling and feel my hole being filled.

Apart from the possibility of the gang-bang I've been hooking up with many others who like the idea of the sling. Planning to be on PrEP for the trip, so I';m very excited.

On 12/7/2017 at 8:43 PM, bredbiyou said:

The ubiquity of cell phones have made it easier for passers-by to make immediate reports to local authorities, and even document activities with their cameras.

This is something to keep in mind when you are having sex in a park, because being seen having sex is quite different from being filmed having sex.

I once asked a woman friend in her 60's how often did she think of sex. She answered "How many times a month I think about sex?" I just laughed because as a man if I could count how often I think of sex it would have to be how many times I think of sex in an hour.

When asked, most women say they like sex but I have my doubts because I think they like sex as part of a relationship. Sometimes young women are a bit more crazy with sex but not once women are 50 and 60. As a man I keep getting as horny as I did when I was 20.

We've heard of lots of older men accused of sexual harassment. But I would like to hear about a woman in Congress or in Hollywood. There have been some cases of female teachers sexually abusing teenage students. But I don't call that abuse because those teenage boys probably love being abused by a hot female teacher.

Seeing a woman in her 50's or 60's who is into pure sex would make me change my mind regarding women and sex.

On 11/18/2017 at 4:00 AM, BottomKink said:

I've never considered myself to be part of the LGBT group nor do I feel "left behind" or "oppressed" when politicians or religious people say insulting things about same sex encounters, relationships etc etc.

Right on! I always question the motivation of social movements, such as the gay movement, that focus and dwell on victimization and oppression. Instead of interpreting  something like Homophobia as an oppressor-victim dynamic look at it as a victim-victim dynamic. I don't see any oppressors because to me there are all victims.

On 12/6/2017 at 7:30 AM, drscorpio said:

People remain overweight throughout their adult lives and become diabetic.
People use/abuse tobacco and develop mouth, throat, and lung cancer.
People use/abuse alcohol and develop dozens of different chronic conditions. 
People play violent contact sports and develop mental and physical conditions related to them. 
People participate in various extreme sports and need joint replacement in their 30s and 40s instead of their 60s and 70s. 

There are lot of people outside of chasers who do not do all they could to avoid being sick. These people are also a larger burden on the healthcare system than they might be if they had made healthier choices. 

Overweight people like eating. Smokers like to smoke. Alcoholics  like to drink. People play X-treme sports for the fun of it. None of them is looking to get sick. Chasers are.

On 12/4/2017 at 7:42 AM, bottomBBboi said:

 

Universal medical is NOT free. .."The problem with socialism is that sooner or later you run out of other peoples money" ~Margaret Thatcher.

Universal Healthcare is not free, but healthcare is one of the best candidates for "entitlements" because with the exception of "chasers" most people avoid getting sick. Many entitlements provided with tax money are subject to abuse but not healthcare.

I know Americans are proud of their freedom but I prefer to have less American-style freedom and live in a country with Universal Healthcare.

20 hours ago, bottomBBboi said:

So...if you are a chaser,...

I've never been able to understand chasers mainly because the fetish is finite and it ends once you poz. Unlike the fetish of being a cum-hungry bottom that can last for ever. You can poz and keep taking loads in your cum-hungry hole.

20 hours ago, bottomBBboi said:

what are your thoughts on what happens after you contract HIV? Are you prepared for the cost? Are you prepared to tell your family and friends? Are you prepared to tell EVERY potential lover that you are HIV+? In most states it is a felony to not disclose your HIV status to the potential sexual partner. Do you plan to tell, or just stealth others...put this burden on them? Are you ready to get tested every 6 months and see your doctor on a regular basis? By the way...infectious disease doctors are not cheap either...

I'm no fan of pozing because of all the issues stated by bottomBBboi. Yes, once you poz the idea is that you are free to have sex but that's only true of you forget about all other STD.

In terms of the cost, sorry to tell you but the problem is that you live in the US, the so-called most powerful country in the World. I live in Canada and have watched in amazement how so many Americans associate Universal Healthcare with a lack of freedom, and thus reject it. I would think that most people who live in developed countries think of Americans as crazy for being so gullible and for believing that insurance companies have better intentions than the government.

A guy who never wants to top should not complain about a lack of tops. At a bathhouse or group sex situation even a total bottom when he has finished bottoming can make another bottom happy by finding a hole, fucking it, breeding it and then go home.

As I've said before, some bottoms give as an excuse for not topping that their cock is too small or that they cum too quickly. If that is the case, let the guy you fuck decide because I know there are many bottoms who don't care about size or length of fuck because all they're hunting for is some cum in their hole. 

How to convince tops to bareback?

At the bathhouse I tell them that in terms of HIV, the top is at a much lower risk than the bottom. I then go on to say that in terms of other std fucking bareback is as risky getting sucked. This usually works because most guys are very turned-on by raw sex but are afraid and all they need is a bit of encouragement.

I also find that taking dirty talk can work because again, all they need is a bit of encouragement from all possible angles. My most memorable convincing act was when I was on a sling at the local sauna and a young guy from another area of the organization I worked for showed up and recognized me. We had been in common meetings at work and I had noticed that he had liked me. But we never really talked, until he show up at the sling. I was right that he had the hots for me because he did not hesitate and quickly had a hard-on ready to go in. But he pulls out a condom and starts putting it on, but I stopped him. Tried convincing him to go bareback, but he decided to leave. But he has just left, when he came back, fucked me bareback, bred my hole and left. So hot!

23 hours ago, FFun2BB said:

I know only Tops are asked...

Your profile (versatile/bottom) suggests you may occasionally top. So you must have fucked and bred a hole. To keep up with the topic, versatile bottoms can still tell us about what they like when they fuck and breed a hole.

On 11/18/2017 at 1:22 PM, BottomKink said:

Do any bottoms here have sex urges and fantasies so strong and twisted that you're unable to find a like-minded top both in real life and online?

My fantasy is the same many guys here have: being the bottom in a gang-bang. I've managed to do it with a small number of guys and never being sure that it will work. Everyone at a gang-bang has their own fantasy that may not exactly fit with what I want.

I found a guy in Chile who offers an apartment with a sling and organizes a gang-bang. He takes care of finding the guys I want to fuck and breed me and I decide on the number. I was there last November and had some fun but limited because I was afraid of HIV. I'll be going again in January but this time I will be on PrEP so I'm prepared for the real thing. I already chose one top that is a bit older (37) and another who is actually a bottom (24) but who likes to top in a group sex situation. What is nice about it is that I don't have to worry about security as guys come in and go. I'm very excited but I only hope PrEP won't give me problems when I start in December. I hope to have a video of the action and be able to jerk-off watching it later.

I find that as I get older I get more slutty but also it becomes harder to get what I want. So I'm willing to pay. I've see some hot young bottoms in a bathhouse getting fucked by several guys. But I'm no longer young and hot.

On 8/28/2017 at 5:32 PM, Samanthads said:

I want to try a fuck bench as bottom and just wondering if theres any etiquette ...

I think that fuck benches should be reserved for slutty take all-loads bottoms and not for bottoms with conditions, either age or safe-sex only. Not cool because that picky bottom can free the spot for another bottom willing to be the slut that other guys in the dark-room expect.

I was at Steamworks-Toronto a few years ago and when I walked into the dark-room there was a hot bottom on the bench. I said, "That's great" so I approached him and noticed that he was asking for condoms. He was a hot young bottom and next to me there was a guy with a huge hard-on, probably on Viagra, letting me know that he wanted to fuck bare and breed that hole. He then pulls out a condom and bites the tip of it, puts on the condom and pokes the bottoms hole. The bottom checked and felt the condom so he let this guy fuck him. I knew what was going on but I wasn't going to get involved, plus the whole thing was turning me on, so I just encouraged this guy to keep fucking him. When he let out a loud moan, he pumped for a few more seconds, pulled out and disappeared into the darkness. It was so hot to feel his sloppy hole, then someone immediately, with a condom started to fuck him but I knew he was churning a nice load.

Not sure if he realized what had happened, but it was hot. If he discovered later that he had been stealth maybe now he jerks-off thinking about this incident.

10 hours ago, BBBoyfromTN said:

I admit I like getting fucked by bottoms too. Maybe it's the challenge, maybe it's because I identify with them as I like to get fucked a lot ...

I've always had a thing for taking loads from bottoms but I don't hear guys saying this too often. I remember reading it in another post here.

10 hours ago, BBBoyfromTN said:

...but also wanna top sometimes.

You should top more often especially because you are still young. After all, fucking bareback a hot hole is very nice, not to mention the breeding. I know because I have fucked holes but also from the reaction of the guys fucking me. When a guy is fucking me I can't really tell if he's a top or a bottom, other than when a bottom cums too quickly, which I don't mind. And both a top or a bottom enjoys the breeding when it's a nice hole.

I can understand a very fixed role top/bottom in a one-on-one. But in a bathhouse where there is so much sexual stimulation, there are no good reasons for shooting your load, taking a short brake, and be back on the action. And this goes to both, tops and bottoms. It's good for a bottom who's taken a few loads to breed another hole, take a brake and then go back to taking loads. Or a top, back to fucking and breeding holes. So many guys at the bathhouse are "saving" their load for later without realizing that it's sometimes better to shoot your load and then go back to action, 10-15 minutes later.

10 hours ago, BBBoyfromTN said:

Even the biggest Latino bottom still wants to fuck. Got it of four of the bottom boys the last time I was there including two I'd fucked earlier.

Exactly. And I'm sure that when those bottoms were fucking you it felt the same as if a top was fucking you.

This is a hot breeding video, mainly because the top guy has a huge cock. Too bad it sometimes goes off screen.

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/tampa-big-white-dick-32683662

Tampa big white dick

Hooked up with this guy via Grindr. I was looking for a pump and dump. I didn't expect this big dick.

On 9/3/2017 at 8:22 AM, bbicurious said:

How are you preventing those STIs?

bbicurious, the initial poster, is concerned about all STI, not just HIV.

11 hours ago, TagBoy87 said:

Trust me, unless you go on prep there is no way to be 100% safe...

In my case I just gave in...

PrEP protects only against HIV. The only strategy that I know and use that can help with other STI is safestsex.org. Unfortunately not enough people are members and don't know about this site.

They have an interesting concept that is based on Mutual Monogamy, recommended by CDC, as they explain in their site. The claim they make is that members can achieve a risk level close to monogamy. So in theory, members can have all the anonymous sex with a very low risk. It's an interesting concept that I really like. I will now be combining my safestsex.org membership with PrEP for a few months because I will be going on a sex vacation. At least now I know when my latest test were performed because they are recorded in safestsex.org.

As a member I could ask sexual partners to have their test results validated by the clinic. But to do this I have to first validate by results with my clinic. So far I haven't been able to convince my clinic to partner with safestsex.org because, erroneously they think that they need to disclose my test results. I've tried to explain it to them but clinic are too paranoid with confidentiality.

I've always preferred anon sex over any other kind. I started having sex with guys at the YMCA/NYC dormitories and then continued in bathhouses.

The problem with anon sex is it's reputation which is why I like the piece by SafestSex.org on anon sex. It presents anon sex as a normal need (http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php) that men have and I like that. Most sexologists keep talking about "healthy sexuality" which excludes anon sex.

I'm now convinced that men can make great friends but after having anon sex. First have anon sex, repeat it if both like it, and then if interested they can meet and have a great relationship. Instead of meeting first for coffee.

I like to watch a real Hunk breed a twink's hole so I liked this a lot:

Deep breeding: 12:45

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/hunk-mercilessly-barebacks-twink-with-sound-32507442

On 10/31/2017 at 11:17 AM, hungry_hole said:

Kevin Spacey wrote "I have loved and had romantic encounters with men throughout my life. I choose now to live as a gay man"

So far I haven't heard of any loving and romantic encounters where Spacey is involved with. All we've heard is Spacey chasing young cock.

I don't like the "gay" identity for men because it hides what it's really all about: SEX.  In my case I prefer to describe myself as someone who prefers anonymous sex and because women suck at NSA sex, I prefer sex with men.

In the mentioned piece (http://safestsex.org/aboutmen-en.php) they mention an interesting warning from Kinsey:

Quote

"For nearly a century the term homosexual in connection with human behavior has been applied to sexual relationships, either overt or psychic, between individuals of the same sex... It would encourage clearer thinking on these matters if persons were not characterized as heterosexual or homosexual, but as individuals who have had certain amounts of heterosexual experience and certain amounts of homosexual experience. Instead of using these terms as substantives which stand for persons, or even as adjectives to describe persons, they may better be used to describe the nature of overt sexual relations, or of the stimuli to which an individual erotically responds." Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (Kinsey, et al., 1948, p.656)

What Kinsey says is that it "would encourage clearer thinking on these matter" if people were not classified as gay or straight. It's not about who you are, but what you do. A boy can play only with other boys (Kinsey 6) but it should not determine his identity for ever. Later on in life he may get married to a woman and be classified as Kinsey 0.

This is similar to the issue of lying: "He's a liar!". A more accurate statement would be that he sometime lies. "He sometimes has sex with men" instead of "He's gay".

On 2/28/2014 at 8:47 PM, TigerMilner said:

I find that guys like sluts.

So true. That's why now that I'm older I find that the best way to get guys to fuck me is to present myself as a very slutty bottom. At the bathhouse I use my glow-in-the dark signs with slutty messages and it works.

I'll be going on a vacation and ahead of time I created a very slutty profile and lots of guys are interested in what I will offer: a sling and gloryhole in the apartment.